How to Attract a Perfect Relationship Using Law of Attraction

By: Priya Deelchand (Life Coach)

perfect_relationship_law_of_attractionThe Law of Attraction states that we attract into our lives, whatever we give our energy, attention and focus to, whether wanted or unwanted. Since our though is energy, people holding certain thoughts and vibrating a certain way become magnets and attract to them people vibrating at more or less the same frequency. That’s why we say “Birds of the same feathers flock together.” For example, let’s say you are vibrating at 75, it is very likely that you would attract people vibrating at 70 – 80 level and very unlikely that you would attract people vibrating at say 30. If you want to attract your ideal mate, you have to become a “vibrational match” to the person you want to share your life with.

The vibrations that we emit can be either positive or negative and the Law of Attraction will always respond to the vibration that we are emitting by giving us more of the same. If you are a very positive person, you will be emitting a positive vibration and you will be surrounded by positive people. If on the other hand, you are a person who is constantly angry, doubtful, fearful, etc, you will be emitting a negative vibration, and you will tend to attract negative people, situations and experiences into your life.

If you want to attract your ideal partner, first of all, you have to see what you are currently attracting in this particular area of your life and what vibration you are emitting. If you are not attracting the relationship you want, you will have to be very clear about what you want in a romantic relationship.

How do we become clear about what we want? Most of the time, it is very difficult to know exactly what we want in an ideal mate. One of the best ways to become clear is to make a list of qualities and characteristics that you do not like in your existing or previous relationships. You don’t have to focus on what you do not want to attract but just examine briefly what you do not like or want. Once you have made a list of around 40 to 50 qualities and characteristics that you do not like, you can proceed by making the list of characteristics that you do want in an ideal partner. The things that we want are the exact opposite of the things that we don’t want. For example:


What I Do not Want

Want What I do Want

1. An uncaring partner 1. A caring partner
2. A quarrelsome relationship 2. A harmonious relationship
3. A partner who does not share Responsibilities 3. A relationship where we share responsibilities equally
4. etc…………………. 4. etc…………………


You continue with this exercise and once you have a list of all the characteristics that you want in a partner, you start focusing only on this list and then you proceed with the next step which is to become a “vibrational match” to the ideal partner you want to attract.

How do we become a “vibrational match” to the ideal partner we want to attract? Well, suppose in your list you want to attract a loving and caring partner. If you, yourself are not caring and loving, it will be difficult for you to attract a loving and caring person. According to the Law of Attraction, you attract what you vibrate. You must therefore start raising your vibration to become loving and caring. It is only then that you can attract what you want into your life.

Once you have become clear about what you want and you have raised your vibration to attract your ideal partner, the last step is to allow your ideal partner to come to you. Allowing is the absence of doubt. If you have a strong desire to attract your ideal mate but at the same time, you have strong doubts, you will never be able to attract what you want because you will be sending mixed signals in the universe. If on the other hand, you have a strong desire and some doubt, you will attract our ideal mate, but it will take a little longer. The best combination for rapid manifestation of your ideal relationship is when you have a strong desire and no doubt at all.

You now have all the necessary ingredients in your hands to attract your ideal relationship. Just follow and carefully apply all the different steps we have mentioned and you will definitely end up attracting your ideal partner. The right understanding and application of the Law of Attraction will definitely bring miraculous results in your life.

10 thoughts on “How to Attract a Perfect Relationship Using Law of Attraction”

  1. Most people are more in touch with what they do not want and do not focus enough on the things that they DO want. You have to make sure that your mind is much more focused on the things your desire and not the things you detest.

  2. hi
    Very well said., but priya many ask me how do we attract a specific person in our life may b he or she is just a friend or a acquitance where in they feel ok she or he is the one i would like to marry.


  3. Dear Pria,

    Thankyou for your article, it’s great I believe and am very interested in the law of attraction . I have apllied and followed most of the instructions and yet no resaults. I guess there must be a simple thing that I must be doing wrong because I have been trying for 7 years to attract mu soul mate and nothing has yet happened. I am not a negative person and I know and have seen the law of attaction work for many people even for me but as soon as a light shines at the end of the tunnel and I am finally getting what I want it just happens to go the other way round. What do you think I am doing wrong?

  4. yes, the law of attraction works on us whether we’re aware of it or not. Once, the law of attraction has come true in my life. By the law of attraction, I’m very eagerly waiting for an already known person to meet me again.

  5. hi…
    i think its very right. by applying the l.o.a we can get the things we want even a very good partner

  6. gratitude it’s the way to go.
    Probably first is to build up your self esteem so you know your worth that partner you’re so desiring.
    Concentrate on your positive attributes,and them alone.Whenever you notice something about yourself you don’t like,back it up with something you do.
    Do this for not only your personality,but your body as well.
    Do this when encountering other people as well.It will make you a much more congenial,positive,and sweet person to be around focusing on yours and others positive points.
    Then,be grateful for all the other little things in your life and there you go 🙂

  7. I agree with the fact that in a relationship the power of attraction has a very big role. The article is very well written and very informative, it is great, thanks for sharing. The attraction law is working even better on you when you really know what you want and have a real big desire to find the ideal life partner.

  8. i am in love with one of my friend she is so friendly with me, she care for me a lot but i know she have no love like feeling s for me …..she treat me as a child she is soooooooooooo sooooooooooo soooooooooo lovely so i feared to tell her my i want to marry her……what should i do….. please mail me

  9. Hey Priya,
    does law of attraction works when we use it to attract one particular person? or can we just send a message to the universe, and the universe finds the right person for you?

    Thanks 🙂

  10. My law of attraction seems to work in an opposite way. When I’m loving and caring, I attract a person who couldn’t care less. When I couldn’t care less, I attract people who are loving an caring. When I’m successful, I attract people who are drug dealers. Does this happen to anyone else, or are my vibes just so twisted that I’m the only one?

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