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Messages - Chantal
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« on: November 29, 2011, 04:39:39 PM »
I am so glad I discovered this forum, I discovered the LOA (have to gain lot more knowledge first, but yeah...  ) I finally have the feeling I can fix my live, can make the choices I need to make instead of waiting untill everything will show itsself. I am so grateful, I am manifesting things, probably by accident, but I DO manifest! It is so great!! I am feeling SO HAPPY! I am not shy or afraid for people anymore, I even dare to speak to people in tram, just for a small talk. That is something I never dared to do. I am grateful that I am healthy, that I have parents who want to do a lot for me, that I have people, that I can do anything I want. And yeah, if I want to manifest someone back, then I am rather sure I can do that. 1,5 month ago the situation seemed hopeless. He still is not totally in love with me, but this is a nice story I suppose: Yesterday I was in Antwerp, looking for the parttime study I want to follow. He texted me at 18 "I am very busy". At 21 I called him, got the voicemail. I thought: "Damn, my subconcious mind told me, I would got the voicemail", I hoped he would pick up, but I did not KNOW or FELT it. At 2130 I went to a teacher to ask questions about the education, when I talked with him and my man was out of my head, because I was focussing on something else, he called. That is a very bright example for me of LETTING GO. He wanted to meet. We made an appointment at the station. First he was starting about money (we used to have a bit of a fight over that), I just said: "We will figure it out", and that was that! he started a few times about it, normally spoken we WOULD have got into a fight, but I just staid calm. KNOWING he could not come to the fighting-point, because I did not want to. It still was a bit odd. He was acting with distance. At a moment I said: "Perhaps you should leave, we do not have subjects to talk about", "OKAY", he said and wanted to walk away. I said: "Now I have to wait alone for my train for half an hour!", with a smile on my face. He walked back. And we had at that moment a nice conversation. About just regular things. At a certain moment a small orange cleaning car drove by, I said: "It would be great to drive on that thing", he asked the car driver and we were allowed to drive. So I drove first, he filmed me, there after he drove, and I filmed him. It was very funny. When I left, he walked away, he did not said: "I miss you so much", or "We will meet soon", but if I compare this situation with a little while ago I AM MANIFESTING I suppose.. He does treat me like a friend I suppose at this moment, we did not talked about it, what it was, when I sat in the train, I got a text, him asking for a phone number from a friend of mine. I am sure he could find that number out for himself. I KNOW I CAN BE ME, LOVE ME, RESPECT AND ACCEPT ME FOR WHO I AM, IF HE WANTS TO BE A PART OF MY NEW FOUND EXCITING WORLD, THEN HE MIGHT GET A CHANCE, if he won't, haha, that is also fine, I mean, sure I do miss him still, but my world is going to be fabulous!! I am sure about that!
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« on: November 29, 2011, 05:55:52 AM »
Heey Ellebelle, It is great to hear that he is reacting so polite! And is much greater that you can move on! Really, I do admire that! Beware not getting attached again when you will meet! But have loads of fun and try to be yourself as much as you can, you are LOVE, you are much more love then he is (for yourself ofcourse!)... (if he does not know about the LOA... ghehe)
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« on: November 28, 2011, 06:06:27 PM »
Hi DreamBig, Same issue over here. I am a "beginner" to the LOA. What I understand of it, is that by using the LOA, you'll get to feel LOVE for yourself at first, or have to come at that point, of LOVE, GRATEFULNESS, and other positive things.. So, I suppose you'll become happy and positive (also because you love yourself, but I have experienced at a few times right now, when I really really was "in" it, using the LOA), you attract more like (For example: Sweet people in the tram, or on the streets, or where ever ). I suppose that if you want to attract a specific person back, but he or she is in a complete other way of thinking,behaving,and so on... Uhm...I do not know really. I SUPPOSE you'll be less attracted to him or her (i've seen my ex recently, i am still in love with him, did not told him, but his goals in live changed a lot compared to mine -what I thought to SAW, saw him for an hour or so- and I suppose he wants something else in live, I am also, in a way, experiencing the same problem i suppose), I do not know for sure. I think it is a bit difficult indeed, but I THINK that both of you have to learn the lessons you have to learn at first. And after you have the feeling, you can go on without him, see what happens then! It is not something that happens over night what I already discovered, it is a process and me too wished it al went just a little bit faster, but I suppose, the lessons have to be learned at first... (Darn...ghehe) Affirmations and visualizations are what I understood, something you do (once, twice, perhaps three times a day) and try to let it be for the rest of the day. Act and think as if the Universe is already arranging it for you. You know what helped me? Someone told me, the LOA is just like gravity. Simple as that! So do your affirmations, visualisations (and I do meditate, that makes me calmer and helps me to stay focussed) and try to live your day without attachement to the outcome. Believe the Universe will make it happen for you, when the time is ready... (I am trying to think this way also, it is difficult sometimes, but I suppose it will get better and better, try to do little "tests", when I really felt like I was in the right mindset, there happened a few small miracles, it was such a great thing!)Great day! and hope someone else will give an answer too...because I am curious what the rest of us have to say...
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« on: November 28, 2011, 03:01:53 PM »
Heej Lidija, That is a good question! I am practicing it for only 1,5 week or so... so I am not THAT experienced. But what I experienced, was, that if you just hold on to it (I am meditating not very long again, also not very long time, think about 20 minutes a do) I suppose it will just "happen". I recognize I am getting in kind of a trance after a few minutes, which did not happened the first few times I did it. And I understand that you'll have thoughts while doing it, what I got as an advice, just let them pass by, and try to recall yourself back to the inhaling, outhaling, I am practicing (by suggestion) Kundalini energy. You can have a look at google if you like. I'll try to explain how I do experience Kundalini, you should visualize that a light ball passes your entire spine, going to your subconcious mind and at the front lab out of your head... what I recognized if I do visualizations there after, that the visualizations are easier to do. So just hold on (and I'll do that too...deal? )
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« on: November 28, 2011, 02:48:16 PM »
Well, I suppose I still just should look to the outcome and not be too attached to it. I'll have my own answer over here... It also was not really necessary to give an answer, I am grateful that people read it so... I am grateful that there is "normal" contact with him again anyways, I really am, because a month ago he did not even wanted to talk with me so. Now he's a bit like: "Well everything will also become allright with you also". I think I should just forget about the hows, whens, wheres, just believe! And be grateful. At the moment it DOES look like he is over me, and like he is having fun with his live. And that is a great thing. But as I read in other posts, and that was very inspiring, I do have to learn a lesson. When I'm in a relationship, I should not forget about myself. And I am on my way to become a HAPPIER me, a BETTER me. But it takes time. And I know that when I'm not at that point, not loving MYSELF, every relationship will not succeed... So I suppose I should be grateful this all happened.
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« on: November 26, 2011, 03:38:32 PM »
Hi again sweeties,
Hope you are all doing fine. Allright, there is (as I mentioned in other forums) a little contact again with me and S. We saw each other the day before yesterday. I was feeling GREAT that day, not because of him, but because of me. And I attracted LIKE and that made me feel even better.
Now is it the case, that he after we met, he sent me a text sms that I had to take care of myself. When we met he thought I was acting strange, and was acting perhaps. That was not the case, but yeah...I replied in an email, that I was missing me and I am on my way finding me and that is a great thing.
As a reply I got: "I was a bit worried after you left. If there is anything you want to tell, in an email or at another way, let me know. Fare thee well and perhaps till Monday." (I have to visit Antwerp again Monday, told him that we could met perhas then)
Ok, the question is right now, I do really not want to be desperate or something, but fare thee well...( overanalyzing it perhaps), does not really sounds like I am starting to manifest something (I manifested contact perhaps, but I think at the moment more in a longdistance ah-that-is-someone-I-know-yeah way). And I really do not know how I should react. I mean, overall, everything is rather ok with me, sometimes I cry, but yeah, but sometimes (sometimes/often) I miss him like I do not know what, but if I tell him, I do not know, it does not feel like I have to tell him. And he is partying like hell, making lots of new friends (we moved to Antwerp august 2010 only knewing each other, he dumped me in June 2011 and there after he met a lot of people)... I know, I just do not want to interrupt with my wining.
When we met he said we were treating each other in a non healthy way, that he does not want to become like all those old people who are having fights all the time and stay with each other just beacuse of...it felt like the sparkle was gone, I really would like to manifest realoading the sparkle again, I am on my way letting go, but it is a bit odd, those two things together (letting go, wanting to manifest love). Advice anyone again?
Thanks for reading again and I wish all of you a great weekend!
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« on: November 26, 2011, 01:18:20 AM »
thanks...I really hope it will turn out just fine and the way it is supposed too according to the Universe.
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« on: November 25, 2011, 09:12:26 PM »
I know it is annoying, I am having a bit of the same problem too. I think we are too attached to the how, when, where... I am (and i had...so I KNOW I CAN) realizing that everything is all about me, or you in your case. I read something about putting someone on a pedestrial...and I know I do that, have to stop that. It sounds a bit like you are doing that too (not for sure ofcourse), the only one who are really important is YOU. I suggest stop the texting for a little while, perhaps he should feel how it is you are gone. Even though I am a bit jealous you are still having contact (I do have a little little contact, but yeah, your situation seems not so very very difficult, that is great actually!)
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« on: November 25, 2011, 05:56:52 PM »
Hey Dreambig, If it feels for you this is not the end of your relationship with him, TRUST it wont be. And it is annoying, that when you were in the process of founding things out, the break up happened, I can understand that if you have the feeling, you deserve another chance and do not get that chance, it is frustrating. But give yourself a chance first, LOVE yourself first! (I know exactly how it feels, I've been there too and came to the conclusion: I will change, for ME, but it was too late and he did not trust it anymore, thought I wanted to change for him, which perhaps, at that moment, was true, I wanted to do anything to let him stay with me, but now, I want ANYTHING to stay with ME and I know I will found my own happiness, love, respect, value and everything else I DO DESERVE!) And yes, I also am a believer of karma. I already saw some things that prooved me that (for example, and I do not really care about it, because I know everyone will get their lesson, my ex has almost the complete stuff we collected for the 4,5 yr we lived together, I made a calculation and still he owes me money for all the stuff he has right now (I spent money to buy new chairs and everything). Now he has financial problems and struggling to cope this. It is not nice and definately something I wish for him, I know I can forgive him the things that happened, but this is a proof to me, that whatever someone does, will come back) And it is also odd, I really DONT understand why there are woman and man want to take a girl or boy from someone else. Doesnt make someone a bad person, but I think they have to learn something, before they will realize that is not the path to take! She will get her lessons also. Try to enjoy this forum, it already made me feel so much better, so I suppose you will feel beter too thanks through the knowledge you will gain! I have a link from youtube for you, perhaps you can give it a try if you want too.
I really think this is a great number to meditate on Perhaps you will like it too. And do not forget, he has to DESERVE you. You do deserve everything you want (and everyone), but first KNOW you can deserve yourself. (It is hard, I do think that too, I also am still in the process, but hey, we did not found this forum by purpose I suppose... ) Have a great day and I am sure, that during the process gaining information, meditation, visualizing (yes, I do think that is a good thing, I do think it makes the letting go part more difficult, but just KNOW you can get whatever you want. And if you do not get that, you'll get someone or something even better!), affirmation, intentions, ASK, BELIEVE, RECEIVE, LETTING Go.... if you (and I and everyone else... ) you will become HAPPY, be GRATEFUL. Look at the things you have. That is great!
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« on: November 25, 2011, 05:06:34 AM »
Heey! Here my advice! First of all, you said you were pulling away emotionally and there after you said he broke up with you out of the blue. Well, I suppose he also felt you were pulling away. I am really sorry for the situation you are in right now. If I understood this good, he is with another girl for 4 months now? Perhaps their relationship also doesnt go well, perhaps it does. What do you want? After today I am becoming more and more for sure, that what we want, WE CAN MANIFEST, and so can you. If you want them to be together, that is fine (i understand you do not want to interrupt in a relationship), if you want him back badly and cannot stand the thought he will never be yours, you are too ATTACHED! DETACH yourself! LOVE YOU! I am using the LOA for 2,5 weeks right now and I am so grateful in such a short period, I do not know if you are new to this stuff? If so, try to meditate, visualize, affirm (in the mirror or write it down and carry it with you), intend. Also, ASK, BELIEVE, but LET GO!!! Really, first love yourself. You are great the way you are! I really am for sure you will get what you want then and if dont BETTER
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« on: November 25, 2011, 04:44:29 AM »
HOORAY! Did not knew that is falling in love with myself, but it feels awesome! About an hour and a half ago i got a text: Take care of yourself Chantal... (from him) and half an hour later Dont know if the message arrived? He should think WTF? Haha! I am sure, if I keep holding on using the LOA I definately wont become nuts or manic, I'll become GRATEFUL Loving it! Thanks for your reply a lot!
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« on: November 25, 2011, 02:51:58 AM »
Hey Irish Girl.
Think it is a great thing to visualize "by purpose", I really think that is a good sign. Also, you manifested that song twice, which is also great. I think you are on the right track right now. I am curious about the outcome!
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« on: November 25, 2011, 02:49:17 AM »
Hi there, a bit of a long story, but here we go! As someone said to me in my last topic, I should forgive him. I know I can, I am on my way. Untill a few hours ago I still felt a bit doubtfull and perhaps I will be, but I am feeling GREAT and PERFECT! I am on my way to become a BETTER GREATER MORE LOVING VALUABLE ME! Thanks to the Secret, LOA and this forum and other GREAT things. I just went to Antwerp by train. It was amazing, I am rather broke and thought: There wont come someone to control tickets, and guess what? Nobody came! Never had that! When I arrived and took the tram to the school I want to gain information for a parttime evening adult education, I met in that tram two cool guys...we chatted and it was fun (just a chat!) Normally spoken I am rather shy, but I said, if I like the parttime education, I'll probably move to Antwerp. I'll give you my email, so you can email me. They said they definately would. Then I called S. We chatted and I said I was in Antwerp. He said he wanted to go somewhere else, he said he thought I was coming tomorrow and wanted to do the other thing. I said: "That is allright, we will see each other another time, I'll just get my train then!" He changed his mind and said: "What the heck, Why not?" I had to wait for him a little while, he was too late. I chatted with a sweet girl and it was fun! When he arrived, we spoke. It was a bit odd. There were some silences. He also said: "I do not what to say else really". He said I was acting strange (since the discovery of the existence of the LOA I AM feeling great, while I am normally really negative) I said: "Well, you do not have to believe me, you can think I took drugs or am drunk, but what is the meaning of beeing negative, I used to be negative and I do not want that anymore". He thought perhaps I was acting or something, but really, I do not care. But, he also asked me: "Are there a lot of boys in love with you?", and asked me three times if I am really over him. Should I expect that is good news? I also said, PERHAPS I'll move to Antwerp. He did not get angry, he only said, that would be strange, us living in the same city. I said: "Well, we do not have to be best friends if you do not want to". I just acted cool, not needy, clingy, desperate. Just HAPPY. He also said: "Do you not miss me?" I said: "I missed ME and now I am on my way finding myself, ofcourse I do miss you, but I am learning a lot right now, this is such a good thing!" (And believe it or not, I MEANT it) I think (or FEEL) I can detach from the outcome right now, after seeing him. I think I will follow my own path. And if he will be part of that, it would be great. But if not, my path also will be great! I am also a bit proud of myself, I did not asked him anything about if he was seeing someone else, or how he is acting with other girls. And it is really, because I KNOW that if the Universe will deliver him back to me, that would be GREAT and if don't I am sure, the Universe will deliver me someone even better than him. I LOVE ME, well, I am on my way I suppose... When I left I said: "Perhaps we can meet Monday?" He said he did not know, but well, when I am in Antwerp I'll sent him a text sms and if he liked what he saw today, he will react (Haha, he also said: It is not like you are extremely happy the one time and extremely depressed the other time? At first I was, well at first I was just depressed, now I am feeling great and in between that I felt indeed like that, but I want to feel great, so I FEEL GREAT) I'll also visit Antwerp again this Monday, because I can follow two trial lessons for the directions of parttime study so I can see if it feels good to me. I am so happy. I am so happy that everything the Universe has for me in the future! I am so grateful everything I am learning and experiencing right now. I am so grateful for everything and everybody I have. I am so grateful that I "met" you sweet people over here. Thanks!
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« on: November 25, 2011, 02:24:57 AM »
Heey Irish Girl,
Perhaps it might sound odd, but I think I am already on the process forgiving him. It is just, that the finances are something that could create a row between us, but I am sure it will not, because I do not want to. And there are more things indeed that are not feeling like "finished" for me, but I am on my way! But thanks a lot for your reply!
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« on: November 24, 2011, 08:40:47 PM »
Thanks a lot for your replies! It is really helpfull and made it clearer in my head! I just got an odd email as a reply to the mail I sent, he did not respond to the line that I was going to Antwerp. He has an own company and he said, that there were two clients of him, who were acting difficult paying a job which was not finished yet. Well, anyways, it was all about money. When we went in the appartment August 2010, we had to pay 2 months warrant and give our signatures. When he wants to move (and he wants to), he needs my signature for agreeing we are leaving the appartment Well, he is still in that appartment and kind of kicked me out in June 2011. Leaving me with almost nothing, I made calculation and he owes me 400 euros. I said to him the last time I spoke to him, I said I will give him my signature if he gives me the 400 euros. Everyone advices me to act that way and I also agree with that, because I started with almost nothing after collecting stuff together for 4,5 years. I really do not want a row with him, if i might see him, I suggest I will tell him: "We together will found out a solution", hope that will helps. I really do not want to focus on this kind of things right now. But I feel a bit like "huh" right now And I think it is odd that he did not reply to my email. And yeah, if you read this, I can understand "Why do you want him back? But I do love him and I can forgive him. I know karma already is delivering him the things he needs to learn and experience to become a wiser human beeing, just as I have to learn my lessons to grow, so I do not worry about that. But this makes the situation a bit complex for me, it is something from the past that I do really not want to put energy in, because it makes me sooooo tired. And i AM energy, so I should be full of energy right now Thanks again so much, I also am trying to give LOVE to all these sweet people on this forum... because I am grateful and all the knowledge I gain, I really want to share (LOA knowledge most I hope )
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