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on: November 03, 2011, 01:26:32 AM 1 Law of Attraction for Relationship / Law of Attraction for Relationship / My Journey to Success!
So my (I've decided to now call him Boyfriend- as that's how it feels again) My boyfriend and I have been texting constantly for 2 weeks now.
As I've mentioned before, he never used to text me when he was at work/ around family/ in fact he hates texting. On Diwali I mentioned it was just me and my sister out and he told me to 'stay out of trouble' (I believe a little insecurity stepped out there as he knew I was going to be around loads of Asian guys)
When I mentioned my sister and her boyfriend splitting recently, he text back saying 'well theres always room for a second chance' but didn't specify it to them.
I've bee hinting opportunities for us to meet but he's missed them all. At one point he mentioned wanting to see a film he knows I want to see but then didn't invite me. I brushed it off. A few more opportunities went by...
Today, he asked me to pop by if I want as I was around his hometown (we live 45mins away from each other - met at Uni) but said he's finishing work late and doesn't want me travelling home late so he said, let's re-schedule. I said yes but he brushed off organizing anything again.
What would have been our 4 year anniversary is coming up in a few days. Oh yeah- I can feel something...
SO WHAT HAVE I BEEN DOING IN TERMS OF LOA??
1. Believing. I am SO sure he's coming back (I know like I know like I know he's on his way back)
2. I tell the universe how much I trust it (because I do)
3. I do cosmic telepathy I find its helped me personally and really has guided me (I can feel the magic with this one!)
4. Affirmations (I am worthy/powerful/humble/thankful/loved etc)
5.EFT ('Even though I have let ___ go, I completely accept myself')
LETTING GO. I am aware that letting go helps with a faster manifestation but my reason for wanting to finally detach from the outcome was to honestly free myself from pain.
I still have work to do but I'm on my way to true bliss.
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on: October 26, 2011, 11:13:36 PM 2 Law of Attraction for Relationship / Law of Attraction for Relationship / For Us All
it doesnt matter, i was just making a point that she says to do a general search.
A quick precis; Mr Positive had said that the Hicks don't advocate attracting a specific person back, I quoted that and asked him why that mattered and above, his response.
So, this is what I'm seeing right now - and any judgements which appear to be being made are coming from personal experience, as well as witnessing posters on here. I'm passionate about people being happy and getting what they want and no-one loves a Success Story more than I (well, I'm sure we all love them!); I want to see weddings and babies and parent-in-laws and happy tears, so please, if this sounds spiky, it's coming from a place of love.
What I see, time and time again, is people being given the tools to create their own lives, and not using them. We KNOW what we have to do. We KNOW that beliefs create our reality. And if we went and read some amateur quantum physics books (The Intention Experiment by Lynne McTaggart is a MUST), we'd all KNOW that intention works, that people can influence other people, belief can be watched on a flickering TV in a science lab. There's a story in there of a guy who, sitting next to a plant, decided to send the intention to the plant that he was going to pour acid on it and as the plant was rigged up to some kind of ECG machine, watched as its response shot off the radar. He continued to think the thought occasionally, and watched as the plant reacted until there came a time where the plant had LEARNT that this thought didn't actually equate to action and thus didn't react when he thought about acid. So, the man decided to think a thought pertaining to a different way of injuring him. And the plant once again reacted as it did in the very first instance. Now, if a man can merely THINK something in the presence of a different species and that reacts, than can people get their exes back? Er, doh..... But we HAVE to be secure, cemented and relaxed in our beliefs and what is happening on here time and time again is people pertain to believing stuff, wait 3 days, and then stamp their feet. Or threaten suicide. Or say it's not working. And I've done that, so with one finger pointing at you, there are three pointing back at myself.
If we read something and someone goes, 'no, you can't attract a specific person,' we get down. And then we get buoyed when we read the Success Stories forum. And then our ex doesn't react the way we want them to, so we get down. And then we get a PM from someone on here and back up the belief chart we soar until something else happens and we slump. When our beliefs are that fickle, that changeable, is it any wonder that people fail? Because amongst all the talk of hope and faith and visualisation, I don't think I've ever seen a mention of DISCIPLINE; mental discipline. Being keen and observant and strict with your own thoughts. The thoughts we think are lazy and habitual, but they are that way from years of thinking the same stuff - who here sits and concentrates, meditates twice a day for 30 minutes, takes full responsibility for their lives, thinks only positive thoughts, works at changing a negative thought into a positive thought, doesn't give in to doubt, doesn't give a shit about what someone says if it runs contrary to their desire, and doesn't seek reassurance as a prop for their slumped beliefs?
Intention and belief are muscles like any other and they need working to be strong, they need to build up a memory from thinking and intending and believing new things, however awkward they may feel at first. People lapse, people collapse back into doubt and fear and I understand why. I do the same thing. But there is a huge body of scientific work, operating at the quantum level - very important stuff - showing that belief and thought work. That this stuff exists. That however hippyish it may appear, and however many centuries that bloody Rhonda Byrne woman has put this back by dripping her books in faux waxen seals and flowery italic script, that on a QUANTUM level - the universe, particles, sub atomic particles, things we will never see and never fully understand - respond to thought.
Free will - I've never understood this. How we can move mountains and conceive of sending men to the Moon and attracting a million quid but somehow the horse politely stops short of ever influencing anyone else. No, we can't do that. Er, how does society work? How do vibes work? How do you know that someone at work doesn't like you? It's energy, it's vibes, it's all that stuff. We're influencing everyone with everything we do, so please put that free will crap to bed. If science is to believed - and I think that there's a certain merit to it ; ), then please see that we're all interconnected, that all our cells are constantly communicating, that once two people have been together, however euphemistically you wish to view that, those cells remain in contact. Science shows this. 'Free will' is an emotive term. Loosely put, the idea that we're all individuals is possibly a less scientifically rigid view of ourselves. We do NOT live in isolation.
Don't get drunk on other people's successes only to wake up with a massive hangover the next day because your ex hasn't asked you to marry them. Get straight in your own mind first. KNOW that it can be done but understand what you have to do to get there.
The quantum physics section of this forum is one of the most under-used as far as I can see, but I've got so much from reading The Intention Experiment and relating it to what I'm doing now. In 1985, a group of Buddhist monks were witnessed sitting half naked in a frozen monastery, deep winter, meditating. From time to time, another monk would place soaking wet, cold sheets on their back and do you know what happened? Through the power of their mind, they increased their body temperature to the point where they dried the sheets on their back.
We - YOU - can do, or be or have anything and there are NO exceptions, but you HAVE to do the legwork, and I think some of us (me included) are guilty of skipping that bit.
Another book - Feeling Is The Secret by Neville Goddard says the same thing. (Go and find it on YouTube - I tried to load it as videos but am low on time and you're all clever people). Believe you're there and you are. Believe you have it and you do. Believe you can and you can. A monk, sitting in a monastery in winter, drying icy wet sheets on his back through the power of his mind; he didn't wait until summer, piss about a bit, drip dry them over the Tibetan monasteries and claim to have done all that 'cause otherwise he'd have got chillblains; he BELIEVED he was 20 degrees hotter than he was and he got there.
(By the way, the Goddard book is fab, partly because he says at the start - and I'm paraphrasing, 'I'm not going to fill this book full of success stories because all a person needs to know is in the text; create your own evidence and you won't need anyone else's.' I love that - locus of control and belief coming from yourself)
But please don't underestimate what belief is and what it takes; do the hard work and know that it is hard work. We are talking about using our minds actively, and no offence to 95% of us, but our minds are probably the most underused bit of ourselves. Nurture that. Train your mind. Send it to where you want to go. BE in the situations you wish to create. And then you will be
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on: October 22, 2011, 03:47:44 PM 3 Success Stories / Success Stories / My journey of getting the Greatest Break of my Career
Certainly not posting to blow my triumph but if it offers deeper clues on the wonderful working of the law then it indeed worth a share. No?
I was doing all very well in my career. Wanted more out of my Career. So, gave interview at one of the biggest banks ( can not disclose the name at the Moment).
Once the interview was over with US Guys, the HR called me few days ago and said, "Would you like to join us for Managerial Role"?
I said "Hell yes" :-)
I asked how is the Compensation Like? She said, she could not disclose that before seeking approvalfor it.
yesterday the HR Guys sent me offer letter, When i opened the Offer Letter E-Mail at my desk and saw the figure they offered me, I was like... got no words, completely stand still. I locked my computer and went to the small garden in office premise and sat there alone.
The mental scrrenshot of that Offer letter was still poping up in my head like Popcorns at the same time no words was coming out of mouth. Coz there was so much to come out, as if words were fighting which one should come First. :-)
Then few words won the race and came together and i said to myself, "This is it Ankur, You made it". :-)
This is it, this was the offer i was always waiting for. Absolute Boost in my career in terms of Position and Money.
But how it all came along? I was so aware of not doing the same mistek many of us are committing here time and again, "Attached with the outcome". I had no idea in my mind in terms of Moeny and position that i expect from my next Job.
All i could feel was, "the wonderful feeling when i have it". And when i saw the offer, I did not match the Moeny i got or the position i got. I purely matched the joy i got out of it, which was exactly i asked for.
So, when soemthing manifests we need to be observent enough to identify that it was the outcome of what we asked for and thank for it, than to crib of not getting it in the way we expected it to be.
"I am Happy" :-)
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on: October 14, 2011, 01:17:58 AM 4 Law of Attraction for Relationship / Law of Attraction for Relationship / Law of Attraction in Action - It works but mind what you wish for...!!!!!!
I want to share with you a story which shows that the LoA works but careful what you wish for!!!!!
I have recently split from an idiot of ex and in the days immediately after the split I watched the movie "the Secret", where they say that you shall put "an order" to the universe and mind what you wish for.
So I thought ok, for my next bf I wish I had a big tall blond guy with blue eyes and broad shoulders, kind of nordic viking.
I was even very specific about the height, I wanted him taller than my ex, so the order was for at least 6 ft 2.
I placed the order and practiced visualisation and - as they say in the movie, kept thinking "I know like I know like I know that it's on its way".
I have got a new boss since a couple of months. He has always been extemely serious and professional with me in every respect, besides he never came across as very "approacheable" really, so I always limited my interaction with him to the strictly necessary.
Now is the funny bit. About a month after he became my new boss and about a month after splitting from my ex I was in the office. I look at my new boss and think ah! he actually matches the description of my "order to the universe" perfectly. Blond, blue eyes, tall, big guy, everything. And then I realise that he is - at least to me - handsome and attractive. That very moment I thought that's exactly what I would like, I wish I had someone like him (mind I said like him, not precisely him).
The following days I started looking at him from a distance (remember he didn't come across as approcheable to me...) just admiring his beauty, thought nothing about it.
One day of the many I looked at him, he was talking to sb, I was staring at him and when he turned he caught me looking at him lost in my thoughts, so I looked immediately away and probably blushed. Ok, again didn't think much of it, in fact I though I would meet the "Universe's delivery" on the tube or elsewhere.
But since that day he caught me staring at him he started winking at me.
He would look at me intensely and wink without talking, or if I have to tell him something we talk and then right at the end he would smile and wink. And he often blushes when he talks to me.
This is now happening basically every day.
I find him attractive and I am sure he can read it all over my face.
He must be 40 (I am 30+) so we are not talking about a young silly guy and as I said he comes across as very serious and professional.
Since yesterday he has started making jokes and the way he looks and smiles at me cannot be mistaken any more.
Also his body language has changed from the first month. When I pass by or go close to him (not TO him, close to him) he reacts immediately and turns his whole body towards me.
For those of you who are thinking "and how do you react to this?" I can say I smile back most of the times, probably blush every now and then but since yesterday even worse, I have started looking back and answering back at him with the same clear cheeky flirtatious look in my eyes.
Unfortunately - although I should know better, he is my boss and I work in a strict organisation where such "situations" are not welcome between employees of the same grade, let alone between one and her boss - as soon as I see him I start thinking how gorgeous he is and how much I would like to have (...) him and since I am not disciplined enough not to stare at him or look at him when I can, I guess he has no doubt about me liking him at all what-so-ever.
So dear friends, it seems that the Universe is delivering my order within something more than a month from placing it. The delivery matches perfectly what has been requested, pity I had forgotten to add to the order the condition "not a co-worker".
I am shocked and happy to see that the Law of Attraction works but gosh, what will happen now with the delivery of this gorgeous boss of mine???
I guess I know it. Since the first day he winked I started thinking "I know, like I know, like I know that he is all mine."
So dear friends, be very specific about your order and mind what you wish for....
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I feel i had to share this with everybody. About 2yrs ago I used to look at Polo 2007 yr model cars, i couldn't affford a new car and i had no desire to buy one. I only did it because being the only female accountant, it was only guys around me and that was what all the guys did lunchtimes. A month later my dad calls and says "I saw a perfect car for you , Polo 2007 trendline with alloy wheels, its red, it went for half the price that it normally goes for". I manifested it without wanting it. It was mine within half an hour of seeing.
on: October 11, 2011, 07:44:56 AM 6 Law of Attraction for Relationship / Law of Attraction for Relationship / An article on law of attraction and dating
Was going through some articles and found this. I'm sorry if this was already posted somewhere. Nothing new, just a reminder but while reading this have had some "exactly, this is it" moments
Love & blessings
on: October 09, 2011, 06:03:52 AM 7 Success Stories / Success Stories / Out of no way a way was made..
so for the past few days Iíve been posting about my life and a huge issue was with my adoptive dad and me basically hating his gut. I decided to try to use the LOA to find some peace with him. tonight i went to an Narcotics Anonymous meeting with him because he needed someone to drive him there as his license has been suspended. well tonite (like an hour ago) i heard this man, that Iíve hated because he hit me and my mom, open up and tell about his struggle with drugs and alcohol. I finally saw from his perspective and it was like i saw him in a different light. he deals with daily struggles of his own. thatís not to say what he does is ok but im amazed how the universe gave me a new perspective of him when that is EXACTLY what i asked for. i am ecstatic!! just wanted to share, thank you all for reading
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on: October 08, 2011, 04:21:33 PM 8 General Category / Law of Attraction Lounge / infinite love is the only truth
As this becomes clearer in my mind i just wanted to share.The only quality we have is to exist , everything else is the imagination of ourselves ,
infinite love is the only truth because it gives us the freedom to be and experience everything we desire.
on: October 01, 2011, 12:07:54 AM 9 Law of Attraction for Relationship / Law of Attraction for Relationship / Strange and yet it is ok!
Ok i started loving myself and just not caring anymore about what happens! Ever since trying this and just being happy my lover i will call her is not talking to me any more and is dating this one guy that i really dont feel threatened at all by! I know that its temporary and im done complaining and making excuses why im misserable! Im just now gonna take it for what it is and let the universe either give me a sign i cant have her back or a sign that she is comming back! Im just done putting labels on everything because im not allowing myself to see the infinite possibilities! I feel her coming closer tho and im not gonna contact her at all anymore and just let her do everything! My only job is to just live my life and be happy! Thats all i got to share today love and peace to all
on: September 18, 2011, 08:17:48 PM 10 Success Stories / Success Stories / HE IS BACK !!! My success story!
That's right, he is BACK. Only days ago I was posting desolate and troubled messages here, as I was getting too emotional and weak about the trip he took to my country... without meeting me... and yesterday there he was, sending me a longing, sentimental, touching message that he wants to meet me. In a short time, we were confessing our LOVE again
We had feelings for each other for 5 years, though only recently we were "official". It was amazing for a long distance relationship. Our story was simply stunning, but I won't go into details. I can actually call it supernatural. Since we were not complete people by ourselves, life threw us in the lessons we had to learn, so separation came (winter 2011). It was an awful time, I begged him, I pleaded, I argued in my favor, I even did things on purpose to hurt him, I could not live, only cry cry cry..... until the day he never wanted to contact me again. For about half a year we had no contact. He broke all his promises, threw away our love story, accused me of things... I was so down and broken that the only way to go was up, somehow, if I was still alive.
What I did:
In spring I discovered this forum, as I was desperately looking for healing from outside of me... and things slowly improved by realizing I have to work from within. I began changing my perspective and practice what I was taught here. Soon I experienced the wonderful vortex, which gave me much hope - it was the time of intense meditation, visualization, affirmation use. I was no longer a wreck.
For the summer, I decided it was time to do something about my life and take a seasonal job abroad, to enjoy freedom and a changed environment. I had many issues with it, which have severely deteriorated my mood. Then I applied something which became the great solution out of the crisis:
I outlined all good things in my life, focused on them and gave sincere thanks for them.
Because of work, I had no time to be in the forum, to use subliminal messaging or other things I did before. However, the intense activity (work + exploring the new city) were a great boost for my own self. I was starting to be adaptable, to see problems from a different perspective, to look with honesty within myself.... It was a very tough time of my life - but a very enlightening one. I was set, from that time on, to be happy with the things happening in my life and to start being grateful on a constant basis.
I know that we don't all share the same spiritual beliefs, but I will tell you what mine have been and the role they played:
As an Orthodox Christian, I finally started to discover this faith... I began to meet God halfway (don't expect everything from Him, and also don't be fooled that you can do it all by yourselves, with no help). Jesus said to look for the kingdom of heaven and all else will fall into place. It's what I began doing - taking care of my soul, being more loving towards other people, letting go of my own will for the sake of God's will... because He must know better and He is full of Love. This happened also because I was tired. Wanting to get my will done was exhausting me, pulling me in all sides. The flood of thoughts was confusing me to the extreme, so I had to put an end to it somehow. So I let go of of my will.... and when my desires persisted, I was openly telling to God: "This is what I want. If You want it, I know You will make it true for me." I got amazing results and a series of incredible signs that were telling me I'm on the way to manifest my dreams... In fact, I was manifesting some of them, though they seemed impossible. Life was getting a rich taste for me!
However... one thing remained unchanged: I could not truly forgive him, nor get rid of the immense pain he caused me. I was much vulnerable to that. Honestly, I was not completely detached and got to have awful feelings for him, again.... It was almost like getting back to point zero, only that this time I was enjoying the other aspects of my life. I have "let go and let God", however... asking Him to put forgiveness into my heart...
So, along with GRATITUDE, I think this is what helped me: DEEP FAITH. The faith that he will improve and return and that a love like ours can't be wasted into nothingness. The faith that what's good prevails. I have always known deep inside that he would return one day!
As I was back home, after all the trials, successes, signs, I realized that in spite of some terrible drawbacks I was living an improved life... I was actually having many happy moments, some detachment, positivity, I was using my skills to make my existence better etc. It was a great improvement!!! although I was still hurting A LOT because of him, I was alive and living pretty good!! I had accepted that the break up was for the betterment of both and that without it we would have kept the same flaws. We truly had the chance to have a better thing for the future....
Last but not least, I PRAYED a lot. As much as I could stay focused. I tried to be honest in my prayers and simply stating my limits. I engaged to do my best, asking for God to complete the rest, that was not in my power. I think that knowing our place in the Universe is of utmost importance - thus we will not attempt to control what is simply beyond our power.
What he did:
I don't know if he felt a change in my energy, but towards the end of August he began to appear online to me again. It was a great step forward! However, none was initiating a conversation. Eventually he took the trip he planned with his best friend and one of my friends. In my country. A trip that was promised to me. I cannot tell how much it hurt... but still, I had high hopes for it. I knew he was going to be overwhelmed by the memories and feel my absence.... I knew something would happen to change his thoughts.... And it did... They arrived in my hometown. He sent me a message to meet up!!! This was one of the outcomes I had pictured...! Well, I was all nervous and some anger came back haunting me... I was quite proud and fearful because of the pain... so I didn't act with love in the beginning of our encounter, though we looked with a long, fascinated gaze to each other. However, something changed it all and became victorious... it was the LOVING ATTITUDE. For a couple of hours we radically oscillated between rejection, anger and disappointment to some kind, loving feelings. In the end we both felt it was useless to keep anything negative. I felt how the good feelings replaced the bad ones. Our eyes were telling the true story. He sat on his knees and shed tears in front of me, as he opened up to some delicate topics.... In no time we began sharing again, laughing and smiling a looooot.... and we kept doing that for many, many hours late into the night and the next day!! Normally we would've been exhausted for such lack of sleep, but I swear I feel incredibly fresh and awake for these conditions!!! It's truly a miracle.... the miracle of Love. We held hands, he was poking me and blowing kisses in the air for me.... so playful and cute We wanted so much to send this time together and it felt incredibly natural and loving!! things fell into place for us in the best way possible, even if we had to deal with a lot of other people.
I loved talking to him. He said to me I make him happy and that's all that matters.... that he loved to see me smiling... and that he simply had no idea what to say to me during the past months.... but he let me understand the love never died! This, however, is pretty weird to me, because I've fallen in love with another man recently (and maybe that raised my vibration a lot and facilitated the attraction) and I want to see what it is about..... I don't feel like throwing it away. So, ummm... I have 2 love interests in my life now. But I'm not hurried, I trust that I will be shown the way. All i know is that from now on I want to enjoy this new connection with this man I've known 5 yrs ago..... We truly are at a different level now, like all successful stories say
Now, please allow me.... I give my heartfelt GRATITUDE to all of you here in the forum - too many to name! - who have advised me, posted inspiring stories and influenced me in a way or another! I am really happy to have met you!!! Not just because you helped me, but also because you proved to me that there is so much goodness into the world!!! I love you all! for those who are still trying to get things right - don't despair! my situation, like many others, seemed hopeless and was extremely painful!! If you trust it was love - trust it will be fine too!
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on: September 10, 2011, 09:17:50 PM 11 Law of Attraction for Relationship / Law of Attraction for Relationship / Struggling Emotionally and Need Encouragement
So, I'm blue again today. Yes, I'm sure it has something to do with the fact that it's rainy season where I am and we haven't seen the sun here for about three weeks BUT a lot has to do with my current situation.
So, I still can't seem to wrap my mind around the whole Chris situation. I just don't get it. I mean, I've continuously manifested every one of my desires since I was a child. And I noticed rather early on that I got whatever I wanted. And it didn't require faith because some of the things that I've manifested I thought there was no way in heaven or hell that I would receive, and yet I did.
Two relationships in which I turned the person from not wanting to wanting me were based completely on neediness. I didn't push them away. I drew them to me.
As far as communicating with people telepathically (not the same as remote seduction) to get a desired outcome, it works on everyone without fail, except for Chris. It truly confuses me.
With all of my other manifestations, I'm not a real stickler on being diligent or visualizing more than a little and I can even be grumpy and notice that I don't have what I want - and still I get it. Yet with Chris, nothing.
I do a lot of energy work for the planet and I send love throughout the whole Universe and even though it's not my intention for doing so, of course the love flows back to me. I am surrounded by positive, beautiful people who are all used to getting what they want. This shows me that I'm on the right path for me because like attracts like.
Right after breaking up with Chris (out of necessity) my heart opened up to unconditional love for all (yes, I backslide from time to time) and some of the experiences that I've had are mind-blowingly beautiful. I never doubted that we'd be together and the faith, joy, and happiness that I felt was awesome.
In the present moment, I am looking at how far I've come since the breakup. I still have farther to go of course because life is all about constant expansion, but, I'm clearly a chick who has a lot going for herself. In the past few days, I've released any blocks about not being loveable enough and when I look at the evidence of my life, I can see that I'm extremely loveable.
So, based on my life experience, I have to say that at this point, it's Chris and not me who is delaying this process. The blocks I feel are not within myself, I feel them from him. Of course, I can communicate with his Higher Self, that's easy but it doesn't seem to trickle down to his conscious self. And I'm telling you, my means of communication works with everyone else and always with next day results.
And yes it's true, Chris hasn't awakened to complete Consciousness. He's intelligent but he's not at a point of actualizing all of his dreams and goals. And of course, just like when I was dating him, I keep myself busy and find joy and laughter everyday but I do miss him and I do desire to be with him.
I regularly feel joy and happiness when thinking of him and blah, blah, blah. Seriously, my method is impeccable. I'm showing this new guy love (he doesn't know about Chris yet) but I know I won't be able to be physical with him because he's just not Chris. And quite frankly folks, I need sex and I need it now and only Chris will do, so I'm screwed (in the bad way).
Due to his blocking my spiritual energy at every turn (I don't contact him on the physical plane, I let him be.) I feel that he doesn't want to be with me. He is the block, truly. Unfortunately, he's the man I want to marry and when I want something, I don't stop until I get it. That's just my nature. I may never get Chris again in this lifetime but I don't see myself compromising and truly being with someone else.
Being with Chris allowed me to experience being with a gorgeous, tall, muscular, confidant man and I have no desire to go back to settling for less. Now, if I meet another really hot guy will I get over Chris? I don't know. I guess I won't know unless it happens. I wish I could put up a picture of Chris so that you guys would understand what I mean. But, that would be invading his privacy and I can't do that to him.
For the first time in my life I'm at a loss as to what to do. It's just not as simple as dating someone else. Chris is one of a kind and I love him. As big and strong as he is, there's this vulnerability to him that is so beautiful. He's exactly what I want in a man and it floors me that he doens't want to me with me. I just can't wrap my mind around why he doesn't want to be with me. I'm confused.
on: September 09, 2011, 10:31:20 AM 12 Law of Attraction for Relationship / Law of Attraction for Relationship / I love him and I miss him
Ive been living my life, Ive fallen in love with myself, I have fun on my own, i have dreams. Big dreams, making the world a better place dreams. The harder my life is the harder my heart beats. I love Bundy unconditionally, so I choose to leave him alone, hes doing what he wants, he deserves to make himself happy because he should. Just like I deserve to make myself happy doing whatever I want. and I do... I love him so much, not just unconditionally but as a person, his skin, his face, his eyelashes, I remember every freckle. Its been 5 months and Im doing so much better compared to that first month, I was having a nervous breakdown everyday. Now Im more secure, now I have really nice really peacful happy moments, I laugh to myself, I look forward to life. My preferance would be him, at my side. Not to make me happy but to enhance my happiness. I love him so much, truly love him, not some selfish kind of needy want kind of love.
I love his soul, I love his attitude, I love his face, his body, his sense of humor. I love it. I know he is contributing to the world by even being in it, being human. I love everyone the same unconditional way, I see life in bigger ways, I see the big picture, I think big.So I see the lovability in everyone, everything. But I also love him as who he is as a person. His personality, specific things about him I find so much beauty in. We went trhough so much, our love always was there. Our souls recognized eachother, i have so many stories. We were the underdog and we made it.
Now knowing what I do, I know he is responsible for his happiness and if that is what he is doing, then bravo, when I think of him I imagine him smiling and happy wherever he is. Living his life. Hey Im doing the same too. I still love him, I know right now Im crying and Im pulling away from who I really am but I dont care, it feels good to cry, it feels to let it out. I know that the universe might give me someone else, possibly even better. Thats cool, but I love Bundy. And because I love the way I do I refuse to call him, bother him, text him, pray for his love for his return, affirm, remote seduction, its because I truly love him I just wana leave him be you know? Let him do his thing, live his life, be happy. But it doesnt change my desire. I cant help but love him like I do, we showed eachother our souls, no one could believe how we met, we saved eachothers lives literally, we fell in love, it was us against the world. We were like bonnie and clyde, we were like a movie. It was surreal, it was romantic, I miss him. I know he is happy and I hope my happiness grows and grows, that happiness we both deserve and we both are worthy of. If he comes back I want it to be because he wants to, because he came to that conclusion on his own, I want it to be the end of our movie, where they reunite and teh audience cries. The universe knows what I desire I dont need to lose my mind keeping tabs on my thoughts, I just do what makes me happy when ever I feel like it. I guess whatever the universe has in store for me will be whats in store for me. With or without him, Ill just live with my newfound love for myself and enjoy every minute I can, because its the only thing that matters, my happiness first and foremost. . .
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on: September 05, 2011, 04:17:35 AM 13 Law of Attraction for Relationship / Law of Attraction for Relationship / "Blue Valentine"
I am really into movies and today I just saw a very interesting movie called "Blue Valentine". As some of you may already know. I am in the process of attracting my ex fiancee back into my life and I can say with a big smile on my face that I believe to be halfway their. My eyes have been open to my mistakes when she left me and after watching this movie, they just opened a little more. This movie is very interesting and it might be a little too real of a love story for some. So please be warned don't watch around children. Also it just better to watch the movie on your own that way you can make your own thought about the movie and share them here. This movie is like a test and I will explain once we get a few answers back on how this relates to the LOA, Enjoy.
Also if you have seen it, don't spoil it for those that haven't, thank you.
on: September 02, 2011, 04:54:04 AM 14 Success Stories / Success Stories / My success story (at last!)
So i have promised you a success story. My trip manifested on 23rd august. It went awesomely well, with the least possible amount of turbulence (im kinda scared of flying). My boyfrend came to pick me up, and ever since that moment im living in a dream! its not only that i actually SEE him and TOUCH him after a year...its everything else. He told me he loved me...he says that about 3 times a day..hes doing these special little things that people do when they are in love!!!! Our relationhsip is much much better than what it was before....we didnt have a single fight in 9 days..im telling you guys, sometimes i find it hard to believe it....everything is sooooo perfect! now hes at work...and a few minutes back his neighbour and friend came to check up on me after his request....he wanted to make sure that im okay now that hes at work. His neighbour was excited to meet me...do you know what he said guys?? he said that he probably is the person that knows the most about me, cause ever since my boyfriend came back from greece he did little else than talking about me all the time!!!! so all this time that i said that i was feeling his love no matter how dark things seemed, i was right!! he did love me and was talking about me all the time! Ohhh im soooo excited!!!
Just remember to keep the faith and thes egood vibes guys!@!! and every else will fall into place!! if i could make it...then u can too
Much love from minnesota
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on: August 23, 2011, 07:37:40 PM 15 Success Stories / Success Stories / Wow what a ride! :-D This is amazing!
I just wanted to let you guys know my most recent success with the law of attraction.
As some of you may know from my past posts here, I am 19 years old now and I live in Norway where I had been applying for studying physical therapy.
So a while after my application, I got an email back telling me that I was rejected and was put up on a long waiting list. So I figured I might aswell accept the offer at another school which was a lower education compared to physical therapy. (Here in Norway physical therapy is very big and considered a very well paid job and a high education.)
So the school I accepted was a school in a very small town very far away from where I lived. The education was called athletic sience. So I got an apartment there together with 2 room-mates and I payed the first rent.
Here's the thing...The day me and my mom was on the way to that small town with everything for my apartment, we stopped by another city closeby my hometown to help my brother moving in aswell, since he was going to start at another school. Right before we were about to leave, I got a phone call.
The school from Oslo called and said that I got accepted into Physical Therapy after all! I was so shocked and pleased! I had already gotten an apartment i town VERY far away, but I hadn't signed the contract yet and we were on our way there!
I thought to myself, okay there's no way I will be able to find an apartment in Oslo, the capital of Norway, in that short time! But I was still very happy because I got accepted into the school!
And guess what! 24 hours after I got the call, I was sitting in my own apartmen in the center of Oslo with all my furniture in it! Haha, it was truly a dream situation! I have been in Oslo for a few days now just to get to know the city before my school starts which will be september.1 I can't wait and I am SOOOOO gratefull!
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