i am very thankful to those who adviced and supported me.
now being honest i never thought this would happen, after seven way too long months he has unblocked me and we're on good terms again. he just acted like nothing happened popping out of the blue and i said nothing about it - besides jumping out of my skin.
i am guessing you guys want the blue print, i am sorry to dissapoint but i really did nothing, i was bad for a week or so and then decided to concentrate on other parts of my life - can you call it letting go? i had planned to try some mind power seduction - a tecnique similar to remote seduction - yet life got in the way and ah well, here we are.
to those out there still wondering if he/she will come back i assure you they will, it happened to me even when i did not believe it, if you have faith and patience you can achieve many, many more!!!