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Messages - Shrikanya
« on: November 25, 2012, 06:59:29 PM »
I have been in the same situation 6 months back. Things were going so bad that I contemplated giving up. But the key is to find out the best part in your job. There are of course people who are at a better position than you but looking up to them and comparing it with your own situation will break your heart.
There are so many people without job and you have got at least one. Be grateful for that.
Try to bring in changes that will energize your work environment. Begin your day with a smile even if you do not feel so. Help people with their chores. That will take focus away from you.
Remember, if life gives you lemon, make a lemonade of it!!
« on: November 25, 2012, 06:48:36 PM »
If I can be a bit bold, write a mail to one person each day who matter in your life and let them know why you are grateful to have them. Try this for at least a month and see if it works
« on: July 12, 2012, 01:11:50 AM »
Thanks to all of you for your wonderful suggestion.
But I am not taking any medical help. Those people make the things sound worse than they already are. All I can think about after visiting them is why the hell did I decide to meet up those jerks in the first place. SORRY about that!!
I agree that all the things that you suggested may have worked for some of you. Trust me that I am not angry. I am desperate. All I can think about is how I will come out of the negative circle because I have decided to do that. Its either the best that life deals out or no life.
The thing is that nothing clicks for me. I want the way that will click for me and I can come out of the self-loathing. And how do you calm your mind when so many things are going on in the first place? Thoughts jump around and mess your head. There isn't even a moment of peace. Frankly, I cannot even sleep without nightmares.
Agree that we are responsible for our lives. But where did the things go wrong in the first place. I am grateful for the friends in my life. But when they feel sorry for me, I just cannot take it. I need courage not condolences. We come into this world alone and go from this world alone. Simple truth!! But I am scared to face this truth. I need something to boost up my courage so that I do not fear.
« on: July 11, 2012, 03:22:20 AM »
Sorry for being away from the forum.
This had been one of the testiest times and I just did not have the inclination to come back to the forum. So many things have been going on in my life that I feel totally exhausted to go on. It feels that something has pushed me into that circle of negative energy where my life has taken a nosedive. I don't know who, when or what.
My dad is not doing well at all. He doesn't recognize most of the people and sleeps around 22 hours a day. Past few months have been difficult for me. I often considered trading my life for his but we all know that things don't work that way. But now, I have made peace with it. Whatever will happen, will happen.
Things have not been so bright on the work front. People had been abusing me although it may not be my fault. Sometimes, they try to find fault with me. Unnecessarily, try to pick up arguments with me but I have kept them at check. I try to maintain my calm. I have tried to do the work to the best of my abilities, however, when i ask for help in order to do the work better, people piss off as if its none of their business. I am carrying it forward. But it has been emotionally draining on me.
There have been few other things that are not working out. I would not like to discuss them over internet. Also I have been losing my stuffs every time. Like few weeks back, I lost my cell phone. Also today I lost my key to my house. I travel to work by train and it is so congested that it leaves me irritated throughout the day.
I am very grateful to my friends who have offered me unbelievable support. I do not know what I would do without them. But sometimes I feel that they should leave me alone. All they try to console me by saying "Don't worry. Everything will be alright". That's the point when I am totally pissed off. Now come on. Everything will be alright? What? Hoping against hope?
Its a simple law that if you do the same thing again and again, you cannot expect to different results every time. And another common saying, "God will take care of everything. Do nothing". Bloody Hell. That's when I feel that I don't need any consolation. I am better off alone.
But frankly I don't want to be alone. Because this is the first time, I really feel alone, scared, terrified. I don't know what to do. We women, have insecurities that are baseless but it scares shit out of me. I don't own a house. My mother is dependent on me. When I look into the future, I wish I were dead.
Please bear with me. But I know something is wrong. Somewhere something went wrong. I am a person who doesn't believe in books because trust me a lot of gory details are left out and covered up with fancy stuffs. Life is a bitch sometimes. I don't know what to do, I am scared to bits. I am terrified and I want a way out. I am usually a person who keeps optimistic view of life, no matter what. But why everything started going wrong all of a sudden? Did I do anything wrong? Did I associate with wrong people? If not, then why am I trapped in this negative circle?
I am telling you all this because I want a way out. I would do anything to make sure that I make the best of the life I have no matter whatever it takes. Because if I have the future, I don't want to be scared of it. I want to make it worth living for and dying for. Like, in the morning, when you wake up, you should not feel that okay another day of my life has passed. It should be like yes, a new day of opportunity has arrived. You should always have a purpose.
How should I begin to make it better? Can you please suggest me anything.
For all those, who have read this post and are pissed of, I would still like to thank you that you have at least taken the pain to read through this. But those who can empathize with me, can you please tell me how you have overcome your situation. By overcoming, I mean not to tread that path of negative feeling ever. My experience in life says that happiness, wealth, health, companionship, prosperity everything is a package deal. Either you have it all, else you have none.
Please give me suggestion to help me make my life better.
« on: May 01, 2012, 11:54:53 PM »
Can you be more specific on how you achieve it? can you give an example from your life?
« on: March 24, 2012, 02:50:58 AM »
I think I know, you are trying to find a job to save your home.
Ask the universe to save your home and also give you a job of a good pay package that will make you happy and fulfilled. I think this may solve your problem.
« on: March 24, 2012, 01:25:43 AM »
Why don't you try for something with higher payscale? Mom says that sometimes we fail at certain things because we are destined for better things. Something that you think is not possible. I don't know but sometimes destiny plays a role.
A friend says that you expand your horizon, the more are your chances of winning.
« on: March 24, 2012, 01:20:15 AM »
Ask him to move on just like you moved on. Tell him that if he moves on, he will definitely find a better person than you
Thats all. Don't leave the perfect life that you have got because people would die to be in your shoes.
« on: March 24, 2012, 01:14:53 AM »
Thats the spirit Mariposa!!
Now, the reason she will get over this is because a month back, I was feeling down and burdened. I didn't know why.
I started with my drawer and my stuffs. After that, it felt lighter but not good enough. So I started to dig into all the old stuffs. Imagine what I found. I found three kerosene stoves and a typewriter that had been lost for 7 years. Also there were clothes of my childhood which nobody could wear. And three cartons of files that had all the papers of my grandpa's time. i donated all these and now I feel a lot lighter.
The next day I met a friend whose inbox was clean. i asked him how. This was his reply.
" I keep only what is necessary at disposal and delete the others or archive it for future. I check it after a month. If I do not require the stuff even after a month, that means that I do not need it at all. I like my life and also like to keep it simple"
I cleaned my mailbox too. And now people do not pick up fights with me.
« on: March 24, 2012, 01:00:08 AM »
Don't get annoyed please. It doesn't suit you. I prefer you when you share those wonderful inspiring videos
As far as I can feel from gogetter's plight, she has taken more responsibilities than she can handle alone and she is so tired and frustrated that she is attracting the wrong things in life. Since, her house is a mess, she is attracting everyone and everything that is a mess and thats the reason I asked her to clean her house first.
Since she is not proud herself when she sees the mirror and she hates herself. Thats the reason there are people in her life who hate her.
If we keep on telling her LOA stuff, she would not understand any of it unless she has a clear mind. We all must let her clear her mind first.
She will kick, cry but she will get over it eventually as we all did. Don't you think?
« on: March 24, 2012, 12:33:41 AM »
Come back and post after doing this. I am sure that you will feel the difference
« on: March 24, 2012, 12:30:59 AM »
Hi there gogetter,
You have to begin somewhere if you want to heal? Don't you agree ?
So please start cleaning your house and throwing unwanted stuffs out, you will yourself figure out what you wish to do and what would heal you. Then begin with your appearance. Only after this, you can appreciate what all others are trying to state.
You can heal
« on: March 22, 2012, 02:07:42 AM »
If your desire for a better life is stronger than the fact that you are being hurt and being constantly pulled down, then you will succeed. Just for you, a video that I shared with all my friends,
« on: March 22, 2012, 01:57:21 AM »
Bingo.. I knew it. Your problem originates from the house. You have all things that you don't need and that energy is slowly eating away your vital force. You have got unnecessary trouble into your life as a result. Please start cleaning it immediately. You don't have to listen to your parents. Who has more lifetime in front of them? You or your parents. For a change, start living for yourself. If you do not know where to begin, start with your bedroom. I can assure you things will get worse than it is(law of inertia) and after you have cleaned your house and everything is in an apple-pie order, one day things will start to improve.
What are you teaching your children? What kind of energy are you giving them? Is your current state going to help them?
Time to look after yourself. Only if you are happy with yourself, others will be happy with you.
Time to show your parents, who is the boss.
Come on, gogetter. Go and get the life you deserve, it is within you and it is crying out for you to get it
And I know you will
« on: March 22, 2012, 01:34:17 AM »
Good that you are letting yourself out. No problem that you cannot help anybody out here. You can only help others only if you yourself have solved all your problems. We are here only to tell you that YOU CAN solve your problem.
Think for a moment that you are someone like me, or crazysoul, or Ginny, or someone else. Put yourself into our shoes for sometime and then see your post and find out what you feel. LOA is all about feeling and energy.
Be true to yourself and write it down.Please, no one is blaming you. We all have gone through this stage at some point of time and we all have overcome it. If we could do that, so can you. We are just helping you to find that wonderful person within you.
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