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I find that I can deal with what's going on with my guy much easier if I have the distraction of flirting with a new guy. Does this confuse the universe? Ask and it is given. But some say that your thoughts can put a road block up. So, if I have asked to have my guy back, let's say I also continue to do affirmations regarding him, vision board, etc, yet I spend a lot of time thinking of a new person, does that send the universe mixed signals and slow things?

I know I've seen several people here post that they "gave up" on their person, literally quit, walked away, said "I don't want him/her anymore" yet that person still showed back up. Does this mean "ask and it is given" is so concrete that it doesn't matter what we do after we put out that desire??

I've had a lot of alone time to just think, so bear with me.

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This was emailed to me today...Enjoy




Dream Beyond Your Circumstances. 


 
So many people today are stuck! It’s not because they aren’t worthy; it’s not because they don’t have God’s favor, but it’s because their vision is limited.


They can’t see beyond their Circumstances!!!!!!!!!


They don’t see themselves accomplishing their dreams, attracting their soulmate, being promoted or living healthier. They just see more of the same because it’s what they are FOCUSED on.


What you see is ALWAYS what you’re going to move toward.


The truth is, we all have vision. Every one of us has a picture in our mind of our self, our family and our future.  The question is: what does your picture look like? Do you see yourself rising higher, overcoming obstacles....living an abundant life?


Do you dare to dream BEYOND your Circumstances?


Today, why don’t you change your focus?  Lift your eyes beyond your Circumstances....Get a BIGGER DREAM, a GREATER VISION, for your life.

 
See yourself the way God sees you, EXPAND your vision, move FORWARD, and LIVE in the abundant life NOW that He has prepared for you!

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I found this poem online and I thought it was lovely so I wanted to share it with you all,it is about letting go.  under this line is from a different source and i do not take any credit for it 
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I want to address some key verses in this poem to help you to see how you can apply the ‘letting go ‘ principal to your relationships. My comments are in CAPS.

LETTING GO TAKES LOVE
To let go does not mean to stop caring,
it means I can't do it for someone else.
To let go is not to cut myself off,
it's the realization I can't control another.
To let go is not to enable,
but allow learning from natural consequences.

IT IS SIMPLY AMAZING WHEN YOU DO THIS - I HAVE DONE THIS - MY FIRST STEP WAS TO ALLOW MY DIVINE TO SPEAK TO ME - BUT NOT TO JUST LISTEN BUT TO REALLY UNDERSTAND THAT LETTING GO AND LETTING GOD BE IN CONTROL IS SO FREEING.

IT LITERALLY ALLOWS FREES YOU AND LET A GREATER POWER WHO IS ABSOLUTE GUIDE YOU ALONG YOUR LIFE JOURNEY.

I AM LEARNING THAT AS WE LET GO AND GIVE UP CONTROL WE ARE ACTUALLY EMPOWERING SOMEONE TO BE THEIR BEST - AND THAT IS SIMPLY AMAZING. AS THEY NOW ARE LIBERATED TO BE THEMSELVES AND LET GO OF THE FEAR OF YOU BEING IN CONTROL.

WOW!!!

To let go is to admit powerlessness, which means
the outcome is not in my hands.

TO BE POWERLESS DOES NOT MEAN YOU ARE NOT POWERFUL - IT MEANS YOU CONTROL THE POWER WITH IN - AND DON’T USE IT WITH AN IRON FIST BUT WITH A LOVING GENEROUS AND HUMBLE HAND.

To let go is not to try to change or blame another,
it's to make the most of myself.

YOU CAN’T CHANGE SOMEONE - YOU CAN ONLY CHANGE YOURSELF. BY LETTING GO YOU ALLOW THE DIVINE TO CHANGE THE AREAS OF YOUR LIFE THAT IS HOLDING YOU BACK FROM REAL HAPPINESS - FROM NO LONGER LIVING IN FEAR - BUT LIVING IN JOY AND PEACE.

To let go is not to care for,
but to care about.

IT IS THE MOST LOVING THING YOU CAN DO TO CARE FOR THAT PERSON AND ALLOW THEM TO BE EMPOWERED WITH IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH YOU.

To let go is not to fix,
but to be supportive.
To let go is not to judge,
but to allow another to be a human being.
To let go is not to be in the middle arranging all the outcomes,
but to allow others to affect their destinies.

TO LET GO IS TO ALLOW THE DIVINE TO COME IN AND GUIDE THAT INDIVIDUAL INSTEAD OF YOU TRYING TO BE GOD. AND IT STOPS YOU FROM NEEDLESS WORRYING - YOU AE NOW FREE TO BE. AND YOU KNOW WORRYING EQUALS WRINKLES. (SMILES)

To let go is not to be protective,
it's to permit another to face reality.
To let go is not to deny,
but to accept.
To let go is not to nag, scold or argue,
but instead to search out my own shortcomings and correct them.

I THINK THAT SAYS IT ALL!

To let go is not to adjust everything to my desires,
but to take each day as it comes and cherish myself in it.

IT IS TO LOVE MYSELF AS I AM IN THIS MOMENT.

To let go is not to criticize or regulate anybody,
but to try to become what I dream I can be.
To let go is not to regret the past,
but to grow and live for the future.

IT IS TO KNOW YOU HAVE MADE A MISTAKE BUT YOU WILL NOT DO IT AGAIN - BECAUSE “Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.
Albert Einstein

AND I KNOW THAT NONE OF US WANTS TO BE INSANE.

To let go is to fear less and love more.

So my sacred message for you is to love more - allow love to rule, know it is a gift, to be treasured and truly treasure those you love.

Here is to letting go - and letting God.

Namaste!

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I know it's difficult when you manifest, and do not see anything happening. They say the physical world is behind the vibrational world, so you have to be patient. I thought of this analogy to help whoever is struggling and maybe put it into perspective.

Manifesting is like ordering something online. You manifested it, (ordered it) and now the physical world, which is the order showing up at your house, is behind the vibrational world which is the factory or store...aka universe, that is doing all of the work to deliver the  package to your house. It just takes time (5-7 business days  ) but it IS on its way. The moment you hit "confirm order" it is done!

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The technique is to catch myself entertaining a limiting I AM thought about a subject, such as taking a financial or emotional risk, and as quickly as possible say to myself, “Thank you for sharing. What I really believe is… (fill in the blank with a positive declaration of what I want and deserve to be, do, or have).”

This simple technique works so well because thanking my mind for its input disarms my perception of danger (moving outside my comfort zone) and helps me replace the self-limiting belief with a new belief that supports my desire and of course, helps me remember who I really am.

Limiting core beliefs can hide in I AMs that take various forms such as I HAVEs or I HATEs, I CAN’Ts, “My-Me WONT’s” or I DON’Ts. Examples are: “I have so many problems.” “I hate this/him/her.” “I can’t do that.” “My upbringing won’t let me.” “I don’t know how.”

If you can pay attention to what you were thinking when you started feeling bad, and choose thoughts that shift your energy toward the future you want to attract, you are moving in the right direction.

You know you are making progress when…

“I have so many problems,” becomes “Thank you for sharing. What I really believe is that all the help I need to resolve my problems is finding its way to me now.”

“I hate her,” becomes “Thank you for sharing. What I really believe is that she is a part of God too, and instead of getting upset when she criticizes me, I’m going to find a way to appreciate and compliment her good qualities.”

“I can’t do that,” becomes “Thank you for sharing. What I really believe is that I can do that when I’m ready, and I’m getting more prepared to do that every day.”

“My upbringing won’t let me,” becomes, “Thank you for sharing. What I really believe is that I was taught not to do that, but I’m beginning to see that it makes sense to at least try to do that until I decide for myself if I should or shouldn’t do it.”


You can enhance your progress by writing down your limiting I AMs as they come up. Later, when you have some quiet time, write down the “Thank you for sharing. What I really believe…

and thats what i am going to do here since i am a lazy hand- writer
whoever wants to follow is more than welcome!!!




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This might sound crazy but i just met you. just kidding. horrible joke. anyways, this might sound crazy but you know when you get an adraneline rush? not intense like you have to run for your life but maybe just when you get surprised to see someone? Or you just won something, or maybe you just got a text from someone you really wanted a text from? And not just excited, but you can feel it through your body for a second? Well, I dont know if this is just me or if everyone can do this but I can pretty much make myself get that adraneline rush just by making myself haha. It helps if you clap your hands really fast together (I do that anyways when I get really excited) and just feel it ..haha I hope you know what im talking about! Anyways, I can do that over and over for like a minute and just think of what I want (what I HAVE). I honestly think this is the most effective way for me to manifest because there is so much energy going on..anyone know what I'm talking about?

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LOA HOROSCOPES



Read your LOA style in your Horoscope 



Enjoy!!!!!!


Horoscope signs reveal the most natural approaches that zodiac natives usually take to achieve a goal. Working with the law of attraction can be challenging if you're going against your own nature to manifest a desired thing. Identifying the aspects of the zodiac sign you're born under which resonate with you can turn previously lackluster thoughtforms into outstanding manifestations.



Aries

You're a go-getter. You need to be moving, and you're a natural pioneer. Your planning could use a little work, though. Take a moment from your many adventures to accurately identify what you're after and the actionable routes you'll require to manifest it.

Speak re-patterning affirmations while you're showering, doing dishes, or taking care of other routine business. Make it a habit that becomes automatic.

When you begin to notice the early stalks of your thought seeds manifesting in your life, take decisive action that helps them through. The key word here is decisive. You can have impulsivity issues if you're not careful. When working with the law of attraction flesh out a game-plan whenever you take a few steps forward toward your goal.



Taurus

You're one of the horoscope signs that can set your mind to something and keep it there. It's an admirable quality and one you can use to your maximum benefit. Utilize your earthy qualities by identifying the aspects of your belief-system that need to be re-seeded.

If you're needing to work on issues with possessiveness, utilize affirmations that help you to condition a less suffocating style of appreciation for those you love.

You can also utilize a vision board with butterflies, dolphins, and other carefree totemic animals to this end. You're a sensuous, earthy, and powerful force. Pour your significant care into matters of long-lasting value to trigger the passion needed for best law of attraction results.
 


Gemini

As the first air sign in the zodiac, you are a born taste-tester. This can work very well for law of attraction endeavors that involve your desire to adventure in possibilities without having to immerse yourself too deeply.

Attachment is not something you tend to seek, and this is advantageous when working with the law of attraction.

Working with affirmations that end in  “... or something better”  is in perfect harmony with your sensibilities. Maximize your desire to engage in regular spontaneity, and you'll have much to celebrate when a myriad of choices manifest to delight your curious nature.


Cancer

Horoscope signs of the water element, like your sign of the scarab (the original totem for this state of reason), interact with the world from subterranean depths. You see things that escape the intuitions and general senses of most. Utilize your ample intuition to determine the best routes for your manifested desires.

Work with your receptivity to ensure you're allowing yourself all that you truly deserve. Individuals with scarab-born mindstates can fall into a tendency to over-nurture others at the expense of themselves.

Be ever-mindful of this so the universe doesn't have to give you harsh lessons that eventually frustrate you into demanding better treatment. Matters that involve your home-base, possessions, nostalgia, investments, partner, and children will ignite your fire for the fueling of successful manifestations.


Leo

Of all the horoscope signs, you're the one with royal sensibility. You're easily the life of the party, family unit, and dramatic production, and probably quite good when it comes to speculation as well.

Your winning smile and put your best-foot-forward presentation go a long way in attracting you the attention your love of the lime-light craves. The best law of attraction approach for your thoughtforms is to incorporate a social element. Involve others in group manifesting operations of which you're the center.

Many minds can accomplish a great deal, and it's a sure thing they'll be glad to have you leading the way.
 


Virgo  **This one is mine**

You're meticulous approach to analysis and organizing ensures you'll prevail in law of attraction techniques that are highly methodical.

Lists, exact numbers of chants/mantras, particular yoga positions associated with pin-pointed vibrational states, and habit-formation (potent) are all within the scope of your law of attraction style's reach. Be wary of over-analyzing matters when you're setting an intention, however.

Set an intention, and let it fly free. Immediately focus on another goal after that to keep your mind out of the loop of checks and balances you have a tendency to travel. You prevail at law of attraction methods that call on your steadfast, earthy qualities and superior organization skills.
 


Libra

You're a born socialite with a natural eye and feel for high-quality aesthetic. Your law of attraction style is a magnetic one.

If you're crafty, work with symbolism in your arts that you can look upon regularly to further seed the thought configurations of your choosing. If not, look for the artworks of others that contain symbolisms that best represent what you're manifesting into your life experience.

Consider listening to songs that have messages in line with your goals. Arts of many forms can reach your psyche (where you connect with your magik) in very powerful ways.



Scorpio

Your laser-focus and fixed-intensity are made for achieving goals. Be sure that your goals have a pure root, however. Your power can be formidable, but it is best focused on aims that are healthy for you. Your fixed nature can cause you to obsess over things that you're off better letting go of.

Obsession is also the antithesis to the law of attraction's detachment requirement. Once an intention is set, the “need” aspect should be abandoned. The goal should be allowed to fly away and return fully manifested. You're one of the most focused signs in the zodiac.

Fix your power-nature upon success when you're establishing law of attraction patterns, and you can expect nothing short of that to manifest.

 
Sagittarius

Your expansive approach to life makes you a shoe-in for law of attraction operations that require huge leaps of faith. Search your heart for those hopes and desires that are largely-scaled, and you will wow yourself with the positive thoughtforms you manifest.

Use your high-intelligence to locate the best paths for your ventures, and relish them as quests (your sign's vibration tends to place high value on quests). Keep your eyes open also for those in your rather large social network who would make worthy partners in the manifestations of practical goals.

Your jovial nature wins you many friends and admirers who would love to help you send arrow-to-target.
 


Capricorn

There's more to you than a no-nonsense nature. You may well be the hardest working sign in the zodiac, but you're also a dreamer to your depths. Your law of attraction style asks that you to employ repetition to build a formidable stronghold around your belief system.

Once you're able to seed a framework (like the bones your sign rules), it will be strong and enduring (as you accept nothing less from your work or the offerings of others that are meant to impart deep value).

Repeated affirmations and actions that follow well-organized plans of action will win you incredibly powerful manifestations. Your sign's vibration can seed ultimate failure or major-levels of worldly success.
 


Aquarius

The last of the horoscope signs that fly the air element, Aquarius keeps a vessel of water in her/his possession. The symbolism of this points to the ability of the Aquarian state of consciousness to connect the air and water realm while still maintaining a sense of reason.

The gift here is intuition (with potential to be prophetically so) and the quality of detachment that allows one to “feel” without “getting sucked into” feeling states.

Your law of attraction style is one of harmony between individual and collective order. You're a true philanthropist with an interest in how matters affect groups of beings. Your genius talents with developing and refining systems make it possible for you to create optimal patterns of thought that can re-seed your belief base at very deep levels and make a potent impact on your manifest world experience.
 


Pisces

You are one with the dream realm, having the proverbial foot in both worlds. Your law of attraction style is dreamtime-passivity. Couple your fantastical imagination with your magnetism, and allow yourself to receive the good of your vibrational thoughtforms. Your ability to imagine possibilities only some show the ability to conjure up is a formidable tool in manifesting operations.

Pay distinct heed to your intuitions as well. Your feelings can light up the path to your desires quite easily if you're open to the truth and avoid deluding yourself. Vision boards, symbolic dance, and play-acting are all activities that are in distinct alignment with your law of attraction style.

Horoscope signs based in the water element also do well with intentional receptivity. If you've had trouble being too receptive or not receptive enough, find creative ways to create a receptivity habit that communicates the ability to “accept the good” into your profound psyche.
 

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Two of my favorite pieces of jewelry went missing a while ago. One was a necklace that I hadn't seen in eight months; the other, a pendant I hadn't been able to find in over a year. I never tried manifesting them; I think it was because I lacked confidence on some level (i.e. if I can't manifest these items, which I am sure are in the house, how can I have faith that my Big Dreams will manifest?).

BUT, a couple of weeks ago I decided to use LOA on the necklace. I imagined holding it again, feeling the stone, seeing it hanging around my neck when I looked in the mirror. Almost immediately upon finishing my visualization, I experienced a wonderful synchronicity related to this necklace. I'll only say that it involves my love wish. Two or three days later, I was inspired to do some cleaning and found the necklace lying on a shelf amongst a bunch of books. (And I'd looked/cleaned there before!)

Today, I decided to also try manifesting my missing pendant. Barely did I begin to visualize the pendant when I thought of a small Tiffany pouch I'd found when going through some of my winter clothing a few days ago. I'd felt the pouch before, but it had seemed empty. I tried again, though.... and my gingerbread man pendant was there!!!

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So I started to analyze manifestations, how and why they happened. Trying to trace the steps, because if you see a pattern then you actually realize how this whole thing works.

“The universe will always give you what you want, when you actually need it” – This is beyond true, and something I have come to fully realize. I don’t know why I made the quotes, since I just came up with that haha.

So let’s break down the manifestations and how they happened, and start noticing a very interesting pattern to all of them. It’s a good post, so bear with me on this one.. it will make you realize the best way to go about this. 

First a small manifestation I had this year, a new free IPod. Now I really wanted a iPod, and I would sit there and visualize myself listening to music, running and listening to it.. it would feel so fun and amazing. I would say oh man if I had an IPod, I could run and lose all this weight and be in great shape.  (Literally what my affirmations and visualizations were)

But nothing came, I even went online to look at some and get more excited… but nothing. Like WTF universe. So I said screw it, I started to diet … and over the next couple of months I was in pretty good shape. Then I started to run and jog, I did it a few times it was pretty fun.  Then a week later, I got my free IPod. Hmmm interesting

My new job, I was actually thinking about it today, and saying when did that manifestation actually start? Then I got the answer, it was 3 years ago, and I completely forgot about it.

I went to university, and randomly met a bunch of guys there. One of guys mother works for the government in the same building as me. He use to tell me about her job and how shes going to get him in once hes done. I kept saying oh man that would be amazing to work there, can I give you my resume. Then I started to think about it, and really feel it. I sent in a few applications, but nothing. It was hard because I didn’t have the health background, even though I had business degree.

So time went on, and I got my previous job working in healthcare. Now this job was ending, and I was screwed (not going into this much cos I posted about it before). I just said screw it, and whatever happens is gonna happen. Then Bam I got this job, exactly when I needed it the most. Not only that but my previous job was completely perfect for this, without me even knowing or thinking about it at the time.

I have more examples, from meeting my ex who was the best girlfriend I ever had, to other jobs and everything else I wanted.

It all came, but it all came when the time was right, and that is the key. I would have never had this job, without my previous one. I would have never met my ex, without actually dating this one chick and having a shit relationship. Same with my ipod, I got it when I actually fulfilled my end of the manifestation.

Its meeting the universe half way. Most of the time it doesn’t even have to be that much, even less, but you have to put yourself in that direction.

Instead of saying the IPod will help me lose weight and start jogging, I started to lose weight and jog and I got the Ipod.  Instead of saying I want that job with all these specifics.. get the job that will best align you with that desire first. Same with the relationship issue. I want a person to make me feel good and feel love and complete (and all the other details)… im going to feel all those things and then he/she will come

Its almost like working backwards. So look at those affirmations you are making and visualizations… trace the steps and you will know exactly what you need to do to make that manifestation happen. It really does work.

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I ran into this almost magically... Thank You GOD... 

During my meditation I saw the vision of a key... It was golden(ish) in color... It appeared just by itself in my vision... I think it looked like my mail-box key...I wasn't sure why I saw that... Collecting mail was due, now that I think about it

Well anyways... I thought I will do a search for 'Golden Key' and this is what I found... Following is an abridged version of the complete book which I have not found yet

http://www.squidoo.com/thegoldenkey

The Golden Key
By Emmet Fox
"Angel of the Dawn" © 2009 by Richard Burns

Scientific prayer will enable you to get yourself or anyone else, out of any difficulty. It is the golden key to harmony and happiness.

To those who have no acquaintance with the mightiest power in existence, this may appear to be a rash claim, but it needs only a fair trial to prove that, without a shadow of doubt, it is a just one. You need take no one's word for it, and you should not. Simply try it for yourself.

God is omnipotent, and we are God's image and likeness and have dominion over all things. This is the inspired teaching, and it is intended to be taken literally, at its face value. The ability to draw on this power is not the special prerogative of the mystic or the saint, as is so often supposed, or even of the highly trained practitioner. Everyone has this ability whoever you are, wherever you may be; the golden key to harmony is in your hand now.

This is because in scientific prayer it is God who works, and not you, and so your particular limitations or weaknesses are of no account in the process. You are only the channel through which the divine action takes place, and your treatment will be just the getting of yourself out of the way.

Beginners often get startling results the first time, for all that is essential is to have an open mind and sufficient faith to try the experiment. Apart from that, you may hold any views on religion, or none.

As for the actual method of working, like all fundamental things, it is simplicity itself. All you have to do is this: Stop thinking about the difficulty, whatever it is, and think about God instead. This is the complete rule, and if only you will do this, the trouble, whatever it is, will disappear.

It makes no difference what kind of trouble it is. It may be a big thing or a little thing. It may concern health, finance, a lawsuit, a quarrel, an accident, or anything else conceivable: but whatever it is, stop thinking about it and think of God instead--that is all you have to do.
It could not be simpler, could it? God could scarcely have made it simpler, and yet it never fails to work when given a fair trial.

Do not try to form a picture of God, which is impossible. Work by rehearsing anything or everything that you know about God. God is wisdom, truth, inconceivable love. God is present everywhere, has infinite power, knows everything, and so on. It matters not how well you may think you understand these things: go over them repeatedly.

But you must stop thinking of the trouble, whatever it is. The rule is, to think about God. If you are thinking about your difficulty, you are not thinking about God. To be continually glancing over your shoulder in order to see how matters are progressing is fatal, because it is thinking of the trouble, and you must think of God and nothing else.

Your object is to drive the thought of the difficulty out of your consciousness, for a few moments at least, substituting for it the thought of God. This is the crux of the whole thing. If you can become so absorbed in this consideration of the spiritual world that you forget for a while about the difficulty, you will find that you are safely and comfortably out of your difficulty--that your demonstration is made.
In order to "golden key" a troublesome person or a difficult situation, think. "Now 1 am going to 'golden key' John, or Mary. or that threatened danger": then proceed to drive all thought of John, or Mary, or the danger out of your mind, replacing it with the thought of God.

By working in this way about a person, you are not seeking to influence his conduct in any way, except that you prevent him from injuring or annoying you, and you do him nothing but good. Thereafter, he is certain to be in some degree a better, wiser, and more spiritual person, just because you have "golden keyed" him. A pending lawsuit or other difficulty would probably fade out harmlessly without coming to a crisis, justice being done to all parties concerned.

If you find that you can do this very quickly, you may repeat the operation several times a day with intervals between. Be sure, however, each time you have done it, that you drop all thought of the matter until the next time. This is important.

We have said that the golden key is simple, and so it is, but of course it is not always easy to turn. If you are very frightened or worried, at first it may be difficult to get your thoughts away from material things. But by constantly repeating a statement of absolute Truth, such as: There is no power but God: I am the child of God, filled and surrounded by the perfect peace of God: God is love; God is guiding me now; or, perhaps best and simplest of all. God is with me--however mechanical or trite it may seem -- you will soon find that the treatment has begun to "take." and that your mind is clearing.

Do not struggle violently; be quiet, but insistent. Each time you find your attention wandering, switch it back to God.
Do not try to think in advance what the solution to your difficulty will be. This is called "outlining" and will only delay the demonstration. Leave the question of ways and means to God. You want to get out of your difficulty; that is sufficient. You do your half, and God will never fail to do His.

"Whoever calls on the name of the Lord shall be saved" (Acts 2:21).

Hope this helps someone... Or if you have any knowledge about this please share... 

LOVE & GOD BLESS,
-NS

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Yes folks this is brand new.. nowhere else on the interwebs but Stefzilla's  page. This is audio from last months seminar.

This is the BEST clip ever. EVER

Once it starts you may think "But Stef, this doesnt sound so good!"

Guess what?! Your wrong !!

After you listen to it, and say wow that was the best ever... you may comment below and tell me

Everything was going good... until

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Letting go - the stage of universal capability of everything.

5. Calm down. Let go. Really, it's that easy. You're probably afraid that detachment and letting go is equal to giving up, but it is not. You just stop WORRYING and thinking about it all day - because it's wrong to do that. When your lover finally makes contact, which I'm sure will happen, you might be extra surprised about it. That's why it's so magical!

Good luck, blessings and love to all of you! I know that now I've shared this, your success stories are on their way to be published!

I was just thinking, it's true. Sometimes we tend to make a big deal out things. We expect letting go to be very difficult and for some of us that's the reason why it is, simply because we expect it to be.

Something struck me today. I could feel a shift in my emotions and thoughts about letting go and accomplishing it just by asking myself a few questions and answering them honestly and rationally:

1. Do I really believe that I'm going to stay depressed and sad forever?
A. No, because I already feel better, it's getting better. Time heals. It doesn't take away desire or love for a person. But acceptance comes with time.

2. Do I really feel that if I lose him, I'll never find anyone else?
A. I may be very much in love with him. But my rational mind knows that there are scores of other guys who fit the bill perfectly, some even more so. I know my life is going to be great. Whether he comes back or I find another guy, I know I want love in my life and I deserve it. Humans gravitate towards those things that make them happy. So will I.

3. Do I really believe he hates me and that there is no hope?
A. Of course not! There's always hope. People change, their thoughts and beliefs change. We mature, grow and learn. We are perfectly capable of building a stronger better relationship. You cannot hate someone you've loved that deeply. Hate is just a reaction to pain, hurt, anger, grief, loneliness and fear.

4. Do I really believe that he's never coming back and that I'll live my life out alone and pining for him?
A. My rational mind says no. I've been with him so long and am so much in love that it is my natural frequency. That's my vibration. I'm happy being in love with him. I can see in my mind's eye, just like it was yesterday, everything about our relationship, the small things and the big. I truly believe he's with me and we're a perfect match. I do not see myself with anyone else in my head and I completely believe it possible. This view could change, but I'm happy with that happening if it's for my best.

And VOILA!! I just knew that I've let go, and it's been this way for a while. I was confused as to whether or not I had, because we read and assimilate so many divergent views on the topic, along with our own insights. Now, no matter what I do with respect to affirming, visualising, RS, gratitude, EFT, etc. even if I feel like doing it, I know that I'm already there.

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As you know from my last post, recently I have been feeling down and sad again about being separated from my girl and from a lot of my friendships falling apart. Well, my subconscious revealed to me last night via a dream just how destructive negative emotions can be. In my dream, I was in a large room, surrounded by what appeared to be every person I have come to know in my life. All of them were seated, looking at me, all smiling evil grins. Then, one person seated directly in front of me, who I did not recognize, pulled out his wallet, and stated rather coldly yet with a laugh "I'll pay for the bullet if you promise to kill yourself." Immediately, everyone in the room started laughing tremendously, like it was the funniest thing that they had heard in their life, like nothing would be more hilarious than for me to end mine.

The dream went on, and it eventually turned around and ended on a good note, but I won't go into details because I haven't determined if what occurred toward the end was significant or not.

I know the importance of dreams. I know that they can be used for precognition of an event that has not occurred, as they have done this for me before. But I also know that dreams reveal to us what has been implanted into our subconscious minds, and they reflect how we really feel. They are expressions of unconscious desires and opinions. As of late, I have been feeling like the ones I loved (aside from my family, who have been nothing but supportive of me through out this whole ordeal) have turned their backs on me. And, ever since I have been separated from my girl, there have been a few occasions where I have entertained the thought of suicide, and this is not the first time in my life that I have done so. During my teens, there were several traumatic incidents that have brought me to this brink before. But, my faith in the Lord has stopped me from ever carrying it out, because I know that in this world so full and tainted with negativity that we shall face hardship and sorrow at one point or another, no matter how happy we are. It is our happiness, though, and our faith that is supposed to give us the strength to make it through, so that we can continue to enjoy our existence with one another down here.

It brings me back to my favorite passage in the New Testament, which I will eventually make into my first tattoo. John 16:33, the words of Jesus: "These things I have spoken unto you, that in me ye might have peace. In the world, ye shall have tribulation: but be of good cheer; I HAVE OVERCOME THE WORLD."

So long as I have those words to hold on to, so long as I know that the Law of Attraction is real and working at all times, I will never contemplate suicide.

Today, I am making a new dedication. Today, I will walk with my head held high and with a smile on my face. I will no longer put off playing and writing music. I will no longer feel sorry for myself. I know that it is entirely possible to win back someone through our hearts and minds, if our intentions are good and pure. I will be reunited with my girl. Her memory will bring me nothing but joy and happiness. As for all of the people who have turned their backs on me, and have ignored me, I say this: WHO NEEDS THEM? If they're so superficial that they are going to act like that I don't even exist, what kind of friends are they in the first place? Oh wait, THEY'RE NOT. I still have a two or three good people in my life who are always there for me if I message or call them. They would never turn their backs on me. What more do I need? I would rather have a handful of real friends than a Facebook account full of fake friends. 

I know that I will feel sad in my life and cry sometimes (I actually shed a few tears while writing this ) but I will experience and express these emotions, and then I will let them go. I refuse to let these emotions control me and destroy me.

So today, I set this intention, and I will let it go and let God fulfill it via my faith in Him: I AM SO THANKFUL THAT I AM REUNITED WITH MY GIRL. I AM SO THANKFUL THAT I HAVE REAL FRIENDS THAT I CAN COUNT ON. I AM SO THANKFUL THAT I HAVE SO MANY OPPORTUNITIES IN MY LIFE TO PLAY MUSIC. I AM SO THANKFUL FOR OBTAINING KNOWLEDGE OF THE LAW OF ATTRACTION, AND I AM THANKFUL THAT I CAN CONTROL MY REALITY.

To everyone on here that has lost someone they loved: YOU WILL BE REUNITED WITH THEM, IF THAT IS YOUR INTENT AND YOUR DESIRE. YOU MUST BE HAPPY AT ALL TIMES. YOU MUST LET THE CRAP THAT WE FACE IN THE WORLD ROLL OFF OF YOUR SHOULDERS. STAND STRONG. YOU ARE THE CHILDREN OF GOD ALMIGHTY. IF HE IS FOR YOU, WHO OR WHAT CAN STAND AGAINST YOU?

Thank you all so much for being here. We are in this together. We will all obtain what we are looking for in this life.

Peace, Love, and Understanding to Each and Every Single One of You.

Eric

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