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« on: January 11, 2013, 10:50:39 AM »
Hello everyone.
I've been with the same guy for about four years, we got together when I was 15, i'm 18 now. We've had a very complicated relationship, he was the guy that I was in love with, that I was so sure wasn't going to love me, but I slept with him anyway. I don't get out much, so he was really the only guy around. In the end though, he did love me. We sort had a strange relationship where we weren't together, but we still loved each other. There was a lot of insecurity in my part, I felt like he didn't find me attractive. we had horrible fights, over stupid stuff. Eventually things stabled out, and we've had a sort of actual relationship. Though the vast majority of it has been him visiting me at my house. Eventually we broke up, and I got into the law of attraction, I wanted him back so bad. In the end though, he did come back. I did do it.
What attracts me to him, is he has the qualities i've always wanted in a man, monogamous, dedicated, thinks i'm hot as hell. Now that I get older, I realize these are just base elements, the ground work theres so much more I want in a relationship.
I wonder if I really want to be with this person the rest of my life. This is a guy, who has some issues, and he's actually going to a psychologist so they can figure out if he's fit enough to have children, and if it would be totally reasonable for him to be sterilized at 21. He doesn't want children because he thinks he's so fucked up. I don't want children, at least right now. I don't know if i'll want them, but I sort of want the option open to me right now.
I have an idea, a fantasy of a guy, a relationship that i'd want. That would make me so happy, the thought that I could actually attract my ideal relationship 100%, that I could get it down to the name? Could I do it? is this actually possible? Has this happened? Because I want it, so badly. I feel like if I could attract this, I could honestly do anything in the world. It would make me the happiest.
But what if i'm wasting my time? I love my boyfriend, I don't want to hurt him, I really don't. He loves me. I just, I find myself not wanting to commit all of my heart and soul, I feel myself holding back. I don't want to lose him, and end up alone. Though I honestly think a lot of the time i'm with him, because i'm afraid I won't find anyone else like him. I feel so awful though, i'm so confused.
Could I attract my dream man? My dream relationship?
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« on: August 10, 2012, 02:35:47 AM »
This is going to sound like an odd question, but do you think it's possible to use the Law of attraction to return an object to you? I've heard you can use it for finding things, but getting things back seems like a whole different ball game.
any thoughts would be good.
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« on: March 14, 2012, 04:13:00 AM »
Hey everyone, haven't been around lately. I realized something though.
Seems pretty simply enough, but the key to everything is happiness. Every article about LOA mentions being happy, and feeling good. I believe out of everything we can do, this is the most important aspect, everything else is just stepping stones to get to this happiness.
Why do we need to be happy? Well it's kind of domino effect. Everything we want is usually ultimately rooted in happiness. Say your ex calls and confesses that he loves you and misses you, that's going to make you happy. The end result is happiness, we get what we feel right? So if we're happy we get happiness.
So basically in a nutshell by being happy it's implied that we've gotten what we wish, so the universe gives it to us. If we're sad and worried, that just indicates that we haven't gotten it.
Just thought i'd say that.
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« on: February 09, 2012, 01:27:23 AM »
This is something i've been thinking about lately. I think a lot of us have manifested something we don't want, or something that it turns out we didn't want. So what i'm wondering is how would one de-manifest? I imagine if you acknowledge something as being in your life, it's going to stay there. So I imagine you'd somehow get to the point where you don't think it's there, but by not thinking it's there isn't that thinking it's there?
Sorry if this doesn't make sense, it's just something i've been thinking about lately.
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« on: February 07, 2012, 02:42:18 AM »
Hey everyone, I just wanted your opinion on something.
Do you any of you ever get a feeling when someone does something or says something, it can be significant or even completely insignificant, but for some reason it just feels 'wrong'? Almost like you're in a dream, like maybe you aren't in the right reality. It just feels wrong and like it shouldn't be there.
I was just curious what you guys thought this meant.
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« on: February 05, 2012, 05:11:07 AM »
So many people say that you can't attract an ex, or a specific person because that violates free will. Doesn't it seem funny that people are putting 'rules' on something like the Law of Attraction? With the Law of Attraction we're told not to limit ourselves, how we need to get rid of out limiting beliefs and how much it can affect us. I just think it's silly that despite that so many people enforce this limiting belief on LOA.
How many of us drove our exes away? We got insecure, we thought of them leaving us, not wanting us anymore, and it happened. Of course everyone will agree, according to the Law of Attraction, you drove them away. A lot of the same people will turn around and tell you can't attract them back because that's against free will. But if you drove them away, isn't that technically influencing their free will? If you can influence someone to go, why can't you influence them to come back?
When I was with my ex, I worried so much, I believed he'd do certain things that I didn't want to happen, I really believed that it'd happen. And you know what? Everything I worried about happened. Every, single, thing. Now, in my mind, if we couldn't effect anyone's free will whatsoever, my worries would have never manifested.
When it comes to the free will debate, the answer is, whatever you believe.
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« on: January 29, 2012, 01:27:54 AM »
This is kind of odd to ask, but I was wondering if someone could give me some advice. Can you use the LOA to prevent things? Like say theres something you don't want to happen, or theres something you're afraid someone will do.
So what do you do if your desire is for something not to happen? And theres not really a positive equal for it.
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« on: January 19, 2012, 02:43:37 AM »
My guy and I got into another fight, and he turned harsh and cold towards me. And i'm just so tired of pining for him, and hoping maybe he'll be nice again. If he wants to come back, he's very welcome to. I'd love for him to come back, but I think it's time I focus on someone new.
I have this idea of a new guy, and our relationship, and I love it, and I really want it. Part of me though, keeps thinking, "This couldn't happen, this doesn't exist in real life, it's just fiction." I'm just trying to burn it into my brain that I can have everything I want. Damn, why is that so hard?
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« on: January 10, 2012, 01:07:47 PM »
Hey everyone I was wondering what you thought of this. I had this dream, and in it was I was an embalmer/mortician, basically someone who prepares the dead for funerals and stuff, and it was weird. It wasn't a scary dream, it was actually a very nice dream, it was peaceful.
So when I woke up, I decided to research the industry, and the jobs and everything. I've never seen a dead body or anything, and the whole concept kind of disturbs me, and seem pretty morbid to me. But i'm drawn to it, I can't seem to get this idea out of my head, and i'm wondering if maybe theres a reason for that. I've never even thought of this career path before, it's so weird. I can just picture everyone being, "Wow you're a mortician?" and "I never thought you'd end up a mortician" and it just seems amusing and fun.
Do you think maybe there is a reason i'm drawn to this?
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« on: December 29, 2011, 05:29:09 AM »
Hey everyone.
The group one a day manifestion has been great, just all of us connected sending positive vibes is so beautiful and inspiring.
I'd really like some advice on something, i've been thinking of asking about this, but I thought it might not really be possible. Today i'm feeling like anything is possible though.
My parents have been having issues for a few years. They've been together for about 30 years, they used to have an amazing relationship, they had a spiritual connection, and they were very much in love. A few years ago, my dad kind of shut himself off, and he turned dark, he'd be mean, and hurtful, and my mom would get nasty and yell. And it's been like this for awhile. I just, don't want to see it end like this, I can feel that he's shut himself off, he's bitter and negative, and he just, doesn't feel like my father anymore, he feels like a step father.
Any advice is appreciated.
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« on: December 24, 2011, 01:32:10 PM »
Feet are very unappreciated, yet oh so valuable. Often we ignore them, or complain about them. How they smell, how they hurt, or how cracked they are. Not very often we appreciate them. We should love our bodies, but often we don't think that includes our feet, they are often forgotten.
Trees need strong roots, and houses strong foundation. Our feet our are roots, they connect us to the ground, and to the earth. They are the foundation that holds us up.
We need to love and appreciate our feet, So our foundation can strongly hold up our love and appreciation for the rest of us.
So learn to love them, scrub them, moisturize them, message them, paint them wild colours, anything that will make you love them more. Most of all remember to appreciate them for all they've done for you.
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« on: December 21, 2011, 09:40:00 AM »
I've been feeling worried, and doubtful today, so I thought instead of ignoring it. I'd just vent it.
I've heard so many times that you can't attract an ex back, because LOA can't effect people's free will. and I guess I feel like maybe i'm just in denial, and I just need to get over it, find someone else. And I know him, I know that even if he wants me, he'd be completely shut off to the idea of reconnecting, and i'm just wondering, could I even attract someone back who that shut off from it? And then sometimes I just feel like, why would he even want me back? A few days ago I was feeling great, and like I could feel him wanting me, but now i'm just hit a brick wall, and I can only go by what he said.
I guess I'm just stuck thinking now, Can I even attract him back? Can I attract the relationship I want with him? Could I really attract everything I want? And sometimes it just feels silly for even thinking that. But, I feel like, when I hear people talking about the 'rules' and 'limits' and that just seems silly, it seems silly that a natural force would have rules and limits, judging from what I know about the LOA, the only limits are the ones YOU put on it.
In the overall scheme of things, the break up has been good for me. I've made several self discoveries, I recently realized how disconnected from my body I am, which I am working on fixing. I've been doing EFT.
A few days ago a friend mentioned how corn was really called "Maize" which reminded me of one of me and my love's biggest inside jokes, which kind of left me feeling nostalgic and missing him.
I feel better after typing all that out. Thanks to anyone who reads or comments.
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« on: December 14, 2011, 08:07:35 AM »
This might seem odd, but i'd like to keep my parents and my love from accidentally meeting or something. My parents really like him, and they think we're at least friends. But my love has said things are over definitively, and that we aren't even friends.
What i'm scared of, is they'll run into each other, and he'll mention it to them. I've heard a lot of manifesting is feeling it now, so I think my parents being informed that things are well, pretty awful between us will hurt my cause.
Can anybody think of some affirmations, or way to clear my mind to prevent this from happening, i'm scared I might manifest it by accident.
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« on: December 08, 2011, 06:27:07 AM »
Hey everyone, I thought of something to help manifest our relationships during the holidays. The idea is to get a card, and write it like it's from the person you are wanting to attract, write a cute little message from them to you, then put it in an envelope with your name on the front. I thought it might be a cute exercise to help with manifesting. 
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« on: November 27, 2011, 02:06:01 PM »
I've posted a few times about my ex, and I think I keep sabotaging myself. We broke up on October 30th, and a week after that we started talking again, and tried to work it out, but then things just crashed and suddenly he was all bitter, and told me we weren't friends anymore. So we stopped talking, and then a day later he emailed me, twice asking me where I was, and that I should visit him. I ignored them, but a week later I caved and emailed him, and things got nasty. Eventually we started talking on the phone, I cried, and he was kind of a dick, but after awhile we discussed getting back together, and we were on friendly terms, we agreed to talk about it the next day, and he told me how he was going to write me a letter for Christmas, and then the conversation got a bit naughty. I was happy because I thought I got another chance, but then the next day he was cold, and started being mean, telling me he was jerking me around, because it was fun, and he was bored. So we fought, and that was the end of it. He texted me later saying this version of goodnight that we always used to show affection, and I told him to stop it, so he just keep texting it over and over. I told him that I hated it when he did that because it made me feel like things were good between us, and he said "That's a bad guess. Or is it?" I'm just so confused. I noticed today I focused a lot on how it probably wasn't going to work, and all his negative behaviors, and started worrying, so I think I sabotaged myself there. I guess I just don't know if I should keep trying, or if it's hopeless. I'm so confused, once upon a time he really loved me, and wanted to be with me forever. I guess I need advice on the situation, and advice on getting into the mindset of us having a relationship that we're both happy with. Or I don't know.  I feel lost.
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