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Law of Attraction for Relationship / useful article:)

« on: March 23, 2013, 04:08:52 PM »

Hi guys,as a lot of members here are trying to attract their ex back(someone specific)i have found an article about this issue..although it is not something new.but some times we want some thing to make us remember that we are the creator of our life:)

Why Many Say Its Impossible:

Is it possible to use the law of attraction to attract your ex back without unknowingly misapplying it to work against you? How does one use the law of attraction to attract their ex back without violating the notion of free will? Many state it's not possible to do so without turning the law of attraction against you to bring about more "don't-wants". After all, the law of attraction tells us it's the thoughts we focus upon with emotion that we create our lives with. This notion of free will is an essential implication of the law of attraction since we are able to freely choose the thoughts we hold to attract that which best coincides with it.

In the heat of emotion, with the drama and turmoil in your relationship, it's hard to see beyond the problem to an effective solution to attracting your ex back. Where does one begin? It's easy to become frustrated as impatience builds. You can't help but ask yourself: "Why isn't the law of attraction working in my life as I've envisioned it? Why haven't I attracted my ex back yet? What am I not getting?"
Before you read further, let me reassure you - contrary to the many naysayers out there - it is possible to attract your ex back with the law of attraction. The key is knowing how to properly apply it...

Attract Your Ex Back with the Law of Attraction - A Fatal Misunderstanding:

Among those who are trying to attract their ex back, I see many common misunderstandings of the law of attraction as they pertain to relationships. Since your ex's departure I'm sure it's hard to see beyond the pain of their absence. This is the overwhelming issue at hand right now. The immediate remedy you seek is to figure out what can be done to attract your ex back. Before we go further, allow me to inform you it's these emotions that are blinding you from understanding the true problem to begin realizing an effective solution.

So having said this, what is standing in the way of your attempts to attract your ex back with the law of attraction? It's your misunderstanding of the problems and an inability to see the solution.

As you well know, the law of attraction states it's the thought vibrations you send out into the world that are responsible for what you have in your life. To effectively attract your ex back with the law of attraction, you must begin changing your thought vibrations. Failing to accept yourself as the ultimate causal explanation for what you've attracted into your relationship completely flies in the face of the law of attraction.

You see, ultimately the only real problem isn't what is going on in your relationship, but your perceptions and feelings about them. After all, this is what you've utilized to attract your ex's departure right? The solution then, to begin attracting your ex back, is to changing those perceptions.
Just what sort of perceptions might you need to change? Well, for example, this might mean asking yourself if you've been using your relationship as a source of happiness and love since love and happiness flow from within not from without right? As the law of attraction reminds us: affect is within and cause is without. Are you going to continue burdening your partner with the job of making you feel happy and loved and hold them out of your life? Or, are you willing to discover yourself as complete and whole by yourself and attract them back to you? Is your partner's departure the problem or is it your unrealistic evaluation of them as a source of love and happiness?

Attract Ex Back with the Law of Attraction - You Are Your Life's Creator!

Effectively using the law of attraction to attract your ex back means focusing on yourself not them. This means letting go of your desire to avoid responsibility and seek to discover yourself as the ultimate causal explanation for your life. With an acceptance of responsibility, your role in the relationship is clear. The solutions you seek to utilize to attract your ex back are then not far behind. Let me reassure you, the work is worth it. Just beyond the emotions overwhelming you and the limiting beliefs standing in your way are the solutions you seek. They are available for those who are willing to grow tall enough to claim them. Therefore, your choices are this: Continue doing what isn't working, accept what is, or make a commitment to change things.

Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/1156341

Feedback And Suggestions / To all members of our lovely forum.important!

« on: March 21, 2013, 02:55:25 PM »

Hi all...
can i ask you something important and serious?because of existence of TROLLS here,please don't say LOA doesn't work for me/i have applied it for years and years and still have not seen any results/LOA works for some people/i am tired of using techniques,etc...
LAW OF ATTRACTION is a LAW and a LAW never work ELECTIVE.OK?like law of gravity!can we say law of gravity work for some people and doesn't work for others?that's funny.OK?LAW OF ATTRACTION doesn't love some people more than the others.if some people have seen results so fast and the others have not seen any results yet,it is not because LAW OF ATTRACTION doesn't work for some people..it has just a simple reason..they could apply it CORRECTLY!!that's it...
i know and understand when we want something for so long and have not seen meaningful results,the easiest way is to say:law of attraction doesn't work cause i have applied it for years,so it is better to give up!!cause this happened for me before...when i was trying to attract my previous ex(who i had joined this forum to attract him)just 3 years ago,i thought i had LET GO and wondered why i could not attract him after 2 years?!!BUT now i know LAW OF ATTRACTION was working for me all the time but i didn't believe...i thought myself i had let go.but i was wrong.cause i was not happy without him.cause deep in my mind i was attached to the whole stuffs...and if someone asked me Ava why you could not attract him back?i said i don't know,i have applied all the loa stuffs,but i didn't see any results!!!!!!and the funny part is,when i gave up on him and fell in love with someone else,every time i saw him(previous ex)on messenger and sent him pm,he replied instantly!!!!!and once after 2 months of breaking up with my current guy,i sent him(previous ex)a text,he instantly replied and we exchanged texts!!!!!this was that yesterday person who replied my text so late or didn't reply and i thought about it for hours and days and said myself why law of attraction doesn't work for me!!
so you see?!!!!i was completely detached of the outcome,cause the whole thing didn't bother me any more!!!!
so,please don't get me wrong..i don't say:please don't write negative stuffs..cause i know we are human and it is so natural we feel down sometimes and need others advice and sympathy.me included sometimes want to write here i feel down today,what can i do?so it is OK...we are all here to help each other and have each other here and we are in a same journey...but what i am saying right now is:PLEASE DON'T SAY LAW OF ATTRACTION DOESN'T WORK FOR ME.I HAVE APPLIED IT FOR YEARS AND YEARS AND I HAVE NOT SEEN ANY RESULT!!!i am so sure that people who have not seen results is because of some blocks in their mind,not because of law of attraction...these days we see TROLLS here..and all they want to hear is:LAW OF ATTRACTION IS A BULLSHIT AND IT DOESN'T WORK!!!!!!
so please my dear friends don't let trolls ABUSE your temporary low mood and break your belief in this wonderful LAW OF ATTRACTION!
THANK YOU

Law of Attraction Lounge / the power of words!!!

« on: February 01, 2013, 02:22:08 PM »

Hi guys!! i want to share with you an interesting event that happened to me yesterday!!and i want to tell you HOW POWERFUL OUR WORDS ARE!!
I work as a psychologist at a school.yesterday when i was talking to one of my friends at school,she told me hey Ava did you know when you laugh you really look like Marjane G(an actress in our country).i told her oh,really?i didn't know and then we laughed together.(we both just had seen her in T.V and NEVER seen her personally)she lives in another city and we all just had seen her in T.V!!!guys,an hour later,the manager of school told us please prepare students!we asked him for what?and he said the actress Marjane G is coming to our city and wants to visit our school and our students!!!!! OH MY GOD!!!!!!my friends and I were shocked and couldn't believe that how fast our words turns to reality!!!!!an hour later she came to our school and we told her the story and she laughed!!!!i couldn't believe that she was there!!we took picture with her!!!and when she went,i was in shock that OUR WORDS HAVE AMAZING POWER.SO WATCH YOUR THOUGHTS AND YOUR WORDS.THEY HAVE REALLY VIBRATION

How to Use Law of Attraction / the law of detachment

« on: January 27, 2013, 09:36:33 PM »

Hi friends,i thought this would be useful for all of you:

Have you ever heard of the Law of Detachment?

Well, I'm sure you have experienced it!

Have you ever liked someone and this guy/gal was all you could think about?

When after all of your energy, he/she never really seemed to feel the same way about you.

Then you finally get the hint, not to waste anymore time and let the idea of that great relationship go...and then all of the sudden he/she starts seeking you out, wanting your attention and a relationship with you!

Or you had a client that you just knew was going to move to the next level and you focused your energy on talking about what you thought this person would do and when...and he did nothing.
The Law of Detachment says that the way to acquire what you want is to let go of your attachment. By letting go, we are not letting go of our intention to manifest it.

How Do We Apply It?
Start with moving through your day with detached sense of being. This means that when problems arise, you don't "lose your cool" because you know that a solution will present itself.

If you stand firm in your detachment, you won't feel that you have force it or push toward a solution, it will happen on it's own time. You in turn can stay open to possibilities with the trust that all is in perfect order.

1. Practice detached interactions.

2. Accept things don't always go as planned.

3. Be open to solutions instead of wallowing in the problem.

The great thing about the Law of Detachment is that it works well with the Law of Attraction. In order for you to attract what you want, you must be detached to the outcome.
What Happens If I'm Attached?

When you are attached, you vibrate fear, doubt and need. You are attracting more fear, doubt and need, since we know the Law of Attraction says, "like attracts like." You are approaching your desire from a position of worry.

What is worry?

It is planning to fail.

Your mind is creating all these failure scenarios. You think them over and over. It creates this negative downward spiral.

When you're attached to an outcome you're giving away your personal power. When you allow things outside yourself to bring you satisfaction or joy, you're giving over control to something or someone else. You're then powerless.
In the above examples, with a relationship you're riding the emotional roller coaster, sometimes up and sometimes down. When they're paying attention to you, the coaster is headed up, we feel great, all is well in the world...and headed on the downside when they're not paying attention to you, and we feel sad, frustrated and start to worry.

Or in the case of the client , we feel great the client is moving forward and feel uncertain of ourselves when the client doesn't.

We can't allow ourselves to be emotionally attached!
So, How Do I Become Detached?

Have you heard the saying, "Let go and let God"? This is the absolute trust and faith that you have that God, the universe, the source provides all things. You are trusting that there is enough, that you deserve all great things coming to you.

Law of Detachment means that whatever you seek has no power over you, you are in control.

So many people think to get something that they must hang on for their life....but the truth is, it's the letting go, that brings it to you. So please don't rush to grab those palladium wedding bands,take things slow and let the guy/gal come to you. However you can apply this to any life situation.
http://www.lawofattraction123.com/law-of-detachment.html

Law of Attraction for Relationship / he blocked me...

« on: December 02, 2012, 03:24:19 PM »

after 3 months of break up,yesterday he blocked me on fb......

i can't believe...how can i be positive in this situation?is there a way for me?i think blocking is the last step and he doesn't think of getting back to me any more.....what can i do?

Success Stories / a different kind of success story!!!!!!

« on: May 22, 2012, 11:35:25 PM »

Hi my dear friends.most of you know me.yeah i am Ava,a girl who joined this forum more than a year...and like many of you wanted to attract my ex back..all of my friends know that where i am coming...i tried a lot to attract him back..i tried visualization,affirmations,eft,meditation,vision board,relaxation,writing my goal,dream about it,magical creation box,having fun,seeing signs,active faith,hoponopono,remote seduction,etc.........i can't say nothing happened.cause sometimes i felt that i am so close and saw something in the real world...yes he texted me sometimes and we chatted sometimes and he came to my exhibition 4 months ago,but all of the results were temporary!!!he came close to me and then he disappeared again...i don't know why,may be i could not let it all go completely...when i joined this forum i promised myself that one day i will post my success story...but i could not do that...when i read some of my friends success story i told myself,if they could do that,i can do it too...but for me nothing happened and he didn't come back to me...he had left me more than 2 years ago and in these 2 years i could not have dates with others..cause i didn't want to make the universe confused.but since 3 months ago i had started to date others.that was not something special but could help me to switch my attention away from my ex...i wanted to be with him.the first date was on my birthday and i went out with a guy,while i was so desperate that my ex had forgotten my birthday...anyway i didn't want to see that guy again cause i didn't like his personality... i wanted my ex back so seriously...after that i started to talk to another guy.about 1 month ago.he loved me but i just liked him...for me he was just a friend but he loved me...still i was thinking about my ex and i checked if i had a missed call from him or not!!!!i can't deny that still i love him,yeah he was the one who i wanted to be with him for the rest of my life.he was the one who taught me what love is...still when i think about him and his voice my heart wants to fly away BUT HE IS ENDED FOR ME FOREVER...FOREVER....that was so difficult for me to say these words...still my eyes get wet,but what can i do?i have found someone special.someone who loves me and i think i am falling in love with him.he understands me.he is handsome.he is smart.he knows what i want before i say anything.he says i love you so much.you are the one Ava,you are the best...we spend a lot of good times with each other.i am happy when i am with him and i talk to him.i love his voice.he is so supportive.he doesn't make me nervous.he makes me feel good.he loves me unconditionally and it doesn't need to beg and pray to receive just one text message from him...WOW...you know,he had proposed me last year,but i didn't accept him because i wanted to attract my ex back.but he appeared in my life again(about 3 weeks ago)and he proposed me again and this time i accepted and i am grateful for having him in my life....guys i could not attract my ex back.but i have someone special in my life now.i don't know why i could not attract him back?i could not write my success story about my ex here.but may be this is a different kind of success story...i don't think about my ex anymore.i don't check him at all.i don't send him text messages and wait for his reply for hours...i have a real person in my life who loves me and thinks about me second by second and for the first time after 2 years and 8 months i feel that i am alive again....

Law of Attraction Lounge / my new year!

« on: March 18, 2012, 06:41:02 PM »

Hi all my friends...
2 days is remained to us Persians NEW YEAR(1391)...when new year is coming everyone in our country clean their house,buy new clothes,new shoes,etc...they celebrate the new year before April and April is very very important for us Persians.cause we believe in April the nature has a new birth and everything around us change...you see fresh leaves on the trees.fresh water in the river,fresh flowers everywhere.you can smell it everywhere,birds sing,you can see butterflies everywhere...so everything change in our new year!!my mother is cleaning the house very seriously...but for me something is different from previous years.i am cleaning my MIND from previous way of thinking.....
when i joined this forum last year,my goal was to attract my ex back and the first thread i read was Dhaynes's thread about attracting her ex back.step by step i followed the thread till i read her success story(i guess in May),i was very happy for her and still i am happy for her success.she is very kind and one of my best friends....the next was Katie's story and i can't forget our worry about her suicide and our daily prayers for her.i can't forget everyone's help for her.we didn't know each other but all of us prayed for her and she became alive again and day by day she became stronger and stronger till she posted her great success story...WOWWW.no one could imagine her success story,but she proved that EVERYTHING IS POSSIBLE....after that story many people regained their lost hope and those who had given up,tried one more time...THANK YOU KATIE...
After her success i thought about collective prayers and i started the thread(to every one who wants their love/ex back/part 2)and everyone joined it...that was amazing,when i meditated every night for my forum friends,the tears of joy came running down of my face.and i imagined the name of the members and those who had a profile picture i imagined their face too like Sneha,Katie,Bal....when i started the thread i noticed the little successes of others,specially Sneha,believing love and giggles...and soon we read giggles and priestess's success story!wow,that was amazing!i was very happy,cause i knew our mind can support each other and when it is about energy,physical distance doesn't have any meaning!!
those days Shawn(2thetop) helped me much and i can't forget his support.he was there for me all the time.i mean all the time....he gave me hope,believe,support...till October that i had a great success...my successes began with seeing my guy 3 times accidentally within just 3 weeks,after 1 year of no contact and continued with text messages and his presence in my painting exhibition and a phone call that lasted more than 30 minutes and i want to thank you to every one,every one and although i am not in contact with my guy any more,but i am grateful for those sweet memories and all of you had a great role in my life...thank you Shawn,angel-star,believing love,Bal,Schenderson.......
i remember once,Bal told me:Ava,he will be there in your exhibition(4months before my exhibition),cause you want it! and once my guy told me Darling everything will be alright and Katie told me that was the universe's words came from your guy's mouth.
and still i think about it.....
when Mariposa started her wonderful thread,i remember i had written my desire in her thread(I WANT TO BE WITH MY GUY BEFORE PERSIANS NEW YEAR)! it didn't happen,but i learned that we should not set a deadline for our desire cause we don't know when and how.this is not our job.this is the universe's job!
At the end of our old year and at the beginning of the new year i just wanted to say what i have learned from you and how much i am grateful for having all of you beside me.congratulations again and again and again for those who have attracted their desires.be happy and grateful for manifesting your desires.
And i wanted to say something to my love who is not with me now physically,but is in my heart:
My dear,my love,you know how much you mean to me.the new year is coming and everything is changing around us.do you see the birds?the butterflies?do you remember that beautiful flower you gave to me in that special spring?do you remember when we walked by the sea and i laid my head on your shoulder?you said in my ear:I LOVE YOU...BE MY LOVE FOREVER AND NEVER FORGET ME,and i said:i will love you and i won't forget you till i die...do you remember you told me DO YOU MARRY ME AVA?and i said:YES I MARRY YOU....do you remember those great time laughing with each other?do you remember my paintings i had paint for you?do you still have the watch i had given you for your sweet birthday?how much we laughed...
do you feel my energy and my love that i have sent to you during these 2 years?do you feel me honey?!!another year is coming and i want a magic...and i know the magic is within me and i should just LET IT HAPPEN....I PROMISE YOU I WILL MAKE IT HAPPEN.
do you remember once you told me Ava you are something special but you don't know it?!!may be i didn't know it.yes I AM SOMETHING SPECIAL,I AM LOVE,I AM ABUNDANCE,I AM MAGIC,I AM HAPPINESS,I AM YOU,WE ARE TOGETHERNESS HONEY...
you are safe in my heart and NO ONE in this world could get your place in my heart and my mind and AT THE BEGINNING OF THE NEW YEAR I AM CLEANING MY ROOM AND MY HEART AND MY MIND FROM PAIN AND SUFFER TO MAKE A SPACE FOR YOUR PRESENCE IN MY LIFE.
WELCOME HONEY....

How to Use Law of Attraction / Quantum physics & law of attraction!

« on: February 18, 2012, 02:53:42 PM »

guys,please read this article.it can help you.it is long,but it is useful:
http://www.mindbridge-loa.com/Law-of-Attraction-Quantum-Physics-for-beginners.html
This is the Law of Attraction Quantum Physics guide for beginners. For the beginning student, or for one curious about The Secret, or the Law of Attraction: hold on to your horses because this can be an incredible journey!

Now, you get to decide whether to take the gentle route along the carriage path, or whether you want to climb straight up through the labyrinthine trail. I work with children, and can tell you that they have a natural connection to the Law of Attraction. When a child looks up and sees something they want, they naturally claim it. A 3 year old I work with says, "Hey, Nancy, there's my car!" This is quite natural and at first was disconcerting to me as I was looking for his father's car. But, he wasn't seeing his father's car, he was looking at his brand new, shiny, big wheel pickup truck! He does it every time he sees a black, new, pickup truck. This ownership, in the present time, his admiration, joy, and commitment to this truck, is the Law of Attraction in a nutshell. -- That's the carriage trail. There's more to it of course.

We,also train people to use simple affirmations. Whenever a member of the family is sick, or hurting, we all recite, "I am, whole and perfect. I am, strong and powerful. I am, happy, harmonious, healthy, wealthy and wise." This makes you feel instantly better because it is using Law of Attraction Quantum Physics. What you are doing is sending instructions to your unconscious to heal you, or make you feel better. Your unconscious has control over your immune system and your hormonal and endocrine system which raises your vibrational rate which puts you in sinc with other elements with that higher vibrational rate, raising you above those which are sick. It knows how to make you feel better fast if you just send that instruction.

Thoughts become things. This is the Law of Attraction Quantum Physics rule for all of us.

Another way of putting it is that whatever you think about, comes about.
Energy flows where attention goes.
You already have experience with this. You might not have realized that it is a law of the universe as relentless and powerful as the law of gravity. The old expression, "Be careful what you ask for because you might just get it" is a result of the Law of Attraction. The phenomenon of receiving a phone call or accidentally running into someone you have just been thinking about is another example of the Law of Attraction Quantum Physics in action.

When we are concentrating on a project, or working toward a goal, we will find the resource, the book or the person who can help us move forward in our pursuit. Have you had this happen to you?

If our hearts are set on going to a particular conference, or visiting an old friend in another town when we don't have the resources, and we believe so much in this that we can see ourselves there, things will shift. We will discover a way to get a cheap airfare, or the bus company will offer a great round trip package, or there will be a new hotel opening with affordable rates for just the week of the conference.

I can't say what it will be that will enable you to go to the conference, but something will happen that would seem illogical and magical if we thought about it ahead of time. However, when it happens, we think of it as "good luck." Yet, it is really the Law of Attraction Quantum Physics effect. Bob Proctor's advice would be to book your flight. After that, he says, inspiration will guide you. Business coaches sometimes say, "take the leap and build your wings on the way down."

You might have experienced making a list of what you want in an apartment, or a house, or a partner. Sometimes we put specific personal preferences like wall sconces or a view of a garden, or a partner who wears glasses and likes to read science fiction. And then, you find the exact house or apartment, or a partner who fits the most important requests and the most unusual little details such as the wall sconces or the glasses. Have you had that experience? This was the Law of Attraction Quantum Physics at work.
The Quick Version of Manifesting using the Law of Attraction:

1. Picture what you want when you can be in a quiet and uninterrupted state. Use all your senses and all your imagination to put yourself into that dream now. Be in the house or be in the car or be in the job. Feel the feelings. Turn it into a full movie with color and sound.

2. Ask for it by picturing how much fun it you are having. Do not "need it" or start to argue with yourself about whether or not you deserve it. If you can picture it, you can have it. But, if you "need it" then you will just generate more need. Picture yourself in the car or house and make a mental movie of it. The more active, the more senses you inspire, the shorter the time will be to your successful manifestation.

3; Receive it. Believe that it is yours now. Part of this is acceptance. Be willing to accept whatever the Universe gives you. If you picture a new Panoz, don't attach to it. Practice acceptance of the present moment. If you are offered a used Porshe, accept it. Accept 100% responsibility for everything. Finally, practice defenselessness. When you can give up the need to defend yourself, you will be invincible. Ho'oponopono helps with all this.

4. Prepare for adversity. The bigger the dream, the more adversity will be needed to prepare you -- to make you a bigger person. You will have to show persistence.

5. Act on inspiration. The Universe will send you here or there and will bring opportunities into your life that will send you in the direction of success. As Mike Dooley says, you just need to keep pitching the ball so that the Universe can hit a home run for you.

This is Law of Attraction Quantum Physics in action. Enjoy. Stay positive. Don't entertain any doubts.
Avoid Negatives When Visualizing or Setting Goals:
The Law of Attraction Quantum Physics effect works for good things, and it also works for the other. As James Ray says in the movie, "Your wish is my command." When you are thinking, "I'm going to be late for work... I'm going to be late for work," and feeling the dread or the fear, there is nothing that is going to keep you from being late for work. This is Law of Attraction Quantum Physics at work. On that day, even if you leave early, there will be a traffic jam or construction or a water main break. If you're thinking, "He's never going to pay me back" or "This is too good to be true" he won't and it is. So, as the old adage goes, "Be careful what you think." This is the Law of Attraction Quantum Physics for Beginners.

We're going to get a little technical here, but hang in there to learn more about the Law of Attraction Quantum Physics effect with us. We will make it clear by the end of the thought.

Your unconscious can not process negatives. For example, when you're going out to manifest a car. "I want a blue car" is a positive statement. "I don't want a red car" contains a negative in it. Your unconscious can only process pictures. This is Law of Attraction Quantum Physics. If you're picturing {no} red car, the best deal you'll find will be a red car. This also works for finances. If you're thinking {get out of} debt. Debt is what you'll get because debt is what you're picturing. Think instead of wealth and abundance and picture your changed lifestyle as if it is your present reality.

Whether this is believable to you or not, do yourself a favor and only think about or picture about what you want; what brings you pleasure and what makes you smile rather than the things that make you unhappy, frustrated or fearful. This is also the Law of Attraction Quantum Physics for Beginners.

Similar vibrations attract similar vibrations. If you have the vibrational rate of a '95 Tercel, that's what you'll get. If, on the other hand, you have the vibrational rate of a 2009 Panoz, that's what will be in your life. The second is a faster vibration. Anthony Robbins is the guru of using NLP to increase your vibrational rate.

You have heard that we only use about 5% of our brain power? In terms of the Law of Attraction, we think we know how thoughts are manifested. We consciously think of a wish or dream, and feel the feelings of already having it. That sends a message to our unconscious (-- millions of times more powerful than our conscious brain) which prepares the energetic manifestation and transmits it to the creative source, the universe, God, or Jesus. Or as Wallace Wattles says, There is a thinking stuff from which all things are made and which, in it original state, permeates, penetrates, and fills the inter spaces of the universe. This creative energy is set in motion whenever we have an emotionally charged thought, good or bad, or dream whether good or bad.
It Works for Nature....
That may seem to be a lot to bite off as they say. Don't click off yet. It will get easier. You have seen grass grow and flowers grow and blossom. Whether or not you are a gardener, you have seen trees lose their leaves in the fall and then fill out again the following summer.

How do they know how to do that? The Houdenosaunee (known as the Iroquois to westerners) would say they follow their natural law. Depending on the size of the tree, we are talking about hundreds or thousands of cells that all follow their law without dissent or disorder. Are there cop-cells?

Where do they get their energy and their nourishment?

Again, any indigenous people would say from Mother Earth. Yet, farmers in the Mid-West spend millions on chemical fertilizers. The grasses of the Great Plains did fine for generations without crop rotation or chemical fertilizer, and the topsoil was at such a depth that has lasted hundreds of years since then in spite of soil erosion and plowing.

How did that happen? This is the Law of Attraction Quantum Physics for Beginners.

The earth continues to rotate without human intervention, and the tides come in and go out without human intervention or personal income. If all natural life finds the nourishment and the energy to do what it needs to do, why is it so difficult for humans?

Because we make it so. Oh, do you think that God put us here to "know, love and serve Him in this world" and that God wants us to struggle, but His mysteries are more than we can fathom --? Hogwash.

Didn't Jesus say, "Whatever you ask the Father in my name, it will be given to you." This is the Law of Attraction Quantum Physics. We are given everything we ask for.

He didn't say, "If you go out and get a good job...." He didn't say, "First go out and get an education..." He didn't even say that if you eat fish on Fridays and honor the Sabbath....

He simply said, "Whatever you ask the Father in my name, it will be given to you." And, that was a promise.

How to Use Law of Attraction / Allowing v.s resisting!

« on: February 16, 2012, 03:46:21 PM »

i found this useful article.please read it:
http://www.attractionsaga.com/lawofattraction-allowing.html
The law of attraction is always working perfectly. It is law. But are you doing your part? I make these statements and questions repeatedly throughout this site in order to remind people that you have the power. Unfortunately, many people don’t make the best of the law of attraction because they don’t understand the law of allowing (also called the art of allowing).

Resistance…the only thing that can keep you apart from what you want.

If you have been holding a desire for a very long time without it manifesting in your life, you have resistance to your desire that is keeping you from allowing it. Most people frown when I say they are not allowing the law of attraction to bring forth manifestations because they are sure that they wouldn’t do anything to hold back something that they want so bad. I agree to a certain extent—nobody would intentionally do anything to resist their desires, but the law of attraction does not factor in your intent.

If your desires just don’t seem to come to you (or you find that you’re working like a slave to see the tiniest manifestations) it is time for you to learn the law of allowing. Your experience with delayed or non-existent manifestations is evidence that your thoughts, feelings, and beliefs are not in alignment with what you want and what your Inner Being has already become. The good news is that you can start “cleaning up” the resistance and allowing your ideal life to unfold.

So, What Is Resistance?

You may still not believe that you are the person holding you away from what you want, so I want to give a real world example to help you understand and recognize resistance. Although this specific example may not apply to you, you’ll be able to get the gist of the concept.

Sally is 38 and she desperately wants to get married. She works very hard to meet men and to get them to love her. She’s had one failed relationship after another, but she doesn’t give up. She goes to church every Sunday hoping that someone will take an interest, joins every online dating site, flirts passively with single guys at work, and asks all of her friends to pair her up with someone. Sally thinks all the time about how much she wants to be married. To cope with the rejection and deal with her feelings about being unmarried as she approached 40, she writes about her dating dilemmas in her journal at night. Sally’s single friends really understand her dilemma, so they talk about it on the phone at night and post about it in online message boards.

Let’s define the resistance in the above scenario. What is Sally thinking when she’s approaching men and going overboard to make herself available, how is she feeling? Is she having fun with dating? Is she thinking about how joyful it is to be on this beautiful Earth, meeting all different types of men, getting to know them, sharing information about how wonderful she is? Probably not. In fact, potential husbands would flock to Sally if she was in this mindset.

Sally’s actions don’t feel good to her. She doesn’t enjoy pushing herself on men, but she does it because she feels that she has to do it if she wants to get married. And if you feel bad or discouraged, you are having bad or discouraging thoughts. And if you’re having bad or discouraging thoughts around a situation, you are not allowing law of attraction to yield a good or encouraging outcome.

Now let’s look at what else Sally is doing wrong. She’s feeling anxious about being unmarried and she’s thinking about how unfortunate this is for a woman who is approaching 40. She may even be thinking of what it will be like to be a lonely, old lady in a few decades. She may be feeling jealous of others who have gotten married. When she’s on a date, she may be thinking that this guy is likely afraid of commitment just like all the others. Every anxious, jealous, self-defeating thought is a resistant thought. Those thoughts will make Sally feel bad, thus she will be a vibrational match to more of what feels bad. In other words, the law of attraction responds to our thoughts and our feelings/emotions are indicators of what we are attracting through those thoughts.

But wait..... there is more that Sally is doing wrong. Journaling, talking with girlfriends, and posting on message boards about what makes her unhappy... all resistant behaviors. These are just more ways of remaining tuned in to the problem, which means that you are not allowing the desired solution. Like the rest of us, Sally is NOT intentionally resisting what she wants. But she is resisting nonetheless.

Cleaning Up Resistance

In order to allow your desires to flow into your life, you must clean up your resistant thoughts and any behaviors that breed those thoughts. At first, it will be extremely difficult for you to change how you think about a situation that you have a great deal of resistance to. Because those disallowing thoughts have been your dominant thoughts for so long, they will seem to keep popping back into your head any time you think about that situation. Why? Because law of attraction begins sending more thoughts to match any thought that you hold for at least 17 seconds. That's right.... just 17 seconds. So, imagine what is happening when you've been thinking a certain way for years. In such a case, that thought has become a belief. And the law of attraction always sends you plenty of thoughts and circumstances to match the beliefs that you hold. Nonetheless, there is an easy solution with the law of allowing.

You do NOT have to think positive thoughts about whatever it is that bothers you. You just have to stop thinking negative thoughts about it. If you’ve been on an exhausting, lifelong quest for money, marriage, or healing from an illness; you will have a hard time cleaning up what you think and feel about that. So, try giving your attention to something else. The Universe already knows what you want, so you don’t need to keep focusing on it in order for the desire to unfold. You’ve asked. And it is given. Now focus on anything that you love or appreciate so that you are a vibrational match to what you desire.

And finally… be on the lookout for mini-manifestations. If your desire is great wealth, don’t overlook it when you find $20.00 on the floor in the grocery store. Focus on it. Write about it in your journal. Tell everyone you know. Know that the law of attraction is working perfectly and that the Universe is letting you know that you are on the right course.

Your ideal life experiences will show up faster and easier if you will simply allow it by giving the majority of your attention to whatever feels great. This is the art of allowing.

How to Use Law of Attraction / Love and relationship affirmations

« on: February 10, 2012, 10:36:46 PM »

Guys,i hope these affirmations could be useful for you all
(http://www.1lovespirit.com/love-affirmations-relationship-affirmations.html)
My partner and I are very much in love with each other.

The Holy God perfectly aligns my partner and I physically, sexually, emotionally and intellectually.

I draw love and romance into my life and I accept it now.

My partner is loyal to me.

I am magnetic and irresistible to my partner.

I radiate pure, unconditional love towards my partner.

From time to time I ask my husband, "How can I love you more?"

I choose to see my husband clearly with the eyes of love and compassion, I love what I see.

Love happens! I release the desperate need for love. I release the need for my partner to approve of me. I allow love to find me easily and effortlessly.

Love is all around me. I feel everywhere. Joy fills my entire world.

I was born to learn to love myself more, and to share that love with people around me.

My partner is the love of my life and we adore each other.

I rejoice in the love I encounter everyday.

I now deserve love, romance, and joy--and all the blessings that life has to offer me.

Love is all there is!

Only love is real.

I radiate pure, unconditional love towards my partner.

I am safe in all my relationships. I am always treated well.

Long-lasting, loving relationships brighten my life.

I am very grateful for all the love in my life. I find it everywhere.

I am surrounded by love. All is well.

My heart is open to love. I speak loving words to my spouse.

I have a wonderful partner, and we are both happy and at peace.

I come from the loving space of my heart, and I know that love opens new possibilities.

There is no problem so big or so small, that it cannot be solved with love.

There is no problem so big or so small, that it cannot be solved by Jesus.

Deep at the center of my being is an infinite well of love. Holy God dwells in me.

I am in a joyous intimate relationship with a person who truly loves me.

My relationships are mirrors that show me myself.

I am now learning from all my relationships.

I laugh with my husband more and more each day.

My relationships are helping me to heal and love myself.

I am strong, vulnerable, and loving in my relationships.

I deserve love and sexual pleasure.

All is well in my marriage. Really.

I am now ready to accept a happy, fulfilling relationship.

I am now ready for my relationships to work.

I love myself and I naturally attract loving relationships into my life.

I am now attracting exactly the kind of relationship I want.

I am now divinely irresistible to my perfect mate.

All difficulties between me and ________ are now being healed.

The more I love myself, the more I love ___________.

I love ____________ and____________ loves me.

All of the changes in my marriage and life are positive. I am safe.

I am open to receiving love and to extending it.

I interact with my husband positively and joyfully more and more each day.

I/We remain focused on the big picture in our marriage.

Giving my husband unconditional love makes me feel energized.

I enjoy performing small acts of kindness for my husband. I love to see joy on his face.

I always keep a sense of humor about things in my marriage.

I am always centered and in present moment in my life and marriage.

I accept, respect, and enjoy our differences. Differences add interest and variety to my marriage.

I look for ways to contribute to my partner's growth and happiness. I support my partner in their goals unselfishly, knowing that it will make them happy.

I respect what my partner has to say. I listen to my partner with genuine interest. I offer empathy when appropriate.

I desire love, so I give my partner love.
I desire respect, so I give my partner respect.
I desire cooperation, so I give my partner cooperation.
I desire compassion, so I give my partner compassion.
I desire control, so I give my partner control!

Success Stories / another success story about ex back!

« on: January 27, 2012, 12:12:46 AM »

Hi guys,i know you all want to hear success stories about getting an ex back.i found this success story on this site(http://exboyfriendhelp.com/forum/topic.php?id=4217). alhough it is less related to LOA but i think it is showing the power of letting go and focusing on yourself.it is written by HeidiSmith.
Hi girls. 6 months ago i was looking on this site for help and guidance. My boyfriend of 3 years left me after an argument I initiated. I was so shocked and heartbroken I begged and pleaded. Nothing was working. I couldn't eat but man I could sleep! I am someone who finds it very hard to sleep at night but I was a sleep by 9 everynight. I wished I would never wake up, I was only ever happy in my sleep. I looked forward to bedtime and would count down every hour. I tried nc from him and lasted two days!! I "HAD" to speak to him. I thought I would try and be like the girl he fell in love with and I'd try nd make him jealous by telling him how I'm going out clubbing (I was really at home crying lol) It was then I realised none of this is working. It's been a month and he is getting more and more distant every week. I had enough I was all out of tears, all out of ideas. I told him I agreed with the break up. We are not right for eachother and that I needed time to myself. He agreed but seemed quite pissed at the idea of it.

The first week was the hardest. I had withdrawal symptoms. Like he was my drug. Lol. I'd want to write to him just to write 'hey I miss you' but I didn't. I would have looked so needy. He wrote to me 3 weeks in asking if I'm ok. But I ignored. And carried on no contact. I had a lot of problems that wrecked our relationship and I needed to work on them on my own before I could even think of getting bk together. I was crazy jealous bk then. I would hack his Facebook. His email. I was queen psycho. I had no confidence in myself or our relationship. I bought the secret book and the power audio. I realised I broke the relationship not him. It must of been hard not to be trusted and accused all the time. I'd be so moody about little things and I'd rarely want sex. Why would he want to say. I'm glad I figured that out because I now knew the problems I could fix. He knew nothing aboutwhat I was doing as I deleted Facebook. I was very mysterious. I got my hair cut, I went tanning ( I'm so brown at the moment) I bought this hair curler thing and I do my hair like Kim kardashians. I bought all new clothes. I started wearing heels all the time Whitened my teeth. I got my nails and toes done every 2 weeks. I started pampering myself basically. And I ooze so much confidence. Something I never had before.

After every month I felt so strong. I used to be this girl who thought I could never live without him. I would have rather died then be without him but I was happy. I missed him yes but i was no longer in pain. I had been nc for 4 months at this point. I was drifting off to sleep and I got a text message. I looked and it was him. "hey I know you don't want to speak to me ever again but I miss you". I smiled but that's just words of corse he misses me but that doesn't mean he wants to be with me so I ignored deleted Nd went bk to sleep. The next morning another message "please". What didn't he get ? I dnt want to be his friend. Ignored deleted. A couple of days later he sent me a looooong 3 page message about how he made a mistake. He has been miserable. Feels worthless and didn't no what he had till it was gone. He asked if he could see me to discuss this more. It was getting harder to ignore. I left it a week and agreed to meet up. I was pretty blunt. I wrote ok meet me this Saturday for lunch I can't do any other time as I'm busy. He was very excited.

It came to that Saturday. I will admit. I was nervous and excited. I got up early and done my hair and make up perfectly. I wore this white sundress I had bought 2 weeks ago with strappy wedges. I felt Spanish lol my mum told me i looked like a model. But that's just mums aye. I don't no whether to believe her sometimes lol. I made sure I was late so I wasn't sitting there by myself. I went in and there he was. Was so weird. I hadn't seen him in 5 months. It was like looking at a stranger. I faked a huge newly White smile and said hello and asked him how he was. I didn't want to seem nervous at all. The last time he had saw me I was crying and was desperate. Now his presence didn't faze me. He looked sooooo shocked. He could stop smiling and looking at me. He wanted to know so much about what I had been doing. I told him I had been really busy actually. We was laughing and being very friendly. I wasn't flirting with him whatsoever though. He wanted to know if I was seeing anyone and I told him "it's none of his bees wax" with a big smile on my face. He laughed. It had been 45 minutes and I told him I had to go. I made plans to go shopping with myolder sister. He looked so upset that I was leaving so soon. I didn't want him to end it so I cut it short. I wanted to be in control. I kissed him on the cheek goodbye and he hugged me so tight and sAid he missed the smell of my perfume. I left and went shopping

when I got home he had text me saying "thanks for meeting me. You are so beautiful". I didn't reply. It's not as if he asked me a question . 2 nights later he knocked at my door with flowers. He asked if he could come in. I wanted to say no but it's a lot harder to ignore someone to their face!! So I said sure but I'm going to sleep soon. He broke down crying. Telling me he made a mistake. That I'm over him and can get anyone I want and why would I want him back after all he put me through. I told him it's ok I forgave him weeks after the break up. I'm not angry at him. He asked if I would be with him again. I told him I need space right now (roles Are flipped) he just started crying again. I hugged him. I felt bad. He said I'm not giving up and left. We started going out every weekend. Just fun things like the movies and out for dinner. One night he wanted to kiss me so I let him. It was amazing. It was filled with so much love. I told him after we can take things slow and see where they go. I just want to have fun. He was vey happy he kissed me and hugged me so tight saying thank you thank you. I'm going to make this up to you.

Well it turns out he doesn't understand what slow means because last night he proposed to me lol.

How to Use Law of Attraction / Guard your speech!

« on: October 23, 2011, 01:10:16 AM »

When you speak of something, you give it energy. The more energy you give something in your inner world, the more real estate it begins to takes up in your outer world.

Speech is often misused in today’s modern day society. Instead of being used to create, speech is used to destroy. Instead of being used to unite, speech is used to divide. While thoughts are kept to yourself for the most part, speech is directed to all who can hear.

When you speak of something, you begin to attract its essence towards you. Muhammad Ali once said, “I am The Greatest.” Whether you believed him or not, the more he said it, the more people believed his words. Today, he is still regarded as The Greatest, even if there are fighters today who are stronger and quicker.

Learn to speak as if every word is a self-fulfilling prophecy. Speak as if every word you say will come true very soon. When you speak in this manner, you will start to become very aware of what you say. People of a positive nature will be drawn by your aura, hanging onto your every word, because everything you have to say makes the atmosphere better, and makes others feel good.

Here are some subjects that you might want to focus on in day-to-day conversations. These subjects will lead to many friends, happiness, success, riches, and power:

What you desire – When you know what you want, you are already halfway to getting what you want.
How you’re going to get what you desire – There is something very contagious about someone who talks about what they want and how they’re going to get it. They are labeled “ambitious” and people are naturally drawn to these types of people because they have “success” written all over them.
Things you like - While most people talk about what they hate, you will stand out as a breath of fresh air when you are consistently positive–shrugging off the negative and embracing what you are grateful for. You will attract more than just friends–you will attract admirers.
Good times - There is always a wonderful atmosphere in the air when talking about good times that have already happened. Talking about good times is also an effective way to re-direct a negative conversation with a friend. The more often you make others feel good when they’re around you, the more they want to be around you and the more chance you have on influencing them to become more positive individuals.
Things you are looking forward to - If you are in a currently in a bad position, focus on
Things you like or admire about others - If you decide that you are going to talk about others, you might as well talk about the good in them. If you see no good in them, they are not worth discussing. However, when complimenting others, be sincere. Overdoing compliments in the wrong way will come off as flattery.

Here are subjects you should avoid talking about at all costs:

Things you do not want to happen - The more you talk about something, the more energy you give it. A good example of this is how the media had endless coverage on the “War on Terrorism.” The more they spoke of it, the more power they gave it. When you want something to go away, you must talk about its opposite. Instead of focusing on the problem, you must focus on the solution.
Gossip, criticism of others - Besides filling the air with negative energy, gossiping causes others to mistrust you. If you are known as a gossiper, do all in your power to amend your reputation.
Negative events that have already happened – Stop giving it energy; let it die.
Things happening right now that you do not find favorable -
Racism – Many people want racism to go away but continue to talk about it. How will it go away if you continue to give it energy? When ancient societies wanted to destroy another society, they burned all buildings, books, and any traces of the society. They also made it punishable by death for people of their own civilization to speak about the conquered society.
Death – Unless you are trying to die, don’t talk about death.

Dealing With Negative Talkers

When faced with someone who consistently speaks in a negative manner, you may briefly try to reverse their view of the world. However, it is usually an uphill battle that is not worth fighting. Misery loves company, and if you desire to achieve a happy life, you have no time for keeping the miserable comfortable. Lessen your time with these kinds of people if they exist in your life, and hope that they change for the better.

Applying The Law of Polarity

The Law of Polarity–which states that everything is two subjects–is the law you must remember when it comes to learning how to speak in a way that attracts desirable situations and outcomes in your life. Remember that North cannot exist without South, Good cannot exist without Bad–and since every subject has an opposite, guard your speech against the side you do not want, and focus all your energies on the side of the coin that you do want.(www.loablog.com)

Law of Attraction for Relationship / To everyone who wants thier love/ex back(PART 2)

« on: August 27, 2011, 03:40:20 PM »

Hi every one.i was searching the forum,i found an interesting topic started by set-the-scene82(October 31-2010). he wrote in his thread :How about as a suggestion we all take a moment to really put forward a desire and feelings for each one of us in turn to get back together with an ex/lost one with whichever words they want us to use. I think its really worth a shot and helpful towards the bigger picture of each or desires and with all that love it must combine to push things closer to our goals.

To everyone who puts their exs name and situation they want, I will give time to wishing that true for them and for help in getting them back with sincerity..........I thought it's a good idea to repeat it again.cause most of us were not a member of this forum when he started that topic(includes me)

so we have a lot of newbie here who wants their ex's back and old members may have changed the details of their desires.so i personally thankful of scene82 for this great idea and i want a permission from him to repeat it again.......so let's go

every one who wants their ex's back or want to find the love of their life join us.you can write your desire here and if you want you can mention the name of your love too.all of us will pray for you to manifest your desire...........so i start with myself.i want to be in a new loving romantic relationship with love of my life(B) so that this new relationship with him lasts forever.i want him to initiate contact and ask me to be with him again..........feel free to post your desires so that i could pray for you

How to Use Law of Attraction / An example of creative visualization

« on: August 23, 2011, 02:48:03 PM »

Hi guys,this is an exciting story about creative visualization by( REMEZ SASSON)...Years ago, before I got married, I decided to visualize having a date. I imagined myself sitting in a restaurant and talking with a girl. I concentrated on this image several times during the day, several minutes each time.

The next day, a girl working in the same place where I worked, asked me if I can come to talk with her. I hardly ever spoke with her, maybe just saying good morning. I went to her desk, and she asked me whether I had a girl friend. When she heard that I did not have one, she proposed to introduce me to one of her friends, and then gave me her phone number.

When I got home I called the girl, and asked her to meet me. We met on the same day in a restaurant, exactly as I visualized.

All this happened within about 24 hours. Surprising isn't it? This power can sometimes work really fast. Oh, you are curious to know what happened with that date? Well, nothing, because she was not the type of girl I was looking for. I rather used the power of visualization haphazardly, not thinking about how I wanted her look like, about her character, etc. I just thought about meeting a girl, a wish that came true.

How to Use Law of Attraction / 5 reasons why LOA doesn't work for you

« on: August 21, 2011, 02:14:21 PM »

Doubt – Doubt is the opposite of trust and believing. If you do not believe, you cannot expect to achieve. The Law of Attraction works 100% of the time, whether you choose to accept it or not. When you are in a state of doubt, you only attract more confusion into your life. While I understand that it is not easy to get rid of old, limiting beliefs; you must realize that those are the same beliefs that have put you in the position you are in right now. Empty your cup, and have faith in your power as a creator.
Your actions contradict your intentions – If your goal is to lose 10 pounds, you can sit there and visualize about being slimmer all you want, but if you spend 20 minutes meditating on how you are going to lose 10 pounds and then get up and immediately start eating a box of munchkins, you are contradicting yourself. If your goal is to save $20,000 for a new car and you turn around and splurge all your current savings on an impulsive shopping spree, then you are contradicting yourself. Usually, contradicting actions on your part are accompanied with negative emotions, usually guilt. Whenever you feel negative emotions such as guilt or discomfort, observe the situation you’re in, because it means that you are attracting something that you do not want. In the case of the first example, you will feel negative emotion because you are attracting 10 more pounds instead of attracting a slimmer body. In the second example, you will feel negative emotion because you are attracting $20,000 in debt instead of $20,000 in savings. Do not contradict your intentions by taking conflicting actions.
Your intentions are not pure – You must have pure intentions when you practice the Law of Attraction. When I say “pure”, I am not necessarily saying “good.” When I tell you that your intentions must be pure, I am telling you that there cannot be any extraneous values attached to your intention. For example, if you say, “I want to manifest a million dollars so that people will respect me more,” you are not really wishing for a million dollars–you are wishing for respect. Pick one or the other; make your intentions pure.
You are trying to attract from a stand-point of “not having” – You can’t say, “I don’t have any money,” and expect to attract money. You can’t ask, “How come nobody wants to be with me?” and expect to attract romance. You can’t say, “I don’t want to be poor,” and expect to be rich. It just doesn’t happen that way. Think about it like this: If your child was about to throw a toy across the room and hit someone with it, what would be a more effective command? Would you rather say, “Drop the toy,” or “Don’t throw the toy?” And for your sake, I hope you picked the first choice. Sometimes, all it takes is a different approach to make all the difference.
Your intentions are not your true desires - A common mistake beginners make when it comes to the Law of Attraction is the belief that The LOA is all about thought. The fact is, The LOA is more about feelings than anything else. Think of a time when you really wanted something, whether it was a raise, a car, or to a certain result. Remember how you felt. When you truly desire something, you literally feel an “obsession” towards it. For example, when I was trying to build muscle a few summers ago, I became obsessed with everything that had to do with gaining weight and building muscle: I became health conscious, diet conscious, and sleep conscious. I read articles about getting bigger; I asked friends who were already muscular how I could build some muscle; and I worked out like a madman. Within a few months, I had the body I wanted. If you are trying to manifest things that you don’t truly have a burning desire for, it just won’t come true. You can ask the universe for a million dollars, but if you don’t really want a million dollars, you’ll never see it because you don’t truly want it.
(www.loablog.com)