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Hello, I wanted to add this message about getting sidetracked using the law of attraction as I hear people say that they really want something but then after a time the have moved onto something else.

It almost seems that it's an attitude of "If it doesn't show up right now, I'll move onto something else (even if that causes me a great deal of pain and heartache)"

The questions I want you to ask yourself everyday are:

What do I really want? Write it down

What is my ideal life? Write it down

Is what I'm doing now a match for my ideal life?


Never, ever give up on your true dreams they are what make you so special.

Instead work on releasing your limiting belief and using all of your LOA skills.

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Hi, Yes this is a tricky situation and you obviously want to share these things with you dad.  My advice is to ask your dad for what you want.  Ask him to support you when you tell him things about your life and tell him you want his encouragement. 

A trick I have learned over the years when someone says something negative.  I simply say to yourself "This is not my truth" and say a positive affirmation to support you. Smile at the person and move on.  Some people are negative and unless they want to change you just have to find a way to deal with it. 

My mum can sometimes be this way and I remind myself how much I love her and forgive her for sharing her negative thoughts with me.

Another wonderful technique is ho'oponopono.  I'm sorry, please forgive me, thank you, I love you.  Just do a google search to find out more. 

Hope this helps. 

Wendy

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The way I would sum this up is to compare it to parent talk.  Here's what I mean.  When I work with parents to help them be a positive parent using the law of attraction I recommend that they be their child's cheerleader.  Praise the child and let them hear you talk about how great they are.  This is very different to the My child is better than your child attitude. 

Sharing your own success with others is certainly something I recommend.  Be your own cheerleader. 

When this is done from a place of gratitude and joy it works to attract more successes into your life.

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Okay my number 1 tip to using the law of attraction to create the life you desire is simple ~ Make it a life style.

I'm assuming that you know the basics or are at least ready to learn them.  Get clear, raise your vibrations and allow.

The bottom line is that the Law of Attraction is working in our lives 24/7.  This means we need to be aware of our thought, feelings, actions, etc ongoing.  It's no good getting up in the morning and thinking for a few minutes about the life you want and saying a few affirmations then carrying on with your life as normal.  You might see a little improvement but you need to make this a part of your life.  Keep your thoughts positive, ask yourself "How am I feeling?" Do all you can at any moment to raise your vibrations. 

Are you living in alignment with the life you desire?  If you're not you are probably actively blocking it from ever happening.

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When visualizing it is important to visualize as if you already have what you want.  Therefore you put yourself into a position where you are already enjoying having this in your life and feel how grateful and happy you feel.

For example:  If you want to attract a new home, visualize yourself already living in the new home and moving happily around the rooms, doing your normal routine living in your ideal home and notice how great it feels. 

Hope this helps

Wendy

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That's wonderful news.  Can I share a little bit of advice.  Please swap I can't believe it with I'm now seeing results or The law of atttraction is working for me now. 

By saying you can't believe it your message to the universe is No this does not match my beliefs stop giving this too me. 

As I want your success to keep on coming to you please find a positive comment to replace I can't believe it. 

Well done on your success

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Well the answer is yes, you did attract those things.  Whatever you have experienced in the past and now is what you have attracted/created. 

You are on the right track with attracting a new loving relationship.  Write down all the qualities you want your ideal partner to have.  How will they make you feel? 

Also I'd like you to get to know yourself and learn to really love yourself.  I believe this is the key to a lasting and positive relationship. 

Also take a look at my page on feeling great at http://www.wendytomlinsoncoaching.com/Feeling-Great.html

Hope this helps. 

Wendy

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I'm heading off on holiday on Sunday.  I think I'll download it.  Even though I'm a law of attraction coach myself I still love to read these sorts of books.  I too keep things to the point and both of my workbooks are fairly short and you're straight into taking action.  I think the law of attraction is very simple really and there really is no need to make it complicated.  Thanks for this recomendation.

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I absolutely agree with sky_sparkle.  Visualize the property being returned to you and how happy you will feel to have them back. 

I would also like to add another point.  The person who took them is certainly not going to be in a place where they are attracting good things into their life.  They do not know any better.  I would like you to forgive them.  Okay if you haven't switched off at the mention of forgiveness please hear me out.  The negative feelings you hold right now are destructive to you only. 

Please read  this post on forgiveness and what to do if you are not ready http://wendytomlinson.com/2012/07/16/is-forgiveness-the-key-to-happiness/ I think this will really help even though you don't know who the person is. 

I do realize this sound crazy but I know how powerful this is. 

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Hello Vanessa, I agree with some of the other comments.  You do not need to tell your child about the law of attraction.  I think the key here is to work on your child feeling good about herslef.  Can I also be blint?  I want you to take a look at how you feel about yourself.  Maybe you too need to work on self esteem. 
Show your child how to feel good about herself by doing it yourself. 

Try this game ~ Play it with your child.

You say "I think you are great (amazing, fantastic) because ....
Now add something about your daughter (you have a beautiful smile, you speak so kindly to others, you give great hugs)
Now your daughter does the same for you.  Do three each.  Make it fun.

Another fun exercise is to write down your ideal friend list.  Both of you do it so that she can see what you add to your list.

My ideal friend is:
Genuine, kind, she makes me feel really good about myself, she listens and is easy to talk to.  She is committed to our frienship and she enjoys my company.  She encourages me and she makes me laugh.  She is kind to others and she is happy when it's just us or when we are with a group of friends.  This is an idea of what you could write.  Respect whatever she wants to add to her list as it may be complately different to yours.  Again have fun doing this. 

You can get hold of a copy of my e-workbook 21 Steps to positive parenting at http://www.wendytomlinsoncoaching.com/Parenting.html where you will find lots more ideas that will help in this situation

My best wishes to you and your daughter

Wendy

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This is perfectly normal and whilst it doesn't feel great, it's a really good sign that things are happening for you.  Throughout our lives we build up so many beliefs and when we try to reprogram our beliefs through things like visualizations we cause conflict in our subconscious mind.  The feelings of anxiety are because your beliefs are now moving from negative to positive.  This is really good news for you.  Stick with it.  Also try some affirmations and look at EFT to help you release resistance.  Go to youtube and type in Brad Yates and you will find loads of free EFT session which you can follow along with.  They are really powerful and I'm sure this will help you move past this stage.

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Hi, When visualizing imagine that you already have whatever you want to attract.  Focus on how you feel.  There is no set time when you should visualize, although first thing in the morning and last thing at night are powerful times.  I would simply recommend that you visualize as much as you can, whenever you have a quiet moment.  I visualize many times throughout the day as and when I am able.  The important thing is to focus on the feeling you get when you imagine your life as you want it and remember that it is your job to work out the what and not the how.
With scripting again it is the feeling you want to focus on.  Write down your desired life as you want it and read it often.  Don't get too hung up on reading it every day.  Do it when you are relaxed and have time to enjoy the feeling.  Again last thing at night is a good time. 
Here's an affirmation I think will help you: The universe supplies me with everything I want at the perfect time.

Trust that the law of attraction is working right now.  You may also want to look at any negative beliefs which could be stopping you from achieving the things you want.  This is usually why we cannot attract things we try to. 

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Today I have a slight cold.  I have to admit it's absolutely because I've been neglecting my body recently.  Lesson learned.  Message heard loud and clear.  So today my intentions are for perfect health.

I give thanks to my body for loving me and supporting me and ask for perfect health now.

Thank you

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Mmm, your message is completely negative.  That's okay.  That's where you are right now in your life so that's where you start.

You have a massively negative belief which is telling you that The Law of Attraction Can't work for you.  Before you can go any further you must release this belief.  I suggest you look into EFT.  If you go to YouTube and type in Brad Yates you will see that he has uploaded many free follow along videos.  EFT is very powerful and excellent for removing negative beliefs so that you can allow yourself to believe in the power of the law of attraction and make it work for you instead of against you.

Also repeat these affirmations throughout your day ~

I trust in the power of the law of attraction
I now know that I have the power to create the life I want.

Small thought changes will go a long way at this stage. 

The key for you right now is to get rid of limiting/negative beliefs.  Until you are able to do this you will NOT be able to move forward and create the life you want.

Go easy on yourself.  Love yourself.  Take it one step at a time.

A book I highly recommend for you is Heal Your Life by Louise Hay.  This book should be available at any good library.  I think this would be really helpful for you right now.

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Yes I can see this makes for an unpleasant situation.  Okay, here's my advice.  First get really clear about the sort of neighbours you would like to have.  If it helps think about everything you don't like now and ask yourself "So what do I want?"
Write it all down I want ... keep all of your statements positive.
Next work on raising your vibrations.  It's my guess that by now you are fully expecting some fort of abuse from your neighbours whenever they are around.  So your vibrations will be negative and you will be attracting more of the same to you.  You know that you can attract nice neighbours as you have already done this in the past.  What about your other neighbours now, are their any neighbours now that are nice?  If so focus on these people.  Focus on your lovely home and your family being happy and safe living the life you all choose.
Now I'm going to suggest you do something which may seem strange.  I want you to send mental messages of forgiveness to the very people who are causing you this upset right now.  These people do not know a better way and by behaing in such a way they are in fact attracting suffering into their own lives.  Forgive these people in your mind and wish them well.  Do this every single day for as long as you need to.  Think of them and say "I forgive you.  I wish you well."  You are forgiving them for not knowing any better. 
Spend time everyday (as often as you can) visualizing being outside in your garden and waving to your neighbours and greeting them.  Imagine a friendly response.  Focus on yourself and your family.  In this situation I would suggest you leave the image of your neighbours blank and leave it up to the Universe to work out what's best.  Perhaps they will move and you will get new neighbours or perhaps they will simply realise you are great people. 
Finally work on changing any negative beliefs.  A great way to do this is by using affirmations and EFT.
Go to YouTube and look up Brad Yates.  He's got loads of free EFT videos.  They are all great for releasing negaive emotions. 
Try these affirmations:
I am surrounded by happy and positive people who only treat me and my family with kindness and respect.
I am loving my new home and we live in a wonderful neighbourhood
I easily attract nice neighbours
I NOW ONLY attract kind and positive people into my life.

Use these affirmations often throughout your day (as often as possible)
Whenever you spot any negative thoughts and feelings use these affirmations

Hope this all helps

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