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« on: January 06, 2011, 09:26:28 AM »
It's been about 4 months since the break up. I have been being positive and happy most of the time. And been trying my best applying LOA. I don't really visualize a lot, but whenever I get fun things to do, good restaurants and good movies to go, I picture she and I going there and having fun together. Maybe this's one kind of visualizing?
I find it really hard to let go, I know letting go is to not care about the outcome, but how?
I think there are two type of "not caring about the outcome": one is that I trust and believe that the universe is bringing her back to me 100% for sure. So I'd not have to worry at all.
Another one is to be okay if she doesn't come back. Which it doesn't matter if she comes back or not, I can be happy with her or without her.
Which one is the better one? Or both of them are good ways of letting go?
And what else I should do to attract her back? Please suggest!
By the way, for the ones who have read my post before, that I didn't call or mail her the letter. But I did write her a birthday card, and she texted me saying thanks a lot
And I didn't continue the contact, because I really didn't what to do next...
« on: December 06, 2010, 09:30:08 PM »
Here is the previous post: http://www.powerlawofattraction.com/forum/6/contacting-ex-good-idea-or-not/
I got positive answers to contact my girl. So I am going to contact her, but it's been 3 months since we broke up, and more than 2 months without contact. I don't know how I should contact her... Any advices?
Here are two ways that I think might be good:
1. Write her a letter: Since she wrote me one(about 2 months ago), so good to write one back. So I wrote this letter already but haven't mailed it yet. I wrote down a lot of thoughts on my mind, mostly about relationship and love. And how the problems we had, should be no problem. And I said I love her in the letter. I didn't write down anything like that I am begging her to come back, but it's easy to tell that I still love her and would like to have her back. I myself found this letter so touching, even I cried a bit when I wrote it and when I read it through
BTW I didn't write down the reason why I didn't respond to her "friend request" and birthday text)
I really don't know if giving her this letter is a good idea. Because I really don't know what she feels right now, and I am kind of afraid that she turn me down again. Or maybe she still has feelings for me, but this letter might add too much pressure on her.(like forcing her to come back or not) Or any suggestions what I should or should not write in the letter if you think it's a good to write her one.
2. Call, text or message her online. Since she asked me to still be her friend, maybe I should start by being her friend first and attract her again. But I really don't know what to say to her, I don't want to talk like an idiot asking her how she is doing and today is sunny etc... Most of the time, when I have something on my mind, I don't know what to talk besides the thing on my mind. So in this case, I don't know what to say besides "I love you and still want to be with you".
So please let me know what you think. Anything helps, and appreciated.
By the way, I want to thank to everyone who replied my previous post, thanks a lot
And HelpingitHappen, I have to say you are the MAN again! Your words are so encouraging, thanks so so much my friend.
« on: December 02, 2010, 05:08:10 PM »
I need some advices from you. Not necessary about LOA, more like from all your perspectives or life experiences. Anything helps, and appreciated.
It's been about 3 months since we broke up. It wasn't like she dumped me, just she asked to break up. We were having a fight that day, and she said she still loved me, but didn't want to be with me no more. I did ask her to stay and give us one more chance(actually I kind of begged her back), but she refused. So I let her go. But we were still friends, we said hi and talked a bit online. One week later, we went to a show, because we bought the tickets when we were still together. We had fun that day, at the end, I asked her if we really had no chance to be together. And she said no. We didn't contact each other after that. And weeks later after we back to the states, she asked to see me and returned me the books she borrowed from me, and gave me a letter. In the letter, basically saying that she thanks me for the good time we shared, and she was sad to make this decision, but she thinks it's right. She said she realized that we wouldn't get married, because we got so many problems. And that's why she gave up. At the end, she asked if we could still be friends. I haven't replied her, and since then, we never contact each other. Maybe she thinks that I don't want to be friend with her, so she never contact me...
So I have been applying LOA for more than two months(after she handed me the letter). She is not back to me yet, and like I mentioned, she never contacted me. She actually texted me happy birthday on my birthday. And I forgot to reply
What do you think? I have been waiting her to say she still love me and want to be with me. Should I contact her first? I had thought about writing her a letter. I'm not going to beg her back in the letter, just to let her know what I think, let her know that I still love her, and let her know all the problems between us could be solved. Hope the letter is touching enough to make her come back.
Do you think writing this letter is a good idea? My friend told me it's not a good idea, but I really have no idea what else I can do besides rely on LOA.
I am so grateful that I found this forum and have all the supports from you
« on: November 04, 2010, 12:24:58 PM »
Hi, I have questions on visualizing. When I visualize my girl and I are chatting or having fun, somehow I cannot see the clear face of her. I know she is the one I am talking with, but her face is really not clear. And sometimes I just think of the good time we had, or the fun things we did together. Is that visualizing too? Or I should visualize something I want we to do in the future?
And when I am visualizing, I can feel the good feelings, but I know it's not real. I know I am just visualizing... Do you guys can really feel like you already have the thing or the person you want when visualizing?
Thanks for the helps
« on: October 13, 2010, 12:16:03 PM »
This idea came up to me last night, I have no idea why. I believe LOVE is a good positive energy, so why not get some good pure love energy flowing in this forum?
And by getting so many people saying they love me, really make me feel I am so super attractive, attractive enough to attract anything I want
Everyone gets 2 votes
« on: October 07, 2010, 06:39:29 AM »
Hi, I am told that don't get obbessed with something because that creates some desperation. Or in my case, not to get obbessed with the idea of getting my girl back.
I also read this article http://www.powerlawofattraction.com/law-of-attraction-in-action/relationship/get-your-ex-back-relationship/#
It mentions that "More badly you want, faster it will manifest."
I am kinda confused right now, because if I want something really badly, I get to think about it all day. Isn't it like the idea of getting obbessed?
Somehow I know I must misunderstand something on this, so please correct me!
Thanks for all the helps
« on: October 02, 2010, 09:08:52 AM »
Hi, I need some helps here. I have read the Secret and know a little bit about Law of Attraction, but I have no idea how to apply it to my situation. I read an article somewhere and it says that if I focus on "getting the ex back", it is gonna make her further and further away. And it also says that I should let go, and focus on what type of the girls I want , and attract them. But I just wanna be with her and love her so much, even thought we had problems and did fight over many things...
So I need some helps to apply Law of Attraction here, like how to do the 3 step thing(ask, believe, receive) and other techniques?
However I do try to apply it somehow, here is what I do:
First I say this to myself:"Thanks god that my girl loves me so much, thanks god that I have her, thanks god for letting us be together and be happy."
Then I visualize the scene of her coming back to me and says that she still loves me and wanna be with me again.(Should I use first perspective or third perspective when visualizing?)
And then I think about the good time I had with her like all the sweet memories, and look at those sweet photos. By the way, I have a board that is full of our pictures, does that count as a vision board?
Am I applying it correctly and doing right here?
I appreciate all the advices and helps from you
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