Forgiveness and Clearing Space

[themoneypoems]

This victory/success story concerns an intangible gain. Last night, as I read through Raymond Holliwell's Working with the Law, I genuinely forgave a family member that abandoned me. I have carried hurt and resentment toward this person for 20+ years.

Last night, I finally let go. I no longer need him to be anything more than he is able to be in my life. And, I moved myself back to that space wherein I truly love him unconditionally. Yay!

Then, tonight, a friend shared with me her plans for graduation from nursing school. She described in great detail how she has prepared for graduation: submitting her graduation application, purchasing her cap, gown and tassel, paying her graduation fees, ordering and mailing invitations, securing the pin for her pinning ceremony, etc. As she explained the 'work' that was being done to graduate, I realized that, in essence, she was preparing for her good. She has not finished classes yet (and has not officially passed or graduated) but she is preparing for her good. Even though she is concerned about her grade in one course, she said that all the preparation made it feel so real.

I deliberately highlighted the word preparation. A key component of making LOA work is preparation. Begin preparing a space for your good even before it arrives. So, tonight, instead of working on the marketing for The Money Poems, I am going to prepare for the next house I am purchasing.

Have a good night.

Prosperously yours,
Denise Allen
Author/Curator, The Money Poems

[Andrew Wilkie]

Great story,

I also know this as the Universal Vacuum Law. i.e. you need to make space for what you want to come into your life.

I'll assume it is one your Vision Board etc and you've written about what you want in your new home.

i.e. New House - if it is for you to move into.

Pack Your Bags.
Ruthlessly go through your wardrobe, dump old clothes and shoes.
Contact estate agents
Get rid of old gadget etc.
Clean out the garage
Practice writing out your new address.
Get address of gas company etc. So you can ring them up to tell them you are moving.

New Relationship.

Get rid of all old reminder of old partners.
Make space in your wardrobe for his/clothes.
Sleep on one side of the bed.
Make space of their car.

New Job

Tidy your desk
Write your letter of resignation.
Actually apply for new jobs.
Update your CV.

[themoneypoems]

I love it Andrew! Those are wonderful suggestions. Tomorrow, I am going to look at houses in a neighborhood that I am considering moving to! And, I am looking at several beautiful mini-mansions!

Denise

[Andrew Wilkie]

That's fab!!

From my own experience. Notice what you notice as you look around the areas and the mansions. If you want write down your feelings and any self doubts you have about owning and living in such a property and area. Then you can clear them.  EFT is how I do it.

Next book a viewing or 3 with agents.  They know not everybody is going to buy a house/mansion. Yet, I think it really helps. It means you are getting serious about wanting to move, even if you can't afford it, yet.

I had 3 viewings at an apartment which I affectionately call "Wilkie Towers". I videoed it and everything.

It was soul destroying to have to actually admit to myself I couldn't afford after I had seen it for the 3rd time. 

Yet, it just means I have some more work to do on myself and I'm letting the universe know I'm serious about wanting something like this or better.

It's pictures are currently on my vision board film, that I watch almost twice everyday.  It is just a matter of time before I move into it or somewhere better.

[Sneha Kulkarni]

hey andrew!!

jusst love what you write. I would like to know how to attract a specific job . I have already worked for the company for 6 months and now want to get back to it
once again.... as per my practice i have written down all what i want as if i am already there ,have written down every detail.Even kept my resignation letter ready for
my current company:) would you advice anything else??


sneha

[Andrew Wilkie]

Sneha,

Thanks. I'm just on the journey like us all here. I've just done what I now realise to be a hell of a lot of work on getting to where I am. I've read and watched lots of stuff to help me. Still do.

Thankfully now I'm actually applying some of it, even if it is haphazardly done. Oh and I've done and do lots of EFT to help me.

Yet, even I still have stuff to do. I still see and get told things I don't like or agree with. I'd say take everything I say and do with a pinch of salt. You'll know what works best for you and in which order.

So...to the Job

What prevents you from just handing in your resignation letter right now? Yeah, I know a massive amount of fear, safety and security. Trust me, I've been there. I quit my last job with nothing to go to. Others around thought I was crazy. No actually, there were more afraid of what they would lose, i.e. my rent cheque! Not the fact that I was deeply unhappy. Don't get me wrong, I got the job I asked for. I just didn't like or more correctly specify everything in enough detail to make it one I really enjoyed.

Is it the job that you want? Or what the job gave you, i.e. good feelings, value, worth, friendship?

You might find it really useful to do the following and answer this:

What is important to me in my career/business/job?

Write down your answers, keep going until you start repeating yourself. Your "real" things will only start to appear after about 7 or 8 items. Then when done. Say why they are important to you.

Any don't wants, can'ts, must, needs,shouldn't i.e. anything negative you need to clear up. What would be there total opposite?

Have you asked your old work, if there are any jobs going? What prevents you from just phoning up for a chat to find out?

If we're going on this whole cleaning thing, tidy up/out your desk. Clear old files away. Delete things of your computer that you don't need. What loose ends could you tie up this week, so that if you got the call, you could leave today and start at your new place tomorrow?

Have you told others you are looking for a new job? They may know somebody who knows somebody etc.

Any thing on your vision board? Are you able to walk or travel past your old work to get to your current work. It would be interesting to notice what you feel. Desperation, frustration, longing or maybe determination?  If not do it on a weekend or something.

Remember if you don't get this job, it just means that something bigger and better is around the corner.

[Sneha Kulkarni]

hi
thanks andrew for your suggestion. yes i pass by the buliding very often an say to myself i am going to be here soon! have written down every detail of what i am looking out for , and to tell you have already spoken to the head out there he has told me incase an opening comes up he will surely let me know.. but i think its not incase for me i am sure shot i have to create one opening by myself, have colleagues who are also trying to get me back. would you suggest anything more ?.

[Andrew Wilkie]

Sneha,

One thing that popped in your writing was, you're using the future tense. I'm going to be. i.e. going to be.

What would happen if you started saying, I'm now working here. Or it is X (date), I'm now working here.

What emotions come up when you walk past the building, do you go yippee. or sign or something else.

Take everything that you like about this place and work. What if there was somewhere else that had all these things. Currently you're saying universe, I like this, this, and this and the ONLY place I can get it is here. That is because it is the only place that you know where all this exists.

[Sneha Kulkarni]

hi Andrew,

I dont understand something is why should one always write this or something better.. is it  not like confusing the universe.. we are here to fulfill our desire if we have something in specific
why should one compromise by the telling the universe this or something better.


sneha
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[Andrew Wilkie]

Sneha,

You write this or something better because you don't want to limit yourself and the universe.  The universe can easily deliver everything that you want. Yet, what if it wanted to give you more? Would you go..sorry, no I've got everything I want..pass me over?

That is lack programming. i.e. If you have something, somebody else has to miss out. No, never. There are so many ways to get what you want.

What if you wanted a car with A,B,C and in red. Yes ask for a red on but, if the universe said here is a black one with A,B,C,D,E,F for the same or less money, would you still say no thanks?

Interesting point, but what you put up on your vision board in my own experience tends to manifest itself over my writing.  Yet, I do both.

When I was looking for my 1st dream car, I got all the brochures, and thought one in particular in red was just fabulous. It was a limited edition and it had all the bells and whistles. I also wrote about the colour red too, but not all the extras.

Then I went travelling for a year and saw a silver version. I thought this one was the one I wanted. I put a copy of a silver version on my pc as the wall paper.

I kid you not, the day came I was at the garage and there was a silver one and a red one next to each other. I looked at both. Yes,the grey was cheaper, but had more miles on the clock. I looked over the red one, less miles on the clock, slightly more expensive.  I went for the red one. It just seemed nicer, I knew I was about to do lots of miles.

It was only when I got home with my new dream car, did I realise that this was the red, limited edition, all singing all dancing one that I first wanted.

Could I be any happier with my car...hell no, but I do know what the upgrade will be!