Comments on: How To Get Your Ex Girlfriend / Boyfriend Back: Quick Tips

By: K.KUHAN

K.KUHAN — Wed, 25 May 2011 02:55:47 +0000

I am from India.Thanks for your teaching.

By: shadonna

shadonna — Wed, 08 Dec 2010 21:42:19 +0000

I’m a very attractive 30-year-old woman and have never been in a relationship. I can walk into a room full of strangers and just choose who I want and they will come to me. LOA. But it is very rare that I actually fall for someone and when it happens, every single time the man twotimes me one way or the other. This has happened so many times I know it is me making it happen. I don’t let people close to me easily. There is someone I’ve known half my life and have had several flings with. At times we’ve not had any contact in years and lived in different countries. All this time I missed him and was without a doubt the feeling is mutual. I kept visualising for years him standing behind my door when I open it. One day he got in touch and invited himself over. Like magic. However there was too much hurt between us to even try to climb the mountain. The chemistry and unspoken love was there, but in the end he called it off and said he had found someone else. I was furious for him not even giving a chance to try harder after so many years. At some point he was giving me hints online. I suspect he broke up with the girl for a while, but they are back together now. It’s been going on for over a decade, so I trust these feelings between us will never disappear. I had already approved that it just never will happen and I will live with it. He prevents me from letting anyone else near me, I just can’t accept anything less. Despite everything, I’m grateful for those moments I got to spend with him. It gave me assurance I didn’t believe in his return in vain. He hurt me really bad, it’s been a year and I’m still bitter. At the moment I’m not sure if I ever want to be that vulnerable again, but I know this wasn’t the last chapter. I wish I could get back into that place where I was ok with the fact I’ll never have him. That’s when he contacted me the last time! So keep your faith people! You make your own fate.

By: bill

bill — Wed, 24 Nov 2010 00:13:41 +0000

I had dated a girl for about six months that I totally feel for. We got along great never fought but there was one night that i had a little too much to drink and then got a little jealous and then embrassesed her in front of her friends. she had broken up with me right there and then. for the first week i tried to do everything in my power to get her back and then i didn’t call her for a couple of weeks. we did email but she stated that i had embrassed her and that she would never put herself through this again and that was the only thing that broke us up. (during this time, i actually went to consuling so that i would never act this way again. it has help me alot (not just in a relationship sense either). After that i waited a month and still continued to work on myself and then set up a light hearted text in which i got no response back. it was been about a week. I realize that I do love her and i would never hurt her again; however i don’t know how i can show her if she doesn’t speak to me. i also don’t want to bother her if she does want to talk ….it like a catch 22….any help would be great.

By: Saniya

Saniya — Mon, 07 Jun 2010 11:47:36 +0000

I always try to apply LOA in my life. I works out very well.

By: Shibu

Shibu — Sat, 05 Jun 2010 05:39:56 +0000

How to moderate

By: Shibu

Shibu — Fri, 04 Jun 2010 11:42:14 +0000

I have a boyfriend. We were known for long time only through phone. Suddenly through some event we could meet together and we promised we will be together for ever. Both of us are married and not satisfied with the present spouse. But because of some misunderstanding I quarelled with him and humilated him infornt of his friends. After that I realized my mistake and apologized with him like anything. He told me he will try to forget everything. After that we met once and he promised me everything happened because of misunderstanding and now we will together for ever.But after that we never met each other. when we plan to meet some hindrence will happen then it will stop. Also no proper communication. But for me he is my everything. He is the only one who gave such a good satisfaction in my life. I want him. I pray a lot. Now I am trying to apply LOA also. I want him to meet me, have sex with me, love me everything. He is very good. He is made for me. I am sure. But some hindrence. I hope LOA will change everything. I will get my soul mate for me forever.

By: Solrac

Solrac — Wed, 26 May 2010 08:06:41 +0000

I had a situation of my own. I warn you all, this is a long one.I’ve always had a strong bond with my inner source. I was a very strong attractor for years. So much so that in the Military, My squad mates accused me of having a four leaf clover implanted in me somewhere. From everything to getting the job I wanted after high school. To joining special operations in the US Marines.
But the greatest thing that I did. Was while I was in the Corps in the end of my tour. I realized that I didn’t want that single run and gun, military bachelor life style. The Divorce rate is 97%. I learned that I want a family that I can come home to. So after becoming the man that I wanted to be, I put out to the universe what I wanted.
A year and a half later I got my soul mate. We where together for almost six years long distance. Her outside of Toronto, and me in Jersey. But we made it work. Until I feel that me not appreciating her, and her age 7 years younger. Not to mention a combination of negative outside influences on her end. All took a toll on us.
Now it’s been a whole year and a half. We haven’t spoken on the phone let alone in person in almost as much time. I’ve gone on tons of dates, i even had a short rebound relationship. But I’ve just felt like my other half is missing. I don’t want my ex girlfriend back. I want the woman who I want to be the mother of my children. The one who I just want to marry tomorrow, and repatriate to Canada for.
Thank you for posting this page. It makes me feel even better about the whole situation because I’ve already been doing a lot of these things on my own. Now I just need to work on the letting go step. Though to be honest, I feel like a million bucks, because I feel like everything has already worked out just the way that I want. I close my eyes, and I can see myself with her and our two children. I’ve even had a few great dreams lately.
Keep me in your positive thoughts people. They are much appreciated. Walk in health and wonder.
Marine In Love.

By: xxx

xxx — Thu, 18 Feb 2010 10:27:21 +0000

please take into consideration that we do not have any contact for about two months.

By: xxx

xxx — Thu, 18 Feb 2010 09:19:59 +0000

After we spent about 4 years together, my ex boyfriend told me that we can not be together. We were making ready ourselves to get married this year and I was very happy and absolutely ready to marry him. The thing is he went a little far from the city where I live, a year before. He found a good job out there. And he promised me to come back in one or two years. In the mean time, I found a job around his place (we take it as a good opportunity for us to start living together) but the company I worked for resist to leave me since i am a responsible person in the company. They offered me a very nice salary increment with huge responsibility of work. Then I told to my ex boyfriend I preferred to stay where I live and work, since, he has not a plan to live there forever. He was very upset at the moment and ignored me totally. I tried to contact him but I can’t. Following so much effort he sends me a message saying “our relationship is over”. I never expected such a thing to happen, so I got sick. Even after so much begging he allow me to see him, but told me the same thing that it is over. I asked him the real reason. He said, you never listened to me, you never gave me credit, and you disrespected me…..and so on. I never noticed such a thing in our relationship before, so I got shocked and couldn’t say a word in front of him. For me our relationship was perfect. And I really love him. I want to be with him. I send so many letters saying I’m sorry, I tried to contact him but there is no reply. He knows very well about the LOA and he used it at every moment of his life than I do. I’m trying to use the LOA in order to attract him and live with him forever. But I need a consultation on how to master the LOA and get my ex back. I got the feelling that he still loves me, though he did not say a word. I need your help. I really need you to say something about our relationship. PLEASE?. Do you think that it is possible to get him back and be the happy couple again? I really miss him.

By: julie

julie — Sat, 13 Feb 2010 17:27:55 +0000

i read this the other day. i had told my boyfriend to take a week space from me to sort out his feelings. i was hopeful that things would work out as he was always telling me that he loved me and had strong feelings for me. however today he said that he wanted to be single and had doubts about our future together. he did cry and so did i but i did not beg him to stay. i said sorry for any hurt i had caused him and thanked him for showing me love. very hard but i did it with as much dignaty as i could. i also gave him his valentine present and card. i dont understand why when two people love each other why he didnt want to try. didnt argue that much, told me i am irressistable, lovely warm person etc butcould just walk away like that. the pain is awful. our getting together was fateful and we found out our birthday both 1st june. he is 43 and i am 44. it was weird. i thought we were made for each other. ive deleted his numbers and i will now let go. yes i want him back but he has made up his mind and i dont think that wishing or positive thinking will work for me this time because i was thinking it would have been ok in the end last week. ill ty the affirmations but i think i would just be fooling myself and its prob better to let go.