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Law of Attraction for Relationship / Re: My own update

« on: September 25, 2010, 01:28:59 AM »

My wife is becoming completely unstable now. Turning the screws on the situation is bringing out the absolute worst in her.  She is showing herself to be materialistic and selfish and everything is about what she wants. As I move forward there will be more hell to pay, but having my dignity back feels way too good. I let myself play the sucker too long. It is nice to be the calm and collected one during our conversation, as she twists and spews more awful things out at me. But so it goes.

Before any of you think this is the dark side of LOA and that I am proof that it won't work for you, trust me, it will work for you.  You just may not know HOW it will work for you.  In my case, it has opened up my eyes to a reality I was ignoring or accepting. My wife has turned into a person that is unrecognizable.  Even several of her friends have commented to me that they just don't understand it and that they are ashamed (I tell them not to be, because she is creating her own reality, not them).

Stay tuned as you find out how this whole thing unravels. I am sticking to the plan that the universe placed in my hands: I am only focused on my unborn child and me being the absolute best daddy in the world and protecting her from harm from all corners.

God bless of you.  It is absolutely wonderful to be here.  I am so grateful to have embraced LOA.

Mark

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Law of Attraction for Relationship / Re: Need some advice and help

« on: September 23, 2010, 11:04:29 PM »

Well, dreams can either be your subconscious trying to deal with trauma, or it could be higher intelligence trying to guide you (which may both be the same thing). Regardless of what it is, you need to deal with your negativity. Try to look deeply at your negativity. You will find that you have some long held belief that is causing you to have the negative feelings.  You need to analyze this belief objectively and come to terms with it.  Once you do this, you can either release the belief as false and reform your thoughts to get back on a positive track, or you can validate the belief and see how this valid belief could lead you to a reality where you can release the negativity.  You will be unable to detach if you don't deal with the negativity.  You cannot suppress it; it will come out eventually.

Remember that Abraham says that the only way from depression to joy must pass through rage. If you are depressed by the negativity, rage a while and you will feel better, but keep moving towards joy. Maybe you raging in your dream is just your higher self pulling you to joy.  But deal with your negativity.

We are all fantastic!!!

Mark

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Law of Attraction for Relationship / Re: My Quantum Leap Letter

« on: September 23, 2010, 02:23:19 AM »

So trusting and compliant. So needy and desperate. When she left me I even let her take the check card with her so she could get her money when she wanted. That ended today. She now gets it on my terms. She was upset, but quickly conceded. She must be spinning in circles trying to figure out what I am doing. Probably thinks I am just being spiteful. Time will show her the truth.

Now, what other surprises are in her future...

Stay tuned, my friends, as Mark continues the hunt for all the pieces of his shattered dignity. He is putting it back together again, piece by piece by piece.

Mark

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Law of Attraction for Relationship / Re: My Quantum Leap Letter

« on: September 22, 2010, 11:38:30 AM »

Thanks Bubbles. Since I have realized the lack of control I have over others, I only care about me.  My wife accused me of being selfish (and if you have been paying attention, I think my actions totally belie that accusation), but I have discovered that the problem has been that I haven't been selfish enough.  So, now it's about me.  Caring for me, I allow myself to have enough to share.

And my wife is playing right into my hands. She just doesn't see herself, because if she did, she would be embarrassed. I have a few more surprises in store for her this week (none of them of the literary variety... that time is past). By the time we make it to next week, she will have no idea who I am.  Welcome to my world, baby, welcome to my world.

It's going to be a FUUUNNN week, my friends. Let the LOA reign.

Mark

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Law of Attraction for Relationship / Re: My Quantum Leap Letter

« on: September 21, 2010, 11:22:09 PM »

Hoo boy! Man did that ever piss her off! She definitely notices I am different (noticed that I talk of God more often, there is a change in my words).  She accuses me of making her feel guilty of harboring resentment. Too bad it was chat and not actual phone conversation, so she could have heard how calmly I stated everything I did.  She got very threatening towards the end, so who knows what she is planning.  The thing that almost made me laugh out loud is this: I am sending (still) loads of money to her (which is going to stop soon, so I will get another fun conversation out of it) and have been very good to her from day one (too good say many, and obviously now she does not deserve it and what's more is I don't deserve it).  Anyway, we have two cars, mine and one I purchased new so she would have a new car.  When she left I told her I was going to sell mine and stay with just the one.  Now, she started saying that I could send her the new car and that it might be better for ME (FOR ME!!!).  I told her point blank that no car would be coming from the US and she should look for her own car.  She then went off about how I wouldn't help her unless we were a couple.  I just said, especially given the way you treat me. I can tell you can barely stand me.  Why should I want to help someone like that.

On my side, I was able to carry out this extremely stressful conversation calmly and with great indifference. It was nice. It was really nice to see the worst come out in her.  I keep hoping she will show the good again, but she never fails to disappoint. Maybe that is my lack of visualization, but if you have been playing along at home, I think you would agree that it is an example of there not being a Law of Assertion.

Now we ride this roller coaster to see where it gets me.  Thank God for LOA.  It keeps me happy and focused. It has given me back my dignity, my self-respect and my inner peace. It has helped me see a reality that I had hidden from myself for a long, long time.

Now, my friends, go forth and manifest

Mark

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Law of Attraction for Relationship / Re: My Quantum Leap Letter

« on: September 21, 2010, 09:59:29 AM »

I wonder if she'll even read it.  And if she does, if she will manage without rolling her eyes.  Oops.  Sorry, was failing in my visualization

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Law of Attraction for Relationship / Re: My Quantum Leap Letter

« on: September 20, 2010, 10:55:55 PM »

Okay here's mine (it came out prettier in Spanish :

For the longest time I have had no idea what you are really thinking
and feeling. This has led me time after time down paths of supposition
and imagination. I saw myself without another option, as you shut down
and refused to tell me what was in your heart. Although in truth I
realize that you have kept your true heart shielded from me much
longer.

Now I see you doing the same thing with me. It has become clear to me
that, although I felt I was sincerely communicating my heart to you, I
failed and you were constantly second-guessing me, looking for chinks
and gaps. I can truly, honestly and sincerely tell you that I loved
you with all my fiber, I love you still with all my being and against
my better judgment I will love you until I take my dying breath.

But love to me is not exclusive, but inclusive. It's not limited, but
infinite. Love is both magical and real, both strong and fragile. But
you can't forget that love is a verb. It's something that you do. And
you must do it consistently and with care and attention or it will
fail to grow and will slowly appear dimmer and dimmer.

That is my concept of love. I continue to nurture my love for you
within me, in spite of everything. And my love is boundless. I have
enough love to give my child and in the giving it grows and thrives
and multiplies. I have more and more each day to give. My love may
simply be too big for you. But don't suppose for a minute that I will
ever let it go out. It is precious to me.

I have to thank you from the bottom of my soul for all the memories of
love and joy we shared. Even if it weren't for that miraculous little
life growing inside you, know that you will forever be with me. You
have marked me permanently. And I cherish that and am grateful for it.
Oddly, both the good and the bad equally fill my spirit with a sweet
nostalgic joy that warms me. And I get to enjoy this feeling for the
rest of my days. So thank you, thank you.

Thank you also for the end of our relationship. I cannot deny that
this has been by far the hardest thing I have ever had to endure, but
it has given me a chance to evolve and grow as a man. I am a different
person that the one you left behind. I don't know if you will ever
know the man I have become. You may know, however, that I am secure
and confident, and happy. I can distance myself emotionally from those
things that cause me pain and see them for what they are. I have
learned to let go. yet at the same time I have incorporated the
loving, sentimental me in the mix. So I don't have to become cold and
unfeeling. I have you to thank for this. You pushed me to turn within
myself and find the strength to be happy. You were right that I have
to be happy myself. You helped me want to learn to do that.

I hope you practice what you preach and you find happiness. I hope you
too can learn that there is nothing that will make you happy: no
person, no situation, no thing. Just as there is nothing that can
prevent you from happiness. It is all within yourself. You have to be
happy to see happiness around you. I hope you take that to heart and
learn to be happy. That way you can also make all those who surround
you happy as well.

I forgive you for everything. I am sure that one day you will find it
within you to forgive me as well. I hope you do so sooner, rather than
later, because to carry that burden around with you will only add to
the stress you feel. I know that when both of us transcend to that
place of mutual forgiveness, we will be able to establish a different
relationship. It will most certainly be one neither of us expected.

The future looks very exciting. We have our marvelous little child on
its way who will brighten of her surroundings with joy and laughter.
But we also have all kinds of new horizons to explore. We have the
whole world laid out before us and it is a world of abundance. If we
know how to be happy and express and follow our desires, we will be
able to take part in all that there is to be had. And our little
daughter will the one to benefit from the largess. How wonderful it
is to be alive and to welcome another tiny life among us. Yet one more
thing that I have to be grateful to you for. Thank you. Thank you so
very much.

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Law of Attraction for Relationship / Re: I asked for a sign, and I think I got it.. Thoughts?

« on: September 18, 2010, 01:15:52 AM »

You answered your own question when you said "I believe they were signs".  It's all about belief.  Your challenge now is to understand what the signs are telling you.  You should write signs down in a journal describing the date, time, feelings, symbolism, details, etc about the sign.  Then you can go back and review as you get further along and accumulate more signs.

Mark

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Law of Attraction for Relationship / Re: My own update

« on: September 18, 2010, 01:09:36 AM »

After my last report, I immediately fell into funky town for a couple of days.  That hit pretty hard since I had been doing so well with being indifferent and visualizing so clearly what I wanted.  It was followed by some pretty sever feelings of jealousy, loneliness and hopelessness.  Part of me was still in the positive zone cheering me along, and if it were for my dear, dear 31, I may not have been able to make such a fast recovery.  In any event, today the universe passes the whole day stroking my head. I mean it. I keep getting these goosebumps that feel like a caress up my neck to the top of my head.  It makes me smile each time it happens.  I think my higher self is letting me be in touch with the higher self of my unborn child.  It makes me ecstatic to think that anyway.

As far as the negativity that I experienced, I will go with Abraham on this one and that that arose as I was beginning to go into an expansion with my higher self. Apparently when that is happening, our first impulse is to resist the change and BAM negativity. So, when you feel the negativity, you have another tool in the kit (in addition to examining the beliefs behind the feeling, gratitude lists, affirmations, and the like): you can try to fathom what specifically in that moment is the expansion that is taking you to your true desire.

Good luck and Godspeed to us all.

Mark

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Law of Attraction for Relationship / Re: Help in Marriage

« on: September 17, 2010, 11:25:47 PM »

Hey mantybat,

In my first marriage, I neglected my poor wife so long that we drifted apart and became complete strangers, so I can empathize with you. She could never get past the fact that we had become strangers and so that marriage ended.  I did a lot of soul-searching and realized what had happened and I knew that the way wasn't to go back.  The way is to go forward.  Get it in your head that your marriage is over.  You must now move on to a new marriage.  Now, I am not saying that you divorce and marry someone else, but you will have a new and different marriage.  Hopefully, your husband is willing to work on this with you.  If not, you have a lot of patience and visualization and detachment you will need to engage in before you can start.  All of these are good whether you start now or not. But let's assume that hubby also wants to save the marriage.  Both of you need to sit down and agree that the marriage is over and you don't know each other any more.  Now, you can start dating and get to know each other.  Be positive and open.  Look at the changes in each of you and focus on the positive ones.  Let all the negative go.  Let all the mistrust go.  As you get to know each other, you can become friends.  You will be very close friends and you will have every opportunity to let intimacy grow. As intimacy grows, you will reconnect with this new partner and it can be glorious.

I hope that helps and I sincerely hope and pray that you have the opportunity I did not. If you do, I trust you to make the most of it, for my sake (I am a little selfish

Mark

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Law of Attraction for Relationship / Re: A Technical Question

« on: September 17, 2010, 10:00:49 PM »

An hour is probably overkill, my boy. But that probably just means it will manifest sooner.  Don't wear yourself out before manifestation would be the only caution I would give.

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Law of Attraction for Relationship / Re: A Technical Question

« on: September 17, 2010, 08:43:49 AM »

It has been pointed out to me that for visualizations to be effective they need to be prolonged in duration.  So, boys, try to control yourselves.

Mark

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Law of Attraction for Relationship / Re: My own update

« on: September 16, 2010, 07:01:04 AM »

Yay, Bubbles!!  Go for it and enjoy!!!  I'll be sending good vibrations in your general direction

Mark

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Law of Attraction for Relationship / Re: My own update

« on: September 16, 2010, 06:19:55 AM »

Take heart, my dear list mates. While I can't talk specifics about my situation, let me just say that today the universe spoke to me loud and clear.  I am indeed on the right path.  There is absolutely no doubt.  One day I will share the specifics of the events of today, but they were magical and left me convinced that the universe is conspiring to give me what I truly desire. 

For those of you still mired in doubt, I am certain that this works like I have been stating. First you learn to let go, however that happens for you, be it gradual erosion of attachment or some sudden burst of insight.  Then you will enter into an indifference, but a good indifference.  The indifference is quite scary at first, but as you realize what you have, you will come to treasure the peace it gives you and the confidence and joy you feel. Then, in this state, your desire with hit you with clarity and you will know exactly what you want and you will really feel that you have it already.  Watch for it.  If you persist, it will come.  I guarantee it.

Keep the faith, my friends.  It truly will all be wonderful.

Mark

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Law of Attraction for Relationship / Re: YES, IT WORKS...you can attract him/her back!

« on: September 15, 2010, 07:09:33 PM »

That's the spirit Bubbles.  Yes, there were many times I would go to a friend of mine at work who has an office (and therefore a door) and would blubber and sputter like a little kid being left at daycare for the first time.  Those first few weeks where a constantly undulating whirlwind of thoughts and emotions that tormented me without rest.  Like you, I am ecstatic to have that behind me and love feeling happy and focused. Yet, I am grateful to have passed through those storms of loss and desire; I believe that provided me an enlightenment that was long overdue in my life.

Mark

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