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« on: August 03, 2012, 03:15:59 PM »
its been a long two years and i have never given up! my husband decided to break our marriage two years ago saying he didnt love me anymore! i was devestated, this was my best friend who i have known and been with for 7 years! it was so heart breaking. i turned into an emotional wreck, crying, pleading, begging...the more i did, the more he resented me, the more he didnt want to see me or have anything to do with me. he was in love with another woman, he left me for her and that made it even more painful.
despite all this, i knew i loved him, i knew i wanted to be with him no matter what...despite everything i persisted! i kept hoping, knowing that one day we will be together. i changed myself and slowly started working on us becoming friends again, on us connecting again and left the relationship on the side for a while.
i saw him a month ago, i was over his city for a few weeks, at first he wouldnt even hug me, he kept pulling back, resisting but by the end just before I left we went for a lovely dinner and he started holding me so tight like he use to do saying he will help me deal with my work and financial problems....it has changed from him never answering my texts or calls to him picking up when i call and becoming more responsive....the last time i spoke to him he mentioned something about him becoming single again, i asked completely single? and he said yes meaning he has left the other woman...he still not talking about reconciliation but i see alot of positive changes in our relationship...i am due to visit his city again in two weeks and i am really looking forward to us seeing each other and talking....
maybe it is not a success story yet but it is a huge improvement from how things were, what worked for me is not resisting him, accepting his decisions and employing what i call KIND POWER! trust me that is the most powerful thing of all...despite how distant and how much he pushed me away i never became aggressive or angry, i continued to love him unconditionally and it got to the point where it didnt matter whether he was with me physically or not or whether i had him or not...i got so much pleasure from just loving him, from feeling that in my chest and from the thought putting a smile on my face...i guess that is detachment...the strangest thing is despite all the times he said i dont love you, deep inside i didnt believe that, deep inside i felt the opposite, could never explain it but i always knew and still know that he does! i am not in denial, it is my gut feeling and my gut feeling has always been right
hope this is useful to someone searching for answers...sending all positive energy
love and light
S
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« on: May 10, 2012, 02:32:47 AM »
Hello everyone!
i know it has been long time since i was on here. been busy but the positive is that I have some progress to report. After 2 years of not wanting me to step foot in our house, he finally agreed that i can stay with him when i visit his country in a few weeks. As you can imagine i am quiet nervous as all the communication between us was mainly about the divorce for many months and lately just friendly chat. The last time we spoke he said he is tired of this divorce talk and just want to take a break from it and i agreed, he hasnt said anything about getting back though but it is ok. he hasnt finalised it yet and maybe at the back of his mind he wants to spend some time with me first before he does. I know he is still seeing the other woman, whom he had an affair with which led to us breaking up but he says it is not serious!!!
anyway I am so excited and nervous at the same time, i wont be sharing the room with him, i will stay in the guest room next to his but being in the same house with him for five weeks is a big step for me and ofcourse i dont want to screw it. i know it is a great chance to reconnect with him and i want to make sure i do. I know the other woman is still in the picture but i dont want to focus on that and make it an obstacle.
I need advice, opinions from friends on here on how to conduct myself during that time. He says he wants us to remain friends and i guess that is why he agreed to let me stay. the other reason could be that it would have cost him alot of money to find me alternative accomodation and the house is in joint names. He didnt allow me to go back into the house for two years and i havent been.
I am excited to see my house again and be home and just to spend some time with him. I have a very good feeling about this, i dont know why but i never lost hope and i am finally seeing signs of a positive outcome.
Would appreciate any advice
thanks
SSS
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« on: May 09, 2012, 02:23:13 PM »
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« on: December 28, 2011, 10:25:30 AM »
Hi everyone, hope u are all well and staying positive!
Well my story goes like this, a year and a half ago i seperated from my husband, he asked for it and later filed for divorce. for a very long time i fought his decision, i cried, i pleaded and did everything i could to make him change his mind! well he didnt and in fact it got worse between us. Until lately when my family wanted to appoint solicitors to fight my case and get as much out of him as possible. Knowing he is struggling financially i stood by him, i agreed to do it amicably and decide between us what to do without going through the costly route of solicitors. Since then he has softened quiet a bit, he replies to my texts when before he didnt want to communicate.
I have lately been very unwell and he has been supporting me and encouraging me to try my best to get better. he hasnt mentioned the divorce yet because maybe he fears it affects my health and he wants me to get better first. he is still holding back from me, he is not in a rush to finalise the divorce like he was before but at the same time he hasnt said anything about us getting back together or even trying! i am now tempted to ask him but i read in many relationship books that i shouldnt and that will make me look desperate and unattractive! i dont know if i am asking for loa advice or simply a relationship advice. If anyone can read my story and use his belief in loa to guide me on what to do next i will highly appreciate it!
thank you
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« on: December 17, 2011, 12:44:33 PM »
i remember reading this somewhere but dont remember! what is the significance of seeing 11 or 44! i am not sure i got it right. Today i asked for a sign from the universe and whilst i was thinking of my ex, of what happened between us i glanced at my phone and the time was 11:11
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« on: December 17, 2011, 11:12:02 AM »
Congratulations for manifesting already! i am so happy for you...keep up the good work.
Well i think that you get whatever you put your focus on, if you are thinking what if i will end up alone, what if i dont meet people...etc then guess what that is what will happen. Change the focus and stop worrying, start telling yourself i will meet so many cool people, i will have company (dont say i wont be alone, the universe will see alone! and that what u will get) explain to your parents what you want, dont allow anyone to bring you down and make you think in a negatvie way. have confidence and belief that everything will be OK and it will.
good luck x
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« on: December 17, 2011, 10:49:01 AM »
Cucan Pemo! bring back a lost love! she uses loa in a relationship context, i read it and it is really good.
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« on: December 10, 2011, 01:52:38 PM »
Yes i think you are on the right path! the key is to stay happy with yourself and not focus too much on making it happen! try to focus on creating a positive experience between the two of you...every time you talk or meet, try to be the girl he fell in love with and most impotantly have faith and believe that you are great as you are and he will be lucky to be with you. hopefully this helps and hope to hear your success story soon.
x
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« on: December 04, 2011, 01:41:38 PM »
I understand how you feeling! I have gone through the same but you are saying this because you still havent met the right person! if you keep thinking that no one else will impress you like him then that is what will happen. I think you should be open, make a wish to the universe that you want to meet the right person, someone who will make you happy and more in love than you are with this current guy, let go and believe and it will happen. I went through a similar experience in the past, i was madly in love with a guy and then he left me and got married! althought it did hurt like hell for 2 years, i cried almost every night and said i will never be with anyone else but then out of the blue as i started to focus on my life again, going out with my friends and having fun, someone better came along and then i found myself saying i am glad god took the first guy away from me to give me the new one and all of a sudden everything made sense. My advice is to let go and just dont focus on meeting someone or being with anyone, just focus on living a happy life and have fun, go out and have a blast and before you know someone will come and make you so happy....believe
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« on: December 04, 2011, 10:55:58 AM »
you can use it i suppose! but would you want to break her marriage! why dont you use it instead to attract someone else into your life who will make you as equally happy!
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« on: November 22, 2011, 06:27:51 PM »
Hi chantel,
I started off very badly i must say! even after i got so much information about loa i couldnt detach! i was always wanting to hear from him, know his news....was worried that he is seeing someone else....so although i wrote down affirmations, and gratitude lists and practiced loa as i read i should do...but my subconscience was full of doubts and worries! then one day i just got so tired and realised that i was trying to make it happen rather than surrender my powers to god! it was wearing me out and i started realising that i am wasting precious time of my life that wont ever come back again being down about it and i should be happy instead with or without him.
I also realised that my behavior was just pushing him away and adding to the negative energy...it hit me that my behavior was getting me to what i didnt want faster than the speed of light so i decided to stop everything and surrender.
I started to behave as if we are already together, by this point i wasnt writing affirmations anymore! i just did it in my mind! i just got on with my life...
hope this is helpful. Feel free to ask anything
tc
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« on: November 22, 2011, 05:08:04 PM »
thank you everyone! I was initially getting impatient but at one point i remembered where i came from and realised that i should be super grateful that i got to this, that we talk like friends and share jokes! he has softened because i geniunely wanted him to be happy whether i am with or without him! i guess he felt it! i finally came to understand what unconditional love really means and i must say it is the most amazing feeling in the world...loving someone and wishing they are happy without wanting anything in return! thanks for the encouragement! 
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« on: November 22, 2011, 03:49:11 PM »
After not wanting to speak to me and getting very irritable every time i contacted him my husband seem to have softened quiet abit. Despite him saying he didnt love me anymore and wanted a divorce, i deep in my heart knew and believed that he does love me....no matter what he said or what people told me i just knew in my heart that he did, sometimes it felt that something was telling me so. well i found out that my mum is in communication with him regarding getting my stuff...etc ( u know how mums are, they cant help it!) so she mentioned to him that they are trying to arrange a marriage for me! and that I am leaning towards agreeing ( i have agreed to consider it) so she told him that. his response was why is she rushing? he said that he didnt think i am in the right frame of mind...he then texted me saying dont take hasty decisions u may regret! he trying talking me into taking some time out, to travel and then decide what i want to! i asked him why he is concerned and he said because he cares and doesnt want me to do something not right for me! he is more willing to take my calls now and respond to my texts. he hasnt spoken about us or said anything about reconciliation! he is basically behaving as a friend....if you know how bad he was a year ago, u would be surprised at the way he has become! I am not trying to read too much into it but it is big progress if u knew how bad it was! he has even told my mum that he is not in a rush to finalise the divorce and wants me to find myself first!!!! whatever that means??? a few months ago there is nothing he wanted more than getting it over and done with....i guess maybe it is because i approached this whole matter from a place of love... i have now decided to become a bit mysterious and get away for abit so he can evaluate how he truly feels about me. any feedback will be so helpful thank you
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« on: November 21, 2011, 12:56:48 PM »
Can I just say something! FB has ruined many relationships! I know it is not easy to do but try to ignore it as much as you can, it is a distraction meant to distract u from focusing on your desire and what you want to manifest! imagine as something that will slow you get back with your guy! do you want that? i know easier said than done and it took me a while to do it myself but It has helped alot and i found that the more i focused on the little world i created in my mind of me and my man together, the closer we are getting. Stop focusing on his friend, his family, FB....and all the external factors that will just intervene with your intentions.
good luck and remember keep your vibrations high, dont let anything lower them.
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« on: November 21, 2011, 10:24:15 AM »
thats great! well done and all the best 
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