How To Get Your Ex Girlfriend / Boyfriend Back: Quick Tips

Our purpose in life is often more that being happy and rich. We all are looking for a soul mate so we can share our experiences, feelings… having somebody sharing our destiny. How to get you ex girlfriend / boyfriend back is not really tough unless you really want to get back with your ex girlfriend / boyfriend. It all depends on how badly you want it.

You probably found already this so special person that makes you forget the time and everything around when you’re together, the one that you cannot breathe without… the one that resumes your own existence… You were so very happy and complete…then something suddenly happened and put you apart… another person interfered in this relationship and broke it up, either it was family, friends or somebody you don’t even know, or maybe it was just an event, some misunderstanding, lack of communication… whatever it is know you can all repair it and bring back happiness in your life.

When two people fall in love with each other, they open a connection to their souls – it’s an energy connection that remains forever between them never mind what happens.

If you want to get your ex back there’s something you need to know… You can bring this person back into your life and have a relationship with but this relationship will never be the same as the old one you had.

This is a reality. When you separate you start living new experiences, new feelings and that leaves definitely a print on your soul. You will meet new people; you’ll have new information, a new way of seeing the world, your partner etc. So it’s like this.

You will build a new relationship with that person – maybe stronger, maybe worse…

Now as you know already how the Law of Attraction is working, never forget that either you want it or not, it is working so it’s up to you to make it happen.

Quick Tips on How to get you ex girlfriend / boyfriend back:

Forgive – to you and to your ex for everything that happened.

You have to accept the present situation and admit that it is a fact you are no longer together. Never mind what the reason for the split was, you did the best you could at this specific moment. Forgiving the mistakes you made both. Forgiving the other person for having different dreams or plans, or points of view, maybe also forgiving for moving on without you and not responding on your expectations….

You and your ex acted the way you thought was the best way to act. So now you must just forgive.

Put all your wishes written down on a paper. Make a list of the things you want.

Make affirmations and visualization on the reality you want to create. You can decide of making affirmations for example every morning and evening for 5 minutes:

“ He/she and me are together in love”

“She/he are married”

“She/he loves me, we are soul mates”

After the affirmations you can visualize the picture you want your life to be. Create your own movie and put it on every time you start having doubts or simply after the affirmations. To learn How to get you ex girlfriend / boyfriend back affirmations is one of the proven methods.

Keep the faith that it is happening already and feel grateful for what you already have. Make a list of the things you’re grateful for the Universe and read it as much as you can until you really accept and understand how lucky you are already.

Focus on you and your happiness. You have to learn being happy with or without him/her, at a point that it doesn’t matter anymore if he returns or not. That’s what you have to work on in his/her absence. You need to grow by yourself just like your ex needs the same – grow and treat his/her personal issues that have nothing to do with you and your relationship. He/ she has her/his own stuff to work on – scars from the past, issues with the family and the parents, new experiences maybe as well.

Let it go. Become detached of the outcome. This is the turning point in your actions. The work you did until that moment will manifest only when there’re “zero limits” or “zero resistance”. That means that with the visualizations and affirmations and the forgiveness you achieved a state where “you and your ex” are together, you don’t doubt, you just feel you are together. Being together became natural for you, there’re no more doubts, no more questioning if it will work or not. You know it, that’s all.

Let it go doesn’t mean that you stop working on your purpose; it’s just that you are happy no matter what. You are responsible for your own healing and growing just like your ex is for his/hers. You feel happy no matter what and those are the vibes you send to the Universe.

If you don’t let it go, if you don’t detach from the outcome, you are sending to the Universe vibes of “waiting” and you won’t ever send a vibration of “having” so it will stay the way it is…

So now, as you already know what you need to do, just go ahead. Remember that while your ex is off, he/she is becoming a better version of himself/herself just as you do it so at the end of this process you will be both of you ready for a better relationship than ever. Hope the quick tips will help on how to get you ex girlfriend / boyfriend back.

Wish you peace and love….

By – Galina

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{ 24 comments… read them below or add one }

1 sneha October 8, 2009 at 1:37 am: hey galina!

Wonderful article very well put, people who want their ex back these are the perfect quick steps for them:)

sneha

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2 BO October 13, 2009 at 4:00 pm: But this works only when both want the same thing, right?
What if he does not want to get together?

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3 Galina Lambert October 23, 2009 at 1:42 pm: Bo, we have those answers in our discussions on the FORUM. Just get a subscribtion, It’s absolutely FREE of charge, and we’ll try to reply your questions, but we need to know a bit more of your story…. Thank you! Be blessed!

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4 Ashley Chavous November 16, 2009 at 1:58 pm: THIS IS LONG BUT PLEASE READ IT AND HELP ME =~)
I was with a guy for 2 years, we both loved eachother very much. We broke up in 2006 0r 2007. For some reason my intuition told me when he turned 21 he was gonna act different, and he did. His parents took him to Las Vegas for his birthday, and after that we still were getting along. Then he all of the sudden started ignoring/not returning my phone calls for a whole week, then he apologized and did it a 2nd time, but when I asked him to be honest and tell me if he wanted a break, he would say know and that he was just really busy. So finally I just broke up with him. I know I sound pathetic, but he was the best relationship and boyfriend I’ve ever had, and I am willing to fogive him and take him back ( I can’t stop thinking of him) He was the type to buy me flowers etc, justbecause. His mother would also talk bad about me because she was upper class ( a lawyer) and I just wasn’t to her standards I guess, I think she had a big influence on him, cause he would always talk about my mom said this and my mom said that. It wasn’t just puppy love, I have had boyfriends before him and I don’t think about any of them. We went on ski trips with his family etc. I even saw him walking across the street when I was driving but tried not to look at him, but I looked in the rearview mirror after I drove past him and he was staring at the back of my car for a whil, about an hour after that someone called me from a blocked phone # and wouldn’t answer me when I said hi ( I think it was him)
SO ANYWAY, SORRY FOR THE LONG STORY, BUT i WANNA KNOW COULD THERE BE A CHANCE IN THE FUTUER FOR US ONCE HE HAS MATURED A BIT.

THANK YOU SO MUCH!
ASHLEY

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5 Galina November 17, 2009 at 9:58 am: Ashley, I would personnaly suggest you to try attracting a soulmate rather than your ex-boyfriend. Anything is possible but talking of personal experience, you’ll have much more success and quicklier if you do a genearl work about that… Have a look on our article about finding a soulmate : http://www.powerlawofattraction.com/law-of-attraction-in-action/relationship/how-to-attract-a-perfect-relationship-using-law-of-attraction/

and if you want to talk about it, post your questions and story in our forum, where you’ll find a lot of people in your situation:
http://www.powerlawofattraction.com/forum/law-of-attraction-for-relationship/

Blessings and light!

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6 Ash November 18, 2009 at 12:03 pm: Ok, thanks.
I guess I just needed to hear the words and I never looked at it that way…thank you so much!

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7 leah November 23, 2009 at 10:21 am: Galina I love how you have explained that. I never knew to look at it in that specific way as it was always told with gaps as to how to actually carry out the entire process from beginning to end.
Love to you.xxx

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8 dakshata December 2, 2009 at 1:04 pm: hi
can anybody explain in detail how to apply law of attraction in getting ex love back.
thnx

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9 Anonymous December 6, 2009 at 11:30 pm: its very simple. Be happy. If your ex is someone that truly added quality to your life, be happy and thankful that you were so blessed to have loved that person. Be TRULY HAPPY, And the love of that person will come racing back to you. It’s happened to me and it can happen for you. Believe.

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10 how to get your ex boyfriend back January 8, 2010 at 1:06 pm: I was trying to get my boyfriend back for a long time. I searched for online manuals and nothing helped until i came to this blog.

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11 Amrit January 16, 2010 at 8:53 am: Galina,

I finally found what I was looking for. Mine is a long love story of almost 6 years. I know I have found the answer now. Thank you. Bless you

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12 Luisa January 24, 2010 at 4:25 am: My ex husband has been living with another woman for 6 years already . I’m so unhappy , I’ve tried but I don’t want other men… I’ve tried to get him back but as you see , it didn’t work!
It’s time to give up ! Isn’t it?
Bye
Luisa

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13 Galina Lambert January 31, 2010 at 3:12 pm: Luisa, that’s a quite longtime for trying…
While starting to work the LoA you start first by doing some self developpement work first of all. If you don’t attract things you want, there’s a problem somewhere in your beliefs and for sure negativity…
I would suggest you to do a general search for a soulmate and find “the one” that God keeps for you… we have an article here on how to find the perfect soulmate. It worked perfectly for many people as well as clients of Priya Deelchand (the author of this article)…
Blessings!

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14 Jonathan Williams January 31, 2010 at 11:53 pm: My ex which we have a son together broke up with me for another guy who is extremely wealthy. We are sharing custody and communacating alot. She always indirectly speaks as she wants to come to me and that she regrets what she did. But are past has being preety bad she had deprived one year from my newborn son of seing him which we end up at court but the court case stopped because my both parents got killed in car accident 28/ 9/08 , then she felt sorry and came back to me untill today which she broke up with me again especially now that I am grieving the broblem is that we have very high telepathy and I am confused because I dont respect her as partner only as a mother of my son , but because of her thinking pattern will that attract a reunion of us. Myself as emotions are both ways anger and missing her. What do you observe LOT result in this case?

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15 julie February 13, 2010 at 12:27 pm: i read this the other day. i had told my boyfriend to take a week space from me to sort out his feelings. i was hopeful that things would work out as he was always telling me that he loved me and had strong feelings for me. however today he said that he wanted to be single and had doubts about our future together. he did cry and so did i but i did not beg him to stay. i said sorry for any hurt i had caused him and thanked him for showing me love. very hard but i did it with as much dignaty as i could. i also gave him his valentine present and card. i dont understand why when two people love each other why he didnt want to try. didnt argue that much, told me i am irressistable, lovely warm person etc butcould just walk away like that. the pain is awful. our getting together was fateful and we found out our birthday both 1st june. he is 43 and i am 44. it was weird. i thought we were made for each other. ive deleted his numbers and i will now let go. yes i want him back but he has made up his mind and i dont think that wishing or positive thinking will work for me this time because i was thinking it would have been ok in the end last week. ill ty the affirmations but i think i would just be fooling myself and its prob better to let go.

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16 xxx February 18, 2010 at 4:19 am: After we spent about 4 years together, my ex boyfriend told me that we can not be together. We were making ready ourselves to get married this year and I was very happy and absolutely ready to marry him. The thing is he went a little far from the city where I live, a year before. He found a good job out there. And he promised me to come back in one or two years. In the mean time, I found a job around his place (we take it as a good opportunity for us to start living together) but the company I worked for resist to leave me since i am a responsible person in the company. They offered me a very nice salary increment with huge responsibility of work. Then I told to my ex boyfriend I preferred to stay where I live and work, since, he has not a plan to live there forever. He was very upset at the moment and ignored me totally. I tried to contact him but I can’t. Following so much effort he sends me a message saying “our relationship is over”. I never expected such a thing to happen, so I got sick. Even after so much begging he allow me to see him, but told me the same thing that it is over. I asked him the real reason. He said, you never listened to me, you never gave me credit, and you disrespected me…..and so on. I never noticed such a thing in our relationship before, so I got shocked and couldn’t say a word in front of him. For me our relationship was perfect. And I really love him. I want to be with him. I send so many letters saying I’m sorry, I tried to contact him but there is no reply. He knows very well about the LOA and he used it at every moment of his life than I do. I’m trying to use the LOA in order to attract him and live with him forever. But I need a consultation on how to master the LOA and get my ex back. I got the feelling that he still loves me, though he did not say a word. I need your help. I really need you to say something about our relationship. PLEASE?. Do you think that it is possible to get him back and be the happy couple again? I really miss him.

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17 xxx February 18, 2010 at 5:27 am: please take into consideration that we do not have any contact for about two months.

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18 Solrac May 26, 2010 at 3:06 am: I had a situation of my own. I warn you all, this is a long one.I’ve always had a strong bond with my inner source. I was a very strong attractor for years. So much so that in the Military, My squad mates accused me of having a four leaf clover implanted in me somewhere. From everything to getting the job I wanted after high school. To joining special operations in the US Marines.
But the greatest thing that I did. Was while I was in the Corps in the end of my tour. I realized that I didn’t want that single run and gun, military bachelor life style. The Divorce rate is 97%. I learned that I want a family that I can come home to. So after becoming the man that I wanted to be, I put out to the universe what I wanted.
A year and a half later I got my soul mate. We where together for almost six years long distance. Her outside of Toronto, and me in Jersey. But we made it work. Until I feel that me not appreciating her, and her age 7 years younger. Not to mention a combination of negative outside influences on her end. All took a toll on us.
Now it’s been a whole year and a half. We haven’t spoken on the phone let alone in person in almost as much time. I’ve gone on tons of dates, i even had a short rebound relationship. But I’ve just felt like my other half is missing. I don’t want my ex girlfriend back. I want the woman who I want to be the mother of my children. The one who I just want to marry tomorrow, and repatriate to Canada for.
Thank you for posting this page. It makes me feel even better about the whole situation because I’ve already been doing a lot of these things on my own. Now I just need to work on the letting go step. Though to be honest, I feel like a million bucks, because I feel like everything has already worked out just the way that I want. I close my eyes, and I can see myself with her and our two children. I’ve even had a few great dreams lately.
Keep me in your positive thoughts people. They are much appreciated. Walk in health and wonder.
Marine In Love.

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19 Shibu June 4, 2010 at 6:42 am: I have a boyfriend. We were known for long time only through phone. Suddenly through some event we could meet together and we promised we will be together for ever. Both of us are married and not satisfied with the present spouse. But because of some misunderstanding I quarelled with him and humilated him infornt of his friends. After that I realized my mistake and apologized with him like anything. He told me he will try to forget everything. After that we met once and he promised me everything happened because of misunderstanding and now we will together for ever.But after that we never met each other. when we plan to meet some hindrence will happen then it will stop. Also no proper communication. But for me he is my everything. He is the only one who gave such a good satisfaction in my life. I want him. I pray a lot. Now I am trying to apply LOA also. I want him to meet me, have sex with me, love me everything. He is very good. He is made for me. I am sure. But some hindrence. I hope LOA will change everything. I will get my soul mate for me forever.

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20 Shibu June 5, 2010 at 12:39 am: How to moderate

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21 Saniya June 7, 2010 at 6:47 am: I always try to apply LOA in my life. I works out very well.

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22 bill November 23, 2010 at 7:13 pm: I had dated a girl for about six months that I totally feel for. We got along great never fought but there was one night that i had a little too much to drink and then got a little jealous and then embrassesed her in front of her friends. she had broken up with me right there and then. for the first week i tried to do everything in my power to get her back and then i didn’t call her for a couple of weeks. we did email but she stated that i had embrassed her and that she would never put herself through this again and that was the only thing that broke us up. (during this time, i actually went to consuling so that i would never act this way again. it has help me alot (not just in a relationship sense either). After that i waited a month and still continued to work on myself and then set up a light hearted text in which i got no response back. it was been about a week. I realize that I do love her and i would never hurt her again; however i don’t know how i can show her if she doesn’t speak to me. i also don’t want to bother her if she does want to talk ….it like a catch 22….any help would be great.

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23 shadonna December 8, 2010 at 4:42 pm: I’m a very attractive 30-year-old woman and have never been in a relationship. I can walk into a room full of strangers and just choose who I want and they will come to me. LOA. But it is very rare that I actually fall for someone and when it happens, every single time the man twotimes me one way or the other. This has happened so many times I know it is me making it happen. I don’t let people close to me easily. There is someone I’ve known half my life and have had several flings with. At times we’ve not had any contact in years and lived in different countries. All this time I missed him and was without a doubt the feeling is mutual. I kept visualising for years him standing behind my door when I open it. One day he got in touch and invited himself over. Like magic. However there was too much hurt between us to even try to climb the mountain. The chemistry and unspoken love was there, but in the end he called it off and said he had found someone else. I was furious for him not even giving a chance to try harder after so many years. At some point he was giving me hints online. I suspect he broke up with the girl for a while, but they are back together now. It’s been going on for over a decade, so I trust these feelings between us will never disappear. I had already approved that it just never will happen and I will live with it. He prevents me from letting anyone else near me, I just can’t accept anything less. Despite everything, I’m grateful for those moments I got to spend with him. It gave me assurance I didn’t believe in his return in vain. He hurt me really bad, it’s been a year and I’m still bitter. At the moment I’m not sure if I ever want to be that vulnerable again, but I know this wasn’t the last chapter. I wish I could get back into that place where I was ok with the fact I’ll never have him. That’s when he contacted me the last time! So keep your faith people! You make your own fate.

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24 K.KUHAN May 24, 2011 at 9:55 pm: I am from India.Thanks for your teaching.

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