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« on: January 11, 2013, 10:50:39 AM »
Hello everyone.
I've been with the same guy for about four years, we got together when I was 15, i'm 18 now. We've had a very complicated relationship, he was the guy that I was in love with, that I was so sure wasn't going to love me, but I slept with him anyway. I don't get out much, so he was really the only guy around. In the end though, he did love me. We sort had a strange relationship where we weren't together, but we still loved each other. There was a lot of insecurity in my part, I felt like he didn't find me attractive. we had horrible fights, over stupid stuff. Eventually things stabled out, and we've had a sort of actual relationship. Though the vast majority of it has been him visiting me at my house. Eventually we broke up, and I got into the law of attraction, I wanted him back so bad. In the end though, he did come back. I did do it.
What attracts me to him, is he has the qualities i've always wanted in a man, monogamous, dedicated, thinks i'm hot as hell. Now that I get older, I realize these are just base elements, the ground work theres so much more I want in a relationship.
I wonder if I really want to be with this person the rest of my life. This is a guy, who has some issues, and he's actually going to a psychologist so they can figure out if he's fit enough to have children, and if it would be totally reasonable for him to be sterilized at 21. He doesn't want children because he thinks he's so fucked up. I don't want children, at least right now. I don't know if i'll want them, but I sort of want the option open to me right now.
I have an idea, a fantasy of a guy, a relationship that i'd want. That would make me so happy, the thought that I could actually attract my ideal relationship 100%, that I could get it down to the name? Could I do it? is this actually possible? Has this happened? Because I want it, so badly. I feel like if I could attract this, I could honestly do anything in the world. It would make me the happiest.
But what if i'm wasting my time? I love my boyfriend, I don't want to hurt him, I really don't. He loves me. I just, I find myself not wanting to commit all of my heart and soul, I feel myself holding back. I don't want to lose him, and end up alone. Though I honestly think a lot of the time i'm with him, because i'm afraid I won't find anyone else like him. I feel so awful though, i'm so confused.
Could I attract my dream man? My dream relationship?
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« on: January 11, 2013, 01:42:36 AM »
Any time I've ever made a magic list, I've always manifested men who matched the list just about perfectly. Of course, once I found myself confronted with someone who was seemingly everything I wanted, I often discovered that they came with other 'flaws' or incompatibilities I had never even thought to account for when making the list. In the law of attraction community you hear all the time about people writing up such lists and then manifesting their dream guy/girl only to find out they are romantically unavailable because they forgot to put "single" on the list, or "attracted to my sex". I mean, most of us probably figure that stuff is a given and it never occurs to us to write it down. Write down everything that is important to you, no matter how seemingly small.
I agree that sometimes the problem lies with us. If we aren't an energetic match to certain traits we desire in a partner, we can't expect to attract them until they become a part of our own vibration and we release whatever resistance is preventing them from doing so.
Oh my god this is so important. The Universe works a lot better when you know what you want. It's so important, even if it's something as stupid as 'knows how to make good macaroni and cheese.' you gotta write that down, even the basics. Like also attracts like I believe. So if someone isn't emotionally available, maybe you really aren't? Stuff to think about. You know when I was 15, I manifested a guy. I sort of had this dream guy, it was a hazy image, I had. I did get it though. It really taught me what I actually want in a partner though, past tall and blond, you know? Also, a healthy relationship could have many different meanings, Maybe it will be an amazing wonderful friendship? Maybe you'll learn what you really want in a relationship from him? Now I do believe, if you really wanted a relationship with this man, you could have it. I don't think the Law of Attraction only works in favor of what is 'meant' to be. So you could have a relationship with him, but he might not be the one, you know?
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« on: January 10, 2013, 01:04:28 AM »
Well, I'm using the LOA intensely for almost 1 month, during this time, on the seventh day of attraction, my boyfriend (ex) contacted me saying I was beautiful, but it was not to get back with me. And sent me pictures of us! I was so happy ... Feeling positive and something positive happened? But then I got a little sad, and as a result, he began to avoid me. Yesterday, I called on WhatsApp, and he was rude, treated me coldly. I cried A LOT! So by sad were you feeling insecure and negative about the relationship? Today he called me on WhatsApp and apologized to me, (remembering that I decided to change my vibration, believing that he was mine again) said I was wonderful, beautiful, but it was not back to dating. Back to being positive, and positive results? He said that even enjoying it, I could not imagine a future with me! (of course, I was negative, insecure, afraid of losing him and that's what happened). Okay, do you see where i'm going with this? When you're negative things go negative, when you're positive things go positive. So either way, you're getting what you asked for. You manifest your own reality, you believe he loves you, he loves you, you believe he doesn't like you, he doesn't like you. The point is you are in control. Usually in lapses of faith, it's important to keep pushing through. So I think, yes you should keep going with LOA, I know it's hard to believe sometimes. A lot of the time, things will manifest for me, and I still have a hard time believing it.
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« on: August 10, 2012, 07:56:05 AM »
So true. The how has always been my downfall
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« on: August 10, 2012, 06:04:44 AM »
Thanks for the responses. I guess my main hang up is that it's been thrown out, and not simply lost. So getting it back just doesn't seem possible I guess.
And I just want it back so bad, which is another hang up.
Definitely going to try and meditate to get rid of said hang ups.
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« on: August 10, 2012, 02:35:47 AM »
This is going to sound like an odd question, but do you think it's possible to use the Law of attraction to return an object to you? I've heard you can use it for finding things, but getting things back seems like a whole different ball game.
any thoughts would be good.
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« on: March 14, 2012, 04:13:00 AM »
Hey everyone, haven't been around lately. I realized something though.
Seems pretty simply enough, but the key to everything is happiness. Every article about LOA mentions being happy, and feeling good. I believe out of everything we can do, this is the most important aspect, everything else is just stepping stones to get to this happiness.
Why do we need to be happy? Well it's kind of domino effect. Everything we want is usually ultimately rooted in happiness. Say your ex calls and confesses that he loves you and misses you, that's going to make you happy. The end result is happiness, we get what we feel right? So if we're happy we get happiness.
So basically in a nutshell by being happy it's implied that we've gotten what we wish, so the universe gives it to us. If we're sad and worried, that just indicates that we haven't gotten it.
Just thought i'd say that.
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« on: February 17, 2012, 01:04:36 AM »
Absolutely.
If you have the power to push someone out of your life, you certainly have the power to bring them back.
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« on: February 09, 2012, 01:27:23 AM »
This is something i've been thinking about lately. I think a lot of us have manifested something we don't want, or something that it turns out we didn't want. So what i'm wondering is how would one de-manifest? I imagine if you acknowledge something as being in your life, it's going to stay there. So I imagine you'd somehow get to the point where you don't think it's there, but by not thinking it's there isn't that thinking it's there?
Sorry if this doesn't make sense, it's just something i've been thinking about lately.
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« on: February 07, 2012, 02:42:18 AM »
Hey everyone, I just wanted your opinion on something.
Do you any of you ever get a feeling when someone does something or says something, it can be significant or even completely insignificant, but for some reason it just feels 'wrong'? Almost like you're in a dream, like maybe you aren't in the right reality. It just feels wrong and like it shouldn't be there.
I was just curious what you guys thought this meant.
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« on: February 06, 2012, 01:23:38 PM »
Go for it! Tell us how it goes.
I think it's silly to imagine that there would be any limits on the law of attraction.
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« on: February 06, 2012, 03:45:12 AM »
I think it's so easy for us to accept the negative as natural, and the positive as manifesting. I think it works both ways, I think if you think about how he's not going to call you, how he hasn't called you. He's not going to call you. And you manifested that.
I think so many of us don't give our powers enough credit.
I read this quote, might have actually be on here. "The man who says he can and the man who says he can't are both usually right."
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« on: February 05, 2012, 10:01:59 AM »
Yeah, you need to be happy. That's your action.
I guess think of it this way, being together is something that will make you happy. So if you're happy, then you're going to attract things that make you happy.
If you're sad, then you're going to attract things that make you sad. Like not being together. The universe sees you're sad, and knows you aren't together. If you're happy, the universe has to give you what makes you happy.
hopefully i'm making sense.
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« on: February 05, 2012, 05:11:07 AM »
So many people say that you can't attract an ex, or a specific person because that violates free will. Doesn't it seem funny that people are putting 'rules' on something like the Law of Attraction? With the Law of Attraction we're told not to limit ourselves, how we need to get rid of out limiting beliefs and how much it can affect us. I just think it's silly that despite that so many people enforce this limiting belief on LOA.
How many of us drove our exes away? We got insecure, we thought of them leaving us, not wanting us anymore, and it happened. Of course everyone will agree, according to the Law of Attraction, you drove them away. A lot of the same people will turn around and tell you can't attract them back because that's against free will. But if you drove them away, isn't that technically influencing their free will? If you can influence someone to go, why can't you influence them to come back?
When I was with my ex, I worried so much, I believed he'd do certain things that I didn't want to happen, I really believed that it'd happen. And you know what? Everything I worried about happened. Every, single, thing. Now, in my mind, if we couldn't effect anyone's free will whatsoever, my worries would have never manifested.
When it comes to the free will debate, the answer is, whatever you believe.
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