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Messages - irishgirl69
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« on: August 01, 2012, 06:45:46 PM »
Right before the show began, I started to feel a ton of anxiety and I was a little concerned that it was some kind of sense of foreboding - that maybe I shouldn't do the show. So I did a channeling and asked my guides what was going on. They told me that I was on the verge of a major life change, and even though the change is welcome and what I want, it's still a little scary.
You and I are so similar in our relationship histories. I sense that perhaps the same kind of stuff is happening for you. It can be difficult when we start to see movement but darn it, it's not happening fast enough! LOL Trust me, I'm seeing things work out EXACTLY how I thought they would and I still struggle with impatience and fear and some anger. But I just keep chugging along, trusting that it's all working out in the perfect way for me.
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« on: August 01, 2012, 05:48:12 PM »
You say it's not an eye for eye but then you say that you're not going to respond because you want his unkindness to settle into his mind. Sorry, that contradicts itself.
I'm not one for playing games with anyone. If I'm hurt that someone hasn't responded to me, I tell them so. If I don't feel like talking to them, I tell them that. He texted that because he's confused as to why you're ignoring him - pretty plain and simple. Men don't do hints - he's not going to figure out that you're giving him a taste of his own medicine. He's going to think you don't want him to contact you anymore and he's going to comply.
If you want a new relationship with him, maybe you shouldn't play the same old games.
ETA I just went and read your post about why you contacted him in the first place and now I'm even more confused as to why you're not responding. You contacted him when you were upset, he responded and, in my opinion, showed concern, and you're now ignoring him? Even if you don't want to get back together with him (which I'm not sure is the truth given that he is who you reached out to when you were upset), I just hope you see that this kind of game playing isn't good for ANY healthy relationship.
Sorry if this seems harsh but it's difficult to see people come here and talk about how they want to find true love, etc., but they don't see how their own actions are preventing it from happening.
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« on: August 01, 2012, 05:43:08 PM »
Love the analysis of your dream. I think that sometimes when we go through these periods of negative feelings, it's just some of the resistance clearing. You needed to work through some of these emotions and fears in order to allow for your desire to manifest. I've definitely gone through periods of this but always feel better afterwards.
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« on: July 31, 2012, 03:21:57 AM »
Well, according to the site I swear by, here's the meaning behind 1 & 9 combos: A new door has opened for you as a product of your thoughts. You have the opportunity to stare your thoughts in the face and come eye-to-eye with your own creations. Let the old fall away, as it is replaced with the new in accordance with your desires. Given how much work I know you've been doing in clearing your energy and just having faith, I would say that your guides are acknowledging this and want you to continue with what you are doing. This one's on the house. 
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« on: July 29, 2012, 11:51:17 PM »
Thanks for bumping this thread up. It's a reminder that I need to tap more often.
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« on: July 29, 2012, 11:42:58 PM »
Read more books and the various posts on this forum. A book I strongly recommend is Ask & It Is Given. I found it to be a much better book than The Secret in terms of explaining specific techniques. There is a free pdf floating around on this forum - if you use the search function you should be able to find it easily.
Once you have done some reading, doing some small manifestations and tracking your success is a great way to increase your faith in your manifestation powers. Things like attracting seeing a specific kind of car, hearing a specific song, hearing from an old friend, etc. Things that you aren't especially emotionally attached to are easier.
Lastly I believe that keeping a gratitude journal is essential. Being grateful for everything in your life raises your vibration, and when your vibration is high you manifest things easier and quicker. I keep track of various things that I am grateful for throughout the day on my phone and at the end of the day, I put them in my journal along with my general feelings that day and anything that I manifested. It can be powerful to look back on that journal periodically.
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« on: July 29, 2012, 10:45:30 PM »
You do realize that you can CHOOSE not to let her have this much power over you, don't you? It seems as though you are quite comfortable allowing this one person to be the center of your world. And you are not willing to take any of the good advice that has been given to you - you simply want to wallow in it and not do anything differently. But what you are doing clearly isn't working so you perpetuate a vicious circle. If you truly want to improve this relationship and yourself with LOA techniques, then stop ignoring what people are telling you to do. Stop doing everything in the effort to get this woman to love you. Make yourself the focus of your life.
But something tells me your going to come back and tell me that you can't do that.
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« on: July 28, 2012, 08:30:39 AM »
If you are empathic, then you can absolutely feel other people's emotions. Just a few weeks ago, I came home and literally burst into tears for no reason. We're talking sobbing, not just a tear rolling down my cheek. I could not figure out what was going on. I found out the next day, that at pretty much that exact moment, hundreds of miles away, one of my best friends was breaking up with her boyfriend and was having an anxiety attack.
It can be helpful in understanding where people are coming from, but as Stef mentioned, it can also be extremely draining until you learn how to identify it and more importantly, release it.
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« on: July 26, 2012, 02:14:29 AM »
This entire post confuses me. What have you lost? Did you really think that you and your girlfriend's vews on sex and relationships was never going to change? Am I understanding you correctly (because believe me, it's difficult to make sense of this) that you want her to go back to how she was when your relationship began how many years ago? She has matured, she has grown - it's only logical for her views to change as well. That doesn't mean you've lost anything. Also can you clarify what you mean in this statement: But, Lisa, what i want, is not her to never ever see anyone but me, if we split again! Are you saying that if you break up again, you want her never to be with anyone else? If that is what you mean, do you not see how ridiculous that is? If you break up, you have no right to expect her not to move on. If you don't want her to be with anyone but you, then I would suggest accepting her for who she is, stop trying to change her into who you want her to be and treat her well. You keep saying you're grateful, but the sheer fact that you don't accept her as she is right now says otherwise. I just don't understand why this need to want to change her - if I'm understanding your posts correctly, she was never with anyone else even when you were apart. So what crime has she committed? Maturing? Growing? If you truly love her, why wouldn't you want her to grow and mature?
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« on: July 24, 2012, 11:20:48 PM »
A piece that people forget quite often is that we can create the relationship we want by visualizing, etc. Not to say you shouldn't walk away from someone who doesn't treat you right, but if you begin to focus on how you want things to be and really visualize them, often you begin to see major changes. It's the same principle as if you were to go out shopping and you are in a foul mood, you will attract rude people, etc. But if you go out and you feel great, you will experience the opposite.
Many people stop at just attracting the person back and don't give any thought as to how they want the new relationship to differ from the old one. Or if it's attracting someone new, they don't think about how they want to be treated by this person, etc.
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« on: July 24, 2012, 10:27:47 PM »
Kayte, please take some time to read through the MANY posts on the forum on this topic. Many different techniques are discussed as well as success stories. There is no one way to apply LOA to any aspect in your life - you need to figure some stuff out for yourself, i.e., which methods and techniques resonate with you.
A great book to start with is Ask and It Is Given. It gives a very good basic explanation of LOA principles. There is a free PDF floating around the forum - you can use the search function to find it.
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« on: July 24, 2012, 10:23:56 PM »
I think that the people who aren't in the healthiest mindframe about their ex do eventually figure it out, so it's just a process. I have seen several cases here of people who start off trying to attract a specific person back but end up realizing they are not the right one for them and instead focus on finding someone better. But it was that initial desire that brought them to using LOA consciously and that opened up much more for them - that is a good thing.
I do think it's interesting, though, that the thought of using LOA to attract an ex back is something that bothers you but using it to attract someone new doesn't. It's all the same thing, really, and if you feel that a relationship with an ex should happen organically then shouldn't every relationship? Not attacking - I wonder if this has come about to show you some unresolved blocks or issues you have in this area? Just something to think about.
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« on: July 22, 2012, 09:43:42 PM »
It's natural to feel disappointed when someone we love doesn't respond in a way we think they should. This is why I cautioned you not to try to rush things along. One of the most difficult parts of the process is to only contact the one we desire if we are completely detached from the outcome - in other words, if it doesn't matter at all whether or not they respond. Sending a voicemail and a text were a little much, given your situation.
I would suggest just focusing on sending him love and energy spiritually, not in reality. He's not in a place to return your love right now, not in the way you need and deserve. That doesn't mean he doesn't feel it. But so that you don't continue to feel hurt, you need to control yourself and stop yourself from contacting him, or at least contacting him in this way.
You are coming from a place of desperation and lack, again, which is understandable. I really do think that if you can apply some of the LOA techniques to get yourself into a better place emotionally, you will see the impact it has on your relationship immensely.
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« on: July 21, 2012, 08:17:27 PM »
I don't understand why people get so bent out of shape because of other people's beliefs. Really, if I want to set my intention to be with a specific person, why should that matter to anyone else? Likewise, if Iwant to set my intention to let the Universe send me the perfect match for me, that doesn't affect you or your happiness in any way, shape or form. BTW, it is possible to do both. I have my desire to be with someone specific, but have always been open to meeting someone else along the way.
A large part of being successful in manifesting your desires is not trying to control the how. I think that also applies to other people - focus on your intentions and beliefs, don't worry about anyone else's.
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