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Messages - yolo7
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« on: January 31, 2012, 11:29:14 AM »
Need2heal, For the magical creation box the ideas you have are great!  Do that and truly believe that everything will manifest! but remember.. be detached! You have to really let go and believe in the universal, faith and god that everything you want will happen. But by doing so you must let go and live your life for yourself I think you're on the right track with the no contact . Take it one day at a time and I know you will get through this..  Do whatever that brings pure happiness in your life. As for you talking to you gfs about the hurtful things that happened in the relationship.. it's okay to talk your feelings out .. it's natural but don't feel guilty about it.. your human, you can't help but sometimes need to vent everything out that's been bothering you ( not good to bottle things inside) If you don't want to talk about the hurtful things then try talk about the happy and great memories you guys had . By focusing on the negative then you'll get more negative and of course your friends will feed off of it too.. But overall, you really need to let go.. it's something everyone will tell you and it's true. It's not easy but when the time is right for you, you will. let go at the pace your ready for.. remember.. this is about you not about him right now. Once your there.. trust me, everything will fall into place. we're all here to help you through this
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« on: January 31, 2012, 04:24:45 AM »
magical dream box, correct me if I'm wrong is a box filled with pictures and stuff of things you want to manifest/desire. Just like a vision board but you cut the pictures etc of things you want and put in a box and believe that it will manifest.. hope that helps As for what crazysoul said, I agree with her. I think you need to take yourself away from the outcome and your guy and just focus completely on yourself. Really detach and just live your life but you have to be okay with whatever outcome it maybe.. with or without him. Once you can do that then everything will fall into place. As for the no contact rule.. It can either work in your favour or not.. It's really a hit or miss with it. I believe NC is good when your actually trying move forward with your own life without any attachment to the person and just doing you.. healing yourself for you.. NC can work or it can backfire in the case of wanting your ex back so this is a bit tricky..  And Just distract yourself.. If he texts you, don't reply back right away.. TRY to do things differently than your use to doing when he contacts you but overall live your life for you.. 
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« on: January 20, 2012, 03:33:43 AM »
Sending my loving and positive thoughts to you father He is healed and is in great spirits!
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« on: January 19, 2012, 10:40:00 PM »
Hey jagged, Let me just say good for you for being as strong to continue with with the no contact with your ex for 2 months. That's really hard to do. Just like you and the most of us, I'm here to wanting/getting my ex back. So the feelings and doubts about LoA are normal. I have so many of those days where I completely doubt in faith, loa and so on.. So I get what your feeling. As for your negative feelings, you have to let go of those thoughts .. Really try and let of those thoughts. Find and do whatever brings you happiness within you. I know it's hard at times but you'll find that happiness Here's something that's been helping me with letting go and just being happy... Everyone's different so keep that mind.. I stop doing all the LoA stuff  yes.. I did. I became so focused and so aware of these stuff that I realize it was exhausting me and making keep doubting loa bc here I am doing all this stuff but nothing's happening or I'm digging myself a bigger hole. So I decided to stop... I just stop, relaxed and found what really helped.. Just doing what is best for me at this moment to find happiness within me and for myself. I still give gratitude everyday bc I notice that really brings my spirits high lately but aside from that, I took a break from it all. You need to heal your broken heart before you can move further with loa but like I said everyones different. This just works for me. Im not saying give up.. Just heal yourself and once your there, then you can go back to doing all the loa stuff. Your girl will come back to you but you have to show her that your okay and you don't need her. I know ppl who dated during a break up and got back with their ex's afterwards and their relationships are a lot stronger than they were before. Sometimes people have to grow apart to come back at the right time to make it work.. You shouldn't worry or doubt about who she's with or any of the what ifs, your main focus is YOU! when yor happy for you, happy in your own life that's when your detached and things will fall into place. Detachment seems to be the biggest and most important key to manifesting your desire so do this for you ... She'll come back I hope I could help a bit! Much love
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« on: January 19, 2012, 12:32:05 AM »
I'm on the same page with Irishgirl , so thank you for sharing your insight. I stop doing all the stuff I was doing with LoA for a bit now. I realized that I cannot concentrate on doing them when right now I'm not completely there to do so. I need heal myself and just do what's best for myself and live my life day by day. when I'm ready I will go back to them, i will but at the moment I'm doing what feels best for me to move on forward.
Everyone is different and and everyone works at whatever pace they are comfortable with.. I truly believe that you have to really find yourself and your inner happiness first.. it's so important for being detached. To me the process isn't easy..even now.. I find it as I write this that it's difficult but it can be done.
Key: Be Happy! That's it! When you are, everything WILL fall into place.
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« on: January 18, 2012, 08:59:57 PM »
Tulip is completely right! As much as it's going to be difficult to do in the beginning, nothing is impossible to achieve and desire! You have to be truly detached from your desire and have complete faith within you and in the universe/god that what you want is yours! As much as it was hard and at times and still is hard for me to grasp the fact that yes, he can feel my energy , you really do need shift it away from him and focus it on yourself. Sounds easy? It is but it's something you can do! It's just feeling happiness for yourself and yourself only. Think about you and what you love to do! What brings you happiness in your everyday life? You! I know it's not easy not to think about your guy bc I do all the time too..  but I tell myself when I feel sad or hurt.. Day by day.. Exactly what tulip said, don't rush into the process to have him back fast bc then your forcing yourself to get at A place where your only doing it to get him back sooner and therefore your not detached.. Your resistanting... Go with your own pace and truly let go. When you get there, trust me.. Everything will fall into place perfectly and exactly like you wanted!
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« on: January 18, 2012, 08:41:05 PM »
There is a sticky on detatchment pretty much telling you what you need to know. It was written by an aaaaamazing person that has had many successes. It explains what detatchment is and what it takes to achieve such a state. It is very easy to understand, I highly recommend checking it out.
There is also a stickied post full of nothing but success stories of those wanting and getting their exes back. Most of them mention what they did and mention how letting go was a big part in manifestation so, yeah there are many people that have been able to fully detatch from "a partner".
I read the sticky a couple times. But I still felt unsure about what to do, that is why I decided to post here. Thank you everyone for your comments so far. I really appreciate them.
I hope we can all help you and each other with what you wanted to know. How are you feeling about it now?
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« on: January 18, 2012, 08:32:51 PM »
@gotmymojoback Gotmymojoback is love! Gotmymojoback is happiness! Gotmymojoback is heathy! Gotmymojoback is an amazing person! Gotmymojo is in a perfect loving relationship! Gotmymojoback is his/her desire!!
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« on: January 18, 2012, 11:09:10 AM »
great positive reassurance! 
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« on: January 18, 2012, 11:05:30 AM »
Thank you everyone for sending your love and positive thoughts! I really felt that energy through my day and I was truly happy Much love to all! xx
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« on: January 18, 2012, 12:22:19 AM »
yolo7 - did you get your guy back? did it help with the detach/non-attach?
I have really really good days where I feel so hopeful and then I have low days. The low days are NOT as low as they used to be, but I still feel myself thinking about the HOW. How is he going to come back? How long will this take? What if this doesn't work? What if he really never liked me enough and I'm holding on to something that was never there? I know these are the things someone who is non-attached shouldn't think of. But I still get attached from time to time. It seems like he's moving on without me and my friends seem to be moving on with their lives as well and I just feel STUCK.
Kas- no I didn't get my guy back..My guy and i have been on and off a lot but the times we have gotten back together I guess you could say I was detached without realization but I can't seem to re-call it . But right now I am in the same position as you.. I'm no longer with my guy and I haven't been able to detached and it's honestly getting me nowhere.. with him or in my life because like you, I'm stuck. But I have a friend who I actually posted her story with being detached and she doesn't know anything about LoA .. http://www.powerlawofattraction.com/forum/law-of-attraction-for-relationship-6/detachment-5752/And this is something I will tell you that other members here on have told me... don't think about the HOW because it doesn't matter on how it will happen. That thought of the HOW is what is keeping your from aligning with your desire and allowing it to manifest. You have to just trust in the universe and within faith and yourself that it will. From what I'm aware of with being detached, you have to really let go. You have to find true happiness within yourself and know that YOU can live without your guy. Once you have reached the level then you are truly detached. I completely understand that this is hard and you have your good and your bad days.. (I'm literally in your shoes) But with what I'm going to tell you and I'm sure every member will tell you, you have to be happy for yourself. Not being happy because knowing by doing so you'll get your guy back. You have to TRULY do it for yourself and no one else. It won't be easy.. it's something you'll come to realize and do on your own time.. but once you are there, believe me everything will fall into place the way you want and was meant to. You have to take action to bringing yourself happiness.. that to me will be the inspired action in the creative process.. start with you..then you will see everything will blossom. I hope this helps. It's funny how I can write this all to you and yet I can't sallow my own advice ..  like I said, easier said than done.
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« on: January 17, 2012, 10:34:37 PM »
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« on: January 17, 2012, 09:53:10 PM »
@ipanema it's easier said than done. Esp with conversation we had yesterday, it just sounds like he's just a different person... Like he hates me. I feel like I have zero chance at this point. I can't seem to brush off what he said.. He said a bit more than what I posted and it hurts. He's so cold to me all of a sudden. How do you shift any negative thought if the person doesn't seem so warming or the same person. My energy level completely drop.. I feel like I lost faith in what I should believe.
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« on: January 17, 2012, 01:26:46 PM »
I wasn't sure where to post this because there is that sticky on detachment and relationships by angel_star that Lashark mentioned but I decided to post it here .. So I just wanted to share a small success with detachment with a friend of mine who doesn't know anything about LoA but detachment worked for her to get her ex back. My friend and her guy broke up for about 9 months after dating for about 2 years. She was devastated and doing everything I was doing with my guy right now and I'm sure a lot of us were doing.. She was constantly contacting him, begging him to come back, being super negative, dwelling.. name it, she was doing it. Anyways after 6 months of going through so much hurt and pain, she finally realized one day that she didn't need her guy anymore, she didn't need him to make her happy and he was just holding her back. She finally gave her blessing to him (not in actual contact but in spirit) to be happy and that she wishes him well with whomever he chooses to be with. Then all of a sudden her guy was in contact with her. Saying how much he missed her and he's been miserable for the months they were apart but she ignored all of his messages because as much as he was saying all this, he made it still clear that he didn't want a relationship but missed her and so on.. She felt like she didn't need someone who wasn't sure of what they wanted and continue on with her life. She was truly happy and was finally moving forward.. her guy was still contacting her. She would say a few things here and there but nothing more than how her day was but most of the time would ignore him because he didn't want a relationship.. until something tragic happened in her personal life .. at first she didn't want to contact her guy.. but then one night he asked how her weekend was and she just told him everything. He instantly rushed to see her and after being there for her through this rough moment, he realized he wanted a relationship with her and they got back together. NOW, they are so happy together. A lot stronger than they have ever been. She said that she feels so detached with him even now in the sense if they were to break up again ( not that they would) she would be okay because this is the girl she is.. strong! She doesn't need someone to make her happy. She makes herself happy. So this is my little story from a friend who doesn't know LoA but def detachment and just loving yourself and living your life is an important key to manifesting your desire. I know it's easier said than done.. trust me i know.. but I hope this helps
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« on: January 17, 2012, 12:11:22 PM »
hahaha! Funny how we're jumping on each others threads!!
Was that the thread I gave you??
lol yes, it was the thread you recommended . it brought some interesting points to attracting your ex back
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... And she was thinking of committing suicide, praying hard etc... But her dad (my grandfather) was like "Regina... you are so young (23) have fun first!!" So she did and she met new people and needed my dad less and less... Then down the road my dad came crawling back
