
ok this is my story..I met a wonderful man 9 yeras ago...the same time I had a good friend who is a very insecure girl with sexy looks and men that chase her ..but no confidence and has made trouble for many relationships buy having men as friends even if they are not available..I was so afraid of her because of all these stories how she is around men..so I warned my boyfriend, talked bad thins about her even lied a bit to scare him off from her...8 years later is she my worst enemy and his best friend...I found phone calls hous and hours , secret parties at her place and they now even work together...my relationship is over now ,,,he says its that we grew apart not about her...but as you can see this is my worst nighmare coming true..I think when I move out next month they will get together,,she has no shame and feels good thats its over between us..is this my fault that I attracted her to him and our lives....

? I am at the edge of my wits...