Everyone has there own method of manifesting their desire. For some it works better to forgot (passive manifesting)while others feel better manifesting without forgetting(active manifesting). It is our own personal recipe that fits us uniquely on what works best for us to.
I don't get it why don't we all just try to forget about I dream partners as soon as we set an intentions for them.
Sorry, I'd rather use the one that apparently has been working for most people. I don't have the kind of patience for that.