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« on: January 02, 2011, 11:43:36 PM »
Which post?
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« on: December 17, 2010, 10:32:52 AM »
i feel really good when im with him. i feel excited and happy.
when im not with him i start worrying about if hes doing it just to have me there or not. im trying to not let worry and doubt slip in,
like i said i know its a process.
but i still feel like this is really good progress, at least i know he still has feelings for me. and even if he doesnt want a relationship right now TODAY, the universe is working. so that could change in time
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« on: December 17, 2010, 09:43:37 AM »
hey everyone!
so for a while i was feeling down about my situation, we kept arguing and being rude to each other and i knew it wasnt helping to attract him back. over a week ago we were arguing, and i apologized to him and we ended on a decent note, not good or bad.
i didnt text him for about 9 days and then the other day i got a text from him apologizing for the way he was talking to me. it was a very sincere apology and i appreciated it a lot. we ended up seeing each other (he suggested it) and we had a really really great time! we were talking, nothing felt weird or tense and we were getting along great and laughing, and we ended up kissing towards the end of the night. i can tell he still has feelings for me. he told me how he missed me. it felt so great and i was so happy we were having such a great time and i really enjoy all my time with him.
im going to see how things go for a while. he told me he doesnt want to go back on his decision to break up though :S
i know things take time and its a process but im not sure what to do. i really enjoy all our time spent together, and i dont want to see him every few weeks i want him around often, i want us together again.
one of my friend says i shouldnt be there for him, because then he gets to be single, yet still enjoy the benefits of me. (having his cake and eat it too)
my sister said i should keep in contact with him, not too much. but just be friendly, and hang out with him every so often, because she thinks hell miss me more once he sees how well were getting along.
the thing is i know people cant tell us what is right, but i dont know what to do! i dont want him to feel like he can have me whenever he wants and then forget me whenever he wants, but at the same time when were together it feels so good and so right, and i enjoy our time together. i dont want him out of my life completely.
any advice?
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« on: December 06, 2010, 09:07:08 PM »
i feel like he is talking down to me sometimes these days, like i am annoying him and the he is not concerned whether i am in his life or not. its hard to be positive with feelings like this. and i also think, if someone really loved me they wouldnt be treating me badly you know?
i can understand when we get into arguments, we both say mean things sometimes. but i always feel bad and end up apologizing for the mean things i said. he doesnt always. and sometimes he will just ignore me, and that hurts. i never know what to expect, sometimes he will talk to me and sometimes he wont.
i know i love him. but im hurting. i dont want him treating me worse than he used to, which he is. i knew he would treat me differently, but i expected to still be treated with some sort of love. what can i do? now when i imagine him telling me he loves me i want to cry, because i feel like saying "then why are you making me feel so bad? why do you ignore me? why do i feel inferior when you are talking to me then?" i want him back in my life, but i want him to be respectful to me. because i deserve to be treated properly. im so confused.
is there a way to attract him to treat me better? im not sure how to go about all this
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« on: December 06, 2010, 10:18:07 AM »
thank you, ive been feeling down lately and this is just the pick me up i needed. i needed some proof, and i think this was a sign from the universe saying yes it does work, keep believing.  thank you and good luck!
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« on: December 06, 2010, 09:14:41 AM »
what if he seems so against the idea of being with me? he is happy without me now. which is fine, i can be happy without him to. but i feel like we were good together, and he thinks we were too most of the time. but he seems to want to find love with someone else. can loa help with this? im not sure. because he has free will obviously, but am i able to ask the universe to make him find me attractive again and want to be with me again?
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« on: December 05, 2010, 04:41:14 AM »
i just found out my ex is hooking up/flirting with other people.
this hurt a lot and made me really angry. i still am very angry
i love him, but this is not like how he used to be. i didnt expect him to behave like this. im just so unsure as to what to do now. i want him back in my life but not like this. i deserve better than that, i want him the way he used to be. he was such a gentleman, he wouldnt go around trying to hook up with random people. i think im so angry about it because i didnt expect this from him. he apparently got over everything very quickly and just wants to go out with other girls. im just not sure what to do at this point. im feelings very negative right now.
any advice?
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« on: December 02, 2010, 09:45:21 AM »
cant wait to hear LofA!
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« on: December 02, 2010, 04:14:13 AM »
congratulations!!! i am so happy for you! i am in the process of trying to attract someone back as well. he is a great person and i love him so much. i am not giving up faith. could you post links for your previous posts please?
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« on: December 02, 2010, 02:47:54 AM »
i dont think signs are placed by someone on purpose, and i dont think you should put zen and mellow to try and show him that its a sign. the universe is the one who sends us signs. If you are the one trying to show a sign to this man, you are not letting the universe do its job. you just have to believe that you will end up with him and the universe will do the rest, you dont need to figure out ways for him to notice you. it will happen
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« on: November 25, 2010, 10:16:59 PM »
thank you so much for replying guys! i really appreciate it. I know i should stop talking to him, but its been so hard because we were like best friends before, so we talked about everything together. but im serious about this, and i know its for the best so i really will stop contacting him. do you have any tips on detatching from him? i feel sort of detatched now, im not so hurt everytime i see a picture of us or something that reminds me of him. and i also dont feel like i could never be happy again. i know that i can be happy without him, and that there are other people out there. but i dont want anyone else other than him. i feel like he is worth it. so im not sure exactly what really being detatched would feel like? am i on the right track? and what can i do to continue being detatched?
also how is everything going with all of you?
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« on: November 25, 2010, 08:27:45 AM »
Hi everyone
I'm trying to get back together with my ex boyfriend. I'm new to the LOA stuff. I was wondering if anyone had any advice for me? My boyfriend and i broke up almost 3 months ago, we were dating for over 2 years before that. The more i read about the LOA i realize i attracted the breakup, i was always thinking negatively. I was worried he didn't care enough about me, or that he would want to break up with me and thats what eventually ended up happening. We started arguing a lot about stupid things, and i guess we just eventually rubbed off on each other the wrong way. I don't feel so needy anymore, but trust me i did go through that phase for a while after the breakup. Whenever we would talk we would end up arguing, because i was still hurt about the breakup. The longest we've been without talking is only a week, but it's always me talking to him first. so i decided its best that i dont talk to him for a while. I'm doing ok on my own now and im not so upset anymore, but i still love him and still want to be with him. I write in a gratitude journal often (not every day necessarily but still often), and i visualize everyday about us being happy together.
But i still sometimes find it hard not to get upset. Today i saw his mom for the first time since our breakup. It was very nice seeing her, and we talked for a little bit. But it made me miss his family and miss him more as well. What should i do in a situation like this when it upsets me? Should i take it as a sign from the universe that i saw his mom today?
I also sometimes get discouraged when i see that he is online and doesnt talk to me, things like that. But i try to remind myself that the universe is finding a way to get us back together again.
Reading the posts here encourages me and makes me feel a lot better though
Any help, tips or success stories would be greatly appreciated! thank you!
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