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« on: June 14, 2012, 10:47:18 AM »
Last week the thought of putting my attention to another guy (instead of my love who I want back) came to mind, and so I conducted a small "experiment". My intention was: I want to have a nice conversation with X, as I have never spoken to him before despite we were in the same training together where we see each other every single day for a week. I set this intention in the morning, and let it go. RIGHT THAT AFTERNOON, the teacher announced the teaching practicum sequence...I was right after him. Then we had to get into pairs to practice teaching our poses to each other and guess who was my partner? X! All because I was the one teaching right after him. So my desire came true. BUT THAT'S NOT IT! The next day, we were jeopardy to review the material for our written component of the exam. X and I weren't on the same team, but he did compliment me for getting my team on the scoreboard. 2 days after the intention was set, we had our written exam. The papers were then shuffled and we randomly got someone else's exam to mark. While I was writing my exam, I was wondering if either I'd get his or he'd get mine. Well turned out that I got his  Final day of training: the practicum. We smiled at each other as a way of good luck, and after it was done we sat beside each other in the room and chatted. Talked about surfing, hobbies, etc. The final exercise was partner work, and right away we looked at each other went ahead at it together. Key takeaway of my story: BE CAREFUL WHAT YOU WISH FOR 'CAUSE YOU MIGHT JUST GET IT
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« on: June 07, 2012, 08:10:09 AM »
So for those of you who know about me, I want to attract back my love into a new relationship that is rid of all the past negatives. Starting last week, I've just been solely focusing on myself; he does come up here and there but I am practicing positive selfishness first  And slowly I feel more detached, very close to letting go. But then I see angel numbers on license plates around me...it's been a week that I've been seeing numbers everyday! The numbers I see are: 111, 222, 333, 555, 777, 888, 999; combinations: 1s and 2s; 8s and 9s; 1s and 9s. I've checked some sites at they say that 8s and 9s point to endings...also read 8s symbolize karma and how the "fruits are ripe" and it's time to reap the rewards for your hard work. Now I have multiple desires (sure many of us do), so how do we know which manifestations do these numbers (signs) apply to? Any thoughts/tips on how to interpret angel numbers are appreciated! Thanks
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« on: May 30, 2012, 11:38:25 PM »
You may have read this on FB, but I'll post it here again to get more input on an encounter I had yesterday: So I was at a spa having a facial treatment. While relaxing on the bed, enjoying the warm steam re-hydrating my skin, I suddenly heard a little creak at the door. I had my eyes closed, so had no idea who it was...and didn't hear footsteps either. I know I was fine since I was chanting. Suddenly I felt a swift of cool air above my face (but the steam machine was still on), just for a second then it was warm again. But then I could feel this energy running through my head and upper body...felt like someone was standing behind me. My heart was beating, not out of fear, but I felt excited for some reason. In my mind I chanted, and asked silently, "What's your name"...a few seconds later I heard this faint static-y noise...I didn't ask the staff if any of them came in after, but if they did, shouldn't there have been footsteps? I've been seeing a lot of numbers lately (000 111 222 333 777 888; 1's and 2's, etc.) not sure if it's related to this "presence" (if it is) I felt. Appreciate any thoughts or insight
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« on: April 08, 2012, 06:58:29 AM »
Hey everyone,
I'm just really interested in knowing your thoughts on jealousy in relationships (or attracting someone back). What causes it, and how do you overcome it?
J
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« on: April 04, 2012, 06:17:15 PM »
Say if I've made an intention to be in contact with Person X again after a period of No Contact (NC). To my understanding, LOA brings you events and experiences that align with your thoughts, so I'm assuming that the opportunity will be "delivered" to you, or you have to take inspired action. How do you know when it's the "perfect opportunity" (and you take the action), or should you just wait for the other person to make the move? Any stories would be greatly appreciated!
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« on: March 29, 2012, 11:40:26 AM »
So tonight I was at a networking event and at the beginning, the host said that there would be door prizes (small ones ). And I just thought, "Wonder if I would win something...I mean trying to channel my Lady Luck side with my red cardigan..." The time came for the draw, and the host announced the first prize as an iPod Shuffle. Now I already have an iTouch, but thought that it'll be something nice to give to me mom if I won it. So I made a wish to the Universe, and let it go (thinking that it really doesn't matter if I get it or not). The very next second (LITERALLY), my name was announced! I feel like it's the Universe encouraging me to keep going on with manifesting my love back, especially how down I've been lately. Cannot say thank you enough...to the Universe and to everyone on this forum sharing their positive energy.
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« on: March 28, 2012, 06:34:00 AM »
Hey everyone...really would appreciate some help and support because for the past month I've been depressed. Like many of you, I am trying to attract a certain someone back into my life. For those of you who don't know my story, here it is: L & I have been friends for 2 years, and when we first met I was with someone else. But as we grew closer as friends, I knew that he is the guy I should really be with. In May 2011, I finally broke off my 3 year relationship with the other guy, and confessed my love to L, just wanting to know how he felt. I knew deep inside that we were more than friends, but it really didn't matter to me if he just wanted to stay friends. It turns out, he liked me back. But at that time, it was very hard for us to start a relationship because our friends in the group sided with the guy I just broke up with. We would start holding hands, but as soon as another person in our friends group found out, L would back out. The back and forth thing went on for a month, when finally I said we needed a break from each other. At that time L said that it's very messy, that he was unsure of his feelings, and that it's more likely that we'll get together in the future. A week into our "break", he confessed to me how he felt empty without me there, that he wanted to be with me, and that he doesn't even care about what our friends think anymore. This was back in June 2011, when I felt like for the first time, the one who I truly liked...liked me back. But I was doubtful, and afraid that this was all "too good to be true". You see, when things were going back and forth back in May, he said that he didn't know if he liked the qualities I had, or if he liked me as a person. I thought that he had this ideal image that I needed to live up to, and so I started censoring myself. I focused a lot on how to be his girlfriend or the person I thought he wanted me to be (thinking that it needed to be very different from how it was when we were just friends)...to the point (when I reflect back now), that I forgot how to be his friend. He was the hopeful one at first (while I was being the doubtful and insecure one). All I saw were lacks in the relationship; I was afraid that I wasn't good enough for him, or how I wasn't the type of girl (height-wise) that he described he wanted when we were just friends. He eventually started distancing himself, and everything started going downhill after this argument we had in September 2011. Fast forward a month to October 2011, everything ended. "I don't know what happened, but my feelings for you aren't there anymore. They slowly faded. There's no emotional connection. We don't click that way. Our personalities don't match that way..." And the "I don't know if I like you for your qualities, or your person.." phrase came up again. The nightmare I was worrying about during the months we were together, came true. During the break-up, I had a mental breakdown, and even had suicidal thoughts. L held me in his arms during that time and comforted me, and looking back now, I know that's the type of person I need because I've never so safe in anyone else's arms before. He said that he loved me before, but doesn't know what happened to make those feelings fade and now it's...gone. This all happened at the end of October 2011. Fast forward another month...None of my friends could help me, so my last resort was to talk to his best friend (a girl I went to elementary school with, and we've chatted a few times) because she is known to be a great person to talk to (like a counselor). So I Facebook messaged her (she already knows what happened) at the end of November 2011, and she told me to email here as she was working on a project. I didn't say anything bad about anyone, didn't even tell her the whole story like what I'm telling you all now. I just told her simply my feelings and struggles. In the email I told her not to tell L anything, but I am not sure if she told L about me contacting her on FB (there was a time delay between he FB message and the email). I am concerned about whether L found out (that I talked to his friend) because the last time we talked in December, he was being very cold and angry. During that talk, I asked him why he didn't call me back like he said he would, and asked if we were still friends or not. He replied, "That's very funny...you were the one who didn't want to be friends in the first place." (I DID say this during the break-up...but I regretted it...) Also, I asked him whether he told our friends about the break-up (because it was annoying when everyone started asking me if I was okay out of the blue), and he just said "Well it depends on who YOU talked to..." From my perspective, I didn't say anything to anyone until I was sure that they knew what happened (so I won't be blamed for "starting the fire"), so I told him, "No...I didn't tell anyone." It feels like he's angry at me (perhaps because I talked to his friend and he doesn't like that)...he even said that he doesn't think there's a chance between us ever again when I asked him. He said that we need a break from each other, and then we can be friends after a few months (sounded cold saying this too...). It's the end of March now...still NC. I was feeling happy and detached in January, and that was when I received signs from the Universe (hearing songs, his mom talking to me in one of my dreams, etc.). I still get small signs here and there now, but for some reason everything started slipping downhill since a month ago, and I am back in the hole. As much as I somewhat still angry at L for hurting me, I still love him so much because he is a good person at heart (and trust me, he is NOT a player). He's everything I ever wanted. I want him to contact me, and I just want another shot (knowing where my faults were) at this, but I'm afraid of whether the Universe will give me this chance. It's been months of NC and I'm scared..is it too late? What if he is with someone else? What should I do...and what CAN I do? Would really appreciate some feedback and some positive vibes. Thank you, and much love to you all. 
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« on: March 21, 2012, 05:52:16 AM »
Found this on StumbleUpon, and some of what these kids said are the wisest words about love. And they're so cute too of course  What Does Love Mean? See How 4-8 Year-Old Kids Describe Love1."When my grandmother got arthritis, she couldn’t bend over and paint her toenails anymore. So my grandfather does it for her all the time, even when his hands got arthritis too. That’s love." Rebecca-age 8 2. “When someone loves you, the way they say your name is different.You just know that your name is safe in their mouth.” Billy – age 4 3. “Love is when a girl puts on perfume and a boy puts on shaving cologne and they go out and smell each other.” Karl – age 5 4. “Love is when you go out to eat and give somebody most of your French fries without making them give you any of theirs.”Chrissy – age 6 5. “Love is what makes you smile when you’re tired.” Terri – age 4 6. “Love is when my mommy makes coffee for my daddy and she takes a sip before giving it to him, to make sure the taste is OK.” Danny – age 7 7. “Love is when you kiss all the time. Then when you get tired of kissing, you still want to be together and you talk more. My Mommy and Daddy are like that. They look gross when they kiss” Emily – age 8 8. “Love is what’s in the room with you at Christmas if you stop opening presents and listen.” Bobby – age 7 9. “If you want to learn to love better, you should start with a friend who you hate,” Nikka – age 6 (personal favourite!)10. “Love is when you tell a guy you like his shirt, then he wears it everyday.” Noelle – age 7 11. “Love is like a little old woman and a little old man who are still friends even after they know each other so well.” Tommy – age 6 12. “During my piano recital, I was on a stage and I was scared. I looked at all the people watching me and saw my daddy waving and smiling. He was the only one doing that. I wasn’t scared anymore.” Cindy – age 8 13. “My mommy loves me more than anybody . You don’t see anyone else kissing me to sleep at night.” Clare – age 6 14. “Love is when Mommy gives Daddy the best piece of chicken.” Elaine-age 5 15. “Love is when Mommy sees Daddy smelly and sweaty and still says he is handsomer than Robert Redford.” Chris – age 7 16. “Love is when your puppy licks your face even after you left him alone all day.” Mary Ann – age 4 17. “I know my older sister loves me because she gives me all her old clothes and has to go out and buy new ones.” Lauren – age 4 18. “When you love somebody, your eyelashes go up and down and little stars come out of you.” (what an image) Karen – age 7 19. “Love is when Mommy sees Daddy on the toilet and she doesn’t think it’s gross.” Mark – age 6 20. “You really shouldn’t say ‘I love you’ unless you mean it. But if you mean it, you should say it a lot. People forget.” Jessica – age 8 21. And the final one — Author and lecturer Leo Buscaglia once talked about a contest he was asked to judge.The purpose of the contest was to find the most caring child.The winner was a four year old child whose next door neighbor was an elderly gentleman who had recently lost his wife.Upon seeing the man cry, the little boy went into the old gentleman’s yard, climbed onto his lap, and just sat there. When his Mother asked what he had said to the neighbor, the little boy said, “Nothing, I just helped him cry”
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« on: March 16, 2012, 10:54:34 AM »
Hi everyone! In the past month, I've been having doubts whether my guy would come back. But then when I saw some of the manifestations that have occurred within the past two weeks, I know that LOA DOES WORK. The following manifestations don't have anything to do with him, but man did they show me that the Universe has been listening in on my thoughts all this time without me knowing it! 1) Half a year ago, I wished that there was a brand management course at my school. I forgot about it, and guess what is offered this upcoming summer semester? A Selected Topics course on Hands-on Brand Management! 2) Last year, I wanted to pursue a career in product management and be a product manager when I graduate. Today, I received an email from an old classmate asking if I'm interested in working as a product manager at his company. But I've changed directions for my career (and I'm still in school too), and want to pursue employee training instead, so I kindly declined the offer. 3) This morning, I was driving to a training workshop and wondered if I'd see a certain person there. By all means I don't intend to start a relationship with this man because he's married, but just think that he's nice and I do like him on a basic level. I just thought to myself "I wonder if I'll see him there...it'll be nice if I did." And then laughed it off, thinking "Ah who cares haha" When I got there, the facilitator said there's one more person coming, and she said mentioned his name. I thought I heard wrong, until someone asked who we're waiting for and it's confirmed it's the guy I was thinking of. He ended up sitting right beside me and we even got to collaborate together during the workshop! A big thank you to the Universe...thank you for always listening!
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« on: February 22, 2012, 11:09:36 AM »
Here's a question I've been pondering over for the past week:
Some say that if it's "meant to be", that person will come back no matter what, so we should just ask for our desired relationship, and for the specific person. On the other hand, there's the belief that you can get anything, anyone you want by having faith that your desires will come to you.
Growing up people just tell me if it's meant to be, he'll come back. If not, it was never meant to be. Then my belief started to change after discovering the LOA and the Secret...because I really want to believe that my love and I will reunite. But it just seems like there are so many points of view that is confusing to me...I am so lost right now...because everything seemed to be going in the right direction and then I started doubting whether it was "correct" after reading other points of view. =/
What do you all think, (about the different takes and also about dating other people while you are trying to attract a certain person back)?
Thanks!
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« on: February 08, 2012, 06:48:38 AM »
Hey everyone! There's a question that's been creeping into my mind here and there. I was dating this guy for only about 4 months before he broke it off (but we were friends for 2 years before we began dating). After learning about LOA, I realized that it was my own insecurity and doubts that "attracted" the break-up. I'm in the process of trying to attract this guy back, and have been in a positive flow so far (focusing on myself). However, today the voice in my head is loading me with doubts and worries because I started to think about what some of my friends and online articles have said. I've read articles where some say that 'people who get back together share an emotional bond, so there is no emotional bond, there is little chance that those individuals will get back together.' It bugs me when my friends say, "Oh he was just never that into you" or when I read on the website that "In relationships that didn't make it past the one year mark, aka short-term relationships, two people seldom make it through in the long run because there is no deep connection". When we broke up, he said that he doesn't feel an emotional bond...and I don't know if he lost it or if it was just never there. When we were dating, he was the first one to say "I love you" and this guy takes things seriously, so I know he was not saying it for the heck of saying it. I tell myself to be strong and just stay focused on what I do want, and disregard what others say. Deep inside I know that the break-up was a good learning opportunity because if it weren't for that, I wouldn't have learned of the LOA and gained so much personal insight and growth. And I believe that through this personal growth, we belong together and it was just the wrong timing. But the fear of "what if these people are right" always creeps up on me. So, anyone care to share how they deal with these fears, and more importantly: In your opinion, does the duration of the relationship matter when you're trying to attract back your special someone? Thank you!
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« on: February 07, 2012, 02:07:08 PM »
Like many of you out there, I am too trying to attract the love of my life back using LOA. Throughout the past week, I've been losing faith, but everytime negative thoughts came to mind, I replaced them with thoughts on other things, especially the things I am grateful for (e.g. how I can almost hold a handstand, the lovely weather, etc.). I remember in the midst of thinking positive, my little voice in my head just whispered to the Universe, "Please give me a sign."
And of course, I received not one, but TWO! Here's the first (and you may have read this on another thread):
i) Sometime last week, I asked for the sign when I was in doubt. A few days later when I was in my yoga class, my faith was slipping slightly again, and I totally forgot that I had asked for a sign before. Just when I was laying in Savasana, telling myself that maybe I should just give up, my instructor played a song on his iPod. It was a piano cover version of "Just the Way You Are", and this song is "our" song, one that has much sentimental meaning to it. At first I couldn't make out what song it was over the speakers but when I realized what it was, my heart jumped and as relaxed as I was, I couldn't help myself but smile because the Universe gave me a sign, an encouragement for me to keep striving on.
ii) Last Thursday I was at a training session, talking to a lady how my special someone tends to self-monitor too much. She simply said, "Well, some people are just like that." I just shrugged it off as any regular comment. Fast forward to Saturday, I had a dream that night. In the dream I was talking to my guy's mom, telling her how I don't like the fact her son is so afraid of people judging him and censors himself. She said the exact words I heard from the lady I met on Thursday. When I woke up , I just thought What a weird dream! As I was putting on my face cream, however, I got a flash of insight. The words that didn't mean much to me at first suddenly meant something after rethinking how it was his mom who said it in my dream. At that moment, I realized that all this time I wasn't as accepting in the relationship as I thought I was. You see, I kept complaining to other people how I wish he would just "open up"...and now I realize that it was a negative vibration I was sending out, saying "Hey, I am not accepting you for who you are!"
Through the dream, I became aware of this 'blind spot', and by overcoming these small obstacles, I truly believe that I am on the right path.
So thank you to the Universe. And thank you to all of you who share your experiences out there; they are very inspirational and I enjoy learning from everyone on this forum! =D
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« on: January 21, 2012, 11:03:10 AM »
Hey everyone, I'm new here, and recently started reading The Secret. It's been almost 3 months since my boyfriend broke up with me. We were friends before, and back then every time we hung out, I felt so happy and knew I found what I want. I guess throughout that time I was thinking, and feeling what I want in my ideal relationship. When we started dating, it was the best day of my life up until that point. We dated for about 4 months (with the final month carrying a gloomy tone to it), and while we had our happy times, I always had doubts and fears. At first he was supportive, but then things changed. I was very insecure, always afraid that he would one day say to me that he doesn't love me anymore and how he wants to only be friends. And that is exactly what happened...guess I manifested my own thoughts? I love him, but I'm afraid. Everyone tells me that I should move on, and how it is only now that I'd feel this way. People keep telling me how one day I WILL move on, and honestly it annoys me. I am trying to apply the LOA and what I've learnt from The Secret; I started a journal, putting my wish to have a new, happy romantic relationship with him. But there are so many doubts in me: I keep wondering about the "How", afraid how long it will take, how long I'd have to wait, what if he's moved on, etc. Some days, I am genuinely happy from focusing on myself, but the streak never exceeds 2 days. After reading some posts in the forum, I know that detachment is key. But there is an internal conflict: to visualize being with him again in a happy relationship while letting go? At this current moment I feel like my faith is slipping... anyone out there have advice or stories to share? Thanks
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