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its been a long two years and i have never given up! my husband decided to break our marriage two years ago saying he didnt love me anymore! i was devestated, this was my best friend who i have known and been with for 7 years! it was so heart breaking. i turned into an emotional wreck, crying, pleading, begging...the more i did, the more he resented me, the more he didnt want to see me or have anything to do with me. he was in love with another woman, he left me for her and that made it even more painful.

despite all this, i knew i loved him, i knew i wanted to be with him no matter what...despite everything i persisted! i kept hoping, knowing that one day we will be together. i changed myself and slowly started working on us becoming friends again, on us connecting again and left the relationship on the side for a while.

i saw him a month ago, i was over his city for  a few weeks, at first he wouldnt even hug me, he kept pulling back, resisting but by the end just before I left we went for a lovely dinner and he started holding me so tight like he use to do saying he will help me deal with my work and financial problems....it has changed from him never answering my texts or calls to him picking up when i call and becoming more responsive....the last time i spoke to him he mentioned something about him becoming single again, i asked completely single? and he said yes meaning he has left the other woman...he still not talking about reconciliation but i see alot of positive changes in our relationship...i am due to visit his city again in two weeks and i am really looking forward to us seeing each other and talking....

maybe it is not a success story yet but it is a huge improvement from how things were, what worked for me is not resisting him, accepting his decisions and employing what i call KIND POWER! trust me that is the most powerful thing of all...despite how distant and how much he pushed me away i never became aggressive or angry, i continued to love him unconditionally and it got to the point where it didnt matter whether he was with me physically or not or whether i had him or not...i got so much pleasure from just loving him, from feeling that in my chest and from the thought putting a smile on my face...i guess that is detachment...the strangest thing is despite all the times he said i dont love you, deep inside i didnt believe that, deep inside i felt the opposite, could never explain it but i always knew and still know that he does! i am not in denial, it is my gut feeling and my gut feeling has always been right

hope this is useful to someone searching for answers...sending all positive energy

love and light

S

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Yes i think you are on the right path! the key is to stay happy with yourself and not focus too much on making it happen! try to focus on creating a positive experience between the two of you...every time you talk or meet, try to be the girl he fell in love with and most impotantly have faith and believe that you are great as you are and he will be lucky to be with you. hopefully this helps and hope to hear your success story soon.

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I understand how you feeling! I have gone through the same but you are saying this because you still havent met the right person! if you keep thinking that no one else will impress you like him then that is what will happen. I think you should be open, make a wish to the universe that you want to meet the right person, someone who will make you happy and more in love than you are with this current guy, let go and believe and it will happen. I went through a similar experience in the past, i was madly in love with a guy and then he left me and got married! althought it did hurt like hell for 2 years, i cried almost every night and said i will never be with anyone else but then out of the blue as i started to focus on my life again, going out with my friends and having fun, someone better came along and then i found myself saying i am glad god took the first guy away from me to give me the new one and all of a sudden everything made sense. My advice is to let go and just dont focus on meeting someone or being with anyone, just focus on living a happy life and have fun, go out and have a blast and before you know someone will come and make you so happy....believe

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you can use it i suppose! but would you want to break her marriage! why dont you use it instead to attract someone else into your life who will make you as equally happy!

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Hi chantel,

I started off very badly i must say! even after i got so much information about loa i couldnt detach! i was always wanting to hear from him, know his news....was worried that he is seeing someone else....so although i wrote down affirmations, and gratitude lists and practiced loa as i read i should do...but my subconscience was full of doubts and worries! then one day i just got so tired and realised that i was trying to make it happen rather than surrender my powers to god! it was wearing me out and i started realising that i am wasting precious time of my life that wont ever come back again being down about it and i should be happy instead with or without him.

I also realised that my behavior was just pushing him away and adding to the negative energy...it hit me that my behavior was getting me to what i didnt want faster than the speed of light so i decided to stop everything and surrender.

I started to behave as if we are already together, by this point i wasnt writing affirmations anymore! i just did it in my mind! i just got on with my life...

hope this is helpful. Feel free to ask anything

tc

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Can I just say something! FB has ruined many relationships! I know it is not easy to do but try to ignore it as much as you can, it is a distraction meant to distract u from focusing on your desire and what you want to manifest! imagine as something that will slow you get back with your guy! do you want that? i know easier said than done and it took me a while to do it myself but It has helped alot and i found that the more i focused on the little world i created in my mind of me and my man together, the closer we are getting. Stop focusing on his friend, his family, FB....and all the external factors that will just intervene with your intentions.

good luck and remember keep your vibrations high, dont let anything lower them.

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Mariposa thanks you so much for this! needed it

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read Maripose post and it answered my question so i removed the post! feeling better

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Hi


You see, If you already together with your girl, will you ever wonder why she didnt call ? do you ever wonder what is she doing now and is she with someone else etc. No right ? because you know she is belongs to you and even if she didnt call you or anything, you know she is yours ... that is what i get from the word playing As if
hope it helps

believing you hit the nail on the head! i was struggling with understanding what letting go really means until i read your comment. ! i had an Aha moment thanks a bunch

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I have some updates! i am not sure you know my story but basically i am seperated from my husband who had an affair with another woman and left me. at first he made it so difficult for me, all what he wanted was a divorce, he was so mean to me and didnt even want to see or speak to me. fast forward one year and after 6 months of practicing loa we are supposed to discuss divorce settlment, he didnt want solicitors involved because it was going to cost alot of money. at first i resisted, tried to be difficult as a way of getting back at him but  then i asked myself why am i doing something that is against my true wish! and decided to give in and let go of the solicitor! since then he has softened quiet abit he even mentioned to a friend that he is not in a rush to get the divorce finalised. i have been ill recently and was admitted to hospital, in the past he wouldnt have cared but this time he has been worried and asking around about me.

he is also trying to help me make a decision about my life when he initially tried hard to enforce his choices on me as in where i lived. now he is becoming more and more the friend i once knew. i for a long time stopped telling him i loved him for the fear that will push him away but when i told him of my decision to not involve solicitors i said i am doing this because i still love you and i dont care what anyone would think about that. i told him that by denying how i felt i was hurting myself and he was free to react the way he wanted...he kept quiet when i said that. he hasnt said anything about getting back together but if it was his old self he would have cut communication with me all together after i told him i still love him. last nite i spoke to him and for a moment it felt like old times.

i dont want to be reading too much into this but maybe i am looking for some positive signs to keep me going on this journey

thank you beautiful people

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Hi everyone!

I am in need for some advice and possibly a push in the right direction. So my husband had an affair a year an a half ago, he asked me to leave, told me he didnt love me anymore and was so mean to me...all throughout i held on because i love him! i cried, pleaded, begged, made a fool of myself for months and it only got worse...he filed for divorce which is still not finalised yet!

then i came across loa and started applying it! affirmation, staying positive, believing that we are meant to be together...etc, in addition i also focused on creating positive experiences with my him...we are seperated but every time i speak to him on the phone even if it is discussing the divorce i sound very positive, happy and accomodative! at first i was getting defensive, talking about my rights, blaming him but then realised that was just driving me closer to what i really didnt want and instead i gave in, i decided to become true to who i am not for him but for myself and that is an understanding, loving and giving person and started exhibiting that to him...he has become more friendly with me, responds to my texts and calls and we speak for near an hour every time, discussing other things like our jobs, we laugh, share jokes....etc

i know the other woman has stopped being in his life! everything sounds good so far but the problem is that recently the legal side of things has become abit more complicated, solicitors are trying to make it tough on him, which will likely end up in him paying more than he can afford. he is a generous man but since we split he hasnt been with me and he is materialistic, in the sense money matters to him...and since things got more complicated on that front he seems to have softened quite abit with me...he talks and shows me he cares! the other day i mentioned to him that a friend of mine is doing an counseling and it is working and i was saying it in a joking way that maybe we should try it but then he said send me the link, i would be interested...well this came as a shock, this man had no ears if i may put it that way, one year ago i begged him to go for couseling and he gave me an outright NO! now he is willing to have a look at it!!! well he hasnt said he still loves me or asked me to get back together but he is softening and the marriage counseling thing came as a big surprise for me!

I spoke to friends and family and they are all discouraging me saying u need to realise sometimes that a relationship is not meant to be and just let it go! they are all being negative and raising doubts in me! what i am struggling with is whether this is geniuine from his part or is it because of money issues! could it be my practicing of loa manifesting? i would appreciate any opinions because i am in risk of falling back with this

thank you

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yeah it is a sign  stop everything right now and be grateful! from reading your previous post i noticed taht u are over analysing the situation....just keep faith that it works and sit back and relax! raise your vibration by being happy and be certain that she is coming back, in fact take it as if she is already there and she will be....all the best 

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Hi everyone!

I am new here and happy to have found this amazing place filled with positivetly. I would do with some advice on how to progress from where i am. my husband who i have been with for 8 years left me a year and a half ago for his colleague. he had an affair with her and told me he didnt love me anymore. shortly after she divorced her husband too and i guess they were a couple. Meanwhile, i begged, pleaded with my husband to take me back and every time he resented me even more, until i learnt about loa and decided to use that instead.

my  husband was so much in love with me until she came into the picture and a part of me always knew that she was the main reason he refused to give our marriage a second chance so i kind of knew he wont come back to me as long as she is still there and along with doing my affirmations and gratitude lists to get him back, i also asked for the universe to remove her from the picture and guess what! a couple of days ago she posted on her facebook complaining about him refusing to stay friends with her because she doesnt want to sleep with him anymore! seems like she doesnt want to be romantically involved with him but only wants him as a friend and he is finding that hard to accept, she also mentioned that he told her that is the end and he doesnt want to see her anymore.

i have gotten to the point of letting go as far as he is concerned and although i know i want him back and i know the universe is paving the way for him to come back but i am starting to get anxious about my reaction when he does! am i going to be able to be happy with him again knowing what he has done, i know this will highly depend on how he comes back, on whether he will show remorse or just come back because she damped him! i am confused and dont know what i am thinking or saying and need some direction.

thank you

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