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hey magic, nope we live in different cities, but the distance was never a problem, as my schedule is very bendy and I make more than enough to cover even living in a hotel for 30 days . Plus I am pretty spontaneous, I remember we were talking about meeting, and it was like late at night around 10pm and I just packed a bag and left for the train station.

I am thankful and glad to what has happened but won't focus on it for now. I like how things are evolving and developing. I just want to watch the movie not try to change the script.

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I believe that a site or a forum is a creation and is made of energy. This forum consist of all of our energy and most that come here, come with the vibration to detach and attract someone back. Therefore I believe the vibration of this forum itself would be to help you detach and reconcile with your old lover, rather than get members together.

I can see this happening with a dating forum, again not because of the nature of the forum, but of the vibration as like attracts like.

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Well, I am not sure how detached I am. I still believe we would make a good couple as we did. I would still be excited when we get back together. However whether this happens or not does not concern me. Therefore the "situation" doesn't feel like "a situation" at all.

No matter what techniques and things people suggest around here, I believe time is the best factor for progress. Helps you heal, understand, analyze and see what's next.

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Hey to all following this thread (well following is a strong word, but just curious or interested). An update again. I received a call today while I was lying in bed still. The number was hers, so I took an inspired action  and picked up .

As usual we had a long 40 minute conversation, about everything that's going on in each other's life. I didn't feel excited this time, it felt normal, though my feelings haven't changed a bit. In fact in the past 5-6 days I have been feeling on top of the world. She said she called, because she wanted to hear me, asked me if I want to continue the conversation on skype or if she should call me again.

As usual I remained brief, said if she wants to hear me, she can call and then thanked her for the call. I don't know if this means anything, or if it will impact our future, but that's not my problem. I try to put my focus ahead, as much as possible and enjoy what comes around. What's interesting is 10 minutes before my phone rang I had a 'random' though on how long has it been since she last called.

Another interesting thing is that when she left, and I cut communication, she told me she doesn't beg for attention, nor 'needs' friends so she will not look for me anymore. Yet this is the 3rd call I get. Each call is like every 3rd month.

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Dear Excel 

I disagree. There's something called law of gestation and it states that there's a waiting period for what you want to grow (kinda like a fetus). If your cousin wasn't ready no matter how much her ex tried to attracted her back, he wouldn't have managed.
I believe everything comes to you in the right time at the right place, so if something didn't happen either fast or at all, it's because the timing was off.

Isn't this scary? Now that she is ready for him, why aren't they together... If they do get back, it will be the best that happened to her (as against arguments by those people who talk of free will, etc) ... but manifesting someone to come back and then turning down away causes pain to the other person.... or is the manifestation still unfolding?

I cannot give you an answer to that. Life works in strange ways sometimes and you cannot connect the dots looking forward, only a few years later when you look back. Everything happens for a reason, but by taking and observing piece #45607 from a 50,000 piece jigsaw it's very hard to have a clue what are you looking at and how it serves you because you cannot see the bigger picture.

This one of the main reasons I try to not bother myself with questions. Questions lead to more questions and soon you start to overthink and dwell. My job is to go with the stream (flow) of good, not question it why it's going downwards. How do I know if I am going with the flow? I feel good. The rest is not important.

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It's about time people start accepting the human nature, and stop striving for perfection, following blindly books. This is why I like authors that say "This is my way. R there other ways, yes, but this is my way and that's how I did it. If you like it try it, if not find something else that works for ya".

I just wanted to help people around here reading positive stories, and instead of feeling pumped up and excited, they felt sad that they aren't like the people from the stories.

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Think of it like when someone gets pregnant. We know that it takes 9 months for the fetus to grow and develop right? Depending on your wish and how big it is, each of those has such a gestation period, so little things evolve and reveal faster, than massive mighty ones.

When it comes to relationships, you really don't want to force your opinion or belief on someone. Things like "You love me, you will see" only drive them further away, though this can be certainly true. It's much more effective, in fact it's only effective if they realize it on their own. So I believe it would have taken your cousin the same time to do a feeling check. However if her Ex knew about LOA and had listened to most of Ester Hick's videos, he would have been in peace much earlier.

We don't know what they have live through in these years, but there certainly things that have made them grow. I will give you my example. If my ex didn't brake up with me, to this very day I might have not know about ho'oponopono, this forum, dozen of Ester videos, and 3 books. So it is a necessary step. In fact everything in life is a necessary step.

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Well give yourself a pat on the back, because this is one of the bravest things to do. When people do not understand, why you don't want to talk to them anymore, or at least act like it, I just tell them that we want different things, and talking to each other will make the conversations short, kinda fake and boring. So why go through the agony, when we can just discontinue communications.

After this they seem to get it and you being your healing process.

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If only he used LOA consciously and waited for her... it wouldn't have taken these many years

I disagree. There's something called law of gestation and it states that there's a waiting period for what you want to grow (kinda like a fetus). If your cousin wasn't ready no matter how much her ex tried to attracted her back, he wouldn't have managed. However I do like the story. I believe the moral of it is, don't trust yourself, because you can be lying to yourself, very convincingly.

In fact you might not be even realizing it. This is why I practice ho'oponopono daily to make sure I delete subconscious thoughts to a certain extent. I believe everything comes to you in the right time at the right place, so if something didn't happen either fast or at all, it's because the timing was off.

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Right that's now the inspired action I was talking about. I have always given this example when it comes to ex lovers. For me an expired action would be picking up the phone if they call and that's about it. I would not text them nor call them, nor I would looking for an excuse to reach to them and call it an inspired action, something I've seen a lot around.

That's what I was trying to point out . But that's also my view and vantage point. There's more than one correct answer for sure, and everyone does what works best for them.

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@magic, it's the Harmonic Wealth mostly and the New Psycho-cybernetics

@Queen exactly. The 2nd vision does a few things for you. First it doesn't remind of of money in any way or the lack of it. Second it makes you warm inside experiencing the things you can do and buy with money and third it gives you a preview of what your life can and will be, making it very very exciting.

In the above 2 books, they tell you to "focus on a 10 million dollar idea, or wish for one, instead of focusing on 10 million dollars". They also tell you to not try to invent the wheel, but little things done consistently. Like for example, if I write two more articles each week, in an year i will write 104 more. Considering that they get the same exposure as the rest, I will be able to attract 1000 more reader, which will give me 200 more customers and probably at least 6000 more revenue. It's a tiny effort per week, but goes a long way.

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You can't just feel and believe all day while just sitting on your couch and expect great results.

I disagree. When you are vibrationally matched with what you want, an action will be presented to you. So while you are sitting on your couch you will get a call, or will be FORCED to get out and you will bump into the one you want.

This is what I define as an "inspired action", something that's impossible not to happen. Just because you or me or anybody else cannot see how the hell I am gonna get what I want sitting on my couch at home, it doesn't mean that the Universe can't find a way to deliver it to you.

Lots of crazy stories in the books I read, some of which are pretty shocking. For example there's this one about a girl, that was quite smart but live with her grandmother and was poor. Her dream was to study in college. She is currently an author of a great book. One day there was a knock at the door and when she opened , 30k were sitting in an envelope for her education.

Till this day she has no idea who and why gave her these money, but she says she had dreams about it long before it happened and truly believed it's gonna come along somehow someway.

A lot of books say "Scratch what you THINK is possible, and really give your imagination the freedom. Most of the time people are amazed of the results"

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Don't feel guilty, cause you are not. It only means you are still not ready, or not disciplined enough to keep yourself on the path. I like how Ester puts it, that we r made up of 2 parts, your physical which is the lesser you, the one that doesn't know a lot, and the higher part that can see and knows most of the stuff, and that the higher part of you already is enjoying your ex or your new lover, your new house, you big bank account etc.

I am guilty of feeling guilty sometimes , but I am very good at pointing it out to other people

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Guys and gals, whenever you feel the attachment go general. Forget about RI/RS if it doesn't make you feel free and relaxed. The whole point of the exercise is to make YOU feel great. And when you feel great you are a powerful attractor.

Remember that even if you said to yourself right now "Screw this I am done. I DO NOT WANT HIM/HER BACK" you are not giving up on that person. Really! You just giving up on the focus that he/she isn't next to you, which is great. If this sets you free, makes you careless and happy, whatever comes next comes from within the vortex. Him/her, someone new, either way what's coming next would be much better. Why? Because the foundation of what comes next, is what you have had with this person.

So it's like you had a small house and you built 2 more floors. Now it's a bigger and better house. You are always adding and adding. Keep in mind and a lot of people forget this, including me that just as we need to expand, the other (either ex or someone new) has to grow as well. Sometimes the waiting isn't about you it's about them.

I've repeated this over and over, but you cannot NOT get what you want, so why worry about it?

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Anything works for me, first, third. I believe as long as it gives me the goose bumps and the excitement it's a great rehearsal for what's coming next.

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