How to attract a Specific Person?

[Monica Vijay]

Hav read tis article sum where.. I found it really helpful.. Hope it helps others too..                                How to attract a Specific Person?

One of the most often asked questions is "Can you attract a specific person using the law of attraction?" The good news is Yes you can absolutely attract a specific person in your life in a relationship you choose and with success.

Love is the most important emotion of all in this entire universe. When it comes to money, jobs, and so many other things people don't really have that much difficulty in manifesting. In matters of the heart if you don't get what you want the pain is maximum. The one you love, that specific person, is the most important person for you, and even the entire world cannot substitute for that person. Now I have absolutely great news for you today. Yes, you can attract that specific person you are in love with. So today allow yourself to be absolutely elated and just follow the procedure below.

Desire and Desperation - You need to let go of the desperation

While desire is a sacred energy, an energy of creation, desperation is just the opposite, a destructive energy. When desire is unfulfilled the void is taken over by desperation. While desire is a pure and good energy, desperation is a powerful negative energy. Desire creates those vibes in you to attract, desperation creates just the opposite vibes, to repel. When you fell in love with that special person, the sacred seed of desire was sown in you. Due to whatever reasons when that desire was unfulfilled desperation crept in. So the first step is remove that desperation. Clear all desperation.

How to clear desperation? The easiest way to clear desperation is to let go. Surrender to the light of divine love of the Universe. Imagine a beautiful light of divine love, a pure radiant love light. Just surrender to that beautiful sparkling light. That light created you, gave you everything that you possess, and that light simply loves you, no matter what you have done so far. That light is forgiving, 100% pure love and powerful enough to create a beautiful reality beyond your wildest imagination. When you fell in love that light was silently telling you what to do, only if you listened. So let go of everything, surrender and start anew. Today submit yourself to that divine light and affirm to yourself you let go, you surrender and you allow that Divine Light to create a bright future, a bright love life for you. You accept the divine will because the divine will make your life far happier than you can imagine.

Once you do this you let go of any attachment to the result. Now the fun part begins.

Creating a beautiful love life Once you have let go of any attachment to that person, you have given a very powerful and strong signal to the Universe you are now ready for love in your life. If previously your love was one sided now it's time to create a both sided relationship. You are a super hero in your theater of the mind. Your movie is in your mind and your movie creates your reality. You have 100% control over your imagination and use this wisely to create a reality of your choice.

Now now simply imagine your loved one in love with you. Earlier you were one the one in love now imagine your lover is the one in love with you. "Your loved one loves you", your desire is fulfilled. How does it feel? Say to yourself as an affirmation 1000's of times "_______ loves me" See what happens in the next 5-7 days. See the shift in energy. Notice how you would feel. Visualize your lover is in love with you. Keep a tab on the feelings. How does it feel? Go lucid in your mind as you make love to your lover. How does it feel?

If you do the above stop properly you will realize and laugh at yourself, what was I so desperate for? And once you have done it well, your world opens up. You feel more powerful. If you do this properly you will feel like a winner and your world of choices opens you. You will definitely wonder what the big deal about this person that I was putting so much energy on? Why didn't I just let go before?

Sending Love While the above techniques were to get you out of your pit of desperate feelings and make you feel like a winner so that positive thoughts and feelings came and made you realize whether you wanted that person because of love or because you wanted to satisfy your ego. In many cases the desperation to get back isn't because of love but because of a sense of conquest. So now you know in your heart whether you truly love the other person or not. If its love go forward else just allow the Universe to deliver the best vibrational match for you.

Now this is a very important step for those in love Love - the power behind creation Understand this. Love is THE most powerful energy in the Universe. With love you can create anything, win anyone's heart, mind and soul. Every day for at least 10 minutes sit down and send loving thoughts to your loved one. Imagine you already have a relationship with her. Your lover loves you completely. Now what kind of loving thoughts would you send to your lover.

Imagine a pink ball of energy in between your hands in which you see you already have the relationship of your choice. In this ball you can see you and your lover. This ball can only contain pure and good love energy. Note the words, the thoughts, the kind of relationship you both have in this ball. Now let go of the pink ball. Let it flow away in the Universe.

Let go of any attachment. And if you do it right there will be no attachment now because you are already in a field where you can FEEL the feelings of the relationship and loving your lover. In case there are any doubts Affirm to yourself, "I surrender to my divine light". "I only have love and gratitude for my divine light".

Remember this very clearly Intention Manifestation can ONLY and ONLY happen when the feelings vibrational level is high. Desperation is like a deep well, it has a -ve vibration. Love and Gratitude have the highest vibration.

If you do this right your emotions at this point of time should be: 1. zero desperation. You will wonder where it has disappeared? 2. extremely happy because you have created a beautiful relationship and seen and felt it so vividly 3. a perfect happy relationship between you and the Universe where you only and only have Thank You's for the Universe.
Your perfect relationship will manifest in all certainty. 60,000 thoughts a day is your thought karma. If Love and Gratitude is even in 80% of this thought karma you cannot imagine what a beautiful relationship you will create, far beyond your imagination.                                                                     Regards, Monica Vijay

[Vicki Christina]

Thanks for the reminder.  I have seen this as it is from the Silva group I think!
 
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[57angel]

Thank you for sharing

[Monica Vijay]

@Angel: its my pleasure.. 

[Foxy]

Hey, just wanted to thank you for this post, its really enlightening I read it frst thing this morning and went about my day, constantly using some of the affirmations.

Well my story is far to long to go into but the basics are that I was involved with the most genuine, caring, loving man who rescued me, we had many years together but things changed. Actually things didnt I did, I was living each day feeling i wasnt good enough for the relationship and that I would lose him. Basically we went our separate ways but still maintained contact. Earlier this year I stumbled across this forum and read many posts. All of which said you have to 'let go', so thats exactly what I did let go of my soul mate. That was probably the hardest thing I have ever done.

Its hard not to question that it was the right thing to do, that is until today, I have receieved a couple of e mails. I know this is the start of my new journey  I will definately taking on board some more information and advice from this forum, I am feeling thanks for everyone!

[Monica Vijay]

Ur most welcome Foxy. The 'letting go' part is the hardest for all those working on LoA. But one has to make up their mind to bare it coz the result is going to be just awesome. If u cant just keep this in mind "if im not even strong enough to bare this little pain for him(ur beloved one), then what is the love i have for him". This is what I used to do. Hope this helps u too. Glory is ours.                                                                                                                                     Regards,                                                                                                                                       Monica

[Foxy]

Hi, thanks for the advice  . This forum rocks, it has help and advice for everything so pleased I came across it!

[joplin]

Hello Everyone

I realize this is a very old thread but I am new here. I have a few questions and I'm interested in hearing your thoughts...

1. I have read several books on LOA and I am practicing it! However, I still have one strong desire that none of these books addressed. Also, when I do a search online, it inevitably always seems to lead me to discussions such as the one in this thread -- that being, about manifesting a specific person in terms of a relationship. I am not looking to do that. I would like to manifest a specific person into my life for the purposes of meeting them. It is not an ex I want back or anything like that. It's a famous artist who I'd simply like the opportunity of meeting. I just want to meet the person because I admire them. Let me be more specific in saying I'd like this meeting to last more than 5 seconds. In other words, a meet-the-public, handshaking type scenario is not what I wish to manifest. I'd like to manifest the opportunity of having a conversation. I don't see how a simple meeting would in any way be transgressing another's will, so given that, I don't see why it would not be possible. Your thoughts?

2. My understanding of visualization is to be as specific as possible. Being that I have no idea how/where I will meet this person, I am not specific in my visualizations, as I feel this is limiting possibilities. Or rather, I should say, I am not specific about the surroundings in terms of the place (where specifically the meeting will take place). Have you any thoughts on how to make my visualizations as vivid as possible without being limiting in this case?

3. I would really like to understand better what is meant by "letting go." To my thinking, letting go is analogous to not really wanting the thing you desire. My understanding of manifesting is to ask your request of the Universe with passion and intention. How can I have passion and intention and simultaneously "be content" with letting go of the thing I want? To my thinking, that's like saying, "I really, really, really want this thing.... but I'm totally content without it." That's a contradiction. The way I try to look at "letting go" is more of trusting the Universe's timing... that it WILL happen, and so I can have the patience and belief to wait for it, and still be happy and grateful in the NOW. Does this sound right? Because to just "let go" to me is akin to the way I was taught to pray as a child within the church I was indoctrinated in. Every request gave God an out: it was "if it's God's will." To me that always reeked of lack of faith -- bottom line. As such, I've had to do a lot of deprogramming where that is concerned.

[heartel]

Thank you for this article. It made me go back to my senses just when I was feeling lost.