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Well i did this in my situation, now you can try it yourself and see where it goes. I actually doubled my salary. Like a month before i got the job, i knew the exact amount i wanted a week... when i got the job the director made a offer and it was within $3 of what i asked for. Which is pretty amazing.

Ok anyways.. the amount you make now is nothing to focus on. So the exercise is like this... for example purposes lets say you are making $10 a hour.

Write down numbers from 10 to lets say 50. At each number stop and ponder the feeling of it. So write down 11 and then see how it feels. Then 12 etc. Take a moment or two at each one.

Keep going until you hit a "snag", a point where you feel like maybe its a little out of reach. That is your number, meaning somewhere in your mind/experience you feel like you cant get past that number.

Then ask yourself why? Analyse this, think about it... and start to get past the limiting belief.

It sounds trivial, but this is essentially what you think you are WORTH. So if you want to get past that, you need to change that. Plus it gives you a good idea of what you are attracting, or preventing from coming in.

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I agree, keep doing whatever you are doing.

But think of this... you are feeling good and less detached... and all this interest is starting to show up around you.

Now imagine if you can totally detach from him, what a wonderful manifestation will come into your life.

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"But at the same time picking up a coin isn't really the same thing as trying to manifest a relationship with another person."

Why not?


And yes yes i know what your thinking but... BUT... i manifested money, jobs, relationships, and health all in the time ive been on this forum. They are actually all ALL working on the same principals and the same levels... the process is universal which makes it so good.

The difference is we dont think it is , and make some things more complicated than they need to be... but if you are able to look at the coin with the same approach as a relationship... well most people wouldnt be here now would they

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Well my friend, i just joined the gym and let me tell you i feel amazing. Its not only physically but mentally you are just feeling so good and confident.

I highly recommend, plus when you use your situation to motive you to make positive changes it really helps.  So dont sit there making excuses join up and make it happen!!!

Btw i went to see my sweet lady last night for a movie, and she gave me a hug and went ooohhh look at the muscles... yup just a stud

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Why did you break up? What lead to it, and can it be fixed or changed in some way?

Hmmm i want to say to give her "space" thats really what im feeling here. You are sort of in that weird gray zone right now, she likes to spend time with you but is clearly wanting to be in a relationship with someone else.

So really you have a couple of choices here, either you try and make this better in any way you can. Or you decide that you need to focus on yourself and get your life together.

Personally i find that when people have this idea that they want someone else, the more you push them to change that ... the more they resist and do it anyways. Like i have so many examples of people breaking up, and one of the people dating some total loser after. Its like they are mentally just determined to move on, even if they step back far enough they would realize they are acting totally irrationally.

Sort of what is happening here. Clearly you have a connection, and still care for each other... but the grass is greener on the other side right now for her.

So personally i like to let my action speak for themselves, i work on shit i need to work on. The bonus of doing this is two fold, either you are going to really show the person a better you OR your going to be way better in the next relationship. Its a win-win situation... (i dont like to lose ever)

So thats the approach i would take, whats the best in my interest... and what can i do to place my self in the best position to succeed or be even better of in the end.

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Thats the question that shows you what you need to work on, its not difficult or hard... but something inside of you thinks it is.

If your having down periods , its only the indication that there is still resistance in you.. or negative expectations.

The day you dont feel that, you dont post about it or even care about it... is the day that you are really close to it

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There is nothing wrong with it, really there is isn’t. Abraham Hicks talks about it quite a bit, she calls is contrast. Other LoA gurus also talk about how this is actually a positive thing.

Essentially the lows in your life, help you define what you really want. So if you never had a negative experience you would never know what a really positive one is, or what you need to work on.

The real key to is not letting the experience drag on in your mind, accept it happened. .. learn the lesson if there is one… and move on.

That’s the real key

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To quote Kayne West "Baby i got a plan, run away as fast as you can"

Dude run, run like the wind and dont stop. You know the worst part is knowing your still going to try, thats the part that actually upsets me the most.

Not because you dont deserve it, or that your not a great guy... but you are putting energy into someone like her. Thats the real sad part.

She is playing with you, and in a high school kind of way (speaking of which are you in high school?). Im not going to demoralize you, or beat you down... you got enough on your plate to listen to my negativity.

Just going to say, been there done that... seen it many times... dude run.

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I don’t know what to tell you here, personally I don’t think anything really works without at least some contact. So I am not the type of guy to sit there and let shit fester in my mind, trying to explain signs and thinking about the issue.

Realistically I would do something about it, if you feel this strongly about her… contact her. You need to bite the bullet, talk to her and see where she is at.

I know people talk about non action, but whats the point if you just sit there and wonder what will happen with someone. Its not doing any good, or making the situation better.

I know from my own experience what you are going through, and how much you are really obsessed with this. My world didn’t mean anything without her in it, it was not even conceivable that we wouldn’t be together… and the thought of it not working would drive me crazy.

We did get back together, but then I realized I wasn’t really trying to get her back because I loved her… I did it because I was obsessed with the idea of it.. it was totally ego driven.
I ended up dumping her a few months later….

Either way, all im saying is that you have two options A) let her totally go B) do something about it

Sitting there festering is doing you nothing

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what bashar is saying is that You Can Do It, Just Do It, If you can think it, you can make it true, It Is Already true, Don't separate yourself from your creation, It's you. Act on It means, it's already you, don't doubt it, Be You, prepare you vibration to the highest you can and you'll reach yourself I think that's It

Bingo now use that in your situation...

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I saw this video today, and loved it. Maybe you will get something out of it...

Bashar - Intention and Action

I really agree with what he said. Actually its something i said a few weeks ago, people get stuck in this mode of over analysing and just trying to think their way out of a problem. Sometimes its better to get some balls and just do it...

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Because evil exists, Serena.

Innocent people suffer because evil intent exists.

And Mr. B - that story was actually of one of the mothers of the Cleveland 3.

Well that just proves even further that you see what you are focused on, in my case I look for the positive aspect of a negative situation

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It’s hard to answer that question, why aren’t we all millionaires or why do we have people that come and go from our lives.  Its not something that anyone on here can explain… but it doesn’t make LoA any less real or valuable.

Its funny because we all see stories that reflect our current state, so for example you saw that story last week but I saw a totally different one.

This was another story of a young woman who was taken from her home. They couldn’t find the body and the search went on for years.

Now the mother believed in her heart that the daughter was still alive, she still had all her pictures up and would actually go out every year and buy her birthday presents. (even though she wasn’t there physically) But she just didn’t want to believe that her daughter wasn’t alive.

Few years later, she went to a psychic who told her that her daughter was dead. When she heard the news she actually believed it, and was totally demoralized. A few months later she died, and people say its because she gave up hope.

But just a few weeks ago her daughter was found, she was alive this entire time… and if her mother still found the strength to fight on and believe they would have been reunited.

Anyways just my random story.

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You can. But let me ask you, do you really believe that if you eat a huge pizza or burger your going to lose weight?

No you probably don’t, maybe you try to tell that to yourself but you wont actually think it.

I did lose weight, like I posted on here several times, and one week I did eat fast food every day and still lost 10 pounds.

But the point is I was already in a state of full knowing I was losing weight, and I was going to hit my target goal. So I was already 30 pounds into my diet, I was confident and sure of myself… but I don’t think I would have been at that point from the start. Because its much easier to convince yourself once you already have some success.

So that’s why you should probably at least get the ball rolling, lose some weight, and build on that experience into manifesting the target goal by eating whatever you want

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I find it funny that so many posts are made on RS/RI and people still haven’t figured out what it’s actually all about. In any case this is my explanation, not anything found online… but considering I am so ahead of the game I think I’m pretty correct haha.  (just a bit full of myself there)

So lets see, during RI/RS. You are relaxed, focused, sending love, with a clear image that you are focused on. There is no negativity involved when you picture that moment. Hmmmm

So what about meditation? You are relaxed, no negativity, focused on the positive feeling/outcome.

Starting to see a pattern here?

People have positive responses from doing these two techniques, but are they because you are somehow sending some magical vibes to the other person… that they are being influenced by?
Nope , not at all.

The reason is YOU were able to step back enough, to be in a state of low resistance with clear focus on the desire you want. With intense feeling, emotions and images that were clear enough like you were there.

So why is this important, since you might be getting some results? Well its important because you don’t need either of these to manifest.

Now imagine if you were able to have a desire, you were relaxed about it… focused on it in a positive way and had very deep emotions towards… but you did it in your normal life every single day. How fast do you think the results would come.

The point is the universe is responding to YOU, not the other way around. These people are attracted to you, not by some vibes or magic energy balls … but by the fact your energy shifted long enough to drop the resistance in that situation.

So the real key is to approach the manifestation like you would during meditation/RS… but do it all the time.

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