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Messages - Mr Brightside
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« on: Today at 01:17:53 AM »
Well my friend, i just joined the gym and let me tell you i feel amazing. Its not only physically but mentally you are just feeling so good and confident. I highly recommend, plus when you use your situation to motive you to make positive changes it really helps. So dont sit there making excuses join up and make it happen!!! Btw i went to see my sweet lady last night for a movie, and she gave me a hug and went ooohhh look at the muscles... yup just a stud 
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« on: May 18, 2013, 11:38:47 PM »
Why did you break up? What lead to it, and can it be fixed or changed in some way?
Hmmm i want to say to give her "space" thats really what im feeling here. You are sort of in that weird gray zone right now, she likes to spend time with you but is clearly wanting to be in a relationship with someone else.
So really you have a couple of choices here, either you try and make this better in any way you can. Or you decide that you need to focus on yourself and get your life together.
Personally i find that when people have this idea that they want someone else, the more you push them to change that ... the more they resist and do it anyways. Like i have so many examples of people breaking up, and one of the people dating some total loser after. Its like they are mentally just determined to move on, even if they step back far enough they would realize they are acting totally irrationally.
Sort of what is happening here. Clearly you have a connection, and still care for each other... but the grass is greener on the other side right now for her.
So personally i like to let my action speak for themselves, i work on shit i need to work on. The bonus of doing this is two fold, either you are going to really show the person a better you OR your going to be way better in the next relationship. Its a win-win situation... (i dont like to lose ever)
So thats the approach i would take, whats the best in my interest... and what can i do to place my self in the best position to succeed or be even better of in the end.
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« on: May 18, 2013, 09:22:12 PM »
So your saying that the guy you dates years ago, who you left was trying to get you back and you kept dumping him.
Then you met some guy who looks like him, who then left you, and now you are the one trying to fix the relationship.
Interesting, the universe sure does work in mysterious ways.
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« on: May 18, 2013, 04:51:47 AM »
Thats the question that shows you what you need to work on, its not difficult or hard... but something inside of you thinks it is.
If your having down periods , its only the indication that there is still resistance in you.. or negative expectations.
The day you dont feel that, you dont post about it or even care about it... is the day that you are really close to it
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« on: May 18, 2013, 01:48:53 AM »
Why are you making excuses for her? You are trying to justify to yourself why she is hurting you… listen to what you are saying.
She has this and that going on , so its ok if she acts like this because I know a different her. Dude I was going out with a girl for 5 years, we lived together and I was going to marry her. I knew her for like 20% of her entire life or more.
In the end it still didn’t matter, she wanted to move on…
All I’m saying here is you need to start looking at the situation from your own personal experience,
how do her action affect YOU.
Ok let me just say it, and I won’t post on here again. She is coming to you for comfort, when things are not going good in her relationships… she isn’t doing that because she wants to be with you… she is doing that because it makes her feel better that she is wanted and has someone there no matter what happens.
Essentially you are her friend, in her mind right now… but she is looking for a relationship elsewhere. I’m sorry but there are plenty of woman on this forum, and none of them are touching this post… and its because they know how this works.
Don’t let her use you, because I am telling you at this rate you will just get a email or call saying how she found some dude… and im sorry blah blah… and that’s it.
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« on: May 17, 2013, 09:41:16 PM »
There is nothing wrong with it, really there is isn’t. Abraham Hicks talks about it quite a bit, she calls is contrast. Other LoA gurus also talk about how this is actually a positive thing.
Essentially the lows in your life, help you define what you really want. So if you never had a negative experience you would never know what a really positive one is, or what you need to work on.
The real key to is not letting the experience drag on in your mind, accept it happened. .. learn the lesson if there is one… and move on.
That’s the real key
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« on: May 17, 2013, 06:26:59 AM »
To quote Kayne West "Baby i got a plan, run away as fast as you can"
Dude run, run like the wind and dont stop. You know the worst part is knowing your still going to try, thats the part that actually upsets me the most.
Not because you dont deserve it, or that your not a great guy... but you are putting energy into someone like her. Thats the real sad part.
She is playing with you, and in a high school kind of way (speaking of which are you in high school?). Im not going to demoralize you, or beat you down... you got enough on your plate to listen to my negativity.
Just going to say, been there done that... seen it many times... dude run.
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« on: May 17, 2013, 12:58:19 AM »
I don’t know what to tell you here, personally I don’t think anything really works without at least some contact. So I am not the type of guy to sit there and let shit fester in my mind, trying to explain signs and thinking about the issue.
Realistically I would do something about it, if you feel this strongly about her… contact her. You need to bite the bullet, talk to her and see where she is at.
I know people talk about non action, but whats the point if you just sit there and wonder what will happen with someone. Its not doing any good, or making the situation better.
I know from my own experience what you are going through, and how much you are really obsessed with this. My world didn’t mean anything without her in it, it was not even conceivable that we wouldn’t be together… and the thought of it not working would drive me crazy.
We did get back together, but then I realized I wasn’t really trying to get her back because I loved her… I did it because I was obsessed with the idea of it.. it was totally ego driven.
I ended up dumping her a few months later….
Either way, all im saying is that you have two options A) let her totally go B) do something about it
Sitting there festering is doing you nothing
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« on: May 16, 2013, 09:53:31 PM »
I don’t even remember how I found this place or why I was even looking for a forum in the first place. I was at a point in my life where I had to find answers, I felt like I was better than the situation I was in… and something told me there is more to this than just random chance.
So I found wayne dyer, and listened to him endlessly…. Then I think i found the LoA stuff with Hicks.
Essentially a few years before I met a super hot chick. She was going to school to be a doctor and she was modeling on the side. I wanted to take her out on a date, she was also interested… and then she started to talk about LoA. I thought she was a crazy bitch haha and never talked to her again…
Years later here I am…
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« on: May 16, 2013, 09:48:22 PM »
Why cant you just move with him?
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« on: May 16, 2013, 07:14:39 AM »
"The reason I'm asking the question is because all of the posts that I personally have read say that you have to believe you'll lose weight while also eating healthy and exercising and I'm wondering why it is that others are saying you can't lose weight while eating what you want. "
Isnt that the same group of people. You just said one group thinks you have to eat healthy and another thinks you cant just eat anything. But wouldnt that just make it the same exact group?
Thats what my point was from the last post, and this post. You are looking for people to validate why you cant lose weight. Thats all this is, i am guessing you want to lose weight yourself but are trying to find reasons for it not happening... or mental excuses for having issues.
Dont feed your negative expectations, you need to get past that mental block if you wish to ever get anywhere.
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« on: May 16, 2013, 06:06:54 AM »
Just to quote what you said :
"I wanted responses from people who KNOW exactly why it is that the Law of Attraction can't change this reality when it changes SO many others. Even realities that are considered "impossible."
That doesnt make sense to be honest. You are on a LoA forum, asking why LoA doesnt work for something and asking people to agree with you. Actually its exactly what Calm said you were doing, in his own way.
The fact is i told you that YES you can do this, because i have done it... making the continuation of this argument rather pointless since LoA can and did work here. So asking for people to say it doesnt is a non conversation.
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« on: May 16, 2013, 05:46:16 AM »
what bashar is saying is that You Can Do It, Just Do It, If you can think it, you can make it true, It Is Already true, Don't separate yourself from your creation, It's you. Act on It means, it's already you, don't doubt it, Be You, prepare you vibration to the highest you can and you'll reach yourself I think that's It
Bingo  now use that in your situation...
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« on: May 16, 2013, 05:33:53 AM »
I saw this video today, and loved it. Maybe you will get something out of it...
I really agree with what he said. Actually its something i said a few weeks ago, people get stuck in this mode of over analysing and just trying to think their way out of a problem. Sometimes its better to get some balls and just do it...
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« on: May 16, 2013, 02:20:51 AM »
Maybe, but I just cant detract serious tragedies, I think, that the victims dont deserve to be ignore... 
But good for you 
I've lived through a war, family members dying, being broke, unemployed, dumped and everything else you can imagine... At one point you learn to move on, focus on the positive and fight another day. I'm not insensitive but I realize I can't help what others do, I can only choose how I let it effect me. And looking at the positive is a better choice
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