Diifulty manifesting

[Sneha Kulkarni]

hi,
Well what galina means  is when we focus on one person our energy gets blocked, I would suggest write down your affirmation and at the end put it as i want this person but if you have something better stored for me i am open for it universe and just surrender to him and be happy and move ahead with other things,
Detach yourself totally!!!!! from its outcome behave as if  you have already found your dream man.

Sneha

[sneha]

hi moderators,
I hope u guys r doin fine....well as u know it all how i was trying to manifest this lovely relationship with my colleague.....i have tried bein positive, visuliazing and also bein grtafeul for what i have...i would say i have manifested a lot of things instantly but somehow my feeling of being lonely is not ending.i have not been able to be more than just very good frnds with this colleaue whom iam madly in love with...i
i have noticed that i have htis pattern in my life wherin i cant hold on  good relationship with my frnds also...i mean i always feel ppl are not takin care of me whilst i go that extra mile to do things for my frnds...i feel dejected....
i know it some thing in my mind but i have tried and not succeeded on this front.please help me manifest this lovely man as i will completely broken if ia not able to as you knw of the failing relationships in my life....
the days i stay positive i see things changing but iam not able to suatin the good days n thn i strt feelin dejected and sad n angry too....help please ...as always... thanks

[Galina Shibileva]

Sneha, hi...

law of attraction is working, you can see it by yourself... and to reply your query, I will just say, go back to the basis of the law- you create what you decide to create with your thoughts and feelings and beliefs... HOW YOU FEEL IS A CHOICE YOU MAKE...

Your friends can't make you feel down no matter what they do, it's you that bring those things in your mind.

There's no good or bad, there're only different perceptions of different people...

How you feel is up to you to decide, just decide that no matter what, you feel good... You have to take responsability of what happens in your life and of your thoughts.

You create your own reality...nobody else does...

Love to you sweetie...

[sneha]

thnx galina,
but y am i not able to manifest this relationship with the guy i ove...evrytime i see things are becomin gud...the next day he telle me he likes a girl and as we r rguf frnds he tells me the details........ofcourse he doesn knw i like him..........n this pattern has happnd atleast 3 times in the last 4 months...what i undertsnd is iam doin smthin wrong that iam not abl to manifest a loving romantic relationship with him....but im not able to figure what is that wrong.........

[Shikha]

Hi Sneha

so let's see, you asked why you are not able to manifest a relationship with this man? the answer is simple..it's because you are thinking too much about the WHY! what's wrong is that you are being needy and clingy. when you start holding on to something or someone so tightly it will start repelling. you said that you will be completely broken if this manifestation doesn't happen, so essentially, what your saying is that this person is the deciding factor to your happiness. i must let you know that you've already set yourself up for a disaster.

do you even know if he likes you romantically at all? has he given you any signs of it? if he's telling you about a girl he likes which is obviously making you feel uncomfortable then maybe you need to keep some distance from him. love yourself before you love anyone else and have a healthy respect for the person you are Sneha.

god bless xxxx

[Andrew Wilkie]

Although this colleague might be the best. What you want in a relationship are the qualities that this colleague has. Not the colleague himself.  If he is the 'best' for you, he will come to you.  Maybe you're picking up on things that you don't like about him, that could be keeping you from him.

If you don't want to be lonely, what do you want to be instead. That is what you need to start focusing on.

What prevents you from keeping hold of a good relationship.

Dejected very often comes from a feeling of being under valued. Stop being around for them so much.  If your friends don't get in contact with you, not really worth having. There are so many people out there who could be your friends.

You are already focusing on failing with this 'lovely man'. - Expect to feel sad and angry.

Have you felt any of these emotions before and with whom and where?

I'd say start using EFT to release these emotions. -

What is EFT - http://www.eftmagic.com/blog/training/what-is-eft-emotional-freedom-technique/

How To Do EFT - http://www.eftmagic.com/blog/training/what-is-eft-emotional-freedom-technique/

How To Do EFT Daily - http://www.eftmagic.com/blog/training/what-is-eft-emotional-freedom-technique/

Since you have used so many emotional words in your writing, I think this would be right up your street.

Find a pictures of the kind or relationships and friends that you really want to have. Put them up on your vision board.

Stop worrying about the 'Hows is it going to happen.  Just let it happen.

[sneha]

hi shikha, thhnx for ur valuabl inuts but im disappointed n  confused too.i mean we say if we want smthin we shld feel the energy n have postive thgts abt it but i didnt understandy u askd me to maintain distance wid dis guy.....we only desire things or want  manifestations of wht we dont have n want....im very positive abt the relationship cos though he hasnt said nethin romantic i can feel a lot of positivity....n my heart says its all for gud....i po
ositivel n have been really grateful for all the good things in my li

fe nive seen things becomin all the more better n  we had this lovelyweek together at office....imagine all my co workers in my cabin were at leave  (this all happnd aftr the positive thgts n visualisations) and we shared quite a gud time with him tellin me a lot abt himself and i think we ve grown closer....jus waitin for the dawhn i can write im committed to him on thispost....pls tell me more abt the confusioni askd......really value ur efforts n suggestions....thnx a ton

[Shikha]

Hi Sneha your welcome

if you are feeling a positive energy with regard to your manifestation then what is it that you can't figure out? i did ask you to maybe keep some distance from the man since he mentioned something about another girl to you. i feel that is troubling you so that's why i suggested to have some space in between. you are absolutely right about maintaining a positive attitude towards your desire but do remember not to obsess over it. being positive about a certain thing does not equal to obsessing about it. keep in mind that the more positive you feel about yourself the more of that comes your way. have patience and don't get caught up with the WHYs and the HOWs!!!

god bless xxxx

[sneha]

hey shikha,
Thnx a lot.apologise for not understndin y u askd to maintain distance but i re read ur post n thn understood tht u r actually helpin me manifest a lovely relationship without the negativity of the girl he talks abt affectin me.
Also the answer to what imnot abl to figure out is thti posted my question before i strtd visualisinn thinkin positively in this regard but as soon as posted i re read ur n othr moderators thoughts n strtd beinpositive which helped.thnks a lot n pls keep inculcatin positive thoughts in us.ur positivity helps a lot...love u all...pls tell me if u have more inputs...i really value dem

[Shikha]

Sneha

your very welcome! we love you as well sweetie i'm happy to know that you feeling a positive energy about the situation. keep us posted.

god bless xxxx

[Andrew Wilkie]

Sneha,

Do you notice what you are focusing on? That is what is coming to you.

[sneha]

hi all,
I hopeyou are all doing  good are happy manifesting  .

well its been some time that i wrote on this post of mine.I trult beleive in the LOA and know that feeling good always works wonders and who wants to be sad....but my issues  still persist.i still have the same problem....i make very cloose friends easily but after some time they start taking me for granted and give me no real importance.i understand that my life is my own responsibility and iam taking accountability for it too but the ground reality is that not much has changed for me.
Even the relationship i wanted to manifest with this guy i have been talkin in my previous posts has gone from friends to very good friends sharin evry thin abt life ...to now he taking me for granted and in fact not even  acknowledgin our strong bond.
i come home from work everyday thinkin positive thoughts, being grateful for what i have and hoping the next day will  bring me the happiness and my desires manifested.but frankly speaking i have lost my patience ....how long will i be in this vicious cycle and move no where...inspite of knowing and beleiving tht thoughts and feelings create our life....after all this i no longer have the zeal....the happy feeling is not comin to me .....though i have tried makin my self happy....please  help.......
i want a happy life......with cordial relationships wid frnds and a lovely relatioship with this oh so lovely  guy friend.


love and positivity to all.......

[schenderson22]

Hi Sneha,

I understand where you are coming from.  Life can be difficult at times.  I know you and I have responded to some of the same posts.  A couple quick questions.  1.) Do you have a vision board? 2) How is your gratitude list?  If all that is in place, I recently purchased a dvd called The Tapping Solution.  It's about EFT.  I watched it and have been trying to practice the technique often.  It seems to be working.  I loaned it to my grandfather.  You may want to check it out.

http://www.thetappingsolution.com/get-the-dvd.php

Talk soon!

[sneha]

hi friends,
Well i am posting something on this forum after a long time , but i log in and browse here almost every day.
Iam a firm beleiver of LOA  and have manifested a lot  of things.
It so happened that i got a call for a job opening , i went and got selected in all the rounds...they said they will send me the salary structure and then will have a client introductory round after whci they shall send me  the complete offer letter.I was happy , but it's been a lot of days and everyday they tell me they will get in touch soon.I don't know whythis is happening to me.I was almost certain and positive that this jobis mine, i stillbeleive this......Please help.....this makes me tense at times.....i keep on thinking abt why...me...

[schenderson22]

Congratulations.  Just when you really start to doubt is when the salary structure will arrive.  Hang in there.  It will be there soon!!! Keep me updated.