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Can someone explain to me what the GRID is that Abraham speaks of? I've asked this before and I just don't understand "filling in the grid". A grid to me is a blank crossword puzzle page (that needs to be filled in), or the TV guide (that is already filled in).  I hope someone can clarify this for me.  Thank you.

BrandyGrandy if you can think of it more as the frame of a house. You know when it's first being built and they make the wooden or steel frame first, before they add the walls and rooms, etc. That is what they are talking about.

So Abraham says we build an emotional grid by holding an emotion between 17 and 68 seconds. That establishes the emotional grid in which the law of attraction will 'fill in' with things that match that vibration.

So for example. I remember a while back. I really, really liked this guy. I remember after hearing about the grid walking my dog and as I walked I got myself into the emotional state of love and happiness. I thought of love first (just in general, not with him) and then I felt how I would feel if I was in love, I felt the happiness grow and I fed it until I was really blissed out as I walked.
After a while, the birds began to sing, the sun hit the trees, everything was shiny, and I had begun to attract to myself the things that were of the same frequency, the key is also to NOTICE these things. Not long after I got home from my walk he called me...

And that is building an emotional grid.

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Hey Sneha, I know what you mean darlin. I stopped posting threads about my stuff for the same reason. I used to post about my journey all the time, but I wasn't getting responses either so I stopped and now I just comment on others posts instead. But that's cool, it helps just as much to read others stories!

At the end of the day though it IS a really positive place to be most of the time (which is all we can ask really isn't it?).

I really love the informative posts that give me new isights and lead me to new information.

Thanks to everyone here, it's a wonderful journey to share.

And I have met some great friends here too. Don't think my day would be complete if I didn't wake up to one or two or three messages from Mr B. Love ya! x

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I know the audio you are referring to and yes abraham has stated several times that people will leave your experience if they cannot be what you want. There are many teachers who say you can't attract anyone you want, and there are those who say you can.
Just like any spiritual thought, it is up for interpretation.

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I am so happy that everything has been going so well for you in the last year LifeIsGoodToday!!! I remember when you were more active on the forum.

I think our stories might be very similar. I have had so many successes in every other area of my life. I think maybe it's just a case of working on limiting beliefs and releasing doubts.


I can't wait to hear more of your successes!!

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Yes, I remember that, thanks laughoutloud. Actually for me it hasn't been just one person I have tried to attract. First it was one and after a year gave up on him and then someone else and now I have given up on him too. (I still love them both!)

The truth is I have been trying to attract a relationship for 10 years (not with someone specific, but anybody!!) and I have not been successful.
So I am actually at that giving up stage. I am done. I am tired of trying and thinking I mustn't be good enough or it would have happened by now.

I do genuinely hope that everyone here can have exactly what they want and I am always so happy to read the successes!! FOr me, I just don't know what else to do but to give up. And I'm okay with that.

I usually don't like to chime in on relationship posts for this reason, but I could feel that lifeisgoodtoday was desperate for support. Very glad others are here to give it.

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Hey darlin, I'm so sorry you are going through this. It hurts doesn't it? I am going through something very similar right now.

I actually came to the conclusion that we can't attract anyone we want. I believe we can influence people if they are open to it. But if they are not it is like we are pouring all our love into a bottomless pit and we just feel drained.

What I am doing right now, and maybe what you would like to do is... Just turn you focus and love from her on to you. Get into alignment with your higher self and pamper yourself. Radical self love I call it.

Do what ever will make you feel better, and know that you are worth more than all of this, because you are!!
No one deserve less than complete love.

From thinking you can only get it from this one person who is not willing to give it to you is just pinching yourself off from real love and it's just painful.

i know others will disagree but this is the conclusion I have come to after two years of really, really trying to attract specifically. Now I know it's just time to love me. And let everything else flow.

All the best to you I hope you can find some comfort. xxx

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That is so great silversprings!!! And the second person that i've read this morning that wanted to text their guy and got contact from them before they did. What I happening??? And can someone please rub some of this good fortune on to me??? 

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This post is so timely for me. I'm am so struggling today as things cropped up in my experience which were the opposite of what I wanted and I am heartbroken really. And I'm so tired of getting close but not getting the thing I want most, when I get everything else I want so easily.

But yeah, the limiting belief around love is so persistent and has affected me my whole life. And I want to move on from this trap I have been in. I have tried so very hard, and i have constant help from my friends (especially Mr Brightside thank you darlin x) but I think that has been part of the problem. I try to hard and want it too much.

I know I am attractive and have stacks of great qualities. But I don't know how to bridge the gap and go from being single to being in a relationship. I don't even know how to 'feel as if' I am in one because it has been a decade since my last proper relationship.

But I'm going to re read what you guys have written several times. I need something to sink in that will turn my life around.

Thanks for posting the question Laughoutloud and thank you for the responses BeHappy.

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Yay!!! Well done kitten!! That is so awesome.
I've just started lifting weights too. Want to get into great shape this year.

Thanks for the inspiration. 

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Yes, I've heard that too! Plus I also think if we can get ourselves to that state of happiness and gratitude then give back to the world in what ever way we can. Like sending love to the whole world  (I always ask that me love be sent to where ever it is needed most during my meditations). Or doing random acts of kindness or just whatever gets the good energies flowing and thinking about more than just ourselves.

I think people here do this so well, helping each other out and supporting each other constantly. That's spreading the love!

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Absolutely.

I believe the way forward is to connect to our own internal happiness, knowing that it all comes from inside and connection to source (what ever that means to each individual- to some it is God, the Universe, mother nature) and then live by example.

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Day day I absolutely 100% agree with you. I have been studying about that exact topic and about "the elite of the world" for over a year now, and when I learned of loa that was the exact conclusion I came up with. That is also why the news focuses on the bad. I could super go into detail, but you get my point, and you said it well!! I just didn't want to say anything like that bc I thought you guys might think I'm crazy

Oh Laughx3! Don't even get me started. HAha, if I get drunk enough I start banging on about how everyone is brainwashed into submission. eeek, makes me sound crazy too.

On the up side, I think more and more people are 'waking up' and eventually we will start to see some balance (well that is my hope) in the meantime I've decided to just create my little world the way i want it, and I'm doing a pretty good job of it!!

That's why I think it's dangerous that every night the news focuses on everything that has gone wrong in the world that day. It's out of balance to what is really happening, but people see it and feel bad and then yes, I believe, create more bad stuff.

Imagine if the news mentioned everything good that had happened that day. Every little act of kindness, every display of love and compassion.

It would help to put the world into perspective. 

Exactly!!!

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I agree with Magic Lamp. You have to remember your worth, and you are worth more than waiting around for someone who has moved on.

At the end of the day it is up to you, but life is short, find happiness in where you at are today, and then allow the perfect relationship for you to come to you. you deserve it!

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Yes Laughoutloudx3 I think that's right, there is collective manifestations for sure.
That's why I think it's dangerous that every night the news focuses on everything that has gone wrong in the world that day. It's out of balance to what is really happening, but people see it and feel bad and then yes, I believe, create more bad stuff.

I gave up watching tv all together as I find it was too depressing, and my life has been way better since.

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Small children and babies are the most vulnerable people on the planet. They are small and weak and can't speak up for themselves. So I think it's not so much that they feel vulnerable but they just inherently ARE vulnerable. That is why we have so many ways in which we try to protect them and also why evil people circle schools in their vans. Until they can protect themselves they need that extra protection.

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