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Messages - Mergirl
« on: October 15, 2012, 02:33:49 AM »
I got a text from an ex!
« on: October 09, 2012, 04:31:35 AM »
The thing with me acting as if I have what I want is that I feel crazy/delusional doing so, considering there are people out there who don't practice or know of LOA and don't have to pretend one bit about already having what they want and seem to have it.
Law of Attraction Lounge / Re: Share your favorite film that represents the Law of Attraction.....It's Fun!!« on: October 08, 2012, 04:38:04 AM »
Believe it not bust Sex and the City is a good LOA film. Well especially the story line of Big and Carrie. She kept attracting him back because she really wanted him and eventually got him for good.
« on: October 08, 2012, 04:31:20 AM »
So, I accept that the "evidence" for a belief may be self-generated. But still, that is the difference between a belief and some other kind of thought - it's not just that I keep thinking it, it's that I keep thinking it AND i have some evidence (at least in my own mind) to support it.
Its Kind of like which came first the egg or chicken.
I am going through something similar. I started a new job and I was in a good place with the one I left. I had imagined the kind of place, people and role I wanted in my new job but I am see a contradictory reality. I am not sure if I created this not so good job situation or its the way it was before I worked here.
« on: September 07, 2012, 01:45:09 PM »
Today an Executive Director at my work inspired me about how she met her husband at 29. So many people around me are married or getting married and I was beginning to get nervous about myself finding my soulmate feeling like time is running out and hearing Catherine's story is inspiring me to hold on and know he is on his way.
« on: December 31, 2010, 03:04:25 AM »
Are we just looking you up or also adding you?
I actually remember one of the first things I learnt from the Secret was about being a creator of my life and taking responsibility for all that happens happened to me. It's like okay I now get why I can't find my soul-mate because I don't really believe he exists or yes I realise that I did in fact create my boyfriend cheating on me because my suspicions and yeah I see now why I failed that math test in high school because I doubted my ability to pass.....And then all of a sudden I hear about some man beating another man to death and I caused that!!! And that earthquake in xyz, that was me somehow! And this is where I am confused.
I have a really important question about being a creator of our own reality or a creator of EVERYTHING.
So I know in LOA and quantum physics everything one experiences in their live is created from within however I have been finding gaps with this theory. Two good examples I have are: Firstly, I was driving and I saw all these cars and practising Loa I started thinking that these car exist because something within me manifested all them. But then I thought I never spend my days consciously thinking of the types of cars I will see when I go driving and as I have no interest in cars in general I am cant even believe for a second that my subconscious was thinking of all these cars that I spotted on my drive.
Secondly, there are people on this forum that I talk to and others maybe not but when I read a post and especially with people who have never had pictures of themselves on their profile I like to imagine what the person/people look like. Now say I have made an image in my mind of a few of the members and then suddenly meet them or they put their picture up on the forum and then they do not look anything like I have imagined well then I can not help but think that I am not really the creator of everything in my life. It's like I have black hair but some member not knowing this could imagine me with blonde hair. They could be so adamant from my posts that I seem like a blonde. Now I know I do not have blonde hair. I have never dyed it blonde and there is no way in this world I would ever dye it blonde and I can even say I would 99% likely never wear a blonde wig. So when this person sees me for real I will not be a reflection of this persons inner world imagination of me.
Actually I have come up with two new example as I write. I met my bff while working abroad and I never had imagined her or a bff before meeting her but one of the characteristics is that she has a scar above her lip and when I saw her I noticed this scar because it was distinctive. She didn't tell me about it to exist and it wasn't till several months after I got to know her when she for the first time really mentioned the scar and how she got it. So this makes me think that I did not create that scar above her lip but that it existed before I knew she existed.
And say I have a bag with something inside it and I tell someone to guess what is inside it. If I really get the person to think, visualise and really imagine whatever they want to be inside this bag and they open it up and then the thing they imagine is not going to be in it. And even worse so, if I gave false hints to the person guessing telling them it was a fruit and even going as far as telling them inside I have an apple and they have to guess what colour or brand of apple when in fact what is truly in the bag is completely different and once they look inside whatever is in that bag is not going to be the guessers creation. (How many of did this as kids when we go bday and xmas gifts wrapped up in boxes imaging that it was the newest Barbie or G-i-jo only to be disappointed for Cindy and Ken?)
I am not sure if my ramble makes sense but I suppose I am trying to say is I can not for the life of me understand that EVERY bloody thing is our own creation. I am really hoping someone can shed some light on this for me. So many experts in LOA and physicists are saying that the news we read in the paper, the fat bald guy walking past us on the street, our parents being annoying, being employed at our dream company, finding our soul-mate all comes from within us and It makes sense in some areas and not others. So please someone help me understand this.
« on: December 30, 2010, 01:40:14 PM »
Lol I came onto this thread and Sweet Spirits Bravo Peter was all up in my face. I mean that it was the post that my screen stopped at on this post page .
I am not taking it as a sign for anything I just thought it was ironic. IDKY
« on: December 30, 2010, 01:36:31 PM »
Personally I do not like FB and don't really use it like the average person does. However, I believe that it is neither good or bad. If Fb supports a person or provides advantages for existing then people will label it good. If it challenges someone and has more negative or disadvantages then people will label it bad. In the case of relationships it can be healthy as well as unhealthy. Some people love to declare their relationship to others and for those people fb is gonna be great. Posting pics with their beloveds, saying what they have been up to with their lovers, commenting I love you 10 times to their other half.. For those who are a little bit private and for those who have broken up with their beloved obviously fb is going to be a nightmare seeing the person they love in pictures with someone else ( I being one of them recently Good thing I know about loa and loving myself that it did not really bother me).
As for the mind bit. Well as I said Fb is neither good or bad it's neutral and we label it according to how it best fits us. People who are in-control of their mind or feelings wouldn't let whatever is happening or showing up on Fb bother them. It's not really Fb fault and if someone thinks it is then it would be best to just remover Fb out of ones life and it loses all its power Saying this I do know it is not easy but sometimes you just have to make the decision to stop tormenting yourself.
Thanks for the reply HIH.
I hope you get time to start on those books. Today I got "The Spontaneous Healing of Belief" By Gregg Braden, which I think will help with my limiting beliefs. I have just read a few pages but am hooked.
So I am wondering how do we know if something is a limiting belief or its tradition or culture to do something a certain way?
While doing some research I have found not just on this forum but in various other sites and blogs people writing about mantras and meditation and things that are from mystical religions and cultures and although I am not judging anyone for however they do their meditations/mantras. Sometimes I do not even know and at most times feel confused by my own culture and religion because of the many different things people told me while growing and even sometimes now.
Anyway I know traditionally when using a mantra people are supposed to be clean like not eat meat and have bathed and not had s3x and a few other things. Normally I had thought this is tradition and this is how it is supposed to be but knowing LOA I can see it as a limiting belief. Especially if you as the question "Where is God not?"
So anyone have thoughts on this? Especially if you're someone who "practises" or uses methods from a different religion or culture then your own. How do you practise so that you don't violate the long standing practise of your new chosen philosophy?
I ask this so not to judge anyone but rather to understand things better for myself and my future. It is interesting and sad to see people my age in my family are married and having kids and passing on the same traditions without expanding there knowledge and perhaps for them they feel perfectly happy with the way things are but I am not. When I have kids I want them to feel freedom. I want them to be able to live this abundant life that the universe has for us all and to feel good about themselves without having to work at feeling it. So the more I know the easier it will be able to teach them.
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