A success story about attracting a specific person

[ava]

Hi guys i found this wonderful success story in(www.powerfulintentions.org).it's a long post,but useful....................Hi all! Well I haven't posted here since it first switched over from the Secret forum...but...I had to share this story with you all, especially those wanting to attract a specific person into their lives! I can tell you, it does work and yes you can! This is going to be a long post, I hope you're ready. But I think it'll be worth the read for those of you looking for hope.

Back early last year I had started seeing a guy I was REALLY into. In fact, I felt like he WAS the perfect guy for me. I had met him online and we chatted and emailed for a year before we finally met in person. So things were great when we first started seeing each other, but, having had many bad dating experiences before him, I was very untrusting and insecure and eventually I pushed him away because of it. In fact, I ended up writing him quite an insulting email filled with a lot of assumptions and accusations.

He was shocked at the email I wrote, and told me I was wrong about him. He was very polite in his response to me, but decided it was best to end all communication from that point forward.

Realizing how stupid I was in the things I said (all of them unfounded!) I tried desperately to get him back! I tried everything from emails of apology, to occasional short messages to him just hoping for a response. I only ever received one response back, and that was a simple email telling me he felt he was making the right decision to end communication. After that....nothing! I sent him a small gift along with another apology, he sent it back. Can you say desperate?! Yes, I was doing everything wrong!

So...I spent months thinking about this guy, wishing I hadn't screwed things up so badly, wanting a second chance, looking for answers to help me get him back. In fact, while I had heard of the Secret before, I never took it seriously until this moment when I found there was something I REALLY wanted! I searched for answers, and I found them in LOA. I started reading the Secret forums and found soooo much help and comfort in them.

I started meditating, I tried RS, I wrote the lists, I began writing in the gratitude journal, I wrote letters to God, asking for a second chance, believing I would get one, and expressing my thanks for all that I had and would have, knowing what I asked for would come to me. I would tell myself "I'm going to marry this man". I would visualize us together, happy, affectionate, having fun, even getting married. I did it all...for months!

When I first started doing these things...I had a very strong feeling my story with this guy was not over. And for some strange reason I kept thinking I would hear from him around his birthday...and decided that was the time I would try to get in touch with him again and just see what happens.

Well after months of trying all of these methods...nothing happened. I didn't see him, I didn't hear from him. The only signs I had were that I'd see his name everywhere!

Eventually I told myself I was crazy to continue...and decided I had to let go and move on with my life. Now this letting go wasn't related to anything to do with trying to get him back. I just decided for my own sanity I had to. And obviously all the effort I had put into focusing on getting back together with him was doing nothing for me but causing me more paind, because I couldn't let go and I couldn't stop thinking about him as long as I was doing these things every day.

So eventually I just let go, moved on, and started seeing other people. I started dating again. Met a few guys I liked but knew none of them were "the one"...even though when I met them I had hopes that they would be. And after the end of every one of these short relationships I would think back to this guy...and think to myself "he was the one".

His birthday was a few months ago...and at the time I was seeing another guy...having many ups and downs and trying so hard to make a relationship work that deep down I knew was going nowhere. Then one day, I signed into my MSN....and there he was! I was shocked! Normally I'd jump at the opportunity to talk to him! Especially after all that time. But for some reason I held back. I felt unsure and I was still in the process of another relationship, still in it's early stages, and trying to make it work. So I hesitated, and didn't go on to talk to him. I watched...and a few days later he was on again. I thought he had long ago removed me from his msn! Again...I didn't talk to him. Part of me was still shocked he was there, part of me wondered why he was there, and part of me felt if I just jumped at the opportunity to talk to him again, I'd be acting desperate like I was before...and I didn't want to start that feeling all over again.

Well...I kept thinking about him...still having not talked to him. And I noticed he had stopped showing up online. Then I thought to myself "Oh no! This is exactly what you asked for and the Universe delivered...and now you've blown it!" I kept thinking about him...and then I relaxed and thought I'd send him an ecard for his birthday...after all, what have I got to lose? I also was not thinking about getting back together with him at the time...because I was still seeing someone else. So I was still detached from the outcome.

I sent him the card, and sure enough he came online that night. And from there we started talking again! He didn't know I was seeing anyone and I didn't tell him, but we were just talking like old times, like old friends. Well, a couple months later, after trying very hard at the relationship I was in, I finally broke up with the guy I was seeing. I had no expectations of dating anyone afterwards. In fact, I had decided I just needed a break and was going to focus on me for awhile and forget about dating,

Funny how things come to you when you're least expecting them. 3 weeks after my break up, this guy...this wonderful man who I spent months pining over, invites me over out of nowhere! We have just started seeing each other again and it's even better than the first time! I am excited, but keeping my head this time, allowing myself to be patient, and allowing myself to feel secure and just BELIEVE. I truly believe the most important key to all of this is the last step....letting go and detaching from the outcome and just letting God/the Universe do their work.

I smile to myself every day...and marvel at the power of the Universe to deliver exactly what we desire. And still I tell myself..."I'm going to marry this man".

[Sweet Spirit]

Thank you Ava. Reading your post really made me smile. Your gut instinct knew it was not over and it was right! letting go is definitely the key! It doesn't mean you changed your mind about wanting him back, but letting go allowed the universe/God to take your desire, work on it, fix it, then return your desire to you better than it was before. Things DO happen for a reason; don't they?

Lets say you have a car that is broken. Are you going to hold on to that broken car, or are you going let go of it and to take it to a repairman to have it fixed so he can return it to you in a working condition? You're going to let go of; right? Its like a broken relationship. Relationships break up because they are broken and need fixing. If we still hold on tightly to an old relationship after it has been broken, how are we going to have it fixed? by letting go; that's how. Letting go of the tight grasp we have on old broken relationships enables the universe (or repairman) to fix it so the universe (or repairman) can return it back to us as good as new. That's what you did Ava, and now that relationship is working better than before; good as new. Just like my relationship with Ken. He left me a year ago yesterday. I held on tightly to that old broken relationship for several weeks. Then I let go to ease the pain of him leaving me and let the universe/God fix it and it was repaired and returned to me even better than before.

To those of you who want to attract an ex back:
LET GO! It works wonders!!

Thanks for sharing Ava!!

Much love and many blessings to you and your "good as new" relationship 

[ava]

thank you dear sweet for your reply.that is not my success story.i just found it in another website and i just shared it with you all.i hope i post MY SUCCESS STORY so soon,cause i want my ex back too

[ava]

my situation is very different.i wrote about it before.....i try my best to let go of my negative feelings,like the writer of this success story did....i was in a loving,romantic relationship and my guy loved me so much.but he had some personal problems(familial)and he had not any job.he got depression and thought he did not deserve me and i deserve a better person.he had self-image problem.he left me 2years ago....i did not give up.i learned about LOA and tried it.he contacted me after 5-6 months and we were in contact for almost 6 months.every thing was wonderful,but my fears of losing him again was deep inside me...so every thing fell apart again.we were in no contact for 8-9 months!!!in this period i joined this forum.i learned a lot from all of you specially DHAYNES,SWEET SPIRIT,BAL,57ANGEL,LISE2010,LASHARK,KATIE,ETC......i decided to send a text msg for his birthday(June 18)and i was detached from the outcome.he replied and we had a very good conversation.he even told me every thing will be alright....tears of joy are coming from my eyes as i typing,but we have not any contact since June(almost 2 months)...but i didn't lose my hope...i am trying my best to let go..when i read KATIE's success story i told myself,hey ava,if others could,you can do it too.JUST BELIEVE....any way,next month is my painting exhibition.deep in my heart i want him beside me on that special day....

[Katie]

Dear Ava, thanks for the lovely success story !
No doubt, you will be typing your own success story here soon and we shall all rejoice 

Your guy said :

every thing will be alright....

Once Patrick told me something so solemn, so incredibly out of this world (when he started warming up to me, and he wasn't sure himself why he was warming up to me) that I thought to myself : the Universe just spoke to me through Patrick's mouth. Everything will be all right... keep that in your mind constantly and remember each time who said it.

Just believe. Ava you know what to do, you know alot about the LOA, you know wayyyyyy more than me. Keep your Faith firmly rooted in your soul and never waver.

next month is my painting exhibition.deep in my heart i want him beside me on that special day....

Gratitude for the unseen, for the unheard of, can make this happen !

 

[ava]

Thank you dearest Katie.you gave me hope and faith...your story helped me lot...thank you

[Selah]

Great story.

[LOVE_is_mine]

Wow great story thanks for sharing! Exactly what I needed to read to inspire me.

[57angel]

You will be surely married to this man Ava Oh wowwwww, really inspiring story, thank you for sharing!

[ava]

dear 57 Angel.it is not my success story.i just found it in another website.the writer of this success story is not me.but i will definitely post my success story so soon

[Priestess]

This is a great story and so much like mine!! the similarities are very striking. Ava, those words you heard from your man are a wonderful sign... you can draw so much inspiration from them! I also got the words I needed exactly from my man! I don't know if he was aware of that, but it was what I needed for healing!

[57angel]

Hmmmm look at me, I just ignored the one in blue and jumped right away to the story...mmmm on the other side, my vibrations are that way, one day soon, I will be right then - you are already writing your own success story 

[Cherrybelle]

Omg ava, i had a very similar case with that woman. I ended up in this thread for a reason and i think it is a good sign for me. Thank you for this.

[LadyUniverse]

I just realized i have some cool stories to add here.

First, a friend of mine is dating his dream girl after a three years long crush. Funny fact: it only started to happen when he actually let go and did not care about dating her anymore. He is NOT a LOA believer btw. 

Also, i managed to date - for a very short time it is true - a guy i had a crush on in high school. We met a few years later at a retreat. Sadly i did not believe someone as hot as him would actually fall in love with someone as unattractive - at the time - as me. He proved me right. 

[Rya666]

Gives so much faith.Happy for you Ava:)