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Hey everyone! I feel like spreading some positive energy today! Even though J and I are not together at the moment, attracting him in the first place is a tremendous success for which I am so, so grateful! Here is how it happened! When my sister first met the man who would become her fiance online, I told her that online dating wasn't for me, and that I would rather meet someone maybe at work. We wouldn't really like each other at first, and we would argue a lot. But over time, we would fall for each other. I told my sister this plan, but then forgot about it. Eventually, I went away to University and met a guy that I instantly was attracted to. He seemed to be interested in me, but we didn't talk very much, and I became a little obsessive about him. I spent the entire next summer thinking about him, and wishing we would be together in the next school year. I went on vacation with my family, and we saw a fireworks show, during which the narrator said that sometimes wishes are granted in the most unexpected way possible. I thought, maybe this guy isn't the one for me, and that someone else was on his way. That night, I wished with all my strength and thought, "Please, please, send me the love of my life!" I still remember the overwhelming feeling in my chest that I had while making that wish! Less than a month later, I went back to University and started my job at the library again. My first day back, a guy that I had never met before introduced himself and asked if it was my first day. I was a little annoyed, because I had worked there the entire previous school year, and we had never talked before. Over the next couple weeks, I noticed that he always seemed to want to talk to me, and he would always work right next to me. I was not instantly attracted to him, and we fought -- a LOT. (Just like the situation I described to my sister!) But it was lighthearted, and I found myself rushing to work every day to fight with him. Seeing him became the highlight of my day! I was on the bus going back to my apartment, when I thought, I am falling for this guy! The more I found out about him, the more I liked him. He was older than me, a graduate student, published author, marathon runner, had an amazing sense of humor, seemed at ease with everyone. He is my idea of perfection. Still, I thought maybe he just liked me as a friend, and we hung out a couple times. Then, we confessed our attraction for each other! I remember one day during work, I said (jokingly), "You have been so mean all day!" And he replied, "No, I've been hard-core flirting with you all day!" We spent five amazing months together, during which both of us knew we were each others' soul mates. Every moment was perfect, we never fought seriously, and I just fell in love with him so easily. It was the easiest thing I have ever done! I told my roommate that it felt as though I've known him my entire life, and she said "A lot of people say it feels that way, when they meet the One!" And I knew in that moment, he was the one for me. I could see myself spending the rest of my life with him. It wasn't some grand epiphany, it was just a place of knowing, and I was extremely content with and satisfied by it. I have never loved anything or anyone more than I love J, and I am so grateful to him for everything he has done for me and for all the moments we had together! I am so, so happy he came into my life!! 
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These videos totally changed my thought process!  Enjoy! IT HELPS!
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After a very successful event celebrating my Mom and Dads 25 th anniversary where there were more than 200 guests. Each of the guest brought blessings to my parents and to my family. I realized today that money and gifts are not important. What is important are those genuine blessings. I could see on each guest's face if they were sincerely happy to be here or were they jealous and felt in a negative way. But overall there were enough well wishing from everyone that made the event such a massive success. So, I am here to distribute those blessings to everyone in this forum. Here are the blessings for everyone - I wish everyone a very happy married lives full with love and laughter. I wish everyone a very grand life with financial freedom. I wish everyone a healthy and a prosperous life ! and I wish everyone to have superb and mind blowing manifestations. Always remember, that one happy and genuine blessing will penetrate 1000 negative thoughts and make your dreams closer. So, come and grab it !! Lots of Love, Abhinav 
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Hello Everyone. Success story! I am back together with my ex. Here’s my story: http://www.powerlawofattraction.com/forum/law-of-attraction-for-relationship-6/getting-my-love-back-9834/30/I know everyone has different ways of dealing and coping, but perhaps if I explain everything I went through, it may help even one other person. So basically, I am so very happy that we had the breakup. I think if YOU are in a breakup and upset/sad/miserable because of it, YOU should be so very happy that you have this opportunity to heal yourself. I realized that, basically, we get crushed in the aftermath because during the relationship we always loved the other person MORE than we loved ourselves. Think about it, even if the relationship was bad you probably just tried to make it better, tried to get them to care more express more BE MORE than they wanted to be or were willing to be. Did you ever stop and think, “what do I want? Does this person make me happy?” I never did. After the breakup I was a mess. I came online and found this forum and read every single thing I could to “get my ex back”. You all know.. How many times have you searched for the same thing online? As I devoured everything I could get my hands on, I realized that I was lacking in self-love. I was so busy chasing others, I never asked myself what I wanted or does this person make me happy? No contact was not easy as a pie but it wasn’t so difficult for me because I always loved him unselfishly. I mean to say, I really truly wanted him to be happy. Even if he didn’t want to be with me. So I kept sending him loving vibes etc. (I guess he really got all my RS! He said he dreamt of me every single night! Wow!) As I read up on everything, as I watched every single Abraham Hicks on youtube, every single Bashar video, I moved further away from him spiritually and closer to myself. And it felt so good!!!! Finally, I was ready. I found myself! I said to myself, I don’t care if he comes back or not, I am so happy either way. And then voila he came back Now, I am going slow, I am going to be the one deciding this time. Everytime I get upset or sad or want more than he is willing to give, I am going to do EFT or Ho’oponopono or use switchwords. I am never going to give up my power again to anyone! And you shouldn’t either. The only person you are going to have with you forever and ever is yourself, so you need to get happy being by yourself as soon as possible. Just let go of resentments, of wanting to hold on tightly to everything. Just let things be. In the last month, I read all the links below a million times. You should too, just in case one little sentence even helps you. Sometimes that is all it takes. I read every link in this forum on relationships. I watched every single video on youtube. I couldn’t really get into RS that much. I have problems meditating still. I started pilates but am doing it from dvd. I lit candles every night and just sent him love. I really connected with ho’oponopono and switchwords. I read up on everything that showed me self-love. Please know that you can do it. It is a process. I tried to force it. I got upset with myself when I couldn’t just snap out of it. I thought about him all the time! But, I guess everything I read and listened to, made little dents inside of me, good dents, even though I didn’t realize it at the time. Dents that became full blown confidence and love for myself. So one day you wake up, and you are shining bright like a diamond. And you are so pleasantly surprised to see that you got through everything. And you have love for yourself, and your ex is back OR NOT but even if they are not you meet someone even better and you love them too, but YOU NEVER STOP LOVING YOURSELF THE MOST. I hope this helps you, all of you, and please let me know I you have any questions at all ! Books: Meetings with Remarkable People by Osho Loving What Is by Byron Katie The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz http://www.abeforum.com/showthread.php?27987-Albuquerque-LIVE-March-10-2012%21/page12 http://www.abeforum.com/showthread.php?27780-Abe-quotes-about-the-Grid/page4http://www.abeforum.com/showthread.php?28058-How-do-I-want-to-feel-about-this-BUILDING-MY-NEW-GRIDS/page2&highlight=relationshiphttp://www.abeforum.com/showthread.php?28897-Reaching-for-relief-in-a-relationship&daysprune=10http://dancewithtruth.wordpress.com/tag/don-miguel-ruiz/http://pathwaytohappiness.com/insights.htmhttp://www.abeforum.com/showthread.php?20829-Aligning-with-reunion-with-my-ex/page4&highlight=breakuphttp://www.theabeforum.com/forum6/8017.htmlhttp://www.theabeforum.com/forum6/11078.htmlhttp://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/heal-your-heart/core-sadness-vs-wounded-sadness/http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/difficult-situations/what-you-dont-love-about-yourself-triggers-you/http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/dating/what-does-he-owe-you/http://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/your-story-questions-for-rori/when-your-boyfriend-wants-space-focus-on-you/#commentshttp://tr.scribd.com/doc/92574680/How-I-Found-Freedom-in-an-Unfree-World
http://www.blueboard.com/tao/tao_20.htmhttp://www.stevepavlina.com/forums/psychic-paranormal/57266-gentle-way-requesting-most-benevolent-outcomes-4.htmlhttp://www.trans4mind.com/counterpoint/index-spiritual/krishnamurti1.shtmlhttp://www.ichoosetoheal.com/downloads/the-power-of-your-subconscious-mind.pdfhttp://www.stevepavlina.com/forums/intention-manifestation/51129-zero-limits-ho-oponopono-discussion.html#post678943http://www.theabeforum.com/forum2/9538-3.htmlhttp://www.theabeforum.com/forum2/9408-3.htmlhttp://www.abeforum.com/showthread.php?29094-Random-quotes/page3&highlight=quoteshttp://www.stumbleupon.com/su/24XlL6/becrobbins.com/blog/top-10-reasons-emotional-pain-is-good/http://lovesagame.com/no-contact-help-how-to-fight-the-urge-to-contact-your-ex/http://www.pathwork.org/lectures/P213.PDF
http://www.powerfulintentions.org/forum/topics/getting-your-ex-lover-back
http://thesecret.tv/stories/stories-read.html?id=19650http://voices.yahoo.com/lighting-old-flame-law-attraction-1339187.html?cat=5http://www.pathwork.org/lectures/P103.PDFhttp://www.theabundanceparadigm.com/fe/3476-the-clearing-videohttp://www.mindreality.com/archive.htmlhttp://www.ascensionhelp.com/higher-self-meditation.php
http://www.powerlawofattraction.com/forum/law-of-attraction-for-relationship-6/swith-words/http://books.google.de/books?id=QWUA7d0_EBUC&pg=PA99&lpg=PA99&dq=switchwords+for+love&source=bl&ots=_I3fD0p2XJ&sig=h27hElyrmFdNW1okeL3OTYQe4ww&hl=de&sa=X&ei=bzZ3T7LTHNDIsgak9Z3RBA&ved=0CEoQ6AEwBQ#v=onepage&q=switchwords%20for%20love&f=falsehttp://www.lollie.com/romance/love5.htmlhttp://www.conures.net/shinn/game7.shtmlhptt://www.tut.com With much Love!!!!
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Hi.. I have a real nice news to share..ummmm nice is not the apt word,I would rather say its a great news to share..One of my major sucess till date and really grand sucess story. But I will post it once everything is finalized.I have a verbal commitment,let it get finalized. In the meanwhile can you please send good luck and super positive vibes !!
Thanks !! I love you all..
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I am so excited and so thankful to be writing this! This LOA success is my third of the year (first two occurred on the 2nd and 4th) and as the other two were huge, this one is even bigger!! At the beginning of the year I decided that I was going to receive $10,000 by 1/31/13. Of course I didn’t know how or why anyone would give me that much money, but I stuck the course - I believed and I got excited about receiving it. Last night as I was falling asleep I reaffirmed that I was going to receive $10,000 by 1/31/13 but also threw on the fact that I was going to turn around and GIVE that money back to the VERY GENEROUS bank that lent it to me so long ago. I figured the bank deserved to have their money back and I was HAPPY to give it to them!  This morning I dropped the kids off at school and as I was driving to work I debated on whether or not to stop at “my” convenience store to get a soda (yes, soda and unfortunately diet). At the last second I decided yes, I would. I go in and as I am filling up my cup I hear the lottery machine signing its toon that we all love to hear – someone was cashing in winning tickets. I thought, “I want what he has!” Then I immediately changed that to, “I will have winning tickets!” (Because I DON’T want what that guy has, I don’t know what he has or doesn’t have in his life). I walk up to the line and I see the cashier pull scratch-it ticket(s) off the roll only to put them back; apparently those were not the tickets the guy wanted. As I am watching the cashier, who I have known for nine years, I look at the bracelets she is wearing, never really paying attention before. You won’t BELIEVE what she was wearing! She was wearing a rubber bracelet that said, “I AM GRATEFUL”!!!!! OMG!!  It was my turn in line so I said that I would take the ticket that she tore off, she said, “Both of them?” I didn’t know there were two and they were $2/each, but I still said yes. I didn’t know what type of tickets I was buying and as I walked out to my car the tickets exclaim, “Win up to $10,000!”  WOW! All the way to work I drove with those tickets next to me imaging how amazing it was going to feel to win $10,000, give that money to the bank, and to be so thankful! I got to work and scratched the first one out of the roll (the one I would have purchased if I only bought one) and although it was better than I normally win ($5) it wasn’t until the second ticket that I saw that: I WON $10,000!!!!!!! HUGE, EXCITED, GRATEFUL HAPPY DANCE!!!!!!!!So every single bit of the above is true with the exception of the tickets being winners. Hm. I suppose this is not the way my $10,000 is coming to me! I do still have a chance to win $10,000 with those tickets through a "Second Chance" entry online, though.
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Hi everyone! First of all, sorry for my English, I'm not a native speaker, and Happy New Year to all of you, hope everything you guys desire comes true!  I've been reading this forum and other pages about LOA recently and you all have helped me A LOT, so a big THANK YOU to all of you  My story is the usual stuff, lots of fights due to insecurities and absurd jelousy, bad words, tears, problems and negative things attracted by me myself, big fight and going into the usual no contact period. First week of NC was hell, of course, but I stayed strong thanks to this forum and lots of support from family and friends. I also have a small financial problem, so I decided to use LOA to get this solved, did the usual visualization/affirmation stuff, imagining that the money was already in my hands and feeling happy as I did, and after I did that just once, I kind of forgot about money problems, since I was feeling soooooo miserable about my breakup. So, I forgot about money, and guess what, just TWO DAYS after I did my little visualization exercise I got the money out of nowhere and completely by surprise!!! (it was a combination of Christmass lottery and debts payed back). I'm talking of no great fortune, of course, but it was enough to sort out the little financial problem I was having!!  So, after that I was soooo amazed about LoA being real (couldn't believe it would work so fast and so easy, it was like magic, guys, I coudn't believe my eyes LOL) and about my problems being solved, that I slowly started to forget about my breakup and decided that I was gonna be happy and extremely thankful for the things that I had (money, family and amazingly supportive friends). So, although I was still hurting about my guy, I had a lovely Christmas time, with nice home-made food, going out, gifts, family and friends. Slowly, I started to kind of feel this "vortex" sort of thing you guys always speak to: I was feeling less sad by the day, and I was happy about new projects and new things coming to my life and I was slowly starting to love myself again (bought new clothes for Christmas, getting my hair done, going to the gym, feeling good in my shoes, you know, the usual stuff). At first, I thought I 'd never speak to him again, because he told me not to contact him again under any circumstances, very angrily, you know, the usual stuff. And also because I felt that I would never be able to "dettach" from him, cause you know how hard these things can get, guys, we've all been there. But you know, I got all these good things and slowly started to feel better about the break up and see things in a different light. I was "dettaching" from the desire to speak to him, without even noticing. I even stopped counting the days, so I'm not sure  But I think it's been a month more or less since NC started, couldn't tell you the exact date  So just this morning, this very morning, I woke up and felt something weird. Something had changed and I didn't know what  I was feeling strangely light-hearted, I don't, it was weird, I suddenly was feeling much better, and found to my amazement that I no longer cared about getting him back or not, I felt happy and I didn't know why, it was sooooo weird guys!!  So I thought "dude, this must be this "dettachment" thing everyone talks about. I no longer care about him talking to me or not. I'm comfortable in my shoes, I've got many good things and people in my life and I'm greatful. I just wish him to be happy with or without me. Maybe this is true dettachment and maybe I'll get to speak back to him in a few months, but I don't really care anymore, I've forgiven him, I've forgiven myself and I'm sure I'll be fine, come what may.I'm just gonna be happy and I'm going to do everything I can to stay in this vortex of happiness and dettachment I've just arrived to". This was a true awakening moment I had, guys. And guess what, just a couple of hours ago, when I was getting all these good vibes, and I didn't know where they were coming from, I f**** got a text from him!!!  I COULDN'T BELIEVE IT. I still can't  I just thought we were never ever ever speaking to each other again, and BOOM there it was. So I just kept it cool and short, wished him Happy New Year and all (we didn't speak a single word/text to each other during the entire holiday period), hope you're doing fine stuff, thanks for the text, smiley here and there, you know. I was just soooo thankful just to hear from him  So you know, guys, I don't know what the future holds, I don't know if we will ever be back toghether again, or just friends, or not, whatever. But for the moment, I'm just happy we're in friendly terms and I'm sure everything is going to be just fine, either together or separate, but we'll be ok. And I'm soooo thankfull to LOA for existing and being REAL. So I'm so thankfull I'm just speechless, I don't know what to do to reward the Universe back, so I just thought I could write a post to say THANK YOU to the Universe and to help and encourage all these people who are still struggling with no contact or with breakups or fights. Guys, THERE IS LIFE AFTER NO CONTACT. Use this valuable time to heal, to improve yourself, to do things you love, to love yourselves, to practice LOA and to be happy and to get into your vortex and be thankful and cheerful about the good things you already have. The rest will come on its own. In my case, NC has been for over a month (I think). Sometimes NC is longer, other times is shorter. In any case, use NC wisely and DO NOT DESPAIR. All good things are just out there waiting for you, and they WILL come. Don't struggle. Just be happy and happy things will happen to you. Forgive yourself, forgive your partner, and things will be sorted out very easily. STAY HAPPY, lots of love to everyone, courage for those struggling and a big THANK YOU to all of you guys for your ideas and for this wonderful forum.  (sorry for the looooooooooong post :S  )
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OMG OMG OMG!!! I always wanted to share my success story with you guys and today i am here doing it!!! LOA works like magic!!! Trust me if i can do it, anyone can  So, just last sunday i posted here about how i feel about my guy's situation and i think it was AGE and excel who asked me to email him. I did NOT ask anyone if i should email him or not. It was already on my mind to email him (totally inspired action), but still i was ignoring the inspired action too  So when AGE and excel asked me to email him, i was like- hey this is another way universe is telling me to do this. that same time i had my papermate pen in my hand (which i always use)... all of a sudden i looked at my pen and my thumb was covering the "paper" part of the pen so all i can see is "mate" with the two hearts. all i was thinking about is weather to email my guy or not. i was like that's it, what else is universe going to tell me- this is a huge sign  After that, nothing could stop me. so i emailed him (after 10 months of NC) asking how he is doing. Just so you guys know, he was the one who ended everything because of this other girl. our relationship was beautiful, we never fought for anything, we were so great except we lived and still live on the opposite side of the country. it was a sudden end for me and when he did, he told be he never loved me and we should not be talking to each other ever. we havent seen eachother for 2.5 yrs... but like abraham says, time, space, distance doesnt matter at all. so anyways, he didnt reply to my email for 2 DAYS. i wasnt attached to the outcome anyways. so it didnt matter to me. i was going to my dance classes, had a fantastic cruise-ship interview, had a haircut and was making sure i look good everywhere i go. in short, i love myself first. it didnt matter to me if he replied or not. i was still looking, feeling, GREAT!!! on the third day i came home late night after work. i usualy go to bed after work, dont check email or anything. but for some reasons, i had the urge to check my email. so i did. and guess what... it was his name in my inbox. i was like- what the... it took him 3 days to write me back?!?!? in those 3 days, i never lost faith. i didnt think of him too much either. there was a lot going on in my life and he was not the priority. he still isnt! it was the sweetest email ever! he asked me so many questions. he also thanked me 3 times for emailing him. in the end he said, "i am always thinking about you and wishing you well" aww... so he was receiving all the love i was sending him! how great! we are taking things slowly and emailing back and forth just like friends. i am pretty sure he is not with that girl anymore but i havent asked. i dont feel the need to. i am happy where i am. we email each other 2-3 times a week. i am still detached with the outcome or the end result of all this that is going on which feels GREAT!!! just so you guys know. i had let go of him LONG time ago. I was not doing any affirmations, visualizations, or any techniques because they didnt feel good to me. it felt like i was the one making recipe for this story. after reading rainbows vortex post, i made sure i am happy and in my vortex all the time. It gave me a lot of good news!! so all i did was let go- truly let go- for a long time. and be happy with everything. make peace with everything and you will be sucked into your lovely vortex. then your desires will manifest! now, i am in the process of manifesting his phone number so we can hear eachother's voice after 2.5yrs  thank you everyone here!!! you guys are true gems!!! special thanks to AGE, excel, angel 57, rainbow!!! you guys rock!!! love, magiclamp
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Do you have superstitious beliefs? How intense is your belief about them? I bet by now, you already know that what you believe in plays a major role in creating your reality – what you believe in, you get and achieve. Same goes with superstitious beliefs. If you believe that passing under a ladder will bring you bad luck, you’ll get bad luck by doing that. That’s how powerful our beliefs are. Belief systems are powerful tools that will shape the very reality you are living in.
There’s actually a scientific study about the power of thoughts. Have you heard of the Placebo Effect? During a medical trial, a group of people suffering from the same ailment were gathered together to partake in a clinical trial of a new medicine. Some of them were given the real medication to their ailments, but some of them were given mere sugar pills. The result? All of them were relieved of their illnesses.
See how powerful thoughts are? Thoughts of one man can create his own reality. You have the power to create your experiences, to manifest your desires, and to attain success – by using the power of your thoughts! To quote Napoleon Hill, the author of Think and Grow Rich, “What the mind of man can conceive and believe, it can achieve.”
Starting today, are you going to consciously create your own reality by thinking of positive thoughts and infusing them with powerful emotions such as, joy, excitement, and burning desire? Entirely up to you
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hi all, just a little query... was reading the vortex and grids by ILR... when we go general we reduce lot of resistance... so while trying to manifest our love back in our life..... going general wud be to be feel that feeling of love.... but when i do that its only her which come to my mind....  ..... so how to go general about this.... or i understood something wrong...
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Today i learn that: 1. Its not the matter of wanting but it is all about the allowing. 2. Remember to always go general 3. Affirming to get myself align with the vortex 4. Visualization - desire - let go the desire - be happy - vibrate - vortex - manifested 5. Play the As If game. 
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I don't know, but it's like my subconscious is telling me that something good is going to happen. I really don't know if it's today, tomorrow or within the week or such
Its like a very positive feeling saying "Hey, something good is going to happen!".
Have you guys ever felt something like this?
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So..the vortex,  And the grids...  Oh yeah! Well... I took a break from this forum for a while, a few weeks back. I'd soaked up everything I could for a time, like a full sponge that can't soak up anymore. So I took a break. During that time, I asked myself a very powerful question. It was about letting go. Up until then, I had focused on staying in the specific feeling place of what I wanted- the relationship. But now I was ready to 'let go and let god'. I had realised that I truly didn't need the relationship to feel happy. Not, even, that I didn't need to to feel happy - but that I didn't need to to feel insanely, WONDERFully happy. i HAD FELT SO BLISSFUL BEFORE WITHOUT THAT relationship - so, surely, that relationship couldn't be the cause of my bliss. Therefore, I said to myself - why am I waiting for this thing to come along so I can feel this absolute bliss? And I took the relationship out of the equation. Instead of me ---> relationship ---> bliss I made the equation me ----> BLISS!! I realised I can feel bliss NOW.  So, why would I hold myself away from it? I decided to feel that bliss all the time, anyway, whatever the relationship was or wasn't. That was what Abraham meant by 'make the relationship with your vortex the most important thing'. After that decision, things moved really fast. But first, let me explain the grid, which I now understand. Creating an emotional grid is something Abraham talks about, and it works like this. First, you focus on the feeling of what you want. At the basis of anything you want is an emotional core. Like...in that relationship, maybe you want the feeling of love. Or, in that money, maybe you want the feeling of power. Tomake a grid, you feel around and find that core feeling. Then, you just focus on that. Not in relation to the money or the relationship or ANYTHING, just the feeling. You conjure the feeling up, within yourself, NOW. This is the first part of the power - because it's the feeling you are looking for. And you can have that feeling NOW. That's what I realised - you don't have to wait for whatever it is to come. You can have it NOW. Because it's the feeling you're wanting. That makes your super-powerful-instant-creator! But you have to do it for the feeling - not do the feeling because you're wanting something to come from it. You just love the feeling. Then, law of attraction is always working - and it draws other feelings like yours to you. That's the point - you don't have to fill in the grid. Law of attraction does that FOR you. You know when you have a thought which doesn't feel so good - and the more you think on it, the more bad feelings come, and you remember times in your life when that happened, and you remember times it could have happened, and you worry about it happening again...and so on and so on? THAT'S law of attraction at work. Law of attraction works on thoughts and feelings too - as well as the physical stuff. So, you find a feeling you love. You focus on it. You talk with yourself about it. And you let your grid fill in. it's a grid because it's like the base of a house or building - the more you're focused on it, the more it fills in. Let IT do the work for you. If the only feelings which come are general ones, that's fine! it doesn't have to be anything specific about the thing you're aligning with. In fact, specific can get in the way. So, I made my grid. It was of pure happiness. I made the grid, because I realised I can be - and am - purely happy - not to MAKE it happen, but because THAT'S WHAT I PREFER TO BE. NO MATTER *WHAT* THE CIRCUMSTANCES. SO, THEN! That opened the floodgates - and NOW, oh my, NOW I understand the vortex SO much more. The vortex...the vortex...my dear friends, I don't think before we had any idea of the amount of STUFF in this vortex we have. It was all sort of nebulous. But I have been in here, purely, for a few weeks now - and let me tell you how BIG it is. The vortex is literally EVERYTHING you have ever asked for. It is in there. The relationships - the conversations - the money - the experiences. Like, if, at age 8, you said to yourself 'I want my own jumping castle' - there's one in the vortex. If at age 15 you had a crappy meal which was overpriced, you sent a vibrational rocket for 'delicious, cheap (or free) meal' And we're asking all day, every day! Can you imagine how much STUFF is in there??!! The day I let go - that afternoon I got inspired to go for a walk somewhere I don't normally go. I met someone I had not seen for 16 years who I had been REALLY wanting to see - and as a result, i got to have the exact experience with them I'd been asking for. It was like the door to my vault opened and that was one of the first things which spilled out. Two days ago, I got inspired to drive somewhere that I wasn't planning on going - I found an abandoned socccer ball, and I'd been wanting one. Five days ago, I expressed my desire to the universe to go to a four day music festival, for free. Two days later, a friend gave me a free ticket. A week ago, I drew a cheque for $5000 - just for fun  Two days later, $6000 came!! Today, I was given tickets to a play I decided about a week ago I wanted to see. Not bought - was GIVEN. Without even asking. Later today I was in a shop with a friend. I had a thought that I wanted a certain food item - and within 30 seconds - I kid you not - my friend offered to buy it for me. With no prompting. I'm f***ing invincible  !!! And that's just a small slice of what's been happening. Suffice it to say that I'm purely happy, through and through. I no longer am holding out on my own happiness. And because of that, the universe is knocking itself out to please me. Now, I'm sure you all want to know what's happened with the relationship... About four days after I let go, he contacted me - with no prompting from me. Two days later, he contacted me again. About five days after that, he initiated us talking. We're talking. It's going great. I'm not saying anymore just now Just...get in the vortex. Make the relationship with you the most important thing. not to get anything - but because it IS. Because you are a divine being and your happiness shouldn't have to - DOESN'T have to - wait, dependent on anyone or anything else. You can be happy NOW. Just because you choose to BE! Don't wait for the outside to change to be as happy as you can be. You know you can be so happy now - you go there in your visualisations. So be that happynow ANYWAY. There are a couple more things I've learned which I'd love to share here: 1. ACCEPT all of you. ACCEPT all of what is. I finally understand this one now!! I used to think 'if I accept what is, won't it not change?' WEll, no. It'slike this. While you're not accepting a certain part of creation, it's sticking around because on some level you're pushing against it. When you accept all of what is, you accept it as a valid part of creation. Bashar says there are infite parallel realities, remember? So accept this one, you're in now, as a valid part of all that is. And accept your fears which are being played out to you by the people around you as valid parts OF YOU. IF YOU DON'T ACCEPT AND SUPPORT ALL OF YOURSELF, HOW CAN CREATION ACCEPT AND SUPPORT ALL OF YOU?? REMEMBER, YOUR REALITY IS JUST A MIRROR FOR YOU! Nothing more, nothing less. You have to truly accept all of you - then creation will too. THEN, once you accept all of you - THEN, you can choose. Not because 'this reality is bad and that reality is good', but just because you PREFER that reality. But you move towards and with the reality you prefer by assuming the vibration of it (by creating a grid), rather than pushing against anything you don't prefer. If ANYTHING you're doing is motivated by fear...fear of being alone, being powerless, being poor, being sick, being unloved - then that fear will keep playing itself out to you over and over again in your reality UNLESS and UNTIL you sort it out in yourself first. The stuff you don't prefer in your life is JUST a mirror for your fears and pains. Change yourself, rather than changing the mirror. 2. Creation ALWAYS supports you unconditionally. It will ALWAYS and ONLY ever responds to the vibration you're putting out. Tghat is how it supports you - if you are putting out the vibration of unworthyness, then creation says 'OK! You get to make that call - I will support you in what you say is true for you' - and then it gives you unworthyness. If you are putting out the vibration of 'love' then creation says 'OK! You get to make that call - you tell me what is true for you and I will reflect it back' - and you get a life of love. So creation gives YOU the full and absolute power to make the choices FOR YOURSELF and it supports your vibration that you're putting out unconditionally. It can't give you any sort of 'break' from this - i.e. you can't turn law of attraction off because creation IS you. So YOU are not in creation - creation is in YOU. You are God-Force...Light-Stuff...Divine blessed creator. Be happy and the rest will follow - it HAS to. But be happy to the point where you can honestly say to yourself 'I am happy and I choose to be this way because I prefer it even IF nothing changed I would still be happy. This isn't even about the relationship between me and the world anymore - it's about my relationship between me and me  ' 3. Whatever reason you're focused on right now, for you wanting to get in the vortex - YES it will come OF COURSE IT WILL - BUT it is teeny tiny compared to ALL the stuff that is in your vortex. and ALL of it will please you because you put all of it there!! So get in there and just relax, let the universe do it's thing with divine timing and bring you everything you've ever wanted. The short version: Get happy, stay happy and get EVERYTHING (literally) you've ever wanted. Because being happy IS the manifestation that matters. And yes, the other stuff will come too - hot on its heels. But when you're there, you will KNOW that the pure happiness IS the success you've been searching for. Have fun!! ILR  PS WHEEEEEEEEEEE!!!!!!!!
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Choosing a path in life, using the laws of attraction
When you are choosing a path in life you need to use the law of attraction to make it help. You need to think about the thing that are important to you and what makes you happy. It is all about you and how you want to live. Think about the things that you want to do and never let anything get in your way. You need to use the law of attraction to make it all work out in the end.
We have to know that we create our own reality. We are the ones that make everything happen. This will include our money, relationship, and were we work. It is all up to us and we are the ones that are in control of it all. It is important to keep an open mind and to never let anything get in the way. We have to focus on the important things in life goals and dreams are the one thing that keep us moving in the right direction and help us finds the goals that we have thought about for so long.
Many times people put too much pressure on themselves to make money. They may think the more money that they make the better off they will be. However this is not always going to be the case. Yes it is nice to have money and nice things. However the main goal in life needs to be happiness and what we need to do in order to achieve it. It may be something that is so simple and for others the law of attraction needs to step in place and make everything clear to us.
Dreaming of what we want in life is one thing that we have to think about. You need to work hard at what you want to do and choose the path that makes you feel good. It may take some thinking and time to figure out what you want to do but once you get the right idea in your head you will feel good and have the ability to be more successful no matter what you do. This is called the law of attraction because you are using your way of thinking to make it work.
Often times we need to work really hard at being good at something. Like they say 'practice makes perfect'. It is all about the way that we do things and the goals that we set forth so that we are not left behind. When you are dreaming big and living your life to make you happy you need to be serious about your ambition. Keep on perusing your dreams and they will come true. As long as you have the will to go for it you will see it work out for you.
]b]Never take life for granted[/b]. Things are not going to just fall in your lap. You need to work for it all and this is the only way that you will be successful so that you are not letting life pass you by. Work hard and take charge of the things that are meant to be for you. This is going to make you feel good and give you the confidence that you need to realize you are the most important person in the world. You are the only one that can control your life.
Your way of thinking is going to help you be more positive. You never have to live your life to make others happy. It is all about the way that you choose to be. Figure out what you are good at and once you do the confidence level that you have will go up. It is going to be something that gives you power to choose the path in life that is going to work out best for you. The only way to know is to try it. If it is not meant to be you will figure it out and move on to the next possibility in life. [http://untoldsecrets.info/l]l
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I just listened to this lovely music that ILR posted in the chat box...
And when I listened to the first one I had an overwhelming sense of love for someone who I have just met let's call him L. (The guy who looks and reminds me so much of my love D, who said "looks like this is that start of a beautiful relationship" in reference to our two bands) in my minds eye I saw him with me, felt him here and I started laughing and felt that he was here laughing with me. It was very strong and lovely. Then I played part 2. This time I started missing D sooo intensely. I have not allowed myself to 'miss' him because that would mean that he was apart from me. But I couldn't help it so I let it flow and cried. I feel better now, like emotions that have pent up have been released. I don't know what it's all about...
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