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Messages - Chantal
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« on: March 11, 2013, 10:04:26 PM »
Hello all of you,
It has been a long time ago since I was here. Things were going rather nice. Somehow I losed grip on the Law of Attraction, I mean, I recognize my old think patterns are coming back again.
A lot of negative stuff happened. And while I was all the time: Things are going this way for a good reason, I am going back the more and more to my old thought patterns.
I found out about the Law of Attraction because of my ex dumped me 1,5 years ago after a relationship of 7 years. I decided to go back to my birthtown for half a year. There after, a perfect situation occured. I decided to move back to the city we immigrated to (from NL to Belgium) in a nice place with sweet people and an extremely low rent. After haven't spoken for a little while, we (me and my ex) met. Since a year or so we hang out a lot and also got intimate very often.
After all this time he is still saying: We are not having a relationship. A little while ago I met a guy, and I was so sick of the rejection all the time I decided to give it a shot. At that moment my ex got interested in me again and I was doubtful and quitted the whole situation with the other guy. I saw I was not done with my ex. Now I am at a point in my life I need to be completely ME. I have a shitty job in a paperstore, I hardly have friends over here and am still emtionally stucked to my ex. When I am like: Ok, let's detach then! It is like a miracle, but after a little while he wants to meet up again.
Also, I moved. To a way to expensive place actually and living there all alone. Because of a weird situation that happened too.
I just tried the 70 x 7 way: I want a sweet boyfriend. I meditated and wrote since a long while ago in my grateffulness book and tried to mean it as hard as I could.
I am wondering: Does anyone had a situation of losing grip of the "happy vibe" and started to be in their old way of negative thinking? What did you do? How to be happy with a situation, job and stuff what really does not feel like it is good? I am really thinking about going back to school fulltime (i am 29) to have more skills and I am really confused because I do not know what the right choices are. I am just living like the situation is giving me to live, but at this moment there is a lot of disrespect, rejection and negative stuff in my live.
And did anyone ever wrote down affirmations 70 times for a week? I am curious to know! I feel very negative and cry, because I do not know what to do. Thanks a lot for reading!!!
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« on: May 05, 2012, 04:50:46 PM »
Heya! Thanks for the advice! I will do that now! Just made a list and already made a nice breakfast included with an egg from the chicken in my garden. Here I go...a that is an awesome plan. Thanks again!
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« on: May 05, 2012, 03:12:30 PM »
heya, thanks a lot for your replies. I already have a grattitude book. there was a moment i wrote in it every day. perhaps it would help indeed to do that again, instead of twice a week. perhaps i will feel it more intensely then. and thanks so much for the manifest-small-things-tip, it is true indeed. i already experienced it.
since when are you using the law of attraction to create and manifest (to the both of you) and where there moments you were doubtful and if so, what did you guys do?
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« on: May 05, 2012, 07:07:13 AM »
Edit: After I re-read this. I think a very powerful thing is to stay grateful. I was grateful, but I have the feeling I am loosing that. So yeah, another question: Just "fake" the gratefulness? I do not feel it as intencely as I did
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« on: May 05, 2012, 07:05:33 AM »
Hello people, It has been a long time ago that I have been on this forum. I did not had internet for a little while and there after I was very busy. I was chatting with a woman I met on the internet. She was really there for me, but at this moment I have to attract money and I find that difficult. There is a "Global Information Network" I am an affiliate member now, if I want to be a level one member I have to pay money every month, but I have just enough money to live. Also, I have the feeling I am loosing grip on my believes. I felt so awesome and great. Even if there were dissapointments, I could put myself over it and go on. Now I only feel tired. I have a grumpy boss (but a job! Hooray!) I miss my friends in the Netherlands, but I am grateful for the roommates I am living with now. To the relationship part: My ex broke up with me almost a year ago. We emigrated from the Netherlands to Belgium. In June it was over and I moved back to the Netherlands, to the place I am from. When it was December I got myself "together" again, I was meditating and living the LOA GOOD! It was an awesome time. I moved back to Belgium, the same place we emigrated to, to do an evening school and got a very cool place I live now -very cheap!- for temporary renting. (One week after I did a "schoolday" I got an email if I wanted to live there...it was GREAT!) Since I live here, very very slowly I got contact with my ex. At first I was like: Allright, I did not came back here for you, but for me and my future (I really tought about it and tought I could handle it that he lived here also. So, to make a long story short. We are on good foot with each other now. We see each other very very often. And yes, stupid, but we got intimate. The one moment he says stuff like: "It is annoying there is something between us still", the other moment I am "a very good friend" and that's it. He just went away, because I said: "It is not possible to sleep here if we are just good friends", all of the sudden he acted with very big distance and leaved immediately. I did not wanted to make a drama, but kicked him out of the window instead of picking up my keys so he could get his car who is standing at the back of my house. I felt dissapointed, confused and sort of small "dumped again". Actually, it is not friendly, but I am proud of myself I stood up for myself for the very first time. All the time I was like: "If I act just cool and go with the flow, it will be allright", but I have to set my limits at one point. I KNOW I am not "just a friend", if someone chills out with me a lot. And wants to sleep with me. But I have to set my barriers for selfrespect. I said I wanted to talk soon, he said: "Just leave me out", I did not answered and opened the window. Questions I do have are: - How do I refocus on the LOA again? Does anyone recognize the feeling LOA "fades" and things are going "wrong" again? - How do I rebelieve? - I realized after he went away, I cannot help it, I still care. But he acted with distance, so I did that too. I hope he will call me tomorrow and we will talk about it, but I think this situation has to do with something I created on my own. My own doubts and stuff. But does anyone knows, why the fuck is it like everything is going so well and if I very careful try to touch "it", I get distance? Thanks a lot for reading!! I think it is better for me to keep more active on this forum and the LOA, perhaps it will help if I interact with people who also do believe in the LOA but do not want to earn money or something like that 
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« on: December 28, 2011, 07:22:26 PM »
Hello sweet people, Allright, I am at a point right new that I think I want to manifest a new boyfriend. It is 7 months ago my ex broke up with me, and really, actually I do not want him back anymore! That is so great! But, I like the feeling about manifesting a new love. I already manifested very cheap space in an anti cracking appartment in the centre of Antwerp with as a few TREES (which is RARE in the centre of Antwerp) (my ex is living in Antwerp also, but still, I do not really care, we have contact sometimes, but I am not needy and everything and the past is now really the past. Even is he will ever say he wants me back, I do not want him back) There are also living 7 other people in the anti cracking house/office which I think is GREAT, because I do not know anyone except from my ex in Antwerp. Those people are very friendly until so far. In the end of January I'll start an evening education communication, which is also GREAT! I had problems with domicile, and solved it probably, GREAT!! This night I saw A GREAT JOB online on the internet and I really hope I'll manifest that job. If there will come another job, that also would be GREAT! (Even if it is not a nice job or something, I love to work with people, for so far I hope I can manifest that) I also have illustration assignments, which is also GREAT! Manifesting really I could say probably. I feel rather happy normally spoken. But still, I feel lonely sometimes. I think I manifested a small thing, which was on an internet forum. It was 1,5 week ago I was talking with a guy, but he speaks French and I Dutch (and English and German as well, but no French), after 4000 messages in one weekend, I sent him a rather long message (1 week ago) and there after I felt distance. Probably I got attached to a picture of someone (stupid huh? haha!!!) waaaaayyy to fast! He wishes me nice days for Christmas last Saturday, but there after I did not heard from him. Also, I think it is not very practical fancying a boy who does not speak the same language as I do... And besides that, I want someone who is really interested in me. I am listening Kevin Troudeau right now, it is also GREAT! He says, that if you're really into someone, but that other person is not that into you, it is very likely you'll meet someone else who suits you way better. That is also great! Also, it is better to accept things cannot be on the radar always. We just have to except that if we want to manifest something, we should not worry about the hows and it will probably come in a way we definately would not have expected. But yeah, I am very picky and it is a bit annoying, got dumped by my ex, 2 months later I met a nice boy, but he only wanted to have sex, I did not so we quited that part. And now that boy on the chat. It is funny tough, because of I started to talk with him, I thought, perhaps it is the meaning to learn French. For that GREAT job they are looking for people who speak French (it is a job making patterns for textile), perhaps there will follow a course if they will hire me, I really hope it will Because I'll have great languageskills right then. But yeah, main question, How to attract a new love? I already wrote down a list with specific things I am looking for in a person, but do not know what to do next. Just wait or something? Let go? But yeah, I even do not know who to let go, so how can I do that. Until then I'll try to feel as happy as I can, because I think I am at a point right now, that my luck does not depends on situations or other people. Luck is inside myself, as well as happiness. Thanks so much already for reading! Love!
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« on: December 21, 2011, 01:18:34 AM »
allright, i'm already on this forum for a little while. i came here, because i wanted my ex back. i realize that it is love i am looking for. and i also realize that if i want love, first i have to love myself. i manifested some things, but now there are problems. i manifested a house back in antwerp, anti cracking, with trees on the backside and 8 other people. it is great! but...i cannot domicile on that adress. i got a row with my parents, because at first they said i could domicile at their place and now of the sudden it is not possible. so, i can register at a friends place in the netherlands and get a social number in belgium on that adress. probably that will work out, but it costs me a lot of energy and for example, i cannot follow drivers lessons over here, because officialy is still live in the netherlands.
besides that i have to find work also. i want a great social job, but it is difficult to find something over here in antwerp.i also want to make friends, seems a bit difficult also. i feel panniced right now. i am staying at my parents their place right now, who live only 30 minutes away from antwerp. i am glad i do not want my ex back. i am on a forum right now to make friends. and make appointments with people to have a drink once...not sure if it will happen, but allright. there is also a very attractive cool guy looked at my profile and started talking to me...a LOT. only problem is...he speaks french, i speak dutch. we chatted the night before yesterday untill 4.30 in the morning. yesterday i saw him saying on facebook he called with a french girl who lives in his town, he said she is very nice against someone else in french and we have not talked since the day before yesterday. (he lives in brussels)...i thought it was going somewhere perhaps, even tough the language seemed a bit of an obstacle, that it would work out. i did not heard from him... so i guess he is into that other girl right now. i know i should not think so negative and so on, but it seems hard to me to keep positive in these days.i really do not want to be needy or dependable, it sucks that i realize that i do. i want to be happy with myself, but besides that, i feel rather lonely these days.
well, everything together, i feel like shit...my hole live seems very insecure right now, i want to attract a job, a new love and everything but at this moment it feels like...it is very difficult. i am sorry this is such a negative subject, i really am, but i need guidance to get motivated manifesting and attracting and keep positive. i do not want to think this way and i want it to stop.
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« on: December 16, 2011, 06:37:36 AM »
Hi all of you,
A lot of things are going in in my live right now. I came on this forum, because I want my ex boyfriend back. I made a vision board, where I wrote down things. We emigrated, I moved back to the place I am from when he broke up with me. Well, things I wrote down on my vision board, where things like: I want to go to school again, I want him back, I want to go back to that place we were living in (and he still lives there), I want a place where I can see trees. I also wrote down what I wanted in a relationship. (trust, respect, things like that, did not had the feeling I got that from him the last few months before he broke up )
Well, it is great! I am going back to school in the place he is living in, because it is nearby the country I am from and I can study there for a little, so. Also, I got a place in an anti cracking office, guess what, I see trees in the middle of the centre in Antwerp, which is RARE. Also, because I can live in the place temporarily because it is anti cracking, it is very cheap to live in. My ex emailled me the day before yesterday, we called and chatted and texted, but I guess I messed up again because I asked him something and did not got an answer back. But actually, I do not care. I think I KNOW the Universe will offer me exactly what I need. Might sound stupid, but because I do not know anyone in that place, I am on a forum to meet new people over there, and without having the intention, I am chatting a lot with a very cool boy. Even more strange, when we started to chat he was with a girl. I was like: Hm....perhaps he is interesting, he and the girl broke up now. Yesterday we exchanged numbers and texted (did not called ... YET???) Today I did not heard anything of him and also did not contacted him. I just want to take it easy and definately do not want to chase. When he is worth it, he'll do that. And when the Universe thinks it is right.
I also am intending I'll get friends there easily. And I am going to move back this Sunday with help of my parents. I am going to live in a anti cracking office where 9 other people live, so perhaps I'll make friends with them. But, the quetions are: My parents are like: You have to make something of your live, you are 27, you do not belong in an anti cracking place, you have to be less dependent, this costs us way to much energy. You need to find a fulltime job (I also want to Illustrate and go to school and meet new people, I want to work 20 hrs per week) How do I handle that? I have the feeling that they do not really listen to my opinion about MY life and the way I wish to live.
And the second question is: Well, I do not know people over there. I know a lot of people over here, so I am a bit scared...like: What if I wont meet anyone cool there soon? I'll be all alone. Because I KNOW I am not going back to that place for my ex, but for me, to get another diploma for a study...but I really need to meet sweet caring people and am very scared that that will take a long time.
Has anyone suggestions for me? What can I intend, visualize to make these toughts (or doubts) postive? Thanks so much already
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« on: December 08, 2011, 03:52:27 AM »
Hi people, Just wanted to share this. My ex lives in Antwerp, we emigrated from NL to Belgium, he broke up 6 mnts ago, I went back to my birthplace. I want to go back to Antwerp, because I can study there for a little money, which is great, because I LOVE gaining knowledge. (Also wanted to do that before he broke up, but I was full of emotion and decided to go back to my save haven) Since I discovered about the LOA I feel so much better. I met him twice since then, the sparkle seemed gone. Last time was 1,5 wk ago. It was a bit strange i think. This Monday I got an email for seeing a temporary place )a year at least)to stay in Antwerp, a big space for little money WITH garden in an old barrack. I asked the Universe "Let me go to Antwerp and let me meet sweet people over there", IF I'll get a place in the barrack (there were 6 places and 16 people watching it), I KNOW I can easily meet people because they live in the same place as I do. There after, I went to my parents who live nearby Antwerp, guess what? When I was there, my das got a text from my ex boyfriend, asking if he could work for him. He NEVER texts him. It is odd, because he couldnt know I was there, I did not told him I was going to Belgium. Its a very small thing, I know. I was wondering, is it possible that there still is kind of connection between us or just a co-incidence, had something like that before a little while also...it is strange. Besides that, I did not heard anything of him. But, I am also getting doubtful if I even want him back, I mean, I FEEL HAPPY, GRATEFUL ON MY OWN, I do not want anyone to bring me down....so...thanks Universe! Sleep well all of u!
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« on: December 06, 2011, 05:25:47 AM »
hey happybeingme, i'm in a kind of similair situation! that's odd! We were together for 7 years, after 2,5 years he also broke up with me, but I attracted him back (at a moment when I was like: "I am done with you and just want to drink a cup of coffee to see how youre doing, I also had a crush on another boy, that was the moment he came back, only thing is, he says this time it is different -he lives 3 hours away at this moment and acting strange) it is really great that you know he still loves you, i guess that makes the doubting part a bit little worse. And yeah, the detachment part is not nice indeed. I want to thank you for this post, it makes me motivated about finding myself again. My ex also lives in another place right now, but the thing is (he lives in belgium after we emigrated, he broke up 6 months ago, i went back to my birthplace, because thats a save haven, but i can follow a study in belgium for a little money and today i got an email for seeing an appartment for very little money in the same place he lives in) I suppose indeed the Universe will give us everything we want, when the time is ready. It is nice to read that you want YOU, working on yourself and everything. The LOA also makes me realize that. You cannot manifest anything back without letting go, but I guess you also realized that I am now at a point: "Well, if I dont get him back, Ill meet someone better", but I guess deep in my heart I still want him back also. Welcome to the forum!!
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« on: December 04, 2011, 04:52:34 PM »
@rain: I can feel how you feel. But indeed, ask yourself, do you want to interrupt in a marriage? If so, well, you read the succes stories... I suppose it is possible, but first it have to take time to detach yourself from him and from the outcome, start to love yourself first and be happy with yourself. I also know (and experience) that this is a progress that takes time. And indeed, perhaps you'll meet someone better if you have found yourself again as a complete human beeing without needing anyone else. What I did understood: If you say: "I cannot live without him", you will get more of that.
First try to much as you can finding yourself again, a few weeks ago I felt horrible still also, after a breakup (now 6 months, relationship was during 7 years), but then I found about the LOA, watched the secret. I am meditating right now, do visualisations, affirmations, bought a grattitude book. Sometimes it is still difficult and I get back at the same point where I started, desperate, needy, without any believe in the Universe, so I can understand that we all will "fall back" sometimes in our old thinking pattern (perhaps that's the Ego, or our subconcious mind, I do not know), but if I did my meditations, I feel so much better. Perhaps you should try it too! And perhaps it is not wise (I do not know) to interrupt in a marriage, perhaps all of this is meant to be to let you meet the absolute Mr. Right. But really, I do not know. Guess we all have to keep on trusting the Universe and the outcome will be marvelous.
@ feedback: Did you read the succes stories? And even tough other people have a mind on their own, just think, if he/she would see you happy, selfloving, with respect and acceptance for yourself, what would they do? At this moment I also do have a hard time (also to keep on believing and trust the Universe), but I DID manifest an appointment with my ex, I did manifest getting no row with him, even if he tried, I DID manifest he emailed me. How would you call that for example?
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« on: December 03, 2011, 05:08:32 PM »
Tereza, so many thanks for your great reply! It really calms me down and makes me feel that if I just have fun, and changed my mindset! Thanks again and have a great day!
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« on: December 03, 2011, 04:21:30 AM »
Allright, today it seems to me the situation is hopeless. That the 2 times I saw him 1,5 week back were just like "a meeting as friends"-thing to him. That he is just totally done with me. He did not said things like "I miss you", there was no flirting or anything (and I did not dare to give him any suggestion that I miss him like hell, I think he would pull back immediately). Things he said were like: "I think you acted horrible during the last time of our relationship", "If you do not give me a signature to end the rent-of-the-appartment-contract so I can move to another appartment, this is were our communication will stop", he hardly looked at me and when he looked, it was just because he was telling a story about something he experienced. He also talked about conversations he had with other girls, it was almost like he was only talking about other girls, not about boys he met. Yes, he was nice to me sometimes, but more as a weird friend or something. But when I sent him information he needed by mail and he received it, I did not heard anything of him. I am still way to attached I suppose and even tough I did said I could do it without him, it makes me said. I just want him to be my man. Not just a stranger or something.
At this moment, I feel like I totally loose faith, I feel a bit despressed almost. Mediatation and visualizing helps, I bought a grateful-book today, but I do not even know if I also should write down my affirmations in it as something to be grateful for. I feel just like a freak or something, who does not want to accept and thinks the LOA is a way a miracle would happen, even tough I manifested small things (by purpose?). I do not BELIEVE at this moment I suppose. I feel like, that if I am letting go and will be detached, he will never contact me again and we just become complete strangers (even tough we both initiate contact sometimes last weeks) And it is frustrating to me. I know that if I feel al this, the manifesting will only takes longer, but I just cannot help it. Can anybody please give me advice, how to keep faith? The situation seems so hopeless.
Perhaps it is too long ago (6 months almost) since he broke up and he is completely over me. I perhaps just should finish it and give up. Move on or something and not think so desperate, sometimes I feel GREAT! If I manifested something, it seems like a sign. But perhaps it is just all co-incidence. How to get rid of this attitude? I read, watched documentaries, spent a lot of time on the web... manifested, visualized, affirmed, what else can I do more???
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« on: December 03, 2011, 04:08:01 AM »
Hello OmAumOm,
It is so good of you that you reacted so brave, I mean, you did not cried, or begged, or anything. You put yourself in a position where you earn respect from him, that is such a good thing. And indeed, perhaps it is the case, that this other girl will learn him lessons, but in the end it is about you learning your lessons. I really think it is great again that you reacted wise, and it is also great that there is still chemistry! It is also a very good thing, and I wished that I was at that point, that you are at the point, that you can also love someone else. Great!
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« on: December 02, 2011, 03:05:25 PM »
Thank you for this message. Today it feels hard for me to believe, but your post cheered me up a bit.
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