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Messages - irishgirl69
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« on: February 18, 2013, 10:45:23 AM »
I think the bigger question is why would you want to attract someone whose vibration is lower than yours? Work on your own vibration and try to be open to the possibility that you may attract someone even better whose vibration is a match to yours.
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« on: February 13, 2013, 12:46:23 PM »
It could also be a loved one who has passed communicating with you. Have you ever heard the phrase "pennies from heaven"? Deceased souls sometimes use coins to get our attention and simply let us know they are with us. My father will often do this. Sometimes, the date on the coin is significant as well. I was going through a really rough time a few years ago and found a dime in the middle of my desk at work. I put it tucked away in the back of my desk and said "If it's from you Dad, it will be gone tomorrow" and it was. I then said to bring it back and the next day it was there. The date on the coin coincided with the date of my absolutel favorite picture of the two of us from when I was 2 years old. I still have that coin.
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« on: February 06, 2013, 12:50:16 AM »
Sometimes we just know deep down that there isn't someone "better" out there. Or sometimes we believe that because we don't want to face the possibility that they're not the best one for us. Change is scary and many times we have the tendency to build someone up in our minds and believe there is no other person in the world who can be as perfect for us. I spent a year believing that a guy was perfect for me. I could have given you a million reasons why he was "the One." But then I took a step back and saw that while he is a great guy, he's not the end all and be all. Maybe he's The One and maybe he isn't. But I deserve to be with someone who is good for me and I deserve for it to be easy and not me turning myself inside out to be who I think he wants. That's why I give and follow the advice of make yourself happy and whole and then you will find the person who is a good match for you. And how much better would it be to just be living your life, happy as could be, and then just mesh with someone else. No trying to influence them to be with you, no needing to distance yourself so that you're not used. Just coming together with someone else who is in the same place as you are emotionally. It's not a matter of replacing someone. It's a matter of realizing that sometimes, relationships are not meant to last and that sometimes the healthiest thing to do is to move on and learn whatever lessons are there to be learned. Wolf, I'm not saying that your relationship wasn't meant to last - I don't know enough about it to be able to make that determination. I just think you're making this all about what you have to change in you to be the person she wants rather than look at yourself and change the things you want to change for you. And once those changes are made, if she is the right person for you, great, but maybe you will find you are happier with someone else.
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« on: February 05, 2013, 08:49:18 PM »
I'm wondering why you are taking all the blame on yourself as to why the relationship ended. "our exes break up with us when we arent able to sustain the vibrations we had when we met them right", "do they get attracted back to us when our vibrations get back higher or equal to theirs again", "managing to reach the vibration we were in when we first met our ex would make them get back together with us right?"
Why is it all about your vibration lacking something? Relationships involve two people. Isn't it possible that her vibration had something to do with it? Instead of focusing on what you have to do to match your vibration to hers (as though hers was the ultimate vibration to achieve), why not focus just on raising your vibration so that you are happy independent of anyone else and then allow whoever is a match to that vibration enter your life. It may be her or it may be someone a lot better.
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« on: January 12, 2013, 10:15:51 PM »
Can you clarify how you are doing this? Do we need to have a gmail account or it won't happen? Do we have to be online at the same time or can we ask you questions and you respond when you can with the answers? Just trying to understand the logistics. Alex, I asked this a while back - can you please answer? Thanks.
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« on: January 10, 2013, 09:51:06 PM »
Can you clarify how you are doing this? Do we need to have a gmail account or it won't happen? Do we have to be online at the same time or can we ask you questions and you respond when you can with the answers? Just trying to understand the logistics.
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« on: December 26, 2012, 11:30:09 AM »
I'm dramatic and desperate because this is a dramatic situation and I am desperate. It's not a dramatic situation. It's something that happens every single day to millions of people. Guy/girl likes a girl/guy who isn't aware of their feelings, etc., etc., etc. I'm sorry, but it's not that big a deal. And you're desperate because you are CHOOSING to be desperate. As long as you say things like you have nothing to live for, you are going to die alone, etc., you are never going to get out of the place you are in. I spent an entire year hung up on a guy who led me on and then chose someone else over me. I pined, I obsessed, I did RS, you name it. Then I was around him again this summer and his girlfriend and you know what? I CHOSE to move on. I could have continued to hold on and believe that he would eventually see the light and dump her for me, and maybe he would have but frankly, I don't know that he is worth it anymore. Trust me, I thought about this guy every single day and truly believed he was the one. Now? Maybe he is maybe he isn't. But I'm not sitting around anymore pining for him. I'm living my life, open to new experiences and I'm happy. And I say that being technically alone and having just lost my job. But I am CHOOSING to be positive. You are CHOOSING to be negative and you refuse to even try to let go of your desire to be with her to work on yourself. So I really don't understand how you expect any of us here to help you. It's just the same old broken record with you.
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« on: December 25, 2012, 10:24:53 PM »
What does this have to do with LOA? I smell a troll.
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« on: December 24, 2012, 10:19:14 PM »
Well then, give up on her and move on. Nothing is going to change as long as you have this attitude about it. I'm sorry but you are so over-dramatic and desperate about everything. You can bet that she can feel that energy even through email and there are not many women who find that attractive. Maybe this has happened so that you can see this in yourself, work on it and then you will be in a better place to attract love. And I know exactly what you are going to say to this...
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« on: December 24, 2012, 09:35:35 PM »
The difference is you are the one that we know really wants to continue the conversation, so that's why we're giving you the advice to not be closed off in your communication. If it were her posting here, we would tell her the same thing.
And what people were saying before was that there was plenty for YOU to continue the conversation with in her reply because you were insisting that you didn't know what else to say to her. You both could use some lessons in communication, that's for sure. But again, since you are the one asking for help in urging this relationship along, we are advising you.
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« on: December 20, 2012, 10:02:38 PM »
but you cant be used for loa, loa is a law which works without us b Exactly. LOA isn't something that you can use to someone else's disadvantage or when you feel like it - it's there. How you can use it to your benefit is to concentrate your thoughts so that you get the outcome you desire, but also so that if negative things happen, you're not as affected by them. Be grateful that you were able to bring them together and bring joy into their lives. That's a wonderful thing.
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« on: December 17, 2012, 04:51:48 AM »
If you can't think of anything to say to her in an email, how on earth would you expect to sustain a relationship with her? You are so stubborn and stuck in your negativity - can't you see that nothing is going to change until you change it? And it won't feel comfortable - do it anyway. Otherwise, resign yourself to feeling this way forever because life involved risk and putting yourself out there. Sometimes you'll succeed; most times you won't. But complaining and wallowing in it isn't going to do anything.
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« on: December 16, 2012, 05:20:24 AM »
Why would she respond if she didn't want to talk to you? She would have just ignored the email if that we're the case.
What exactly did your email say? You're only giving us one side here. Perhaps your email didn't invite conversation.
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« on: December 16, 2012, 03:05:10 AM »
This right here is why nothing you've tried has worked - you have no gratitude. You said any contact with her would make you the happiest person alive, but that is definitely not the case. What exactly did you expect to happen? You said it's been a couple of years since you've had any contact. So, you're obviously not someone who is in her close inner circle. Why don't you respond and try to continue the conversation?
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« on: December 12, 2012, 08:16:25 AM »
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