need help with applying the law of attraction to get my ex boyfriend back

[loveinmylife]

ive been with this guy on and off for about 3 yrs. but for the last yr we bacame official. while me and him was messing he did a couple of things that made me loose trust on him. we tried being official but things were difficult at times because i didnt trust him and was still angry at him for what he did while we was just messing around. well the year that we was official i know he didnt cheat and tried really hard to make things work between us. but i would constantly find something to fight about. it was usually me being a jelouse freak. he ended things with me about 2 months ago and i really want us to get back together. the last time i spoke to him he said that he doesnt want to be with me and that he doesnt love me the way i want him to love me. ive been so sad ever since then and havent been able to bring my hopes up. can someone help me apply the law of attraction to this situation? i love this man very dearly and i know he does too; but my past negativity (jelousy) has made me loose him. please someone help me....

[schenderson22]

check out the law of attraction and relationships forum.  Once you read it, let me know if any of the posts can help you. 

[Sonal123]

hello,
whatever is happening in your life now is a result of your thoughts.your negative thoughts like jealousy have brought this negative situation in your life.
you can get him back for sure if you really try and focus on the thought of having him back in your life.
whatever the situation may be you can change it by feeling positive and happy.
start with feelings of gratitude.have gratitude for everything that makes you smile.
visualize you with your guy and most of all love yourself!!
dont be sad.only you are responsible for your happiness.
dont associate your happiness with anything else except you.
you know what you have lost by your negative feelings so now put in all your efforts to feel positive and happy and see your life change!!

[vsahker]

Hi,

I am a newcomer to this forum, and this topic is a touchy one to many people out there, I know. Whilst it is a nice thought to know if there's a way to get an old flame back into our lives, there are certain points of issue.

Imho, its no different from attracting a new lover, i.e. if you dont have the perfect lover right now, its worthwhile asking "why?". The answer will be, "Because its not in your vibration yet". I am an enthusiast of the Abraham-Hicks series of lectures, and its a dream to sit on the hot seat one day to have it out with AH! .

So, if you want your old lover back, you become a vibrational match to your lover, whatever that might be. And AH also talk about getting into your vortex. Its ani nteresting concept that stands for that perfect point of attraction wherein everything you have ever asked for stands in vibrational escrow, to be made manifest when you catch up to it vibrationally.

[loveofabundance]

@vsahker, Welcome To The Vortex!  We've been waiting for you!
 
Just kidding!  I've absolute faith you're a Vortex regular, but guess what?!
 
So are we!
 
Sincerely, welocome to the forum.  It's like an online Vortex for busy people!
 
BTW, we're planning on getting a group together to go to A-H.  Come with us!

[57angel]

@Vsaker, welcome to this forum. You will be greatly helped here as I am greatly helped here. Best of LOA!

[aareeba]

Plz do let me know if you get the replies according to the law of attraction...i made more or less these kind of mistakes
..i was engaged before him but that relationship over coz its somewhere in my mind that marriage will not be happen
in my life.the guy quit just few days b4 marriage.2nd time when i was in love with the person and we both decided to get marry i had
lost my temprament on some petty issues.and he simply said its not possible now.its been more than a year we were in contact
but few days back somebody purpose me i just send him a text that what should i do...and since than he didnt contact neither give any reply.am scared of loosing him...am really scared.cant live without him.plz do let me know .

[schenderson22]

@aareeba - If you wouldn't mind typing in a more formal manner that would be helpful.  While I understand "text" language, it can a bit difficult to translate.

To clarify, you bf asked you to marry him and you don't know what to say but are afraid of losing him.  Is that correct?

[aareeba]

thanks...

I was engaged twice,most of the time i have a fear of loosing relationships either its from my familyside or in friends.
and sooner or lateri loose them.i got engaged twice.my 1st fiancee and his family quit just before 22 days of our marriag
e.after that i was really upset and lost all my confidence.but after few years this 2nd person purposed me.we got eng
aged.and planning for our future but i always asked him that plz dont ever leave me...and things like that.few days of our marriage
we had a fight on some v petty issues and he simply said he cant go further with me.means he cannot marry me.again.i lost
my confidence and trust on myself.and to the others.we were in contact somehow.but few days back i told him that i had another purposal....and after that he didnt contact.i really want him in my life as my husband what to do?

im doing meditation,doing and applying reiki level 2 but it seems nothing is working.

[Grateful]

.and planning for our future but i always asked him that plz dont ever leave me...

You have to remember that LoA does not hear the word "DON'T"...

Also you need to work on the love of you... You have to love YOU first before anyone else can love you. It does not seem that you have any problems attracting men... You just need to be positive in your thoughts and words that "he" will stay.

I hope this helps, In Light and Love, Grateful

[aareeba]

hi,
can you plz.tell me how to apply LOA to bring him back?how to start it?should i bring all the details in written form?do tel me plz

[schenderson22]

Dear Aareeba,

First and foremost, you have to let go of your fear.  This is going to be hard to hear but your fear is what is driving these people away.  I have told many forum members that in order to truly have what you want you have to be the best person you can be.  The premise behind LOA is that "like" attracts "like".  So if you enjoy spending time by yourself, you will attract those who enjoy being with you.  If you truly love yourself, you will attract people who love you.  If you respect yourself, you will attract people who respect you.

So how do you let go of this fear and increase your confidence.  One of the more popular ways is by using EFT.  You can find this technique on youtube.com I also recommend purchasing the dvd The Tapping Solution.  You can find it on www.thetappingsolution.com  All negative feelings are energy blocks.  You can "tap" through the blocks, allowing a better free flow of energy. 

In addition to working through those feelings you can make a gratitude list.  I like to start with listing all the things I am grateful for.  "I am grateful for the air that I breath""I am grateful for my home""I am grateful for the beauty all around me" etc.  Try to list 20.  At the end of your list start to add things you want as though they already exist. "I am grateful for {insert his name}'s love and support""I am grateful for our healthy relationship""I am grateful for our engagement""I am grateful that he desires to be my husband" etc.  Write these down, read them aloud every morning and every evening and forget about them.

I have seen this work for many forum members.  If you can successfully work through your fears, otherwise known as your "limiting beliefs" you will have everything your true heart desires.

Best of LOA to you.