CPFC. First, let me welcome you to the Law of Attraction Forum and watched the The Secret.
The Secret is advisable for people who are new to Law of Attraction. If you didn't say "The Secret" earlier, I would have recommended you to watch it in this post.
Anyway, let's get started.
About a month ago my girlfriend of 7 years told me she wasn't sure of her feelings. Last night she told me that we should go our seperate ways.
These two sentences are known as Perceptions
. Perceptions are things or vibrations
you have interpreted
by the physical world. For example, what you see and hear are not
true as it seems. They are caused by our own perception and understanding; different points of view. She told you she wasn't sure of her feelings to you after 7 years. This is not true because this is a perception and I have studied human's pattern and Neuro-Linguistic Programming for the past 3 months. 7 years without a mere feeling for a person is totally impossible
unless a brainwashing took place in action. This is not true, she still has some feelings for you. A person without a feeling for a person will never respond to a person.
If you asked your girlfriend for a dinner or party before, and she accepted
it, she has feeling on you
. If you asked your girlfriend for a dinner or party before, and she rejected
it, there's still feelings for you
. The feelings are letting you know that she won't be coming because of something important/uncomfortable. If she had no feelings
on you, she will not reply to you
or show any intimacy for the past 7 years. Rapport is created because there's a feeling. " Last night she told me that we should go separate ways. "
Again, perception statement. It's not true, that's what you received from her. There's chance and always a solution. There's always a solution to a problem. There's no problem without a solution.
I tried to put into place a few of the things that it suggested, unfortunately last nights events haven't gone the way I was intending.
Yes. It's recommended for people who are new to Law of Attraction to watch The Secret. However, they are not really complete. Some are frauds and many are correct. Remember: They are humans, they have to earn money too.
I am not trying to say that The Secret is a totally fake. No. I am just saying that The Secret, known as Law of Attraction is a Law
. Never a method
. Just like the Law of Gravity. With Gravity, you will not float. Without Gravity, you will float. Are you going to put Gravity down your feet so that you cannot float? Nah. We have to put on weights right?
Same goes for The Secret; Universal Law of Attraction. You must do something and not follow the law itself. The law is not the method. Remember: Slow For Desire! Rushing For Desperation! Desperation is a very strong negativity vibration. It will terminate the progress you have made.
What i'm unsure of now is which way to turn, I want my girlfriend back and for us to carry on building our future together but at the same time I don't know if this is something that is achievable from using LOA and should just dust myself down and move on, the thought of which just rips me in two." I want my girlfriend back "
. Now you have placed your desire. Act on it! Trust the fact that you guys will be together, trust Law of Attraction will bring you guys back. Trust the Universe!
It is achievable! It is achievable, not impossible! Everything is possible
! I would request you to read more about Law of Attraction. The Secret is definitely not enough. It's use for understanding Law of Attraction. "Ask, Believe & Receive" is the method. However, I think you have misunderstood "Receive" part.
To make matters even more of a mess my girlfriends gran died this morning too. I know there probably aren't quick fixes, but any advice on what I can do to get myself going would be really appreciated.
Sorry. I have to pull this thing out of Law of Attraction for a bit. Scientists have proven, if a person has lost something that is really closed to them, they will emit a very strong negative vibrations because they felt fear, worry, anxiety, sadness and desperation for the thing that had lost
. For your case, her grandma died, all kinds of negative vibrations will release fast and brutal. This would detriment
your desire for her like relationship.
However, you have to remember these are all your perceptions and your point of view. Nothing is really right. The good thing to do now is to leave her alone and send her some great messages; a casual talk will do. Learn and master the Law of Attraction then when her negativity is no more, you will get her back again. Don't worry if she is going out for another relationship, she won't. The death has caused her to release her negativity everywhere and you not to worry.Conclusion: In my own point of view, I think she said to you this way because her grandmother has passed away. That's just a temporarily conjunction. The reality will show itself after she has cooled-down.
Hope this helps,