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Messages - Love4only1
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« on: April 05, 2013, 05:24:39 AM »
You will be fine. Mourn the loss, but dont wallow in it. Mr. Right-for-you will come along before you know it. 
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« on: April 04, 2013, 09:37:59 PM »
This sucks, because I want to say to you "Yes, use LOA, attract him back! You can do it!"
But then I think, what if it was you that fell in love with someone else and left him standing dazed? How would you feel if you knew he was pining away for you and wanting you back even though you were with the 'love of your life'?
This particular forum has a lot of people hanging onto 'relationships' that they just need to let go of and walk away from. I am the Queen of hanging on, albeit only in my heart, not my life, to the love in my past. Something tells me that most everyone on this forum probably loves the movie Serendipity. We convince ourselves that this person is THE person.
He is the love of your life, but what if....what if the REAL love of your life is just around the corner, and you miss out on him because you are hanging onto the hope that the man who left you for someone else is 'the one'.
I believe in LOA, I think it is amazing and has changed my life in so many ways. I have also been taught to take every situation, stop and ask 'why'. Why am I here, What is it I am suppose to see or learn?
Years ago, I had a guy break my heart. All I did was sit around and feel sorry for myself. One day I thought 'this is stupid', my friends had been begging me to go out, but part of me didnt want to because I still missed my guy. (you know, the one that was dating other girls and having the time of his life while I was feeling sorry for myself and missing him) I went out anyway, and guess what? I met the 2nd love of my life and married him a year later.
I dont know if anyone has ever read any of Shirly Maclaines books, but she has one or two of them out there that makes you stop and think that maybe sometimes....sometimes, things DO happen for a reason and we cant stay all mired in the past and miss what needs to come to us.
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« on: April 03, 2013, 03:21:07 AM »
Feminimind,
You are already cheating on your husband. Whether or not you are having sex with this other man is just semantics.
I am sure you love your husband and don’t want to hurt him, but think about what could happen 10 years and 2 kids later when you finally decide you cant live without this other man in your life? You already know what you have to do or at least, what you should do. No answer anyone could give here will make you do what you know in your heart, and we cant make you any stronger in your decision.
I don’t mean to sound callous, but the fact of the matter is, you are hurting not only you and your happiness, but your husbands too. What is stopping you from making this final choice is clear. It's Fear. Fear that you will let your husband go and this man will turn out not to be what you thought and you should have stayed where you are at. Or you could stay where your at and never be completely happy.
What is more important?
You are in a very precarious situation, and I understand completely where you are coming from. The only answer has to come from you, because you can get advice from 10 different people here, but what it all comes down to is what are YOU going to do.
Let us know what you decide. I love reading stories of strength, one way or the other, and whatever you decide will be your strength.
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« on: March 29, 2013, 07:31:58 AM »
That brought on the topic. So I did it on him. A few hrs after he texted me and told me exactly what he was feeling. He lived it. Then he did it on me. I basically had multiple orgasms or at least that's what it felt like, followed by euphoria and the lingering effect, I now feel like I have feeling for him and miss him and wish I was with him and almost feel like I love him. Almost like a longing feeling. I just met this guy last week so I can tell you, if this is remotely what your ex is feeling when you do it, that sux.
Holy Crap! All this time I thought I was doing RS on him! Turns out, he has been doing it on me!!! 
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« on: March 28, 2013, 04:56:13 AM »
Enjoy it! It's more exhausting thinking about them all the time. The stage you are in right now is perfect. Embrace it.
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« on: March 22, 2013, 04:13:52 AM »
okay.
Ah ~ I see that "Lime" is either no longer around, or deleted all of his negative posts.
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« on: March 22, 2013, 01:53:23 AM »
i have not heard anyone here who hadnt heard or seen their exes in 3 years. how i can not be attached to him?
i am a very hopeful, happy person. when i am negative about something; there is always a reason for it.
Magic Lamp, I attracted my love back after over 20 years! I thought about him often, could never get him out of my mind. I married someone else and had children (as did he). But I never stopped loving him. It's been almost 2 years since he found me. Yup, HE found me. I always knew where he was, but didnt want him to think I was stalking him. We are not together right now in the sense of being a couple. (Extenuating circumstances beyond our control I wont go into) but we do love each other and keep in contact as often as possible. Do I get frustrated? Absolutly! But for now, it is what it is. I have other things going on in my life that allows me to detach from him fairly easily. BUT, sometimes I do want him to call me out of the blue. I do want him to want me more than I do him at times. I tried the switchwords last week when I saw this post. He called me and we went out the other day. Was it because of the swtichwords? doubt it. He would have called me anyway because he loves me and he is already mine. (I stated that a long time ago, without doubt) There are so many different things that one can do, but you do have to find what works for you. RS worked for me for a while. Maybe it still does, not sure. I dont do that very often anymore. But one thing I find that works for me, is if I wake up in the middle of the night and I happen to be thinking of him, I imagine that I go to him in his bed, wake him gently, then cuddle up next to him with his arm around me. I send him my affection. Amazingly, I drift off to sleep and he usually will call me the next day. I find that it works when I do it with sincere love and not an anticipated outcome. If I try to do that just so he will contact me, it never works. Keep up with the switchwords for other things though, I dont see how it can hurt. 
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« on: March 17, 2013, 10:22:17 PM »
I understand the concept of LOA, and drawing one to you through positive energy and vibes. I guess I am having a hard time with the thought of your sub-conscious mind bringing someone to you. (Dont get me wrong, I'm going to try this! ) I can see how the swtichwords change your conscious thoughts and bring certain things into reality, but how can chanting words make someone pick up a phone and call you? I'll let you know what happens. I like the idea of saying things to change the thought process of yourself, like "Curve up" to give yourself a beautiful sense of self, or 'Count" for money....yesterday I paid off two of my credit cards and kept thinking "Cancel" for canceling my debt. I guess I just answered my own question. I would love to hear more success stories in other areas too.
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« on: March 15, 2013, 05:14:18 AM »
Interesting. Never heard of switchwords before. Wanna know what word I used for XXX before I continued reading that I was suppose to put in my love's name? That was pretty telling. hehehe
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« on: February 21, 2013, 11:59:14 PM »
What Mr. Brightside said. Plus you can read almost every post in this forum....we all started out with your question.
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« on: February 21, 2013, 06:05:01 AM »
Have you ever heard of a Virus that randomly calls ex girlfriends? He called you on purpose and made up the excuse so it didnt look like he was trying to get a hold of you. I friend requested someone on FB one time, then I changed my mind and "unfriend requested" But guess what? The phone doesnt lie (or the email) there was no getting out of that one. I guess i could have said "my phone had a virus" but I never would have thought anyone would have believed that. Sometimes a random 'butt dial' could happen...but that means you are still in his phone. Good sign. 96% of the time, it's not an accident that someone called. Perhaps he was looking at your number on his phone, dreamily of course, and accidentally hit your number....  You just never know....
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« on: February 20, 2013, 02:25:22 AM »
I believe in the one door closes another opens theory. I had a job I hated, but when I was let go, I found another job within a day with my old company doing something in a different field. I figured, what the heck, it's a job, and I will learn something new. Well, if it wasnt for me taking that other job, I can honestly say that I would NOT be where I am at today, which is a SVP for great company! Coincidence? Maybe...but I have had way too many conicnidences in my life not to take a closer look at it and think maybe there is something phenominal to this "Universe". Jobs, men, money, cars.... It all works out perfectly, just like it's suppose to, even when you dont think it will in the midst of what is going on.
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« on: February 19, 2013, 11:44:55 PM »
In some instances Strings, I think you are right!
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« on: February 18, 2013, 10:44:23 PM »
Starsshine, We all know that feeling that you are going through, that desperation that you have lost him, simply because you do not have control of the situation. Sometimes we sink into that vortex of feeling lost, and sorry for ourselves while missing them so much it's physically painful. You need to find a way to pull yourself out of that. If you read through the posts, detachment and focusing on yourself is the way to go. Is it hard? Absolutely! Does it work? You bet! No one can promise that you will get back together, but as long as you feel that desperation, it will likely keep you apart. Think of it like a magnet. When you are together and things are going great, it's like you are attracting all the iron and ore to you, but once things get rough, it's like flipping that magnet over and it keeps anything from coming to you...that force keeps everything away. Energy is amazing ~ Go to a quiet room, close your eyes and relax, get into a meditative state if you can. Imagine a bright white light is covering you and pushing away all the negativity. The light is there to protect you. As it rids your Aura, your body, your soul of all the sad and negative thoughts and feelings, imagine from the top of your head that now the light is filling you with complete joy and peace. Feel it all the way to your core that you are Love! Tell yourself that you are filled with happiness and joy, or whatever it is you need to tell yourself. This always helps put me in the 'vortex of love' Sometimes I use the magnet theory and imagine a magnet at my feet pulling out any negative energy. I guess it's whatever works for you. This is on a side note, and a little off topic, but sometimes if I am irritated with someone because of something they did or said, I imagine that I am putting all that irritation and 'anger' into a steal box. Then I deliver the box to them while they are sleeping and open that box for it to go back to them. (I do this at night before I go to sleep) Why should I hold onto that negative feeling? I did this once with my sister, and she called me up the next day to apologize. I've had my 'guy' call me up to apologize for being crabby, ect. Like I said, energy is amazing stuff ~
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