This is not my post but I read it on one of the forums, and thought it is so beautifully written and I thought I should share it.
my dear friend
never lose hope
when the beloved
sends you away
if you’re abandoned
if you’re left hopeless
tomorrow for sure
you’ll be called again
if the door is shut
right in your face
keep waiting with patience
don’t leave right away
seeing your patience
your love will soon
summon you with grace
raise you like a champion
and if all the roads
end up in dead ends
you’ll be shown the secret paths
no one will comprehend
the beloved i know
will give with no qualms
to a puny ant
the kingdom of Solomon
my heart has journeyed
many times around the world
but has never found
and will never find
such a beloved again
ah i better keep silence
i know this endless love
will surely arrive
for you and you and you
If You are Looking For a Sign, This is It.
THIS IS A LONG POST! BUT TRUST ME IT IS THE TRUTH THAT WILL SET YOU FREE!
I want to share with you an amazing KEY to your relationships. And especially how to get your ex back.(You can apply this to every area of your life because there are no differences, Faith is all there is. Faith is the substance of all things.)
I was “forced” to learn this, I had “no luck” in love relationships even though I have so many fans. I’m a male model, with a high I.Q (intelligence), and a big heart, I don’t even harm insects (lol)… So I really have it all. I know it sounds pretentious but it’s just the truth. EDIT : (I say my qualities because I want to show that even if you have beauty, intelligence, heart, money you can be left if you think negatively, and that your love life has nothing to do with beauty or all that. Sorry if it irritates you. But some people think they are unlucky in love because of their beauty, money or something. The truth is that The Only Cause is your negative thoughts.) So I asked my self: WHY DO PEOPLE LEAVE YOU FOR NO REASON after one month? Even if there is absolutely no reason, no problem, they just leave me. To clarify I have to tell you that I can seduce everyone I want but after few days I become very negative, I doubt, I fear, I worry, I imagine the worst… and of course the bad results follow. In the beginning I’m very confident, and after few days when I really love them, when I get attached, I lose my confidence and myself.
IS THERE FREE WILL? Ask yourself:
– Did you choose to love him/her?
– Did you choose to be left?
– Did he/she choose to stop loving you?
– Did you choose to be unable to stop loving him/her?
– Did you choose to be treaded like sh*t?
– Did you choose to be ignored?
– And so on…
(PLEASE READ THE COMMENTS TO UNDERSTAND BETTER)
Ask yourself even more questions in that way. You will find that you did not choose that, you did not choose to be left or to suffer because of him/her. Did you? All you wanted is to love, to be loved. He/She did not choose to stop loving you, it just happened and you will understand why. When I use the verb “chose” I speak in terms of “Will”. It was not his or your will. What you want is not important because it has no power. What you believe you will get is the all power there is. You get what you really expect and what you concentrate upon.
WHY DID HE/SHE STOPPED LOVING YOU?
or Why did he/she leave you? or Why did it finish?
You have the answer. Remember when everything was perfect, when she/he loved you. Remember what were your thoughts about that person, remember your thoughts about the relationship. There was no fear, no doubt, you just knew, you had the full faith that he/she loves you and It was true. You felt so good, you felt how it is beautiful, how it is natural and easy… Then even If everything was good, even if there was only proof of love alone, you started to doubt and to ask yourself questions like “and what if he/she leaves me?” or “what if everything is too perfect to be true?… Those kind of questions and thoughts are the cause of all physical reasons and of all problems. You used the most powerful power in this world, the power of FAITH, to destroy your joy and your relationship. In fact the same power makes it work and the same power destroys. There is your choice! There is the place where your free will applies! The power of Faith, the Law is always the same, it creates/attracts what you think the most, what you believe and what you concentrate upon. So you have the choice to chose thoughts, this is your free will and your power. You have no choice at all of their effects.
HOW DO I GET HIM/HER BACK?
Or how can I make my relationship work ?
Even here, you know the answer. Use the greatest power of all, the power of Faith. This is not something new. You use it everyday, every second. The same power that destroyed your relationship will heal it, and better than ever. Because now you know the key. Just, use it in the positive direction now. When he/she loved you and when everything was perfect you started bad thoughts and they destroyed everything. Now everything is bad and nothing works but chose the good thoughts, chose positive faith and it will heal everything. Remember the person you love had no choice. In the same way that you have no choice to love him or not. Because if he/she had a choice, your bad thoughts wouldn’t be able to make him leave you. Or to make him treat you like shit. If your thoughts can change him in a negative way, they can change him in a positive way too. You love him/her because he believes you love him/her. When you think about someone you have no choice, you influence that person. So why would you use the greatest power of all that life has given you, to make him hate or ignore you? Why would you chose bad thoughts instead of the amazing, big thoughts? Why chose suffering when you can chose Bliss and pure love!? Isn’t that crazy?!
The choice of your thoughts is yours. It is your greatest power and your only free will. It affects everyone and everything in your life. You cannot stop influencing others or creating experience, but you can chose what you will create and how you will influence others. When you think “he/she doesn’t love me” you create that! So chose “he/she is crazy about me”! Both are influence. You cannot “not influence”. Just chose what makes you happy. Of course you do not influence others’ life outside of you. Your influence works only in relationship with you. For example, you cannot influence others to do something that has no link with you. And others can’t influence you, they can’t make you do something that has no connection with them. But if one of your friend starts to believe “He/she hates me” or he/she is disrespectful” then you will begin to feel some “irritation” and you will begin to act like that. It happens often.
TECHNIQUE/WHAT TO REMEMBER
I repeat : You cannot stop creating or influencing your life and others who are in your life. Your thoughts create your experience, it is the Law and you cannot change the Law. It can destroy your life and make you miserable or it can make you a god amongst little humans lol. The choice is yours by choosing your thoughts. You can make of yourself a victim or a king, and just as easily. So, Choose wisely.
Now, you want your ex back, or you want that your lover treats you kindly. What do I have to do?
1. Ignore the actual reality.
Know that it is only an effect of past thoughts. Concentrating upon the negative reality will only prolong it. Ignoring it will destroy it. The choice is yours.
2. (This is optional) Realize how powerful you are! How your thoughts created your misery! Realize how Life have given you the greatest gift of all – the power of creating your life as you want! Realize it with emotion! Think how great it is! Realize now that there is nothing you cannot change or have.
3. Know that you can change nothing from the outside, and that you have nothing to change or search outside. Everything just happens according to your thoughts and beliefs with no effort. The outside is only a shadow, an effect of the thoughts. So there is no need to send him/her messages, no need to run after him/her. No need to cry, no need to beg, no need to make fool of yourself lol. There is NOTHING you can do to change the reality because it is made with your thoughts! It is like having something on your face and trying to clean it off by wiping your mirror instead. And there is NOTHING that can stop your thoughts from becoming reality. Because it is the Life itself, or the God in you. NOTHING can stop you but you.
4. Chose what you want. Make it real in your mind and accept nothing else as reality. Let nothing destroy that reality in your mind. For example, you want an amazing relationship with your ex. Imagine it with emotion, with intensity. Feel it now. How would you feel? What would you do? What is he/she saying to you? Feel her/his love, that is bigger than ever. Feel her/him treating you like a king/queen. Nothing is too good! There are no limits. Know that it is the only reality even if it’s not physical now! Think positive every time you think about him/her. Of course do not search for proof outside right now because what you see now is the result of your past thoughts! It is not good to say that your reality contradicts what you imagine… lol Of course, otherwise you wouldn’t have to create it
5. Do not compare it with your past or the present. Do not undo it with negative thoughts. Just know that your new thoughts will change your relationship as well as the old thoughts did! If you can destroy your relationship with your thoughts, you can heal it with your thoughts too and you will. This is so important I am going to say it again. If you can destroy your relationship with your thoughts, you can heal it with your thoughts too and you will. Your thoughts are the only reality.
6. It will take time! But the more positive and intense your thoughts are, the more quickly it will come. The more you compare it with your outside reality, the more you doubt, the more you try to change it from the outside by doing things on the outside, the more you slow it.
7. There is no need to let him go. You only need to let go of doubts, fear, negative thoughts, the needy feeling. Not your lover. Of course if the only way for you to feel good is to forget him, then yes you have to let him go. But if you think positive about him and your relationship, and when you know that it is the only reality, you really can’t feel bad!
8. Always remember and keep in mind that what you think is the only reality. Never let what’s outside change your thoughts. Even if for example your lover says something bad to you. Know that it is only the result of your past thoughts. There is no need to have negative feelings and reactions, no need to feel bad. Never.
9. Everything comes from within, everything without exception. So you can change everything from within. The outside world and other people’s behavior to you are only effects of your thoughts and beliefs about them.
10. WHY is that? How is it possible that I have this great power? Because GOD or LIFE made you in his own image. We are like cells of the body. They are individual and they have their own life but they are ALL part of the one body. Every single drop of the ocean has the same quality as the ocean itself. A little flame has all the qualities of the great bonfire. In the same way we are all individuals and unique but We are all part of the same Life power, or of the same God. We have all the powers of life/God because it is a part of us. We are part of God. There is no separation between the creator and his creations. In the same way that there is no separation between us and our life.
YOU ARE ALWAYS THE CAUSE AS TO WHAT HAPPENS TO YOU. OTHERS’ ATTITUDE AND EVERYTHING IN YOUR LIFE HAS TO DO WITH ONLY YOU. THERE ARE NO RANDOM ATTITUDES TOWARD YOU. THERE ARE NO RANDOM EVENTS, CHANCES OR ACCIDENTS. EVERY WORD PEOPLE SAY TO YOU, THEIR ACTS, EVERY MOTION… EVERYTHING THAT HAPPENS TO YOU IS A REFLECTION OF YOUR BELIEFS AND EXPECTATIONS. THE BLUEPRINT OF YOUR LIFE IS INSIDE YOU. DO NOT MAKE EXCUSES OR EXCEPTIONS, TAKE FULL RESPONSIBILITY OF YOUR THOUGHTS. THERE IS NOTHING THAT EXISTS BY ITS OWN POWER. OF COURSE THERE ARE BAD PEOPLE, BUT THEY CAN’T BE BAD WITH YOU PERSONALLY IF YOU ONLY HAVE LOVELY AND PEACEFUL THOUGHTS TOWARD THEM. I speak from experience. You can transform your enemies into angels! THERE IS NO NEED FOR HATE OR EXCLUSION.
Never forget. You are blessed by life! You are born a creator because your source is The Creator. Life made no victims! We make victims of ourselves by our thoughts.
(PLEASE READ COMMENTS TO UNDERSTAND BETTER)
“Truly I tell you, if you have faith as small as a mustard seed, you can say to this mountain, ‘Move from here to there,’ and it will move. NOTHING will be impossible for you.” Jesus
“Therefore I tell you, whatever you ask for in prayer, believe that you have received them, and you will have them.” Jesus
Jesus said unto him, “If thou canst believe , all things are possible to him that believeth.”
“Do not fear, only believe” – Jesus.
“For the thing that I fear comes upon me, what I dread befalls me.” – Job.
“You are gods, And all of you are sons of the Most High.” – Jesus.
“Faith is the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen.” – Hebrews.
Love Is the Greatest, A definition of True Love (Bible – 1 Corinthians 13)
“If I could speak all the languages of earth and of angels, but didn’t love others, I would only be a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal. If I had the gift of prophecy, and if I understood all of God’s secret plans and possessed all knowledge, and if I had such faith that I could move mountains, but didn’t love others, I would be nothing. If I gave everything I have to the poor and even sacrificed my body, I could boast about it; but if I didn’t love others, I would have gained nothing.
Love is patient and kind. Love is not jealous or boastful or proud or rude. It does not demand its own way. It is not irritable, and it keeps no record of being wronged. It does not rejoice about injustice but rejoices whenever the truth wins out. Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance.
Prophecy and speaking in unknown languages and special knowledge will become useless. But love will last forever! Love never fails. Now our knowledge is partial and incomplete, and even the gift of prophecy reveals only part of the whole picture! But when the time of perfection comes, these partial things will become useless.
When I was a child, I spoke and thought and reasoned as a child. But when I grew up, I put away childish things. Now we see things imperfectly, like puzzling reflections in a mirror, but then we will see everything with perfect clarity. All that I know now is partial and incomplete, but then I will know everything completely, just as God now knows me completely.
Three things will last forever—faith, hope, and love—and the greatest of these is love.”