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Messages - Happybeingme
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« on: February 07, 2013, 04:22:34 AM »
I think its great that you got an email and that he admitted he still loves you. I can understand what he means by being somewhere but yet not. That is how i felt after I went through a break up, and I think that also shows that he is confused and heartbroken as well.
I think that you have every right to say how you feel and should express yourself. If you don't feel like you can be friends with him than tell him that. Its not fair to leave you on the back burner while he figures it out. It can cause you more pain and will be harder to let go. However you have to be prepared that he might not be ready to be back together yet and might not give the response you are looking for. I don't mean by this that he will not come back to you but be prepared if this is not the exact moment. its possible that he will respond and say yes he does want to be back together but its also possible that he will say no and then realize afterward that he wants you back in full. Say what you think is right, expect the best but be prepared for anything. no matter what he says it sounds like you are on a good path to getting him back and so don't get discouraged. Just keep reminding yourself that from his own words he still loves you.
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« on: January 17, 2013, 03:21:37 AM »
Hi,
I think that generally if you doubt whether you should send contact then you shouldn't. However I did read your post yesterday about your story with your lady and without knowing how she feels or the exact depth of your rocky relationship, but coming from a woman's point of view I think you should send it. Even though you are in love with her you have been friends for a very long time and I think it is always nice to ask how someone is when you know they haven't been well or they have something major coming up. Its not pushy and its not intrusive. You are asking becaues you care about her not just as a girlfriend but as a friend as well. If she has had so much going on then she might have been too busy to contact you first.
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« on: January 03, 2013, 10:54:29 PM »
Got all three!
1. a new years kiss from my love interest (not at midnight like I wanted but still got a kiss yay!)
2. a call or text from my love interest (Got a text, I was the one who texted him first but again I still consider it received)
3. My sisters new years eve party to be a fun and happy event for all attending. (My sisters party was so much fun and everyone had a wonderful time, no drama from anyone!)
My next three things I will manifest in the next 7 days are:
1. my love interest to initiate contact with me
2. my love interest to ask me out
3. My year end review at work to be rated "exceptional"
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« on: December 28, 2012, 09:56:50 PM »
Hi,
First time posting in this thread. Three things I will manifest in 7 days are
1. a new years kiss from my love interest
2. a call or text from my love interest
3. My sisters new years eve party to be a fun and happy event for all attending.
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« on: October 04, 2012, 08:07:12 PM »
First and foremost thank you I love Rainbows for putting so much time and effort into this. It was a great read and very informative with not just the how but the why. I think it was put into words that make it very easy to understand.
I started last night. I didn't script any lines but I wrote out charachter descriptions and a brief summary of the story. Then I did the first releasing meditation. My new story is true love with a happily ever after. I haven't done the next meditations yet but when I think of what stories or characters I was thinking a lot about cinderella and prince charming and Twilight. I love how in twilight he loves her so much he would do anything for her. Well no maifestations yet but last night I had a dream where i don't remember exactly what happened but i know i was Bella and there was an edward in my dream who was in love with me. not sure if this means anything but thought it might be a good sign.
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« on: May 10, 2012, 01:12:49 AM »
I'm coming into this conversation a little late but I too understand how you feel. You are not alone in your feelings, many of us have been or are exactly where you are. It takes time to heal. You did not miss your one chance because I do not believe if it is what the universe wants for us that we will only have one chance. Please never ever think about ending your life. You do not need this other person to be happy. I know it seems that way right now but let go of her and you will see that you can be happy by yourself and quite possibly with another. I know it seems scary to do, because you feel that you have to hold on tight or you will lose all possibility at getting her back. but what you end up doing by holding on so tight is pushing her away and losing yourself. What you have been doing has not helped you be happy so why not give it a try and let go. It has been about 10 months since my ex broke up with me and he has been with another since then. I very much know how difficult it is to let go and how scary it can be. but you will do it in your own time. I have just recently felt the relief of letting go and I can tell you it feels great. I am happy again on my own and while i think about him and sometimes wish things were different, i no longer think that i will not be happy without him. I am going out and meeting new guys and for the first time in a long time seeing what else is out there for myself and not in an effort to try to get him back. You will get to this point too I promise. Her life is not better than yours, you control your life and your reality and you choose to believe this. Your life and happiness is in your hands and yours alone so don't look at her life and what she is doing or who she is with. do what is in your power to make yourself happy each day.
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« on: May 08, 2012, 03:20:21 AM »
I think you should not worry about what he thinks of you and focus on what you think of you. I too can be very social or sometimes very shy. you have to accept yourself for who you are imperfections and all. when you do this you will feel less shy and nervous at times, but it may always be there and it is ok to feel shy and nervous at times. accept yourself and know that he loves you for you. If he does not love you for who you are and wants to change you then maybe he is not the perfect one for you. I am not saying he isn't or that it will not happen for you both but the person you are with should love you for who you are and not get mad because you get nervous or shy every once and a while. you are perfect the way you are.
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« on: May 08, 2012, 02:21:14 AM »
Sometimes I wonder if we do ourselves a disservice in using LOA to attract our exes. Also using RS to attract them. And all the pain and confusion about detachment, thinking happy thoughts and so on. It occurs to me we are making our exes, love interests, and our old relationships into such WORK! Sometimes it seems to me the best thing is to cry, feel the pain, allow the misery to bloom for awhile, and then withdraw and LET GO. Lot God. If it is meant to be it will happen. I completely agree with this! first if you suppress your sadness it will never actually go away, you have to feel your feelings and let them out in order to let them go. if you hold in your tears afraid to be sad you will still have that sadness within. you just can't dwell on those feelings and let them consume you. as for the feeling like work and thinking letting go is best you are absolutely right! i have currently reached that point myself. LOA is not supposed to feel like work it is supposed to be effortless and joyful. It has taken me quite some time but i now have let go, i am allowing myself to be interested in getting to know other men and having fun with my life without my ex. Its not to say that I don't still care for him or that i would not think about reuniting if he came running back, but the thing is im not counting on that happening for my happiness. I have successfully attracted him back before and when it happened i was in the same state i am now. thats not to say that it will 100% happen like that again because if i was feeling this way just to get him back it wouldn't be truly letting go. I am feeling good about myself and my life and I'm ready to be in love again and in a loving relationship whether it is with him or someone else and im open to the possibilities the universe presents. attracting an ex back is possible and i have done it, but the reason many fail is that you have to 100% let go and be happy without them. sometimes this can feel like giving up which scares people, however sometimes when people do this they may find that there is someone else that makes them happier and they no longer want their ex, other times their ex will come back when they least expected and if it is right you will still want them back.
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« on: March 27, 2012, 11:35:28 PM »
Congrats!!!! Enjoy everything about your success and new relationship. Thank you for sharing your success story with us and spreading the joy 
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« on: March 27, 2012, 08:33:12 PM »
Thats wonderful!!!!
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« on: March 21, 2012, 07:24:29 PM »
Hi giggles,
Just because you got your desire does not mean you should stop all you have learned about LOA. Right now you are focusing too much on him and not on yourself, let go and focus on you again. How wonderful you are, how lucky he is to have you, etc. do some calming meditations or whatevr you like to do or did prior to getting him back. it is your own fears and insecurities that are driving him away, you make up your own reality. Think about it, I can remember from your last post about him and going to the other town where the girl was that you seemed overly worried about her. You are thinking and fearing that he wants to be with her and therefor that is what you are manifesting, remember he chose YOU over her. He fought for you and waited knowing that you were with someone else. Stop worrying and obsessing over him and that other girl, i know it is easier said than done but you need to try. relax, focus on you, how much he loves you, how wonderful you are, and the fact that you he chose to be with you over her. You control your reality so from now on create the things you want not what you fear.
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« on: March 21, 2012, 07:15:06 PM »
Dating someone else is absolutely a good thing if you are doing it for the right reasons. if you go into it thinking, "i am only doing this so that my ex will be attracted back to me" then its not good. However, dating someone else because you want to try it out and see what happens is very good. Two things can come of this and both are good. either the universe is trying to point you to someone else that you might be happier with this new guy (i know it seems like it is not what you want but how do you know until you try) or it will distract you and help you let go and your ex will come back. You just have to go into it with an open mind and have fun with it to see where it leads.
I attracted an ex back before and when he finally started coming around I was interested in someone else. However it wasn't because i was using the other guy to detach, i had really detached and while i still wanted my ex i wasn't waiting for him any longer and really was interested in another guy. you never know what will happen if you just go with the flow of things.
good luck with everything and I know whatever happens it will be great and you will be happy.
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« on: March 20, 2012, 01:54:19 AM »
Animor, After reading your post about st. Martha I decided to look it up. Thanks, I like the idea of it. It is not so much a "spell" but just a prayer to a saint for help which I guess is really what LOA and "spells" are about anyway. I might give it a try as I read the prayer and thought it was nice. thanks for the mention.
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« on: March 15, 2012, 08:29:43 PM »
Stefzilla,
Would you mind sharing what you did to get someone to call you? PM me if you don't want to share on the thread.
I do believe that "spellwork" is really LOA. If you believe it works and detach it is the same thing in principal
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« on: March 14, 2012, 07:37:28 PM »
Wonderful Success story! I am so happy for you and grateful that you shared your story with us. Stories like this bring up everyone's vibrations on here and give hope to those in similar situations. Congrats to you and I know with the way you are feeling you are in for more and more good things coming your way.
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