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« on: November 09, 2011, 10:17:26 PM »
Thank you both for the advice. The affirmations did make me feel better. And yeah i already knew that this wish was far-fetched and the worse that could come was him not visiting but... it seems that there was worse. :/
So tomorrow is my birthday and 2 days ago we got into a fight i guess. He blew his temper at me. I was mesaging him and he told me to "shut the F*ck up" cause it was an intense moment for his part. But yeah I tried not letting that get to me and gave him space for 24hrs, then i texted him later the next day as proof i wasn't upset i texted him and he didn't really respond. Later that night i got on and we had a short convos. THe first was about how he blew his temper at me, then he told me to stop being irritating. No appoligize there though. and then about something else. And now this morning he completly ignored me. 5days ago we were web caming and now we barely talk. It all happened in less than a week. :/
I dunno i've did the what if's in this situation but it goes down the drain... "What if he's just afk?" "what if he's just busy" "waht if he just doesn't want to talk to me?" -____-
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« on: November 04, 2011, 08:33:38 AM »
ahh thank you~ that was a very good post that i have not read. I like the Metaphoric affirmations. When i say "I am love, I am abundance, I am wealth" I feel very powerful. But i'm not sure how to word this birthday wish into an effective affirmation.
Should i say, "I am a visitation from _____." It doesn't feel quite right. haha
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« on: November 04, 2011, 07:35:07 AM »
For example: You visualize other person bringing in flowers, reaching out to hold your hand, touch your hair gently, or kiss you. Instead of you putting out all your emotions just loving him or her too much, let it initiate from them and then respond naturally as you would in real life.
I uhh.. actually do this... I thought it was sending love! XD That's the method I guess I use when i visualize/daydream/send love. I imagine him telling me how much he loves me and us being happy in a relationship. I imagine him adoring me and loving me, (because i already love and adore him so i don't visualize or send love like that because I already do and I just feel it as i imagine him feeling that way towards me). Lol It's pretty interesting to see the different ways we can send love and the natural ways too.
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« on: November 04, 2011, 07:24:31 AM »
Update: So tomorrow is my birthday and 2 days ago we got into a fight i guess. He blew his temper at me. I was mesaging him and he told me to "shut the F*ck up" cause it was an intense moment for his part. But yeah I tried not letting that get to me and gave him space for 24hrs, then i texted him later the next day as proof i wasn't upset i texted him and he didn't really respond. Later that night i got on and we had a short convos. THe first was about how he blew his temper at me, then he told me to stop being irritating. No appoligize there though. and then about something else. And now this morning he completly ignored me. 5days ago we were web caming and now we barely talk. It all happened in less than a week. :/ I dunno i've did the what if's in this situation but it goes down the drain... "What if he's just afk?" "what if he's just busy" "waht if he just doesn't want to talk to me?" -____- ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Hello my birthday is exactly one week from today. And well... some doubts about my wish have come up recently. :/ My wish is for this person (that i love  ) to come visit me for my birthday. (we live in different states) I have been daydreaming of what it would be like if he cam to visit me. And last week he told me he had a gift for me. At that time and for the rest of that week i was ecstatic because i felt that my daydreams would come true. I had no doubt in my mind that he was coming. That he is visiting me for my birthday... But my faith wavered a bit as he hinted that the gift in question might be a virtual one. ....T____T But anyways i'm going to restore my faith in my wish and in one week I shall see what happens. (i'll be happy with whatever he gives me heck i'm happy he said he was giving me a gift but I really really really want him to come visit.) So any ideas (besides the usual hoponono' and etf ) as to how I can restore my faith in my birthday wish back to 100%? And what would be a good affirmation for this? -Thank you and much love, Mermaid Wife
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« on: November 04, 2011, 06:47:03 AM »
Hello Irishgirl~
I have unshakable faith, but sometimes the amount of faith waivers from time to time. What has helped me keep my faith at full blast was seeing progress. Rather than seeing the relationship as one big lump i broke it down into pieces and have used focus wheels to manifest them. So the first thing i have manifested after becoming "in contact" with him was communication. I focused on having "fun, enjoyable, welcomed, and stimulating conversations together" - that was something we lacked in our past relationship and didn't have at the beginning of our "now in contact phase". Now we talk via text every single day (cause neither one of us is phone call person). He texts me first even!
Focus on having fun and feeling good. I know that you probably read that 1000 times on this forum but honestly that is the key to eliminating fear or doubt. I saw a video here with Abram Hicks telling us that you should have fun now and not worry about the later. "Fun now, doesn't matter. Fun now. doesn't matter." My advice: instead of focusing on eliminating or lessening doubt (thus giving way to more doubt) or focusing on having more faith (still giving focus on doubt incidentally) would be to focus on having fun with that person and that person having fun and enjoying your company too. Because when you are having fun and enjoying your time then there is no room four fear or doubt thus no need to question your faith especially if you and that person are both having fun together.
-Best of Luck, Mermaid Wife
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« on: October 19, 2011, 02:10:16 AM »
Hello I am actually a practitioner of Tarot(No I'm not an expert and no I'm not a super physic by the way), and before I input my views and knowledge as well as demystifying a few topics in this discussion, let me start with that famous quote, “The man who thinks he can and the man who thinks he can't are both right." - Henry Ford. I have seen this quote applied to LOA (and i agree with that) and as we are LOA practitioners we apply LOA it to life. Therefore your views on a physics are also part of LOA and a part of this quote. Therefore the way you handle a physic reading is up to you. Just like it is your choice to be hurt or not according to LOA. Whether you let a "bad reading" affect your progress with LOA, or if you let it help you with your progress it is entirely up to you. So with the main topic answered, let's move on to the discussion~  The christian bible, imho, MERELY discourages seeing psychics because it tends to make us doubt our own intuition. it is our own intuition that truly holds the answers we seek. But, if you want to see a psychic, have at it. I've always wanted to see one. Sounds like fun. just remember that you are the expert when it comes to your own life.
I completely agree~ Hi MinDiddy!I'm now discouraged to see psychics because the readings are not consistent.
Okay your inconsistent readings are due to nature of life. Life is always changing. You shape it with every thought, and think about it would you like your life set in stone? That isn't the way it works with LOA and so it doesn't work that way with all readings. The readings could also be due to the level and specialty of your physic as well. As mentioned by Leyline here, she had encounters with physics that could foretold specific and detailed events in the far future. Most physics however grow their ability; we all have some to begin with, so we must train and learn and grow this ability. Another reason for the inconsistent readings is: MinMiddy, the psychic will only tell u what will happen if u continue to act in the way u act now 
Yes that is true and this is another reason for inconsistent readings~ All said different time lines but all said wed get back together. Ive asked for more information from one today but ultimately I think LOA can change their predication. If they are accurate surely they are looking at things within any change in the situation...LOA can surely change the outcome? What do you guys think?
Yes definitely. LOA does change the outcome of the readings. For example the different time lines may be caused by the fear or doubt you may have had, thus implementing LOA unawaringly changing the date. I'm a little on the fence about psychic and tarot card readers or going to anyone other than yourself for advice.
You can come to believe what they say and look for evidence of that, creating a belief or hearing whatever they say can inject doubt in what you believe. I think the answers really come from within and trusting ourselves and the universe.
Yes the answers are within you. The way I learned tarot is that the cards and the physic are mirrors. We reflect and bring to light what is hiding in your subconscious that you may or may not be aware of. The answers are always within in you, this I know from LOA, and so the reason why people go to physics is to clear up the clutter of the heart and mind and get an insight of what will most likely happen if you continue down this path from this point in time, or to be reassured of the decision they already made. The "bad reading" could indeed inject doubt or fear if you choose to take it that way. Or could be used to narrow down and bring to light what you need to change in order to reach your goal; I.E. becoming detached. i believe that good psychics make it quite clear that they are advising you based on their own intuition as a result of what they sense from you.
Also, we're all psychic. If we didn't believe in being able to pick up on energy, we wouldn't be on this forum. 
Yes both of these points are true. If you come to a someone with a closed heart you might not get a good reading. (Depending on the level of your phycic) I know this for a fact, my sister will ask me for a reading from time to time and i tell if she doesn't focus on her question/ the feelings in your heart/what is on her mind then it won't work ( she won't even tell me the questions) and sure enough it doesn't. Well this psychic did not really tell me what I wanted to hear (which was that what I desired and wished for would in fact to happen) so maybe that's why I did not feel that it was as legit as it could have been. I also know that I probably I had so much of that on my mind maybe it blocked her being able to read me properly.
Again Tarot readings are reflections. Even though you desired to hear what you wanted, you were probably more scared of not hearing these things and there fore got the frequency you gave out the most. Also since you had other things on your mind you probably weren't in tuned with your physic. She kept asking why we broke up. I kept thinking .. if you are a psychic wouldn't you know?
Well on the riverside: You're a LOA practitioner, shouldn't you be happy with no problems doubt or worry or fear and get everything you desire? Again it depends on the level and type of physic. Ah I'll have to finish this later discussion later. I'll be back~ -Mermaid Wife
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« on: October 08, 2011, 08:25:55 AM »
Hello MiaVictoria: I actually got the idea of smothering them with love from this article: http://www.vibrational-alchemy.com/telepathic/intro.htmMermaid,
So...smothering someone with too much love: Never heard that one before but I'm open to learning. Do you mean you loved him no matter what and he was uncomfortable? Or did you hover over him physically or show up at places where you knew he'd be? He evaded your questions for whatever reason and you, being a confident girl, wanted to know what happened to end your dating so abruptly. Spamming him with texts once, well, that's close to harmless. There's much worse things to do! You were just acting out of frustration. He will one day understand.
I hope he understands. But I have done the spamming thing and other stuff before and I am aware of how I manifested the end of our relationship with LOA... with fear and obsession! That time that this "screw up happened" I wanted to know how he feels, if he still feels etc. Basically I was trying to control again, but now that I recognize that, and with the help of the forum members I know now what I need to work on. And jealousy? For the majority of women/men who are prone to jealousy, it's just who they are because of their lack of self esteem. They are afraid of losing to somebody better.
Haha i agree with you there that is a trait as well as a fault. I happened to be a monkey/Scorpio. (both their signs strongly carry that trait of envy. -___-;) But i decided that that is one of the things i'm going to work on and guess what i did! Woot i made progress. I got really jealous over a mass text that he sent me. I thought it was just for me and was happy, but then i found out it was to other people. (not something you should get jealous for but i did) But I didn't let it show, and i didn't act on it. (i didn't stalk the other numbers either!) I was still jealous, but then my good friend callled me and i calmed down. I still had that bitterness within me and then I did ETF and it went away. I wasn't even sure if i was doing it right but I call this a success. I subdued my envy~! yeah! Progress between us: I did a focus wheel for us to have "fun, enjoyable, welcomed and stimulating conversations" and you know what it's already happening. I also did 2nd tarot reading on us and the outcome was the 4 of wands: the foundation for a stead, healthy, amazing relationship~ Peace and love, Mermaid wife~
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« on: October 06, 2011, 06:16:43 AM »
TMAOM: Ah! I see it now. Thankyou that is a perfect analogy for it, it makes much more sense now. Lol and I love the "like a happy lovesick girl at a Justin Bieber concert" haha oh gosh made me laugh. Thank you so much. The quality over quantity makes alot of sense too. Thank you for your insight~ MiaVictoria: You are so sweet thank you so much you're post really made me smile. Thank you, your kindness it truly did touch my heart. Yes he does have some maturing to do, i do too, but I know that he does as well. I know that he will get stronger -i just hope that he believes it himself- because i believe that with all my heart. But he knows how you feel and he's attracting you back. Something about your inner light speaks to him and he feels love for you when you are separated. It's when he gets you, he can't handle the emotion but blames this on you. You think so? ah maybe that's the reason i keep coming back to him even though he's made it clear that he didn't want me and that I knew better, maybe he's secretly attracting me back too! haha To me, this does not sound like he is smothered. Yeah i'm not sure myself if I am somthering him or not but I'll be taking TMAOM's advise about sending a qualitied love instead of a messy quantitied love. But in your opinion what does it sound like to you? (with the little information i provided haha) Thankyou again for your post though, i read it earlier this morning and It kept me smiling throughout the day. -Peace and Love Mermaid Wife
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« on: October 05, 2011, 08:17:33 AM »
Ah i see, TMAOM, I'm a practitioner of Ho'op, and i did ETF and a foucus wheel for the first time today, and i'm not sure of visualizing is the same as meditation, but I'm pretty open so i'll give them a chance. Hmm so if you're sending love, it's better to do so when you're centered that way you do not accidentally overwhelm or smother a person, even if you're feeling good, there may be a chance that you are smothering that person am I correct? So the way to pull back, or rather send the correct energy and amount is through ho'op, ETF, etc. The things that give you clarity and make you feel good? Lol i'm just checking.
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« on: October 04, 2011, 10:27:50 AM »
Thank you so much for posting this. I watched the rest of the videos on the playlist and i learned quite a few things. I think I'm going to listen to them several times though. I've heard of Abram Hicks but I never knew what or in this case who she was so thank you very much. One practice I learned was focus wheels. I think I'm going to give it a whirl, so I made some for the forum if anyone else wants to try it out: ( http://s1211.photobucket.com/albums/cc437/Mermaidwife/ ) I don't know how practical some of them are ( I got a carried away a bit) but if anyone else does try it let me know how it's working for them~! Peace and Love -Mermaid Wife
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« on: October 04, 2011, 10:21:31 AM »
Mariposa- Ah thankyou i've never tried ETF but I shall definitely give it a go. About working on myself. As i think about it I find more and more things to work on for myself actually; Patience is a big one, just like all living things, love and relationships need time to grow so I'm definitely going to work on that as well as becoming even more than I already am. Update: I guess I actually didn't royally screw up he texted me back a day later (sept. 30 around 7:00 while I was on this form actually) after I sent him a text laying down my apologies as well as saying that I'm not asking for him back or expecting anything out of him and stuff. Well i want us to talk and converse more because our conversations have not been all that enjoyable (not bad but not enjoyable) like he shuts it down. But that brings me to the question that has been on my mind: I've read that it's possible to smother someone/ suffocate/ send too much love. I want to know is how do you pull back and what are the consequences of doing so? Peace and Love -Mermaid wife
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« on: September 30, 2011, 08:12:22 AM »
2thetop: Ah it is a very good example, and i will be using it for when negative thoughts do arrive. As for my question I don't know how to work on the attribute of jealousy. I'm not sure how i can work on that with loa. (i know i can but i'm just now sure how) I am also a scorpio monkey which do carry a rather large envious trait.
Marioposa: Thank you so much~! You're faith is wonderful~ Sorry for the confusion, I realized my reply was rather contradicting and not well put. What i mean to say is I don't know how to work on rather, my traits that need improvement. Using 2theTop's example if i had self esteem with body or looks i would look at myself in the mirror and say i am beautiful over and over. (i use this when i take picture ," i am photogenic, i am..." ) But For my envy i'm not sure how to coordinate that along with loa: I am.. not jealous. Is focusing right on to jealousy again so that's where i get stuck.
I know not trusting him and being insecure led to our break up. (on my part. because a relationship, it was both our faults, but i will absolutely own up to this). And I have promised myself when he comes back i will trust him completely because when he does come back there will be no room for mistrust or suspicion. Loving yourself is a good advice, but my logic doesn't match up with how that ties into trusting him. I mean I'm sure it does, but i can't see it yet.
But overall I'm not sure how to deal with jealousy, and if loving yourself is the answer then i'll work on that too and let you know but umm... how do you do that? o____o (cause like i said do hold my self in high esteem, but i do know my faults as well so I'm not sure which give yourself self love tactic i should be using.) haha sorry i hope that makes sense.
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« on: September 30, 2011, 07:25:20 AM »
Awww 2theTop you're real sweet~! I like you. haha I'm sure that post will help someone out there alot~ Well let's see the reason i don't know what to "work on myself" is because well i don't have any self esteem issues. I don't think I'm perfect, and sure I get those times were i feel ugly/ unattractive, but overall i like who i am, and i know that i look great. I know i have great future (career wise) ahead of me so I'm not worried about any of that either. I know how to be by myself and keep myself occupied/enjoy a solitude. And i can do most things for my self. I know i'm moody, and when i feel it is always with intensity, but i am resilient and bounce back quickly usually. With that said, it brings to mind why didn't he love me that much? -____- (lol no conceited aurora meant. ) I have a bad jealous streak and I was really insecure in my last relationship with him (but he did warrant that too), I'm not sure how to work on these qualities or anything else to work on aside from just plain feeling good. oh and update. I did text him everything i wanted to say and let him know. I didn't get a reply back but i didn't feel bad or sad or anything. i felt okay. and then later i did a tarot spread on us and from that spread i gathered that the worst is over. The pain is ending, and there is a possibility of a new relationship. Overall it was good spread saying that we now can put the pains behind us. And then today this morning and afternoon i got two really good signs from the universe~ Thank you so much for your support 2thetop~
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« on: September 29, 2011, 12:46:39 AM »
"Live in Love" My Older sister has that tatooed on her wrist. It's some thing i do my best to live by and strongly believe in. I repeat it to myself daily. Live in love. Live in Love. I live in love. Many meanings can be drawn and deciphered from this, as for my self I take it as a whole. I live in love with life, I live "in love" with the things i do. I love in love with myself. I live in love with love. I live in love.
Live in Love
-MermaidWife.
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« on: September 29, 2011, 12:41:50 AM »
Ah and thankyou so very much 2TheTop. I am very grateful to you.
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