Diifulty manifesting

[sneha]

hi Moderators,
iam a firm beleiver in LOA but unfortunately i havent ben able to achieve anything big using it .i do visualisations, i try to be happy and practise gratitude from my heart but can u pls expain y iam facing so many probs?
like today i had an interview ( iam jobless for over an year now )  , i was very happy and firmly beleived this job was mine. all my rounds went super good and i strtd to think what all goodies iam gonna buy whn i get my first pay check now but just at tht time they announced another round which i cldn fare nicely n so cldn get the job.

also my bf of 4 years suddenly strtd sayin from the last 6 months that he has no interest in me n he doesn love me...i have always pitured  us happy n tried to feel joyous but the thing is how can i be happy whn iam lookin for happiness frm him n he doesn love me?

i am just failin in evrthin in life...pls help me.....


sneha

[Galina Shibileva]

Sneha,

you look feeling pretty down...   

I used to be in the same situation and things started changing very quickly...when I changed the way I was seeing the world and the way I was talking and thinking of my situation.

EVERY PROBLEM IS AN OPPORTUNITY!

  1. for your job seeking, you should start from making a list of what you want it to be - funny collegues, comprehensive boss, the name of the company you want be working for, the salary you want etc, the most specific possible....
 It is very important to be cristal clear on what you want.

Give some time to the Universe creating a void for your wish.  You never know what must happen so you can get a free place... Never forget that the Universe is abundance, it's absolutely full of opportunities and possibilities...it's just that sometimes we don't see them because we are staying stuck on our past bad experiences and our closed mind...

 2. about your love life....it's quite the same, more you  feel confused and "waiting" , worse it's becoming... You should make a list of the qualities you want your boyfriend to have, the way he looks, the way he behaves...Be clear on what man you want to be with you! And believe me, he will find you by himself!
 You need to love yourself first so other people can love you. Take the time to make a list of what you're good in, like - I'm looking good, I'm a perfect friend, I'm a positive person, I drive carefully, I give a lot of love, My cloths are always chosen with a good taste, I'm generous etc... Then read it many times, see those qualities in you, and tell yourself : I deserve a better life, I deserve to be loved, I deserve happiness, health and prosperity!

You need to feel good and gratefull of what you have already - you have home, friends, family? You're not starving, neither thirsty,  you're not naked, you are not having an incurable desease?

Life has so much to give you, so much to offer, it's just that you need to open your heart , STOP feeling miserable and repeating negative things that become reality... Create your own reality as you want it to be by staying positive!
Watch your thoughts every minutes, chaise the bad and replace it with good thoughts. Write everything  down with details.

If it doesn't manifest, it's because you have for sure an emotional blockage - you didn't forgive to your boyfriend and to yourself... 

Start by appreciating what you have already, write your desires, and then repeat them morning and evening with all the Faith you can find in you. If you want it to manifest, you must feel that it's here already. You have to feel greateful for the job you already have, for the lovefull relationship you already have!

Feel free to ask more if this is not clear enough...

Bless you!!

[Sneha Kulkarni]

galina

The way you have explained, i am sure sneha will get those vibes while reading it. because when i read it felt so pure and nice.


sneha

[Galina Shibileva]

Sneha, you are so sweet!!!   

Thank you!! I really hope that helped...

[sneha]

thnx galia,
u knw wht? im so thnkful to u n the universe.....i got a call 2 days later from the company sayin that they wntd me to join.....and for the round i cldn fare nicely...they 'l gimme training for tht ............

tmmrw i have to do the joining formalities...i hope everythin will go as nicely as a cake walk...... ( u can notice my smilies have turned from sad to happy

i want to say 1 thing galia and other moderators u ppl r doin a wonderful job cos its very easy to shell out our problems but it takes a lot to read/ listen to some 1's prob n give them a solution fil of hopes......
kudos to u guys...galia.love u sweety.....
i hope to get in contact with my bf soon...u r right no matter how hard i try i havent forgiven him yet n have a constant chat in my mind as if talkin to him n makin him realize how he left me after those promises....
i will try again to be positive cos deep down under i knw i love him........n he loves me too.....
thnx evry 1 n thnx universe for  givin me the strength n directions to move positive in li

[Galina Shibileva]

Sneha,

I'm very HAPPY for you!!!!

The very important thing is to stay positive nevermind what is happening in the material reality!

When you wake up in the morning, just say " Thank you Universe for the wonderful day you offered me! Today is a HUGE day!"

You need to remain positive so you keep the job definitely! See it's a miracle   in this stuck economy and YOU DID IT!!!

Great, girl, now GO FOR ALLYOUR LIFE THAT WAY!

Universe is an abundace! Just ask and believe it's given....   

[Sneha Kulkarni]

hey sneha thats great.
I am sure you are on you way to create much more lovely things in your life

[sneha]

hi Galia,
well im tahnkful for ur previous inputs and as you know i manifested my dream job using them.but unfortunately i havent been able to manifest much in my love life.
as i said earlier my boy friend n me r on n off for quite a few months now.he jus says he need his "own time" kinda thing.he works on cruise ship so it is not possible for me to call him, he used to call earlier but this on this contract  he has called me only two times in months n that too for very formal talks.

i dont want to fight n ask him to call me n talk instead i want to manifest the lovin relationship we had.earlier we always talked abt marriage n stuff so i don understnd what has changed him so much now.i love himand i knw he loves me too.....i try to imagine being with him n receivinlove n lovin him too but whn he doesn call for so mnay days i become sad n angry , also evn if he does call he doesn talk the stuff i want...i mean abt the relationship n romance n marriage........i dont use affirmations cos i feel as if it s task n iam not able to put in feelings in to it......pls help me.....i knw LOa can make it happen but  y is it not happenin......i want my love bck..pls  save me

[Galina Shibileva]

Hey,

check this here, it's something you can find usefull on your questions:

http://www.powerlawofattraction.com/forum/how-to-use-law-of-attraction/loa-steps/new/?topicseen#new

If you have another queries after we are here!

Bless you!

[sneha]

hi Galia,
I went thru the link that u sent in the last post.welli have a doubt regarding the matching of vibrations for two individuals to get together.i'l take my own example.i want to be with my ex back again but he doesnt so we r both at different vibrational frequencies , right?
if i want to be on his frequency then  i will have to be negative like him so how does this solve my problem?
the second scenario wld be to make hinm positive but that is not possible cosi cant htink for him.......
dunno im abit confused...im attractin small things makin me realize that LOA is wrkin for me but the only area where i ve had no desired results is my relationship with my bf.......

please help with ur valuable insights.

Thanks ,
Sneha

[Galina Shibileva]

Sneha,

you can't force the person to love you and to be on the same vibrations as you. Law of Attraction is not a black magic spell....

I recommend you to read the reply here :

 http://www.powerlawofattraction.com/forum/law-of-attraction-for-relationship/still-in-love-with-ex-boyfriend/


This person is in almost the same situation as you and the solution is the same... Read this and we disscus further.

Blessings and light!

[Galina Shibileva]

here is one good link, Priya wrote that, it may help!

http://www.powerlawofattraction.com/law-of-attraction-in-action/relationship/how-to-attract-a-perfect-relationship-using-law-of-attraction/

[sneha]

hi Galia,
good post from priya.i guess helpful .

well i wasn't able to open the link u sent prior to this one.

also iam expereincin difficulties acessing the forum site as a  lot of time  it says " please check ur cookie settings."i did delete the cookies but the problem persists.
in the interest of eveyone on this forum it would be gud if the technical team can help us  out.

Regards,
sneha

[Ankur Sancheti]

Dear Sneha,

Sorry for the Inconvenience caused. All you have to do is, to clear your Cookies and cache.

Its the best solutions. I assume you are using Internet Explorer, then follow the link below:

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http://www.microsoft.com/windows/ie/ie6/using/howto/customizing/clearcache.mspx
Further, do mail me inperson, for all technical issues. At: ankur.sancheti.network@gmail.com

Thanks
Ankur

[sneha]

Hi Galia and other moderators,

well galia im trying to be positive but since my desire of being loved by my estranged bf and our life to be as we wanted is not getting fulfilled iam getting restless , thoughi try my best to be positive but some thing or he pther negative is creeping in  like now my dad wants me to get married and he wants to look for a guy for me.....im so scared cos i have want to get married to the man i love but i have nothin to tell my parents.........
time s slipping from my hands..i dunno wht to do..........all my efforts to stay positive come right in my face whn things like thse happen.........im sorry iam botheing u guys too much.........

Sneha