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Messages - JohnSilks
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« on: May 03, 2012, 06:08:53 AM »
Really good stuff, this was one of the first things i did when i started LOA. I would listen to it before bed and just love the music, it was very helpful.
How did it help?
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« on: May 03, 2012, 06:05:52 AM »
I can't figure out if people are joking or serious with these replies. It's interesting how every time the spoon "bends" it happens to be out of the camera's view.
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« on: April 27, 2012, 06:50:48 AM »
Thanks for sharing that.
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« on: April 26, 2012, 06:38:33 AM »
Thank you ladies! I think that makes some sense.
I've been looking for the operators manual for females lately without any success. I'm thinking women should be required to carry it with them for men to reference any time we need it.....lol
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« on: April 26, 2012, 03:20:28 AM »
From my experience, the thing that tends to make men very popular with a lot of women (keeping in mind that all women are different and you're never going to find a formula that works for all of them) is to be really really nice and completely unattached. Of course, that strategy could work with just one woman as well 
Oddly enough, looks don't seem to come into it so much. They help, but a theoretically great-looking guy can actually start to look unattractive if he seems needy or desperate. Conversely, I used to know a guy who was butt-ugly (we're talking an unattractive butt here) who had women crawling all over him. He didn't do it for me personally, but loads of other women seemed to be nuts about him. And it was just that - he was a nice fellow - interested, engaged, receptive and so on - but completely detached. If a woman liked him, great - if she didn't, plenty of other fish in the sea.
Thanks for this, Ginny. Would you mind going into more depth on this? I'm not even sure how to ask the question in my mind, but I'll give it a try. Let's say a great guy is looking for his soul mate to spend the rest of his life with. He finds a woman that seems to be what he's looking for. Could you paint a picture of detachment in this scenario? How do you be detached when you are falling in love with someone you may want to spend the rest of your life with. I do understand not being needy and such. Are you saying to act like you could take her or leave her.....in a nice way? At what point do you throw your heart and soul into it and become attached and still be viewed as desirable (since it was detachment that was attractive)? I hope you get what I'm asking. Thanks! John
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« on: April 25, 2012, 05:34:12 PM »
I can relate with Bronson, however I think the solution is a bit mixed up.....lol
I am a faithful and honest guy. I want one woman in my life that I don't want to live without, and I'm still looking for her. So I know the feeling of possibly being attached to quickly. Things in the relationship look like everything is falling into place, and I end up feeling that I want to move right into things. And that has caused me to over-analyze things at times.
I think the key is to find a balance between evaluating the status of a relationship and over-analyzing things. It may be difficult to understand that point. Take for example, "Why didn't she call me when she said she was going to call me?" There could be a lot of valid reasons and semi-valid reasons. You first have to consider reasons that you would want to be forgiven for. Maybe something unexpected happened and she was absent minded and didn't think to text you about it. Or maybe she's just not into you. Over-analysis comes when you tend to focus on "maybe she's just not into you."
What I have learned is we first have to trust that the universe (God) is working for our good. Relax and trust. Evaluation over time may reveal that she isn't the one for you. That's good news because you are one step closer to finding your mate, and you can move on.
The early stages of a relationship is about learning about the other person. She isn't going to do things exactly the way you do them or expect them to be done. You need to learn if you can deal with the way she does things. The more you like about her the more you can become attached. Still in time you may find that she isn't the one for you. That's OK. Don't stress about it. Just know that it is all for your good so that you can find your ONE.
The key isn't to line up a woman for each day. The key is to relax. Focus on having fun with her rather than on analyzing the relationship. Do you think she will consider it fun to be constantly analyzed? That's a sure way to run a woman off......trust me, I know.
Don't focus on the what if's. Enjoy the now!
I think I just wrote a post that I'm going to have to reference back to in the future so I can take my own advice....lol
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« on: April 25, 2012, 07:56:10 AM »
I have learned that happiness is a decision.....a choice. We really don't need anything else in order to be happy.
Now pleasure, that's a different thing......kinda. I think it is an unending cycle (trap) to think that if I only had XYZ I would be happy. We need to be happy first, right where we are at. Then we can focus our efforts on manifesting things we will enjoy. But we need to be happy first.
What I have found is that when I am unhappy I end up focusing on my desire to have my desire fulfilled. What do I manifest? More desire. More unhappiness.
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« on: April 24, 2012, 06:49:51 AM »
Thanks for the story. I was a bit distracted at first and almost didn't finish reading. I'm glad I went back to the start to read it.
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« on: April 24, 2012, 06:33:31 AM »
I have been working on changing the way my mind thinks for a little over a year now, and things have been changing drastically. I'm on a road to learn more about and improve myself. I'm happy to have found this forum, and I look forward to digging in. Thanks for making this forum available.
John
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