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Vision Board Mini Series – How To Visualize

Andrew here again.

So you have done step 1 and step 2. Now what? Now would be a good time to think about how to visualise.

Learning how to visualise is an important step in getting what you want out of life and the vision board process. This is a remarkably effective thing to do. It is nothing new. You do it all the time. You just might not be aware of it. You might call it day dreaming.

Any ‘successful’ person does it. I guarantee you. Everything in life starts as a thought form, an idea that is  imagined.

Whenever you are reading a novel or engrossed in a breath taking film you are naturally visualising.  All you need to do now is harness your natural ability and create something that you actually want in your life. It’s time to get ‘serious’.

The most common way to visualise is as follows :

Start out by creating a vivid picture in your mind of you already having achieved your goals. It is the END RESULT, not a condition or a way that you can achieve your goal but the end result.

You have to really feel the emotions as if they were happening right NOW. Your unconscious mind doesn’t know the difference between real and unreal. By visualising consistently it begins to bring what you are seeing in your mind into your physical reality.

The BIG key is being specific.. You really have to get very detailed with what you visualise. If you want a new car. See every single nook and cranny of that car in your mind. Feel the fabric, smell the fresh interior, feel the rubber of the tires. Hear the sound of the engine as you turn the key. Sit in the car. What music do you have playing on your awesome sound system.

You have to focus on visualisation and repeat the process at least twice a day for a full ten minutes. It is recommended that you do it more often! The more frequently you use the power of visualisation the more the ideas will sink into your mind and manifest.  Keep visualising until you have what you want.

Learning how to visualise is not hard, but it does take discipline. If you can’t be bothered to visualise, you don’t want your goal. Simple!  If you believe you cannot have it, that is another thing. You are worrying about “How am I going to get it”, which as already discussed is not for you to know.

You just have to keep focusing on the end result.

If you can’t visualise, that’s OK. You could just pretend or write out what you want instead and then read it when you wake up and before you go to bed. It you can’t do that either. Record yourself experiencing what it is you want.

How much detail, you can never have too much. If you think you have it down perfect. If describe what you want to somebody else and get them to draw out what it is that you want. Do they draw the same item as you think you have described? Doubt it.

Any questions, comment below or even better. Come join us all at the forum.

Happy Travels


Vision Board Mini Series – Step 2 – Getting Your Images


Andrew here again.

Now you know what a vision board is and how many types you can have. Lets get into the meat of your vision board.

Action 1 – If you have not already done so, write down right down everything that you want in your life and everything that you don’t want in your life.  This is a must step.

Vision Board Secret – If you just read about it and don’t do anything i.e. take action. How do you think you’ll get what you want in your life? The more things you do to get what you want, the more opportunities you and the universe have of getting what you want.  Getting what you want, really is a numbers game.

Now, from the list that you created above, find an END RESULT image, picture, the final outcome of what it is that you want and how it will look to you. Don’t look for images of what you don’t want. What would be its total opposite? That is what you want.

i.e. I don’t want any more arguments over money becomes I want to have more than enough money to be financially independent. – Give it a figure amount too in $£Y or your local currency.

The image only has to mean something to YOU and YOU alone. If you can’t find the exact image of what you want, create it yourself. Use Gimp or Photoshop. Draw it. No you doesn’t need to be a Picasso.

I’d also include at least one picture of yourself. Why? These are your goals. If you can use Gimp or Photoshop, change any heads to your head.

Also include inspirational words and quotes that you want to live by. Include pictures of your mentors or people you want to become like.

Your Images and Goals

There really are No limits. Now you might be thinking, but I have to be realistic. Rubbish. Your goals should be outrageous, they should excite you. We’re talking about your life here. Not queueing for milk at the supermarket. Do you want to be ordinary or EXTRAORDINARY?

Conflict, you may not see it at first, but if you want A and you believe the only way you can get it is by B. Get rid of B. Why, you’re serious cutting down your options. Remember it is about the final result, not how you get there. i.e. You want $1.000,000 (A) – Lottery Image (B). Get rid of B. There are infinite ways to make, get, manifest, attract $1,000,000 into your life.

Even if you don’t believe you can get what it is that you want. That’s OK. In another post, I let you know how you can easily overcome these emotional and mentally blocks, quicker than you ever thought possible.

How Am I Going To Get Everything That I Want?

But, the hows. That is not for you to decide. That is for the universe to decide. It will give you many, many opportunities to get what you want, if you let it. Don’t limit it and yourself. If you worry about the how am I going to get this? What your basically saying is I don’t believe this is possible for me. That’s OK, one of the primary goals with your board, is to gently start allowing yourself to believe that it is possible for you to have everything and more that you want in your life.

Where To Find Your Images


There are some excellent magazines for the affluent lifestyle. Some of my favourites are:

Robb ReportYes, we even get this in the UK.

Architectural DigestYou’ll find a dream home in here, I’m sure.

Dupont RegistryThey have magazines for many hi-end things.

Condé Nesté TravellerRemember to enjoy your wealth!

If you don’t have these magazines where you live. That’s OK. There are magazines available on every conceivable topic on and off line. What do you see the people you want to become like where you live reading or carrying?

WWW. The web is full of images for your vision board. Make use of it.

Google Images

Free Stock PhotosHere you’ll find lots of images you can use for free or a small fee.

Dealerships, Estate Agents. In the magazines you’ll see many adverts. If you like what you see. Send off for a brochure. You are serious bout what you want right? By doing this you’ll often end up on a mailing list and get constant offers and new product info. Even if you think you can’t afford something right now, that is OK. Your constantly programming yourself, this what I want. You’re feeding your mind constant prosperity images. I’m still loving my Bosé mailings and images.

There are just so many places for you to find your images. If you can’t find it exactly as you want it. Get somebody to create it for you.


  • As you go over your images make sure it is your goal and dream and not for somebody else.
  • If the images doesn’t get you excited, CHANGE IT!
  • As you accomplish a goal or realise one is not for you – bin it and get a new goal.
  • Re-read about conflicting images, above.

Until next time, start collecting and putting them together on your board, wall, journal. Anywhere you’ll see it often.

Happy Travels