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Messages - Vicki Christina
« on: March 19, 2013, 07:10:43 AM »
What a wonderful story you have shared. Getting busy with life sure makes a difference! Also I like your not so fast to be together again attitude. When my guy and I were starting contact again - I also declined some invitations and it was the right thing to do in that situation too!
« on: March 19, 2013, 07:03:24 AM »
Also one more question I am curious to know....as much as I would love to talk to him, I never feel the need to text him first anymore. Like i dont want to make contact first even though i want to be in contact with him all of the time. It's as if I somehow know I need to just wait until he reaches out to me first. Is that normal too?
Yes, your idea is normal. I have used it and have had it work for me in the past. Some relationship people call it "leaning back" . Send love and good energy; go out and have a lot of nice times too. They feel your good energy and want to contact you eventually. A couple of times a day read your affirmations and sometimes write positive messages to yourself in your journal! VC
In my story it is mentioned that my guy and I live 4 hours apart (driving) and we were apart for over a year. We had very little contact for a good part of that time.
Your heart energy can get his attention.
Please just spend some time interacting on the boards and reading for ideas. Also, there are great simple books available with good information. Michael Losier and Mike Dooley come to mind as good easy but informative reads!
« on: November 02, 2012, 04:36:17 AM »
Jon, People do get their relationships renewed frequently. Go look at the success stories. You do get to greive the loss of the current relationship. Guess what, a new relationship with the same person can be better the next time around if there is emotional growth! Almost everyone feels awful at the end of a relationship that they want to keep.
Please find a friend to confide in who will help you find reasons to feel grateful for each day. You have a son. If he is already with you and not the child on the way, find a way to be a better than ever father. Work on ways to be ready to be a successful father to the new child.
It is all up to you! First though, know it is normal to feel awful right now! After a while you can work on ways to start climbing to better levels. It is difficult to climb with LOA if you are used to feeling down... It takes work for all of us!
Stay Strong! VC
« on: October 30, 2012, 06:30:01 AM »
Today, I am telling myself "thank you for texting me. Thank you for telling me you miss me." And my primary focus is that he asks me out on a real date for this weekend!
This is the important part! IMHO! Keep it up!
« on: October 30, 2012, 06:26:27 AM »
Thanks, Tin! I miss my time here. With work and then a number of calls a day from my guy, It is hard to find time to do much else. I am finding it difficult to stay close to girlfriends and will try to make more time for my friends. My guy does not try to interfere with my girlfriend time, I just have a difficut time keeping it all covered. I am blessed to have such a situation!
Blessings to you and the entire board! Love, VC
Call these posts: Closer and Closer! Let him know how happy you are to hear from him. Then when he does not call for a little while, affirm that he will call you as soon as he is ready! Sounds like he wants to be connected in a really good way!
« on: October 29, 2012, 07:21:13 AM »
Hello LOA friends! Finally I am ready to share a bit of my relationship success story. I have been with this forum for over 2 and ˝ years. My guy and I broke up several months prior to that time after several years of a mostly good relationship. He had to move back to a town where he had lived and worked many years earlier. An old girlfriend convinced him to renew their relationship.
I had many fears and doubts about our relationship when he moved there and of course all of my fears and doubts came true. I knew about the laws of the Universe but it took me many months to get centered and begin to use the laws for my favor and to create communication and connection with my guy again. I reread my books and read many new books on using the laws of attraction. My many ways to be centered were to meditate, journal, and create positive messages which I constantly rewrote as I became aware and as little messages and intuitive feelings came to me. The best methods for me were to send love – just pure love. I used a lot of Hoponopono. I used remote seduction style methods to send love. It was really not sexual, but pure love. My guy would call and I would have fears and hesitation, then I would not hear from him for a while. This went on and on. I had to learn to allow with his contact and make him feel happy that he called or wrote to me.
One time I affirmed for positive contact with him after a time of no contact for many weeks. My cell phone called him one night – I did not do it. I was out with friends. He heard me having dinner and a nice time in the background. Then he started to call and contact again. That started months of contact again which eventually led to the new relationship.
He tells me that he felt my love in his heart which is exactly what I intended. He decided that I loved him the most. He came up with reasons to be connected. It was difficult because a lot of that time he was with the other woman. I had to make her a non-factor.
It has been a year now that we have been back together. He lives four hours away, but we see each other often. I do not work in the summer, so I spent last summer with him. There have been ups and downs, but it keeps working out as soon as I get centered again - remembering to be love in his life.
He says he felt the love I sent to him. Some of the messages he would write and call about often had wording similar to what I was using in my journaling.
Getting your ex-partner back can be done. It is all in your heart.
Gregg Braden (an author I read about on LOA) posted a few days ago, “Love me when I am least deserving of love as that is when I most need love”. Such true words!
I thank all of the friends here who helped, listened to me, wrote to me, messaged me, and called me to be supportive! LOA is alive and well! VC
« on: June 13, 2012, 07:59:36 PM »
Josh is correct! If you want to renew this relationship, you need to back off for a while. Sometimes you need to back off for a long while. While you do the no contact, work on ways to make yourself happy and raise your energy level! Do some work to find out what part of the relationship problems belong to you.
Set the intentions and then go out and do something that makes you feel good. You do not have to use the same wording all of the time. Find different ways to state the desire in a positive tone. Changing the words does not make it more difficult as long as the intent is the same!
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