I used LOA to manifest my perfect relationship :)

[jasminestar]

Hi all!
I posted this story in the LOA for Relationships forum not too long ago, and another member, Miracles, suggested that I post over here too, since it might inspire someone. So, here goes!

I was in my first (and to be honest, only) really serious relationship when I was 18, with a wonderful guy. He was my first love.
Things were good with us for about a year until, I'm not sure why, but I started having all these worries and doubts. It was almost as though things were too perfect. As I worried and fretted, we started to disagree more and more, and then to outright argue and fight, over the silliest, least significant things. Of course, the arguing made me more upset and worried, and the more I worried and doubted, the worse things got, until we broke up.
I was devastated, since he was the first guy that I really cared about, and I was distraught over losing him. But the more I wanted him back, the further apart we drifted, until we weren't even friends anymore. We deleted each other off of our social network sites, we both changed our emails and phone numbers, the works.
I never really got over him, but, after studying the law of attraction, I realized my persistent fears over little things were what caused our break up, and my anxiety and loneliness were what drove him away. I didn't want to lose him, but the more I became afraid of losing him, the more I lost him.
So, I forgot about him. Easier said than done, I know. Initially, it was difficult to put him from my mind. My wanting to be with him never stopped, but I realized that I had to learn to let it go before anything good would happen. Even though it was hard, I told the universe my intent to be with him again, and then threw myself into my college studies, not leaving any time for thinking about anything but classes and homework, and definitely not thinking about my ex.
It worked! Less than 2 whole months after declaring my intent to the universe and letting it go, he emailed me. We spoke, and decided to try for a reconciliation.
We've been together for almost 6 months now, and now that I know what went wrong before, I'm sure not to make the same mistakes again.

I hope this can help someone!
Happy manifesting!

[57angel]

Oh wow Jasmine, am so happy for you! You deserve to have the best in love and in life

[Orion]

What a beautiful story

[Miracles]

So for a whole year and a half!
I wonder if you dated anyone else during that time?
And i you had low moments of desperation (when it seemed like it just won't work..) How did you pull yourself back up from these downs?

[dance_in_the_rain]

Wow jasminestar , im hearing the twilight zone theme playing in my head. This is the EXACT thing that happened to me and my ex, except that im still trying to attract him back and nothing is working.

THANK YOU FOR BEING MY ANSWER!!!!!!

[jasminestar]

@Miracles: I did date other people during that time- we both did, actually. But we both felt as though we couldn't really connect with any of the others we dated, so no other serious relationships for either of us.
I did have a few low moments, but when I caught myself thinking negative things, I made myself think of a stop sign, and then I did something that made me feel happy. One thing that I liked to do to be happy was listen to a song that was special to the two of us. That would change my negative thoughts into happy memories. After I did that a few times, it was almost like I trained my mind to not think of those negative things, so it didn't happen anymore.

@dance_in_the_rain: Wow, that's amazing that our stories are so similar! I'm really glad I could help good luck with attracting him back, I'm sure you can do it!

[Sugerplum <3]

Hi jasmine ur story is too good to hear..its really a inspiring one for everyone around here.. happy for u.. I wish more love and joy on ur way..

[jasminestar]

@Mahi_loving: thanks so much!  I'm glad it was inspiring!

[kins 9]

Hi all!
I posted this story in the LOA for Relationships forum not too long ago, and another member, Miracles, suggested that I post over here too, since it might inspire someone. So, here goes!


I hope this can help someone!
Happy manifesting!

hey your story is really inspiring...
i think all we need is to hold on , be calm nd have faith that he/she will be with us forever

[TARA]

heyyyyyyy...Im so happy 4 u.....the same story had happened to me....im with my ex only after 2 month lettin go of those feelings of not havin him....now thank to LOA i know how to behave,think n feel...goooood luck

[Grateful Sunshine :)]

hi jasmine star..
i can totally relate to your story..my love my guy is back with me after 1 mnth of separation.
Can you plz let me know what are you exactly doing now to maintain that perfect relationship as am having troubles doing this.
Please!!

[SilverSoul]

I just found this story and I wanted to say , it's the cloesest one to my case , and it's really inspiring for me thank you