lost and hopeless

[restingsouls]

Hi all,
I was told about this law sometime back by a friend after i was broken due to a broken engagement. I read the book..watched the movie and have been trying to implement but u know what...it doesn't work..it just doesn't..infact life has been going worse and difficult..so much so that now all i want out of this law(if it works) is to die...I respect all the stories posted here and people who believe in it but tell me isn't it that even in our earlier lives we honestly have wanted stuff but never got it...like all my childhood, all i wanted was just a smile from people around but was hated thoroughly,wanted to do well in acads but from being a topper today i am in the bottom quarter of the class..all i ever ever wanted in life was just few drops of love and it never never happened but rather life has gone from bad to worse each day...i have ended up hating every bit of me and its so damn difficult to live with the person you hate so much...so my sincere feelings..its crap...its all in our destiny...we see law happening just out of our tendency to connect things...

regards

[lilly]

Hi all,
I was told about this law sometime back by a friend after i was broken due to a broken engagement. I read the book..watched the movie and have been trying to implement but u know what...it doesn't work..it just doesn't..infact life has been going worse and difficult..so much so that now all i want out of this law(if it works) is to die...I respect all the stories posted here and people who believe in it but tell me isn't it that even in our earlier lives we honestly have wanted stuff but never got it...like all my childhood, all i wanted was just a smile from people around but was hated thoroughly,wanted to do well in acads but from being a topper today i am in the bottom quarter of the class..all i ever ever wanted in life was just few drops of love and it never never happened but rather life has gone from bad to worse each day...i have ended up hating every bit of me and its so damn difficult to live with the person you hate so much...so my sincere feelings..its crap...its all in our destiny...we see law happening just out of our tendency to connect things...

regards

My feeling is that if you are posting this here it is because you expect someone to convince you that LOA is indeed working and that you can still find hope through it to make a change in your life.

I cannot tell you that it is a 100% that it works and even sometimes I am in a desperate place and lack hope but from my own experience and if I look back honestly, the things I have desired the most they usually manifested in my life and what makes me think that loa has something to do with it is that by the time i had the desire until its manifestation I was coming from a state where it seemed "impossible" and I could not see a way out..
The thing is that it takes time to manifest something you consider really big and it also requires discipline..and by the time your wish manifests, the universe has aligned things so naturally that it almost ( at least for me) feels like a coincidence.

By the tone of your message it seems to me that you are focusing entirely on the negative things that happened to you in your life. It's a tendency that a lot of us have but It is not going to get you anywhere but further into that dark place you're trying to get out of. You should start by making a list of the good things that happened to you!

[Mr positive]

I think you should just take time out to go through the pain process! When you feel better you should try to implement the techniques! You have to come from a place of feeling good before anything good manifests! Plus, I think you should not label anything as good or bad! Take it as a lesson in life! Learn from it and move on to what you really want! You just need to give yourself a break, you beat yourself up to much! Be the person your ex would want if he is truely who you want! I thuink its the opposite! You are truly seeking yourself! Give up on seeking and just let life be! You are a being playing the human role! Gl! on your wonderful journey! Enjoy your stay!

[Vicki Christina]

If you are talking about The Secret book and movie, well there is a lot more.   The people interviewed are all good and have their own books.   You will need to read more and find first some positive things to be grateful for in your life because we can always find people in worse situations.  I mentioned Michael Losier's book, but another book is by Mike Dooley.  I am attaching a video of his from Youtube.   His books are great and motivating!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8x4sVR67wCk

[cleverley1986]

Yeah, but wanting something is only one step.

Ask
Visualise
Receive

Which one of those aren't you doing? Or are you doing wrong?

[dang15]

Release your expectations... the hardest part of attracting is believing that you already have what you seek somewhere at some time.  Time is an illusion made up of space and distance. Everything is happening at once NOW.  Put aside all negatives, see the beauty of life around you, listen to the song of the world no matter how dark it seems.  Try to put away resistance and let go... what you resist, persists.

Remember, if you see your situation as hopeless and negative, that is what you will attract.

I am going to meditate on your problem... I hope others will as well.  Even stronger then the individual LOA is the COLLECTIVE LOA!!!

My wish for you is happiness, peace, and love flowing in your direction... it is already there... just let go and feel it.

[Moonpetal]

Hm.. The way I see it, please correct me if I'm wrong or heading in the wrong direction with this, but the power to attract is in all of us, all the time and has been with us since the beginning but until we learn how to properly use it and direct it to achieve a specific purpose it will just keep manifesting random things... I've had a really, really messed up childhood and so many bad things happened but I strongly believe that if I had the knowledge about LOA sooner I believe I could have avoided a lot of bad situations that have happened.. Childhood traumas and bad situations that happen through life create certain beliefs and a very negative belief system in general and in that case I think the first thing to do before trying to attract anything is to heal yourself.. There is a fantastic book by Louise Hay, I think it's called "How to heal you life" and it's a really helpful tool to recognize, acknowledge and, the most important thing, to release those negative beliefs... Another important thing is to remember that LOA does not mean bad things will not happen but it is a very powerful tool that can help you go through these bad situations and make you stronger and happier. I know how hard it is when you want just a little bit of love and affection and can't seem to get in but the thing is that the first person you have to seek love from is yourself and not those around you.
Once you find it within you and release those negtive beliefs you have you will see a whole new world of opportunites and so many doors will start to open. You feel fresh and renewed and ready to attract whatever it is you want because there are no negative and limiting beliefs inside you..That is the process of healing I am going through right now and can say it is a really amazing trip..

Best of luck and lots of love

[btw]

@restingsouls

Life has dealt you bad cards.