Got my gf back :)

[lovemeback]

hello folks. a few days ago i posted a thread to someone help me get my ex back. i felt awful first week. then i tried , i really tried to feel good. i prayed every day, keep talking to myself that she loves me and that she will beg me for forgivness ( she cheated) but i love her with all my heart. anyway last night i had a dream about her, it was so real. i thought , it must mean something. so this evening i wrote a facebook message telling her about it. i was amazed that she even responded. and said she had a dream about me and then the smiles came. and she came to me. from another house, from another person, saying she cant stand it there and how much she misses me. we will go really slow now, not to make mistakes..

anyway i'm not sure if that was LOA or what have i done but i surely done something, trying to be positive and think positive thoughts even when it's really hard. so believe it. i thought it would take months. since 14. 2 she left. now she is back.. good luck everyone.. do whatever technique u want, is it MPS, LOA , EFT, whatever. but in my experience, no contact does not work, it doesnt matter if it's your fault or not, women dont know what they want sometimes and they have their pride set high..so if u want someone back u can't just wait to fall in your hands.. just my suggestion. happy vibes everyone .

[balasus]

Hi Lovemeback,

congratulations!!!!!
Hope everything works out for you and your girlfriend like you askes at the Universe.

One sidenote to your "statement" about no contact, in my case the no contact worked.  So my guess is that it's different for everyone.  Every "case" is unique and some will need a no contact period, other will need contact.

But most important is that you are back with your girl ;-)
ENJOY!!!

much love,
Balasus

[beautifuldreamer]

So happy for you. I think it all depends no contact vs contact, it is always good to just go with what feels good to you.

[onlyhappiness]

Thats great news!!! So happy for you

[lovemeback]

yes, it really depends of a person. thank you all very much and good luck in getting whatever your desire is.

[malicexmirage]

@Balasus: would you share to us how the no-contact happened to you? I'd be glad to hear that

on the 'no contact' part, i think it depends on the kind of situation, just like mine, i've tried (almost 6months attempt) several attempts to make contact before i knew LOA & other stuff, and it just seemed like i was desperate and that made him scared and very uncomfortable,.now im in the state of sit-back-and-relax-see-if-he-will-try-to-talk-to-you. honestly i don't know how am i gonna do it  for us to get in contact/get back once more, i am just affirming every single day that he's coming back, and that im giving him the time & space that he wanted to have,like he's still my bf even though i barely remember the structure of his face now time has passed,i honestly don't know but im sure i am only for my happiness..someone who would cuddle me in bed & say I Love You forevermore in the last stages of our lives.

[Detached&Allowing]

That is wonderful news! thank you for sharing.  Just remember to forgive her in your heart for all that she has done.  (you don't have to tell her, just keep it with you)  Remember to forgive her for all that she may or may not do.  Forgiveness is key.

lots of love and the very best of LOA to you!

hello folks. a few days ago i posted a thread to someone help me get my ex back. i felt awful first week. then i tried , i really tried to feel good. i prayed every day, keep talking to myself that she loves me and that she will beg me for forgivness ( she cheated) but i love her with all my heart. anyway last night i had a dream about her, it was so real. i thought , it must mean something. so this evening i wrote a facebook message telling her about it. i was amazed that she even responded. and said she had a dream about me and then the smiles came. and she came to me. from another house, from another person, saying she cant stand it there and how much she misses me. we will go really slow now, not to make mistakes..

anyway i'm not sure if that was LOA or what have i done but i surely done something, trying to be positive and think positive thoughts even when it's really hard. so believe it. i thought it would take months. since 14. 2 she left. now she is back.. good luck everyone.. do whatever technique u want, is it MPS, LOA , EFT, whatever. but in my experience, no contact does not work, it doesnt matter if it's your fault or not, women dont know what they want sometimes and they have their pride set high..so if u want someone back u can't just wait to fall in your hands.. just my suggestion. happy vibes everyone .

[57angel]

Congratulations Lovemeback! Thank you for sharing this inspiring story of when we ask, believe, we will then receive what we ask for

[hellokiki]

Congratulations!!!!!  This is wonderful news

[balasus]

The no contact was there because she had someone else and didn't want to speak, hear or see me anymore.  That were her exact words.
I send some cards though but never got any response.  So I stopped trying to make contact with her.  And look now, we are back together.

Nobody wants a desperate person.  So avoid making contact when you are desperate. 
I asked the Universe to create a situation that she would see me, having fun with my friends.  And one day I went to a soccer game with some friends and we had lots of fun.  After the game I looked behind me, and she was sitting 2 rows behind me.  At that point my fun was finished but, hey the game was done :-)
Even though I crashed afterwards, she saw me having fun.  And that's what is important.

much love,
Balasus

@Balasus: would you share to us how the no-contact happened to you? I'd be glad to hear that

on the 'no contact' part, i think it depends on the kind of situation, just like mine, i've tried (almost 6months attempt) several attempts to make contact before i knew LOA & other stuff, and it just seemed like i was desperate and that made him scared and very uncomfortable,.now im in the state of sit-back-and-relax-see-if-he-will-try-to-talk-to-you. honestly i don't know how am i gonna do it  for us to get in contact/get back once more, i am just affirming every single day that he's coming back, and that im giving him the time & space that he wanted to have,like he's still my bf even though i barely remember the structure of his face now time has passed,i honestly don't know but im sure i am only for my happiness..someone who would cuddle me in bed & say I Love You forevermore in the last stages of our lives.

[t.harshil]

so nice to hear that!!!
congrats...

[simplyjess]

Congratz! Thank you for sharing, you just made my day even better =)

[malicexmirage]

yeah, I agree, that was a great story keeps me motivated,..I was like you,. mine is like more desperate than you were before,. right now i stopped contacting,. Im trying to relax myself from the emotional chaos, w/ the techniques around it's actually overwhelming if you should use this or that,. in the end, i ended up just thinking of nothing but telling universe that I only want to be happy though i still feel he's my soulmate i feel so connected to him while im doing my own thing.,i've been reading self-help books, I want to ask universe, like yours, a certain cenario where he'd see me happy and taking care of myself w/o him,that he would be longing for me more than ever. who knows it might work and we'd get back together

The no contact was there because she had someone else and didn't want to speak, hear or see me anymore.  That were her exact words.
I send some cards though but never got any response.  So I stopped trying to make contact with her.  And look now, we are back together.

Nobody wants a desperate person.  So avoid making contact when you are desperate. 
I asked the Universe to create a situation that she would see me, having fun with my friends.  And one day I went to a soccer game with some friends and we had lots of fun.  After the game I looked behind me, and she was sitting 2 rows behind me.  At that point my fun was finished but, hey the game was done :-)
Even though I crashed afterwards, she saw me having fun.  And that's what is important.

much love,
Balasus

@Balasus: would you share to us how the no-contact happened to you? I'd be glad to hear that

on the 'no contact' part, i think it depends on the kind of situation, just like mine, i've tried (almost 6months attempt) several attempts to make contact before i knew LOA & other stuff, and it just seemed like i was desperate and that made him scared and very uncomfortable,.now im in the state of sit-back-and-relax-see-if-he-will-try-to-talk-to-you. honestly i don't know how am i gonna do it  for us to get in contact/get back once more, i am just affirming every single day that he's coming back, and that im giving him the time & space that he wanted to have,like he's still my bf even though i barely remember the structure of his face now time has passed,i honestly don't know but im sure i am only for my happiness..someone who would cuddle me in bed & say I Love You forevermore in the last stages of our lives.

[chrissy8907]

I really needed to read this today I totally attracted it and positive energy your way