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« on: October 29, 2012, 09:07:43 PM »
Congrats to both of you. Just be patient. It's not always easy for a guy to say that stuff. Trust me, in the back of his mind are things like...what if she rejects me....what if she says she's over me...just take it slow. Sounds like its all coming around.
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« on: October 29, 2012, 08:43:16 PM »
Just got out of this situation myself. My advice is to face your fears and walk. Don't give up but give space. You don't want to be with someone if they make you feel you have to fight with someone else for their attention. Don't call as much, don't answer the phone right away. Be kind but draw the line.
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« on: October 24, 2012, 03:52:45 AM »
Thanks Lilly i will read that sounds interesting, i have visualizing and affirming every day for 6 months that i am in a happy relationship with my wife now so i think its time i just let go and let her do what she wants.
I know im a good person and that ive done nothing wrong to her to hurt her in all these years so im the one she should be chasing not the other way.
My desire is to be in a healthy and happy relationship with my wife, the universe knows this and deep down beneath the anger and rejection that i feel this is what i would like most of all so i will just give her the divorce she wants, i like a woman to really want me not try to be with me for the sake of it.
thanks 
That's a good way to think about it all. You seem like a good guy, and a woman should be grateful to be with you. When it hurts and it makes you sad just take pride in the fact you have a big enough heart to care about someone even after they've done wrong by you. It's odd how that will actually make you feel better. Many people just get bitter and allow it to cause them to shut down. Things will work out fine. Keep focusing on you, hit the gym and continue to grow.
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« on: October 22, 2012, 08:14:23 PM »
I probably misunderstood something....I just believe that everything you do is directly causing your subconscious beliefs to alter or stay the same. It's not rude to state your thoughts so no need to apoligize 
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« on: October 22, 2012, 06:17:13 PM »
I was disagreeing with your post that said you cant work on the subconscious. one thing you shouldnt do is take dreams too literally. you can get info from em for sure, but they can also just be information being processed and released and really not ment for interpitation. put it to you this way. your mind is so awesome that if there is something that you should remember and interpet, it will let you know. you will also know what it means, you just have to trust the voice thats telling you what it means. because in all reality only you know what your mind is telling you.
youll know your beliefs are being changed by the habits and decisions you make. one thing that may happen is you may start to feel discomfort with a choice you make because its not based on an old belief system and you subconscious is trying to revert to the safety program. the more you make decisions that arent based in your old programming the more you begin to trust yourself to make those decisions and the discomfort lessens. and its not an easy thing to do, nor will it happen over night. you have to remember that we begin receiving our programming before were even born. what we hear and feel from our parents in the womb plays a big role in who we are now.
sometimes your mind might just be forcing you to deal with the changes directly through your dreams. but you have to know you can change it all, if you think you cant, if you have doubt, then you will get little to no resaults.
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« on: October 22, 2012, 12:15:23 AM »
well i get where youre going with it bud. but you should do it all out of love. would having someone fall to the ground and look up at you be something out of love? you for sure want your power back, but not at the expense of another. while it may work, it would be considered a dark art, and you would pay teh price for it eventually.
ALWAYS do it from a place of love. and that quote the ILR put up is the place you want to come from. that love right there. let fear show its face and laugh because the love you have will conqure all
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« on: October 22, 2012, 12:12:16 AM »
gonna have to disagree with you lovelygirl. and no disrespect intended.
newella you can alter your subconcious. there are plenty of posts here on the forums about it.
the thing with your subconcious is it is a creature of habit and comfort. it navigates you, tells you when youre out of your comfort zone. your comfort zone and other areas are all beliefs and habits that have been formed for years. so it takes a while to alter it. things like eft and affirmations are a few ways to begin to change it. find a belief you want to change and focus on it for awhile. lets say upon exploring you find you have low self esteem. this can come from people picking on you early in or through out your life, parents not encouraging you or various other aspects.
the thing to do for that would be repeating, daily, minute to minute or second to second, things like........i am a confident and beautiful person. i am the type of person that enjoys my own company. i am amazing. things that would build confidence. look up some eft stuff as well. eft is amazing at unlocking doors you subconciously lock to keep you "safe". the problem is you have to get out of your safe zone to move up and move on.
people tend to forget the mind, both the concious and subconcious is theirs. they often seperate the subconcious as its own enity. which is not the case. you control everything. to further prove a point think about this. your subconscious controlls your breathing so you dont have to........however, you have the conscious choice to hold it or not. you then have the conscious choice to listen to the alarms going of in your head telling you that you need ot breath which is your subconscious sounding the alarm youre in danger. you always have a choice and you are always in control. remember that and you will find that things can change very fast for you.
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« on: October 21, 2012, 09:20:35 PM »
damn bro....i just gotta say thanks.......thats one thing i realized i screwed up on with this chick........i tucked my man parts away and turned into a wuss......now im tryin to figure out the best way to go about showing her theyre back....but your post helped me out a lot with some shit and made me realize im on the right track with this.
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« on: October 20, 2012, 10:12:01 PM »
well to kinda expand and explain a bit....the only problem with rs and all that stuff is it can leave you attached. thats the only reason it may be counter productive. when you are needing to detached so that you can reach your goal then it may be a good idea to skip all that stuff until you can get to a point where you can do it with out being attached to the outcome. where you can do it and just walk away and not think twice about it. i know thats hard to do, we all struggle with it. but it is a necessary thing to do. think about it like this. if you are able to believe that it will happen, if you have faith that it will happen, do you really need to do all that stuff on a constant basis. the truth is no, if you are constantly doing it, you are attached to the outcome too much. you are doing it because you are afraid to lose what you are trying to attract.
so the short to you question is no it wont slow anything down. the woman i would like to have back i attracted back once already. i did rs ONLY at the points where i was inspired to do so. i think maybe 2 or 3 times. but what i remember is i just went about my business, asked for a sign once in a while, got my sign and moved on with my life.
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« on: October 03, 2012, 09:59:31 AM »
well heres the thing with that.......i did....minus teh burning.....but she fit it.....until all this happened. tried it again on my moms suggestion about a week ago and all that kept coming to mind was her minus all this thats been going on. ill try it again in a week or so when my head is a lil more clear. i have seriously cleared my mind, tried to think of what i would like and with everything i list its her how we were. soooooo maybe that just means theres someone out there, minus the tude lol. or like my mom said you never know where things could lead with this woman down the road. for now i shall focus on me and my daughter. thats enough for now. i have things to accomplish. thinking about taking a motivational speaking class and doing meet ups for motivational speaking and subjects of the sort
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« on: October 03, 2012, 07:31:39 AM »
hiiiiiiii schenderson!!!!!!!! how is everything going with you? thanks.....ill take a look at that...i see the binural beats right?? dont get me wrong. i would like to have a relationship with her, but i will not persue someone that is in this state and treating me how she has been. i do have to say i do forgive her at this point. the hardest thing is knowning how it is to have that anger and lashing out. although the way i did it could be different. who knows? i did it to people i cared about the most. seems every time we got close she blew up. or if she started to let her walls down she blew up. for now i will just send her my love and support from a far and listen to the audio you posted. thaaaaaaaaaanks again 
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« on: October 03, 2012, 05:26:01 AM »
CRIMSON!!!!!!!!!!!!! seeing your name made me forget about her  actually you hit it right on the head. that clicked perfectly as i read it i was flooded with a ton of memories of some stuff...........indeed it is up to her now. on another note........when are we getting married??? and how are you doing these days? pm me and update me!
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« on: October 03, 2012, 05:22:05 AM »
awesome dan! you are one of the people i had been wondering about from the forums. its great to read all that. congrats on being reunited, and congrats on your personal growth!
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« on: October 03, 2012, 04:26:21 AM »
not too blunt at all. id rather people be blunt. im not going to persue anything with her at this point. like i said i deleted everything that had to do with her for my sanity. she is very complicated. i think shes afraid to get attached after thinking things over. the last time we got real close she pulled back. she has trust issues which come out. along with other stuff. ya its hard to watch. specially being ive been there. but it is what it is. and i wish her the best i was looking more for just input on what people think. which is hard being i cant really say everything thats gone on. for now i will send her loving thoughts. and focus on her well being. thanks you two
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« on: October 02, 2012, 06:08:26 PM »
Hey there detached......well dunno really. trying to figure out whats going on in her head really. a big part of me would like a relationship with her. when her wall was down it was great. when we were together during the weekends it was usually good. except the minor issue that she would give in and pull back. guess i would like to be with her, but not in this way. i cant do the back and forth thing. mostly looking to see what others pick up on from what i stated. theres lots i left out on. maybe i just needed to get it out some where lol. if things are to happen between us, then they will. the sign i asked for has popped up in my face more then once since all of this started. maybe we both are needing to figure this out. she does have trust, and controll issues. that i know. she doesnt realize it, but based on my experiences with her and her past i know theyre there. i do think she cares about me, but why she got so cold during all this and why she trys to provoke me is beyond me. i guess i get part of it. i used to be very angery which came from the pain i had stuffed away. she has a great deal of pain just from her mothers death still. she has never cried about it. for now im letting things be and just sending her my love. its really all i can do. by the way....who is this? im sure i know you but the name change i dunno lol. thanks for te response
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