A complete circle.. this is how LOA works!.. I'm a winner!

[Thumbelina :)]

After quite a few months, i am writing a post.. Thats because for the past few months.. I had actually vanished.. I really mean it ,'vanished'.. and today I have all the things i ever wanted!!
Yes, am a winner in my life, and tomorrow you all will be .. I'll share my experience, and it might help you get your equation right!!
When i first started following LOA..
I had huge problems,
My boyfriend dumped me for no good reason,
My career was so confused that i could actually end up being a janitor.. Lol
My family was so upset with my night outs , loud friends, and my absence from home!
And, i did all this because i wanted to escape the vacuum of my life... and each day i'd sit and wonder how the hell would LOA work for me? I read a million books, i was monitoring lil progress , tried to be happy with that.. but no big fish yet.. if you read my old posts, you'd know too.. how i'd be all geared up for little things happening, and i'd obsess about it and finally end up like a fool,  i needed MIRACLES to make this stuff work..
Until one day i found it out... its a big circle!! This entire LOA is a circle, and if you miss one step you'll automatically skip the circle..
SOLUTION ----
Observe it closely ..
You want something.......... You visualize it.......... And, most important process.. YOU STOP WORRYING.... soon you practically forget about it........ You unknowingly, Let go off it........ So, life without worrying, makes you happy all the time.......... Things start happening......... Soon, you manifest it all..
But this is not what i see going around here, most of us keep monitoring all the little progress of your lives.....
If you want your lover back,
And, he spoke to you... and you keep thinking about it way too much??? You're obsessing it, no wonder it stops right there..!!
How the secret works?? Over the net, each day a new method is coming out, and keeping a track of it.. just means you're still conscious about it...!!!
And, am sure this is certainly not how its gonna work at all....
I've realized your life, should dance to your finger tips not you dancing at his... Your life should have so so many options that if one doesn't work out, the second one would knock your door ...
Today i am so grateful because my entire book of dreams have almost come true...
I have my guy with me completely stable in my terms , and if i want to stay with him forever or not.. is my decision not his!!...I decide
I got through three top universities in UK, and my parents so proud of me...
Yet, i am gonna drop that.. and follow my passion..
My family, is never been so supportive in my life..
I am leaving town in three months, for the biggest opportunity.. i cracked a internship in my country's top add agency!!.. big break
My friends love me even more,
I keep getting wedding proposals from men way better than i ever expected, and just like that.. i don't wanna marry anymore,
because i just got to know myself.. and i wanna follow my passion and be myself, before i commit to something so huge!!... and the only way i did it, was by....
 Forgetting about all the things, i'd want something and visualize it, once a day or so... and stop worring about it, and honestly, some days i'd even forget to check the progress.. and soon i didn't care enough!!!.. Being selfish is not bad, its just being smart.. Positively selfish.. God didn't make you to be somebody else's couch.. stand up for yourself, and speak your heart.. and give a damn!! The one's who really matter, would understand.. and for the rest, You'd understand.. and sometimes its really good to loose a few things and few people, because in the long run.. all they do, is create problems!

What matters is... You trust the universe, it'll keep you the happiest... and rest is not your head ache, and what you want might not work out , word by word sometimes.. but what matters is... You'll actually end up getting something which is a perfect FIT to your life... and you'd be more than happy!!! ... So, the word you've gotta remember now is... "JUST CHILL"....
and, you have nothing to loose.. but if you let all go, if you everything to win
Hope it helps you guyss!!

 

[nips_gratitude]

hello...
that's an amazing post..was looking for something like that...thanks a loooottttt...
 
But I would like to ask you something..Is it really important to forget about your desires and get on with life..I mean if we stop focussing on our desire than will it lead to a faster manifestation???
 
Actually, I am having a problem and looking for a solution to that by using loa but the thing is I get sooo worried thinking about the possibility of the manifestation of what I desire..I feel like only a miracle can help me get out of this problem(which,according to me, is huge)..
 
Looking forward to your reply... I am really in need of it..
 
Regards
Nipunya
INDIA

[LOVE_is_mine]

That is so inspiring! Exactly the kind of post I've been hoping to read 

[Thumbelina :)]

Hii Nipunya.. Yes, the letting go part is very very necessary .. the faster u want it to happen, the more you have to get engrossed in your life.. and be very happy!!
think about it this way....
the main motive is.. you being happy.. which will come from you not worrying.. which will only come from you not paying attention to your current problem or current 'situation'.. So its very important that way..
And seriously stop worrying..
Do you really have a lot to loose??
Think about it!!
Loads of love and luck
Thumbelina ...

[kins 9]

 i agree with you thumbelina....
i think not worrying about the result shows that we have immense faith on things to fall in place

[nips_gratitude]

@Thumbelina: Thnx a looootttt big sis.. I was in a doubt whether the principle of MArci Shimoff works or not(she says we should have three things in us: INTENTION,ATTENTION AND NO TENSION) n was a real-failure in following the third step.. Now am pretty sure that We should intend,focus n forget..
 
But here I get another confusion.. we need to focus on the intention n at the same time need to forget it too..!! 
 
 
I mean how can both of them go well together??
 
 
Thanks a million once again.. Luv u..

[Thumbelina :)]

Awww, how shweet
Well... your first problem lies right here, your curious about too many 'hows'.. thats something which you've gotta completely stop and give it up!! .. trust the universee completely.. forget the rest!!
You wanna be with a guy... dream about the guy, think good things about him..think about the end result.. like, for eg.. getting married or so.. but, at the same time.. don't expect him to call u everyday and tell u details or do gestures or stuff.. thats not a part of 'letting go'... let all that happen on its own.. you just concentrate on the end part...
and in between whatever big or small incident's happening... just trust the universe, that its a part of the entire process of the main event
Loveee  and luck x x x
Between, even am from India

[nips_gratitude]

Oh thanks a loott once again..
Well, I am worried about some stuffs going on in my academic performance which is making me totally immersed.. I was never so bad in studies before..
 
But I 'll do what you said and I hope I get my mission accomplished   coz if that doesn't happen, I may literally get immersed..
 
Anywayss...thank u soooooooooo much... You helped me so nicely...That's soo sweet of you..Thanks a trillion..!!

[Thumbelina :)]

Awww, your always welcome swthrt
We're all here to help each other..
and don't worry about academics, give your best shot.. and hope the best.. thats the trick
And, another thing.. since you're from India.. you must have heard this place ---
"Kaam karo, phaal kii pratikshaa naa karo "
I guess, thats wht it means...
Loads of loveee!!

[nips_gratitude]

Ohhh yeah di...have heard it hundreds of times..  And I've given my shot(not best though ) and waiting for the results to come..
 
Thanks for such a lovely reply...    and ya "Ab se kaam karungi aur phal ki chinta nahin karungi" ...  Love uuu...

[Miracles]

Thumbelina!!

your story is DELIGHTFUL!!! i loved your spirit and your energy!!

I agree with you on the importance of not worrying, and letting go of it all..

But i have a question, when you did feel worried, or when doubts started to creep in a little bit (they do every now and then.. ).. how did you snap out of it? Did you just go out and do stuff that make you happy?? What kind of thoughts did you use to assert yourself and stay on track?

Another question: How did you guys get back? Did he call you? after how long? were you surprised??

peace n love!
x

[LOVE_is_mine]

I have the same questions as miracles lol. Also, did he ever date anyone before you guys
got back together?

[Thumbelina :)]

Everything happens with time.. Firstly, when i get a little worried.. I turn out real loud music... very loudly.. put my ear plugs on and go out for a nice jog!! All, party type tracks, by the time i come back, i am so tired that i hardly have the energy to pull a muscle , left alone worrying .. ha ha ha
and second one now, how did we get back?
It doesn't happen in one day.. it takes long, and its a long process.. first calls, then meetings.. and slow proceedings.. some days a lot would happen, and some days just nothing would happen!!! Either way, keep your focus on just 'staying happy' thats all.. and soon, i saw him more keen than ever!! ..
Another thing,which i realized in the due process. . weigh yourself!! I don't mean, practically.. in some dumb weighing machine or something, i meant.. weigh your life, and your thoughts.. they keep changing with every action in your life... A year back,or so.. when i was broken down and stuff.. i would marry this very guy, no matter what... and i would bend down, kill my self respect.. and just keep him happy..
But, today.. your looking at a confident, strong, independent, sexy girl.. who has has entire life on track, i do love him and i do want to stay with him, with my respect.. and as off a wedding or some 'forever' is concerned? I'd say... Too early, I'm too busy loving myself and pampering myself.. such a huge commitment, i don't even bring it up!! ... So, live in the moment, and don't plan your entire life .. at one go!! If it really does turn out that way, you'll be HECK BORED!!!
Imagine the look on your face, when you get a surprise gift... Let life be the same, don't plan and think so much.. just do your thing, and let the rest be... "TA DA... SURPRISEEE!!" ...
You'll actually love it !!

[Thumbelina :)]

:)xcast dude... yea he dated 2 gals in the time we didn't date, and that was kinda for the good.. cauz the moment he'd come and tell me about any chick, i'd cooly smile, and say.."Go ahead, hows she dude?" .. and then in a week's time.. he'd start comparing me with the chick, tellin me how we were so much better.. hahaha.. this stuff happened twice.. finally, i was like, "dude, see the world.. seriously you're never getting a second ME"...
The above statement is just not true, am sure he'd get way better gals actually.. he's the hottest guy in town, i mean it..!! A sports star and stuff, a hottie in demand, but what made my statement stand was my confidence, and my love for him!! That he would never get anywhere else..!! So, be confident about your moves and feelings

[Pinkypink]

WELL SAID THIMBELINA!!!