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So a strange realization hit me the yesterday. I realized that my trip, the trip where I ran into the love of my life, was not supposed to happen at all that and yet somehow it did! With the assistance of 5 other people I was able to make it. I had sooo much going on between my move this month, work and other misc things yet the universe INSISTED that I made it there and I did with the help of others .. from my manager, my colleague, my two best friends and my male cousin who picked me up at 6 am to drop me off at the airport. I am not going to lie, all of this has me a bit spooked, curious and tremendously grateful. I wish I knew what all of this meant. Is that man my soulmate? Was it all just a big coincidence?

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Hopefully this will be short but I had a thought that we should be the kind of person who want to be with. If we want someone who is confident we should be confident. If we want someone who is kind be kind...etc.

If an ex came to you and said? "I'm so happy you took me back, I spent hours meditating and doing Remote Seduction just to get you back in my life" Wouldn't you feel a sense of desperation there.

I had an ex who came back several times to me and though I was miserable when he left I never tried to win him back. I remained friends with him. I was nicer to him because well I was still in love with him but I had NO hopes of convincing him to be with me. I never brought up our break-up, and I avoided speaking about his GF. Actually, I pretended she didn't exist. And a year later he confessed his love to me.

Another ex, told me all these nasty things he hated about me and it hurt. Tore me apart. I asked if he was willing to look past those things and when he hesitated. I told him I wasn't going to convince him to be with me or convince him to like me. I stopped speaking to him and just did what I needed to feel better. A few days later he came back asking what we can do to make it work because he loved me.

Both times I was still very much in love with these guys. I was really hurt but I also knew I deserved someone who wanted me as is. I think my confidence and my strength is what drew them back to me. It's sexy.

Don't you think the person you want to attract back wants the same from their partner? Someone strong. So BE that person, BE everything you want. BE CONFIDENT.

You can still love them, you can be sad. You can downright have a pity party every day. But know that a person who can't see your worth isn't worth your energy or time.

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I began working out last summer..... and wow! My body has transformed in some major ways. I'm 47lbs lighter (-4 dress sizes)... but not only that, I have got some serious muscle going on.. and overall, look much leaner than most people at my weight.

I lift heavy, and sometimes do HIIT cardio.

Sometimes, I run my subliminal blaster and have a couple messages about a high metabolism and how fat melts right off my body. I've changed my eating habits dramatically as well... It takes work (action)- - - I am excited to see what I look like next year....

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Hello Everyone

I am here today sharing with you my success. I broke up with my woman and I attracted her back. I been using LOA since I was a kid, my mother thought me since I was little, but when I study abroad, I start to lost my focus on LOA and start to live based on negativity. A month a go when I start to remember the concept of LOA, I started to use it in my life. And this is what it get me, my lover back !

My woman is a woman with a stone heart, when she said it's over, it means it's over. I was being so negative about the whole thing until I found LOA, i started to read the thread here in this forum, Thank you to Believing Love, Edge, I love Rainbows, IronUr, who contribute a lot of good subject on LOA. I owe my life to all of you. I started to do Alpha state to visualize things, When I first went to Alpha State, I visualize I meet my other me, I saw him crying in the dark, feeling so lonely and kept blaming himself for what happen. I came to him and I said to him, I am sorry for everything, I forgive you, I love you. I kept saying that over and over until I feel enough. I remember it took me about an hour in meditation state. I feel good afterwards. I did that for 3 days, and the results was tremendous. I felt very light and I start to see changes in my life, I start to smile again, I no longer blame my self for the break up, I no longer feel pain in my chest everytime I think of the event. I feel good about my self. That is when I start to go to alpha and imagine my self fixing the situation with my woman. I know it might be impossible for me to do it by that time, but I believe inside that it's possible for me. I start to see things from a different state, I start to see her as a loving person who fell in love with me who is charming and loving her with all my heart. It took me 3 weeks to make this fall into the right place. Out of the blue today, she wrote me an email. She asked me how am I doing. I replied her and I told her I am fine. What surprise me is her next reply, She told me that she misses me and she can't stop thinking about me. She said that she probably made the biggest mistake in her life by leaving me. I can't believe my eyes when I read it. This is the day that I been living in my meditation and it comes to reality.

People, Dont give up on your desire !!!!

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Reading many stories here and I can say I've wanted an ex back. Pined over him for a year remained his friend even when it hurt because being away hurt more. I look back and I don't recognize that girl anymore but I see her in so many posts here. Why is it when someone has decided you aren't the right person for them we think we know better than them so we have to SHOW them that they want us? If we love them shouldn't we just respect their choice and their process, they know themselves better than we ever will. And why would we want someone who doesn't love us? We love these people regardless of how they treat us, and all they have to do is exist. While we believe we have to jump through three rings of fire for them to decide we are worthy of a one word text. Are we being fair and loving to ourselves?

I'm not saying your ex isn't "The One" but if they are your soulmate why are you worried? They are already yours and will be yours forever. So have fun an start working on attracting all the other things you want. No one is THAT special or worth waiting around for. Time us ticking you can never get this time back.

And that ex I spoke about earlier we went on to get back together several times after. I stopped worrying because no matter how nasty it got we always became friends again, naturally. Now I don't feel those feelings for him but it taught me that nothing is really permanent and most ppl find their way back to you if they care enough. You don't need to convince ppl to want you to be worthwhile

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For anyone that does not believe in numerical signs, I beg to differ. Long story short, my husband of 19yrs passed suddenly 4 yrs ago. His favorite number was 33...his little league jersey number as a kid etc., and he loved that number throughout the years.  Since I started LOA I have seen 33's everywhere. Here is what has happened recently....my son saw a truck he wanted to buy (he only has his permit)....He texted me about this at 3:33pm. Mapquest said it was 33 miles away. We saw the truck and it had 133,000 miles on it. We bought it. I put the tripometer on to see how far I drive him in a week. At the end of the week it was 33 miles. I got my Air Conditioner fixed last week. Total cost, $333. But the weirdest of all was that I was behind this taxi and above the 333-3333 is my ex's initials AG with the number 11.  And then there is the picture of my son with some kind of energy coming in on the right. Look at the picture. I don't know what it is, but something good is coming. I have no doubt.

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omg omg omg! this is freaking crazy!!! today was such a different day.

so i came to work just to find out i am 30 mins late. for some reasons i thought i started late 

so i ran to the nearest elevator i see. i squeezed in that elevator with million others breathing on eachother. i look at right and there i see my guy. i didnt smile or anything. instead the first thought that crossed my mind was- "damn it, what is he doing here" so instead of going up my floor i just pushed the next floor button since i didnt want to be in the same elevator as him. so again squeezing other people i got out and before the door closed i heard it reopened. i looked back and there he was standing. he got out to that floor too just to follow me. i turned around and kept walking since i was already late (didnt afford to lose more time). he is point called me out loud across the hallway and said "xxxx would you go on a date with me?"

OMG! my knees started shaking so bad; i had to lean against the wall!!! at this point EVERYONE is looking at us. i turned red and didnt know what to say. one patient came right to me and said 'he is a keeper'!!! i was like- wow universe, you know how to give a sign!

i said yes to that and ran back to my unit. we could have hugged and kissed but that wouldnt have been very professional. then he started texting me and looks like we are going on a real date this weekend. we never went on a date before since it never got to that point.

but OMG! a date with the man of my dreams!!!!
so yeah, i am still a bit shaky and dont know what else to tell you guys. hopefully, i will be able to sleep tonight 

this is crazy. it happened when i least expected and when i completely let go!

love
magic lamp

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In the beginning of this year i was yearning for several qualities for my career:
- office location : i want somewhere close to my house
- better role
- good co workers
- company reputation which equaly good with my current company

I applied one job where the office location is near to my house but didnt receive any news from them. Then another company approach me through 2 headhunters ask me if i would join them. One thing, this company is located far to my house so i let down the opportunity knowing my dream job will located near to my house as my desire.

Last week my boss called me and starting may i will handle bigger portfolios in the area that is close to my house!! I worked with the team previously and i knew they are really nice people. I couldnt believe that i got everything i desire even without moving to another company

I am so thankful and grateful for all my desires came true!
Thank you God!

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Hello all,

Some of you might know my story. but for some who dont: I have manifested one of my deep desires and that was to have my guy back in my city. Our story is kind of unusual in a way that we hadnt seen or heard each other in almost 3 year. I got in LOA business since June 2012. before that i had no idea that you can have, do or be anything you want.

since, i am a bit of a science nerd, i did not believe that this could ever happen. i mean, we lived thousands of miles away from each other and he always had girlfriends. still, i tried doing all the techniques you can imagine. did all that until October 2012 and i was like- this is all bullcrap. why bother. so i quit doing everything all together. still i kept coming here and learnt a great deal. thank you all for that =)

since, i pretty much gave up or let go (hard to define a difference for me), i started travelling. i can tell you one thing; travelling is one of the best thing you can do since it gets your mind off of your ex COMPLETELY cuz you are enjoying/learning/meeting new people constantly. i had tons of fun. learnt so much about myself in the process. also, since oct 2012, i started going to gym and dancing and swimming now i am really good at all those activities. so do that too! it boosts your confidence exponentially! also, shopping (believe me)- retail therapy works =D

so yeah, gyming, dancing, travelling, shopping, meeting new people, getting compliments from old friends about what is it that i am vibrating with joy all the time, etc. my work life has always been great (thank fully). so no change in that department.

so now, i come back from vegas on sunday- exhausted, happy, broke (little) and then i go to work. then comes tuesday and i do my morning errands, come home and check my email. and guess what! my guy who decided to not have any contacts writes me that he is here for good!!!! you can imagine how excited i was, i still am!!!

we exchange cell # and meet the next day. in the matter of less than 24 hours. trust me, you think universe is slow. it is the fastest thing i have ever seen =) i was having hard time keeping up with our lovely universe.
the meeting went great but then he wants to be friend for now. this is something that doesnt feel good in my gut. if this was last year, i would have stayed but now i am changed. i have recognized my own worth. and so, lovingly i said no to being friends and hence to not have a lot of contacts. he is still ok with it. i believe we are on our way to be together. he just doesnt know it yet. him and i are in the same profession and work in the same building. so seeing him or talking to him would not be a problem at all.

anyway, i am just so amazed at myself to see how much i have grown after learning about LOA. i have no doubt that universe is bringing me my soulmate. it can be him or it can be someone else. i have this new found confidence in me and universe that either my guy will wake up one day and tell me that he accepts me as his gf or i am going to meet the man of my dream. what ever it ends up being; it is going to be soon because i have been in my vortex for a long time now- i can feel it!

 so yeah, no contact for 3 yrs to working in the same building! it can happen people. i feel good about my decision of not being friends with him. i remember excel once said- dont be afraid of breaking a relationship if it is not something that you want. telling him no for friendship was an inspired actions. so i believe we are well on our way to be together. but still, i am detached with the outcome and if another hottie comes along way; i will give my 100%

love
magic lamp

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Hi everybody! First of all happy Valentine's day to you all!

I've been down before. Many times. I've been suicidal many times. And right now i am going through hard times all over again. I had just gotten over my ex and bam i met another girl with who i've experienced the very same breakup pattern. I've confessed my love to her a few days ago she said that she liked me too as a man as a partner and that she is confused. She has been avoiding me for a few days now. I realized that i should just let go of everything now. Just no more life changing plans for a while. No more looking for love... This morning i saw the sun come up. Maybe i never saw it this way before. I felt something that was an alien emotion for me most of my life. Gratitude. I am grateful that i've met both of these girls. It is the second Valentine's day that i spend alone. And for some strange reason i feel grateful. I feel hope.

Yesterday i went out to drink myself silly. And a homeless guy came up to me on the street and asked for a few pennies. I gave him some and we started talking. He has cancer, he is completely alone, and homeless. It felt good that i was actually kept him talking and let him tell me his story. At the end of our conversation i gave him a few more bucks. And it brought tears into his eyes. I couldn't help him. I couldn't cure him. But the fact that i was there for him even for a few minutes made me feel great. If god exists he isn't just. But for a few minutes i was. I helped this poor man. Made his life a bit more bearable and probably showed him after long years how acceptance and love feels. Bad things happen in life... And sometimes there is nothing you can do about it. You can only hold your breath and count to ten. I think i finally let go of my oars. I would like to stay like this for a while. Don't think. Don't suffer. Just be.

I would like to close this post with the following quote from Lion King:

Lion King - What did you do that for - the past can hurt

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Hello all, I wanted to share my story about manifesting my dream jobs.

First, it is all about timing and alignment, knowing what I wanted and feeling like I deserved it. The thing to remember is your set point (how you feel) when you leave your current job will be your point of attraction for a new one. This is now people keep manifesting the same thing or experience in a different package.

When I started my first dream job, I was very clear about the industry I intended to work in, I  desired to use my skills in a positive uplifting way. I intended it to be a beautiful environment (physically, spiritually)  and the employees would have a similar work ethic. The hours would be flexible to a certain extent and I would be off weekends. I intended to be respected personally and professionally, I intended for there to be unlimited earning potential.
Then I scripted it all out, told my story, what the place would look like, how many clients I would have, how much money I would make. I visualized the whole thing in great detail added in the gratitude, joy, awesomeness emotional part of it. From start to finish, it took 3 months to manifest this job.
It lasted for almost two years, then it was on to the next thing.

For my second job, it was the same scenario except I was looking to work from home. I loved the job I had, was sad it had reached it's life span but was super excited to move on into something different. Each job has moved me personally and professionally up the ladder of my life. I am always looking for forward, upward movement. My new job is wonderful, working from home, set my own hours, am free to earn as much or little money as I desire. The person I work for is an awesome individual and treats her employees like gold. I am free to move about the country and can do this job from anywhere. There is room for expansion as the company is really growing.

Here are the processes I used to attract these jobs: From Abraham Hicks,  the QSCA ( Christy Whitman) http://quantum-success-coaching-academy.com/, and the Prosperity Partnership ( Elyse Killoran)

let it all go, you have to let go of all the energy from the last job(s). This is important so you are not creating from your past and there are no left overs. You want to use your last job only as a starting point or point of contrast to help you be clearer about what you desire to move toward: Use the Sedona Method, TAT, The Works by Byron Katie, EFT techniques, clear your chakras. You can find all of these online.

 Processes: What I want, scripting, wouldn't it be nice, creation statement, gratitude journal, and having a vision board ( I have 5 of these). I also did some future visioning which I learned while taking the QSCA. Basically you connect with your future self through meditation and visualize where you will be in 3 months, 6 months, a year etc. You visualize the outcome you desire, see yourself in the setting you intend to be in. When you know your outcome, you can manifest events leading you there.

really feel yourself in the environment you want to work in, meditate on it, use the 16 second/68 second pure positive thought process where you feel it for 16 uninterrupted seconds, working up to 68 seconds. Do all the inner work first, feel it, imagine it, live it in your mind, intend it and send it on its way for the Universe to deliver to you. Take inspired action. Ask everyday what you can do today to move toward this awesome job you desire to manifest. Be open to all opportunity as you never know who you will meet or where. One you have put your desire out there, the Universe moves people and events to help you, so be open to new experiences and meeting new people. You never know who is sent to help you.

Much love and light to you all

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The vast number of people on this forum are trying to attract a specific person into their life, ex or otherwise. I was one of those people myself, and after a long time I have finally discovered that I was doing this the entirely opposite way.

I have never heard anyone, Abraham; Bashar ; Wayne D… talk about attracting specific people into their life but yet this forum is totally devoted to that. So the question becomes where did the idea that LoA can attract a specific person even come from?

Secondly and this is the most important factor, the teachings are primarily contradictory to what is being practised here.

LoA is primarily about cause and effect, energy turning to material manifestations. The entire teaching is based on doing something that many of us find very difficult… accepting what is, letting go of the control and allowing to flow with life.

In none of those teaching do they ever talk about sending love, changing the way you feel so that other person can feel differently about you and come back. The questions like I feel good so they will come back, or if I forget them will they come back, or if I do this … they will come back.

That’s going about it the completely wrong way. You cannot change the other person; you cannot change their vibration and attraction. You can only change yourself. If you are constantly looking to see if they are responding, to somehow measure how you are doing, then you are missing the point completely.

That is why you are able to manifest small material things so easily, because you don’t have that constant attachment to the manifestation. You are allowing/flowing and receiving what is given to you, without constantly measuring your progress.
These teaching are all about you, and nobody else. You have to ask yourself at one point why are you doing all this for someone who left, or is not interested? I would have to say there is a large probability you are not allowing something that will actually make you happy and fulfilled in.

Don’t want to be a party pooper here, but I am just saying the approach is off. That’s why if you look at success stories, they are based on people letting completely go and allowing whatever relationship they want to come in. Whether it’s an ex or otherwise… and that is the moment that you are actually allowing progress.
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Hi friends,i thought this would be useful for all of you:

Have you ever heard of the Law of Detachment?

Well, I'm sure you have experienced it!

Have you ever liked someone and this guy/gal was all you could think about?

When after all of your energy, he/she never really seemed to feel the same way about you.

Then you finally get the hint, not to waste anymore time and let the idea of that great relationship go...and then all of the sudden he/she starts seeking you out, wanting your attention and a relationship with you!

Or you had a client that you just knew was going to move to the next level and you focused your energy on talking about what you thought this person would do and when...and he did nothing.
The Law of Detachment says that the way to acquire what you want is to let go of your attachment. By letting go, we are not letting go of our intention to manifest it.

How Do We Apply It?
Start with moving through your day with detached sense of being. This means that when problems arise, you don't "lose your cool" because you know that a solution will present itself.

If you stand firm in your detachment, you won't feel that you have force it or push toward a solution, it will happen on it's own time. You in turn can stay open to possibilities with the trust that all is in perfect order.

1. Practice detached interactions.

2. Accept things don't always go as planned.

3. Be open to solutions instead of wallowing in the problem.

The great thing about the Law of Detachment is that it works well with the Law of Attraction. In order for you to attract what you want, you must be detached to the outcome.
What Happens If I'm Attached?

When you are attached, you vibrate fear, doubt and need. You are attracting more fear, doubt and need, since we know the Law of Attraction says, "like attracts like." You are approaching your desire from a position of worry.

What is worry?

It is planning to fail.

Your mind is creating all these failure scenarios. You think them over and over. It creates this negative downward spiral.

When you're attached to an outcome you're giving away your personal power. When you allow things outside yourself to bring you satisfaction or joy, you're giving over control to something or someone else. You're then powerless.
In the above examples, with a relationship you're riding the emotional roller coaster, sometimes up and sometimes down. When they're paying attention to you, the coaster is headed up, we feel great, all is well in the world...and headed on the downside when they're not paying attention to you, and we feel sad, frustrated and start to worry.

Or in the case of the client , we feel great the client is moving forward and feel uncertain of ourselves when the client doesn't.

We can't allow ourselves to be emotionally attached!
So, How Do I Become Detached?

Have you heard the saying, "Let go and let God"? This is the absolute trust and faith that you have that God, the universe, the source provides all things. You are trusting that there is enough, that you deserve all great things coming to you.

Law of Detachment means that whatever you seek has no power over you, you are in control.

So many people think to get something that they must hang on for their life....but the truth is, it's the letting go, that brings it to you. So please don't rush to grab those palladium wedding bands,take things slow and let the guy/gal come to you. However you can apply this to any life situation.
http://www.lawofattraction123.com/law-of-detachment.html

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First of all, THANK YOU! THANK YOU! THANK YOU!

Thank you for this forum, Thank you to all of you who give me advice and granted my wish in the wishing game in this forum. THANK YOU!

Yes, it’s a success story! I am back with my D.

We are back together, and yes distance is not a problem with LOA.

I have been through it all, the disappointment, non- stop crying stage, losing appetite, obsessing about contacting him, refuse to let him go, said horrible things to him and then regret about it, harassing him with short messages and phone call.
He was very stern about his decision back then, he said he want to be alone for now, he was cold and really don’t give a damn about how I feel, about my tears, and don’t listen when I tried to reason with him, he was really furious and sick with my tears.

We broke up in the end of July. I felt so lost back then, I felt so trapped in my own sadness, I need a way out of it, so I tried to find myself back, that’s what all the resources thread said, work on yourself first and love yourself first, be happy and have fun, find the old you back.

So, I begin my journey to find myself back.

What I did---
1) The first step I took was registered a music class, art class, and start new sport. All of this helps me to get out of my usual social circle and keep me busy, the excitement of learning new things helps me to detach.

2) I write my gratitude list every day, I am thankful to all the good things that happen to me every day.

3) I stop listen to the news and radio, I cut myself out from news and love song. It’s a good decision, because sad love song will only drag me into more negative thinking, and happy love song will only trigger my tear.

4) Whenever I have fear that he will met someone else, or doubt we will not get back together, I do EFT and listen to Om Mani Padme Hom, both of this calm me down.

5) I listen to Abraham and Bashar almost every day and the message both of them try to deliver is to have fun, be happy, then things that you want will fall into place. So, I went on a vacation, travel to another country with my friends. Being among old friends and with all the fun I had in that trip help me to detach.

6) I do no contact for detachment, it wasn’t really successful, I keep having the urge to contact him. However, I did manage in the end to go no contact for a month.

7) I found out about Hooponopono, I took 100% responsibility for all things that appear in my life and stop the blaming game, this breakup + this sadness in my life was all because of me, not D fault, not God Fault, not anyone fault but mine. If I have the ability to cause all this, I have the ability to change it too. So, I start to cleanse by repeating I am sorry, please forgive me, I love you and I thank you, whenever I felt sad, angry or when negative thought start to creep in.

What you give is what you receive. I give more, make donation to those who need it, and are much more considerate about those who are around me; I spend more time with my parent, improve our relationship and be truly thankful for having them. I give love, and now received love back.

9) I start my 28days programs following “The Magic”. It really plants the positive thinking deep into my heart. One day, I found myself thinking I have nothing to be sad in this life, because I am so blessed! I am happy with my life again, even without him.
I highly recommend all to do “ The Magic” exercise!

10) Inspired action. I don’t quite understand about inspired action before. Whenever I have the urge to contact him I will wonder if it’s the inspired action, I will have doubt if I should really make the call.
One morning in the late November, I suddenly had the urge to call him, this time I felt different, there is no doubt, no fear of rejection, I just dial the number!  We had a fun and easy conversation, he said I sound different, I sound much happier. In the end of the conversation, we agree for meet up.

I flew to his country, and he was there at the airport waiting for me. We had a few arguments when we met up about the remaining problem from the old relationship, but this time, we managed to sit down and talk it out, I think we both learned and grow from the breakup. Until today, things between us are so much better than the old relationship.

We got back together after 3 month of breakup, now looking back, 3 month is not such a long time, but back then 1 day feel like a month, and a month feel like a year, I know exactly what you are going through, however find yourself back, have fun and be happy, then everything will fall into place. People can really sense your positive energy, my positive energy on that phone call got me the chance for a meet up, and NO, you cannot fake positive energy because I tried before, acting and sound cheerful, but he knew, he knew it was fake, I was desperate and needy, he dislike the needy desperate Renee

Sometimes, I do still have fear about the future of this relationship, but this time, I know how to handle fear. Thank you LOA, and all of you who have been there for me.
Thank You!

Be happy dear, I make it, so can you.

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Hi everyone!

First of all, sorry for my English, I'm not a native speaker, and Happy New Year to all of you, hope everything you guys desire comes true! 

I've been reading this forum and other pages about LOA recently and you all have helped me A LOT, so a big THANK YOU to all of you 

My story is the usual stuff, lots of fights due to insecurities and absurd jelousy, bad words, tears, problems and negative things attracted by me myself, big fight and going into the usual no contact period.

First week of NC was hell, of course, but I stayed strong thanks to this forum and lots of support from family and friends. I also have a small financial problem, so I decided to use LOA to get this solved, did the usual visualization/affirmation stuff, imagining that the money was already in my hands and feeling happy as I did, and after I did that just once, I kind of forgot about money problems, since I was feeling soooooo miserable about my breakup. So, I forgot about money, and guess what, just TWO DAYS after I did my little visualization exercise I got the money out of nowhere and completely by surprise!!! (it was a combination of Christmass lottery and debts payed back). I'm talking of no great fortune, of course, but it was enough to sort out the little financial problem I was having!! 

So, after that I was soooo amazed about LoA being real (couldn't believe it would work so fast and so easy, it was like magic, guys, I coudn't believe my eyes LOL) and about my problems being solved, that I slowly started to forget about my breakup and decided that I was gonna be happy and extremely thankful for the things that I had (money, family and amazingly supportive friends). So, although I was still hurting about my guy, I had a lovely Christmas time, with nice home-made food, going out, gifts, family and friends.

Slowly, I started to kind of feel this "vortex" sort of thing you guys always speak to: I was feeling less sad by the day, and I was happy about new projects and new things coming to my life and I was slowly starting to love myself again (bought new clothes for Christmas, getting my hair done, going to the gym, feeling good in my shoes, you know, the usual stuff). At first, I thought I 'd never speak to him again, because he told me not to contact him again under any circumstances, very angrily, you know, the usual stuff. And also because I felt that I would never be able to "dettach" from him, cause you know how hard these things can get, guys, we've all been there.

But you know, I got all these good things and slowly started to feel better about the break up and see things in a different light. I was "dettaching" from the desire to speak to him, without even noticing.

I even stopped counting the days, so I'm not sure  But I think it's been a month more or less since NC started, couldn't tell you the exact date 

So just this morning, this very morning, I woke up and felt something weird. Something had changed and I didn't know what  I was feeling strangely light-hearted, I don't, it was weird, I suddenly was feeling much better, and found to my amazement that I no longer cared about getting him back or not, I felt happy and I didn't know why, it was sooooo weird guys!!  So I thought "dude, this must be this "dettachment" thing everyone talks about. I no longer care about him talking to me or not. I'm comfortable in my shoes, I've got many good things and people in my life and I'm greatful. I just wish him to be happy with or without me. Maybe this is true dettachment and maybe I'll get to speak back to him in a few months, but I don't really care anymore, I've forgiven him, I've forgiven myself and I'm sure I'll be fine, come what may.I'm just gonna be happy and I'm going to do everything I can to stay in this vortex of happiness and dettachment I've just arrived to". This was a true awakening moment I had, guys.

And guess what, just a couple of hours ago, when I was getting all these good vibes, and I didn't know where they were coming from, I f**** got a text from him!!!  I COULDN'T BELIEVE IT.

I still can't  I just thought we were never ever ever speaking to each other again, and BOOM there it was. So I just kept it cool and short, wished him Happy New Year and all (we didn't speak a single word/text to each other during the entire holiday period), hope you're doing fine stuff, thanks for the text, smiley here and there, you know. I was just soooo thankful just to hear from him 

So you know, guys, I don't know what the future holds, I don't know if we will ever be back toghether again, or just friends, or not, whatever. But for the moment, I'm just happy we're in friendly terms and I'm sure everything is going to be just fine, either together or separate, but we'll be ok.

And I'm soooo thankfull to LOA for existing and being REAL. So I'm so thankfull I'm just speechless, I don't know what to do to reward the Universe back, so I just thought I could write a post to say THANK YOU to the Universe and to help and encourage all these people who are still struggling with no contact or with breakups or fights.

Guys, THERE IS LIFE AFTER NO CONTACT. Use this valuable time to heal, to improve yourself, to do things you love, to love yourselves, to practice LOA and to be happy and to get into your vortex and be thankful and cheerful about the good things you already have. The rest will come on its own.

In my case, NC has been for over a month (I think). Sometimes NC is longer, other times is shorter. In any case, use NC wisely and DO NOT DESPAIR. All good things are just out there waiting for you, and they WILL come. Don't struggle. Just be happy and happy things will happen to you. Forgive yourself, forgive your partner, and things will be sorted out very easily.

STAY HAPPY, lots of love to everyone, courage for those struggling and a big THANK YOU to all of you guys for your ideas and for this wonderful forum. 

  (sorry for the looooooooooong post :S  )

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